CL EXCLUSIVE FEATURE: ‘MAN AND WIFE’ ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS
Monday, October 15, 2007
( Video may not be safe for work due to adult language ) A couple of months ago I made a post asking CL readers to submit their relationship questions to Fatman Scoop and his lovely wife Shanda for an exclusive episode of “Man & Wife”.
If you aren’t familiar with the “Man & Wife” video podcasts featuring Fatman Scoop and his wife Shanda, make sure you check out their official site for recent episodes. Basically the show features the couple giving candid advice in love, sex, friendship, family and everyday life.
They were currently picked up by MTV so congrats to them! We plan on doing a few more of these exclusives in the future so be on the look out!








49 Comments
1.
Dyshea
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
lol@ be over 18
2.
McSalty
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Love Man & Wife! It’z crazy how CL pops up in the most random places. I will look forward to more of these videos in the future.
Shanda holler at ya boy!
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LuvBug
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
That ish so funny, but REAL. I look forward to seeing them on TV.
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PRISTINE
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
hilarious!
5.
Quanna
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Funny…
6.
dee dee
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Kind of funny. Don’t need the visual with the bed though.
7.
SEXYLADYRAY
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
I love this show everyone should watch it!! and dont forget to join their community at community.manandwife.tv!! Its hott!!
~I love you guys!!:-)
8.
primal
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
I like how they rockin’ male female points of view ….. great show idea and I look forward to checkin’ it out !
9.
MsMissy
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Shanda is not hi yella, lol .. Alicia Keys maybe but Shanda boo ya brown… Other than that great couple. I hope they dont start having real issues after appearing on MTV like all the other celebrity couples.
I wish them the best!
10.
Jamilah
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
I saw him about a week ago out here in Jersey at an upscale mall. He and his wife were looking fab in their range rover. Kudos..black love is beautiful.
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SHOWMELOVE
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
FINALLY!!
Yea I think they did a show answering the questions. I’m glad they did my question (the last one) yeah I guess all guys are immature and needs to check if anything his girl will slip up . but lately he doesn’t mention ex name..so thats good
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SHOWMELOVE
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
the baby being brown skin from 2 light skin..wasnt that question from the ignorant person who said being light skin is the most greatest thing in the world Im mad they acknowledge her/him
13.
Simplistic
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
does he always shout when he talks? lol….i luv the show doe…its great…thanx fo exposin this to me angel
14.
star
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
they are a cool coulpe, and doing it big.
more pwer to them!
http://hiphopes.wordpress.com/
15.
ella ella eh eh eh
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
I’m with #12 that question was straight ignorance…just because both parents are light doesn’t mean the baby will be to same goes for any skin tone. Clearly that fool needs to be educated because knowing BASIC GENETICS would of answered that question. Shanda answered that question so well. That fool needs to pick up a book.
I love man and wife…looking forward to watching more!!
16.
Ali
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
lol funny, n I like the wifey’s breasts :]
17.
t dot stand up
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
“ME AND U CONCEIVE A CHILD, AND IT COMES OUT THE COLOR OF AKON, IM WHOPPIN UR ASS!”
LLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
18.
oatsuzn
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
…one strong ass bed…damn
19.
Im the only polar bear up in this bitch
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
@ # 13, he’s a hype man, thats how he do’s.
20.
Cali Girl
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
LMAO - I love these two. I’m not feeling them working with yt and MTV but folks got to eat!
As a married woman, this show is str8 up my alley. While my husband isn’t as crazy as Scoop, he feels the same way about a lot of those issues. It’s just so nice to see black people married and celebrating that.
21.
annaya-michelle
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
n u jus HAVE 2 c da chris brown episode lool ish is jus funnneee like realli
22.
yes
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
the best episode is with sway, they had heather hunter recently
23.
Ladyboo
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
This was very entertaining.
…who told that girl she was high yellow?
lmao
24.
Shockey
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
I think that this show is not an intelligent look into marriage or even black marriages for that matter. This couple is very uncoordinated. Everyone is not the same, neither are we meant to be the same, but I can’t jump on the bandwagon with a husband cursing towards his wife and his audience the whole show, threatening to “whoop her a$$ if she gives birth to a child of a darker complexion”, etc. I mean how ignorant is he? I do believe they will gather an audience because let’s face it, it’s reality jack a$$ season right about now and people are just eating it all up! But these people are giving such a non-biblical look into the sacred world of marriage. Their views are so unethical and such a disgrace, I feel, because marriage is a private union that involves God bringing two lives together as one. They are advising people on matters that they have no biblical foundation on. I wanted to take a further look before I gave my opinion and while watching episode #48 on their site, I am too through with them! From giving head, to the scene in the sex shop, and to him advising men on the proper way to cheat right in front of his wife!?!?!?!… I am just so floored…. I will definately keep them in my prayers. Of all the crazy reality shows out right now, I feel that this is the most disgraceful and I will definately be praying for their marriage because with that type of foundation, it is bound to tumble and it is so sad that this is who we have to widely represent or be the temporary face of a black marriage.
I hope I didn’t offend anyone with my opinions, but they are just that. You don’t have to like them, but I feel they are valid and I hope they can be respected. Peace, Love, & Happiness to you All!
25.
DA REALEST
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
Shockey u are totally right…to a point. Some of the material is offensive like talking about head and how to have sex but I am positive that the show will go a different route when MTV picks it up! They wont be having that. The show is humorous and when MTV’s producers shape it up to still allow it to have its edge but not offend the masses I think that you and I will enjoy the show so much more.
26.
whyaskwhy
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
This IS THE PLAN OF THE ENEMY! I love to joke around but this goes to far. They might mean well but:
MARRIAGE COVERSATIONS WITHOUT MENTIONED OF GOD, JESUS, AND THE HOLY SPIRIT is no marriage at all.
*****Mark my words: The devil is going to make a mockery out of this show b/c it’s wide open to the enemy b/c God is not there. Then their audience is going to say dang he we go again………
27.
Pat
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
I really enjoyed Fatmanscoop and his wife. Thanks CL for posting them!
28.
FATMAN SCOOP
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
TO 26 I DON’T UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU’RE COMING FROM. WE ARE A MARRIED COUPLE IN A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP TALKING ABOUT LOVE SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS. THE DEVIL IS NOT AT WORK WITH THE SHOW. BECAUSE OF WHAT WE DO AND THE GOOD INTENTIONS THAT WE HAVE WITH THE SHOW WE’VE RECEIVED MANY BLESSINGS AMONGST THEM BEING PUT ON MTV. IF YOU WANT MENTION OF JESUS, THE HOLY GHOST, AND GOD THEN PERHAPS YOU SHOULD BE LOOKING AT A GOSPEL WEBSITE AND NOT CONCRETELOOP. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING ON AN ENTERTAINMENT BLOG FOR??? JESUS WOULDN’T WANT YOU TO DO THAT. WHEN TALKING TO MY WIFE ABOUT A KID OF ANOTHER COMPLEXION WE’RE JOKING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IF YOU CANT TAKE A JOKE WHAT ARE YOU EVEN ON CONCRETELOOP FOR!!! GO TO JESUS.COM.
TO ALL OUR SUPPORTERS WE LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!
29.
foxxy380*Out My Socks
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
I liked it. Some of it was funny. Co-sign with #12. They should not have given that lame a$$ poster any attention b/c that’s all she wants. But they didn’t know. I’ll have to check them out MTV.
30.
mogul_in_the_making
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
@fatman scoop
your wife is ugly…lmao
31.
OATSUZN
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
@28 fat man scoop
Man u aint even have to say it, this site is full of these phony ass religious zealots. They love comming on here to tell others how to live. Pay them no mind.
32.
hood_shit
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
I LOVE THE LOVE THEY SHOWED CONCRETELOOP… I see you Angel!
33.
Shockey
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
To Oatszun and FatManScoop, no one is being religiouss zealots, its just a common sense statement about marriage. Even if you don’t get married in a church and only go to the Justice of the Peace as he says he took his wife to (but she has on this humungous rock like she had a real wedding lol), they still have mention of God and certain things that are stated in a church that go along with a biblical sense of marriage. I come to concreteloop to keep abrest of the positive African American topics that are not widely discussed in the news and on other sites. No one is the perfect Christian and I know that I am very far from it, but there are certain things that reality television should stray away from. And I think that one of those things is marriage. You two have only been married five years and here you are presenting yourselves as a display to the masses when you don’t even have the respect for your wife and your bedroom not to be parading your private matters around. From some of the topics i’ve seen on your site before I posted my opinion, like having Heather Hunter on there and your wife discussing possibly having fantasies of a sexual immorality with women, you taking off your shirt in your bed and having a porn star pose for you after you kicked your wife out of the bed, and a number of other things. I wanted to get a clear look as to what your motive was behind this show before I go casting my opinion based off of one or two shows, but plainly this is all based off of money because there is no structure or substance to this show. It is a disgrace to marriages around the world and is nothing for the youth to watch especially. Don’t bring ConcreteLoop into this and ask why we are on here, they are merely trying to support “us” (black people) as we are not usually supported for the positives which we put out into our community. I think that they were looking out for you guys and as I stated before, there is a audience for almost every freaky thing you can think of. But don’t put it out there as you are a show based on marriage, hence the title, Man & Wife, because you aren’t. You are a show based on freakiness, the classless, and some smalltime celebrities trying to jump onto the reality show bandwagon to get paid. But hey, i’m not here to judge, but if you are gonna put your business out there like that by inviting the world into your bedroom which might I add, no one else but yourselves are supposed to be in, then expect others opinions to be shared. Don’t make excuses for what you say and play it off as a joke, you said it! Just stand by what you say and make your money the best way you know how. And if having a porn star cocking her toosh up in front of you in your bed and posing for you is alright with your wife, then hey so be it. You like it, I love it… well not actually, but you get my drift. And don’t think that the few of us on Concreteloop are the worst of the negative feedback you are going to get. Oh its bound to come, because you and your wife have just opened up a gigantic can of worms that you are going to wish you never opened. All for the love of money… So sad. So I hope you too go to Jesus.com to gather some biblical structure for your marriage because when the backlash comes, its going to come hard. Remember, the money won’t last forever, but God is forever and always, so you playing around with a union he placed together just might not be the smartest move on the chess board. I’m still praying for you:) Be Blessed:)
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Miss Erin
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
I can’t see it
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Miss Lady
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
#24 hit the nail on the head. It was funny to watch and I can totally see why it’s being picked up but it was very disheartening at the same time. I can’t believe he said that if he can get away with getting head on the side that he is going to get head. Good thing you’re not completely disrespecting your wide whom you are supposed to love, honor, and cherish for the rest of your days. Nice one. Some of the advice was good but the way they went about it left a bad taste in my mouth. I’m not trying to be rude but If you’re going to make such statements they should be made in a more respectful manner. You are representing more than just yourselves whether you care to acknowledge. I do hope that this works out for the both of you. Please keep the rest of us in mind when you say the things you say. I’m not asking you to change who are….. just to be a lil more mindful.
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SHOWMELOVE
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
I see nothing wrong with their show…Its their opinions the audience can either accept their opinion or negate it..Its entertainment..this is not the couple therapy..Im sure some outrageous comments are not meant to be taken seriously..
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Fatman Scoop
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
I am going to address posts # 24,25,26 and 33. People READ this and understand where I am coming from…..
#24 - Shockey….
Lets start by saying that youre not even understanding that this is ENTERTAINMENT!!!! were having FUN with this……its JOKES and COMEDY!!!!!
i clearly say i am not a sex EXPERT and i am just giving “common sense” advice and saying things a lot of people want to say, but WONT!!!!
As far as me threatening to Whoop my wifes ass, if you werent watching it with such a TIGHT ASS being ANAL about it, you would see that im joking and not being serious and you would see it was not a threat!!!!! but youre seeing what you want to see….ITS A DAMN JOKE!!!!!! If you want to take a “biblical” look at marriage, then you should be looking at the 700 Club on Gospel TV or something….we take a real “common man” approach to sex, marriage and relationships that the average joe (4.9 million of them and counting) can look at, LAUGH at and discuss with their significant other and their family, friends,etc.
As far as our views being unethical and a disgrace, who are you to say that? Because were not bringing a “biblical view” were wrong? come on…cut it out….
As far as marriage being a private union that involves GOD bringing two lives together….etc,etc,etc….who made you the expert on that?!?!?!?!?!
A marriage is what the two people make it….what if i had my marriage private, but I was cheating on my wife and doing a bunch of foul shit? would that be right? what you say makes no sense…..
We are OPEN and GRAPHIC about our marriage because we are comfortable enough in our skin TO be…..we talk about subjects that open up discussion with couples…..i can show you the THOUSANDS of letters that we get telling us how we have changed peoples marriages for the better and made them open up and communicate……
once again this is JOKES….as far as telling someone how to cheat in front of my wife, what was her response….”I can do anything u can do- and better” she knows im joking and giving outreagous advice, the audience knows it, theonly one who cant see it is a couple of people who have too much time to analyze stuff thats ENTERTAINMENT and judge it with standards of something that is NOT suposed to be entertainment…..
As far as the foundation that i have with my wife…why dont you go to manandwife.tv and read our story….we been through thick and thin with each other and been to hell and back…..
I actually respect your opinion, but i always have to answer back ith mines…
#25 - as for MTV cleaning up our show…..they dont have to TELL me to….Shanda and I are the creators and EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS of the show so we make all the decisions….we will have a show that is edgy (for tv) but it will all go back to the website which will be no holds barred……
#26 - I think you are putting religion someplace it does not need to be……there are many shows that have been about marriage that didnt mention jesus or god at all…I dont see you jumping down “Married with children’s” back….it was a show about marriage that was ENTERTAINMENT and that all races creeds etc could relate to in the same way…….as for the devil making a mockery out the show….i dont think thats the case…..i have recieved many blessings personally and professionally…..this show being signed to MTV being one of them. If i wasnt in the right place and doing the right thing, i dont think that would happen…..
#33 - Who are you to say what tv shouls stray from? some of the most successful shows focus on marriage. The Osbournes,Runs House,Married With Children to name a few…..
Secondly, who are you to say that i have know respect for my wife? because we parade our private matters around? The fact is were both comfortable enough with OURSELVES to share our lives with others…..
Once again…..youre looking at COMEDY for RELIGOUS CONTENT!!!!!!! I could see if i was a minister but im a radio dj/rapper!!!!!!! fact is we were ALL HAVING FUN!!!!! my wife, I and heather…..WE WERE JOKING…..
As far as you saying my motive for doing this is for money, It THE MOST STUPID THING I HAVE EVER HEARD…..I am not struggling for money…..I am WAY MORE THAN COMFORTABLE based off the many song that I have done with Missy Elliott,Janet Jackson,Mariah Carey,Timbaland,Puffy…..The list goes on….also for the record, i will not DO SHIT FOR A CHECK THAT COMPROMISES MY PERSONAL INTEGRITY…..I can do without the cash….I am in a space where i dont have to do that…..
As for concrete loop looking out for us, angel and I are friends, so we promote each other…..
I am a show based on freakiness….I talk about freaky things and discuss freaky subjects….but i am also a married man that does all that freaky stuff in the paramaters of A MONAGAMOUS relationship….Just the fact that we are in love, with each other, and a TEAM reinforces that!!!!!!!!!!
Also….I dont make excuses for what i say or do I stand BEHIND EVERYTHING I DO…..and wouldnt do it if i didnt mean it….but its people like you taking entertainment and judging it against biblical standards which is WACK!!!!!!!!
I am MORE THAN READY FOR ANYTHING THAT COMES MY WAY BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT I AM AND WHAT MY INTENTIONS ARE…..Just because YOU ARE IN A SPACE WHERE YOU DO THINGS FOR MONEY, dont put that tag on me…..I did this for a year and change on the internet and radio for FREE…Because I LOVE TO DO IT……there are so many more things that are way more important that need to be addressed in the world other than this that we could be spending real time on…….
I love a debate…..so if you donr wanna hide behind QWERTY keys you can always call me @ 877 MAN WIFE…….
EXCUSE MY TYPOS…JUST HAD TO GET THIS OFF MY CHEST……
38.
Shockey
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
I love a good debate and stand behind everything I believe in as well. Just give me a time to call, EST preferred, and I will. Peace, Love, & Happiness To you all:)
39.
Fatman Scoop
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
just call….now…..leave me a message if im not in….ill call u back….im going to work now….see yall later!!!!!
40.
Dubb
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
WOW, this is an extremely good look, for both of you guys. I Love Concrete and ManandWife.com is now my new favorite website. I watched like the first 10 episodes at work today and was dieing laughing! They chemistry is amazing! Good SHIT!!!!!!!!
Chi-Luv,
Dubb
41.
DANA
Wednesday, October 17, 2007 /
OMG! THEY ARE SOOOO CUTE! YALL JUST GOT THEM A NEW FAN!! I’M LOVING THEM!!
42.
DANA
Wednesday, October 17, 2007 /
ALSO-
i’m a female and i totally understand where fat man is coming from as far as the “head on the side” comment! thats how guys really are, and anyone who dont bellieve that dont know shit about men and how they think and operate!
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whyaskwhy
Wednesday, October 17, 2007 /
I’m not religious. I’m a Christian period! Just b/c I am saved doesn’t mean I can’t be on concreteloop. Concreteloop isn’t trashy but your show is. Period! Don’t get all emotional about the comments and people point of views. Didn’t you know that would come with the territory????? so why ask why. lol
44.
mac
Wednesday, October 17, 2007 /
LMAO im on my lunch break right now and just caught this. THE SHOW IS EXCELLENT! Scoop and Shanda you are so sweet together and give out some real advice. None of that tactful sugar coated rubbish. Im loving this. keep up the good work!
45.
Fatman Scoop
Thursday, October 18, 2007 /
to #43…. I aint gonna even argue with you…..after my long post (a LETTER) i just said forget it….Long as the majority love the show im cool with that!!!!!
so thats what it is……
46.
queenie
Sunday, October 21, 2007 /
I’m mad y’all didn’t answer my question. I hope y’all will continue it in another show and answer my question. Love the show.
Remember folks, everything isn’t for everybody. If you don’t like the content, move on. Why are people so critical of others without even knowing them?
47.
Anise
Sunday, May 18, 2008 /
I luv the show and know these two personally , they are as funny off screen as they are on, Shanda has a heart of gold and would give you the BRA off her back as for Scoop he is a Teddy- Bear, they will most definitley make it in whatever they do.
lol……..Aunt Niece.
48.
porshe vick
Friday, October 3, 2008 /
is it ok to think that your married even if your not
49.
tamera
Wednesday, November 12, 2008 /
scoop you are very handsome and shanda is a very beautiful woman,keep doing your thing, love you both!!!!!!!!