Halle Berry was on the Oprah Winfrey Show on Tuesday (October 2nd) and she opened up to her about her pregnancy and her relationship with Canadian model Gabriel Aubry. Halle admitted that it was very hard for her to get pregnant.
“So there was a lot of staying home and doing what you do. Like, all the time, around the clock. One negative pregnancy test followed another, and finally, after about 35 tests, we finally got a positive test.
I was watching a lot of [daytime] television and—don’t judge me for this—Maury Povich. … It was about, ‘You are the father. You’re not the father.’ … So what the women do when they find out he’s not the daddy, they run off the stage, right? They run to the back. I don’t know why, but they run to the back.
“So when we got the positive test—Gabriel was downstairs in the den—I ran upstairs! I got up there, and I thought, ‘I’ve been watching too much Maury!” [SOURCE]
Berry said she and Aubry don’t plan to marry, but feel fully committed to each other.
“I feel more married, in a way, than I ever have in two marriages before,” she said. “He really understands the spiritual connection is so much more important than the paper and the pomp and circumstance and the ceremony.”
Adding to my last post… Just thinking about it…that was EXACTLY the case with Adam & Eve. I dont recall God perfoming a marriage “ceremony” with them. They did what they did and they were considered husband and wife. No white dress, flowers, or cake. lol
Melanie,
My point is they DO say something about it! On here all day everyday. Trust me, I’ve seen it and wonder why. Love IS where you find it and I believe it trancends color lines. I lived in Germany for almost five years. At first, sisters were acting all stuck up like they did in America (mostly Amercan girls), but once a brother stated dating Latinas, Brits and Germans (some were black, some were white), the sisters started coming in groves. Some had even said that they saw me with a “white” girl and didn’t like it. I had come to find out that many of them wanted me to run an extra mile or take an extra step to date them, but when I didn’t they came to me rather than let me look happy with anyone of a different race. What blew it for me personally, was the fact that although we sized up well in the bedroom, many could not identify with the Black struggle, particularly in America, because of course, they weren’t America. So on civil rights issues, I was speaking a different language, literally. So, it was a trun off to some point that some didn’t know what I had come from, and naturally I thought they couldn’t assist me in getting to where I needed to go. After returning to America, it felt good to know that black women I dated actually identified with me better and therefore made the relationships better. Needless to say, I married a black woman and have children. When I explore my thoughts as to what I personally find attractive in sisters, I would have to say their bodies. Not discounting their minds (we know how brilliant they can be), but black women have bodies like they made it up. Not just talking in a sexual way either. The way they look in clothes. Their shades. The fact she can hair like India today and Beyonce tomorrow is like getting more than one woman. I like the way my girl calls me her “n*gga” when we’re playing around (I know it’s corny), but no other race can say it to me without me second looking at her ass.. Even if you get a stacked white girl or latina, her assets are still compared to a sister. Plus, I can’t speak for no other, but black love is a MoFo and looks and feels good. I want my sons to consider black women first, but I won’t limited their view, should they decide to go in other directions. Besides, I’ved worked hard enough to place them in schools where they interact with other races, far more than the one white guy I went to school with and the two mexican kids I remember. Naturally, they have been attracted to latinas and phillipinos, because that’s what approaches them, bt we will see.
When a black woman loves you, man that feels good, but when she hates you, Lord have mercy.
As far as others wanting our women, what’s new? The fact that they can be with a black woman and be spare from the “I’m the reason you’re successful” speech probably appeals to them the way it appeals to brothers when dating other ethnicities. Sisters don’t say sh*t like that to white men, because they’ll only firing back with, “I’m the reason your ass is in this country to begin with.” and they’ll shut up. But brothers can’t have success with blackwomen claiming the credit as a way to elevate herself and put him down. Even if a brother never deals with a sister, while making his mark, they’ll say…”Well, wasn’t your momma a black woman?” Wutever?
I think it’s pathetic that a black man needs a women to make him feel any kind of way, he should feel these things about himself regardless. Please give me a break. nothing but poor excuses.
@ halcyonc
Can I just say you make me laugh. I was looking at some of CL’s posts from a while ago and one thing never fails, and that’s YOU on this site hating on HALLE. I call you a HATER not because of your dislike, but because your screen name is constant on being in a post about her talking crazy. If you don’t like her then fine, but why continue to go out your way to talk crazy about someone you don’t know? I’ll never get that. Halle bothers you that much? lol! I swear if some of you people could get anymore pathetic. Some of you sound a little too bitter for your own good.smh
All of you on here talking crazy, please remember that you are on here commenting about her life, she’s not somewhere talking about you. To the people that keep bringing up the fact that she is bi-racial, you folks need to cut that out. If people didn’t know her mom was white, then you wouldn’t even know that woman is mixed.
Please get over it already. Someone said she was on Oprah to just talk about her pregnancy, that’s not true, she was on Oprah to talk about her movie coming out. I’m mean at least get the facts strait. The sad part is she actually seems like a nice person trying to live her life, and people will find anything to nitpick on, I don’t see how she puts up with it. smh
and @ TAMMY #111
What’s also pathetic is you skimming through the post to find whatever negative post you can to agree with about this woman. Just come out and say you don’t like her, and get it off your chest. lol! You act like you commenting on people that don’t chose to bash Halle is any better then people that are on here commenting towards others that are bashing her. Like someone said by a few of you not caring for her or finding her ‘average looking’ i’m sure she’s not losing any sleep. Oh well.
@ 124 lmao ! I cosigned one person and believe it or not her post wasn’t even negative towards Halle . Damn, reading is fundamental . If Halle aint losing sleep why the hell are you ?? lmao . I will say what ever I want to and you cant do shit about it . You couldn’t find anything better to say to me ? How can I like or not like someone I dont even know ?? that’s what’s wrong with some of you delusional ass ppl on here . I’m gonna have my opinion just like you have yours . Im not attacking anyone because they dont agree with me like so many others on here , yes you would be one of them . Thank you for helping my point . lmao
If you’re not with a person to make you feel good, then why be with them? If not to feel good emotionally, physically, whatever.
It’s like being religious, but not needing God. Being hungry but not needing food. Having an opinion and not being able to express it. On second thought, who gives a dam what you think? How pathetics is it that you’re STILL commenting on what I think? Or that your still replying to me when I’ve already told you on other posts where the f*ck to go! Get off my CYBER NUTS! And you know who you are.
Halle looks absolutely great. I am shocked, but happy she is pregnant. Im sure with both the parents good looks the baby will be beautiful.
Mad ppl have something to say about her not getting married again anytime soon if at all. I have no feelings towards her decision for several reasons.
1. its her life
2. she had two horrible marriages
3. her and her boo are content with the set up they have so why mess it up
4. its 2007 if more ppl chilled out and tried to connect with each other through mind, body and soul before running to the alter we would have less divorces.
TAMMY said:
“Halle is not special . smh . I’m in total disbelief that some of you wrote long ass post about other ppl’s opinions of her . Everyone will not like her ,deal with it . I hope she finds the happiness she’s been searching for . One word of advice Halle, If the baby don’t bring you happiness you can’t put it back . Yes I said it . I dont even think she’s happy with herself but hey , thats just my opinion but Good luck” !
@ “sexydiva I totally agree . that’s a damn shame too !! People won’t say what the want to because it’s halle . some of you sound pathetic as shit on here arguing with any and everybody because they aren’t saying positive things about her . So what, she’s had failed relationships so have I and many other women I dont want a damn pity party “!
“@Dropkick good point but that is Halle, she cant do any wrong. lmao . Polow da don was a bad example but I see where you were getting at . Reggie Bush, Taye diggs, and a few I cant name off the top of my head , catch the heat on here . like someone said before it hypocrisy but as you can see a lot of ppl will find a way to explain why they are so happy for Halle”.
@ TAMMY #125,
Apparently reading isn’t too fundamental for you. lol! Maybe you should take time out to read your own post. If Halle is not ‘special’ then why are you taking time out of your day to give meaningless opinions? Exactly. You are on here accusing others of being ‘delusional’ and ‘pathetic’ for not wanting to bash the woman, not realizing that you are sounding the same way. If people chose to think that ‘Halle does no wrong’ as you like to put it, how would that affect you? I bet you if all the comments towards Halle were negative you wouldn’t have anything to say. I usually just read the comments, I don’t comment all the time but I find it more then hilarious that some of you people are on here accusing others for something you are guilty of as well. I’m not attacking you, just stating that you look about the same you are accusing others of looking that’s all. It’s apparent you must be losing the most sleep considering that you have posted quiet a bit over someone that is not ‘special’. You must have been waiting right by the post because your post is right under mine. lol!! I don’t know, if I don’t care for a celeb I don’t even waste my time posting on them, but thats just me. Just like you have the right to voice your opinion on a post, so does everyone else. What I had to say was simple and strait to the point, you can take it how you want to. Good bye. smh
@CMEEZ
That’s because in this society, they make big things out of little things, and little things out of big things (Matt 23:23-33). The deception that the Lord has allowed Satan to put on the people is that most of these pastors and reverends are the Pharisees of the scriptures. They don’t really believe in Christ, they claim Christ because they need him for their hustle (Mic 3:11, Zech 11:4,5). They know that the people don’t know anything, and the pastors themselves rarely know anything, so it allows them to create their own way to worship the Most High (Jer 3:15, Ezek 34:1-8, Luke 6:39). All this fluff about the “sanctity of marriage” and the likelihood is that people will get divorced because they worship the ceremonial ACT and not the mental and spiritual commitment. Everything in America is about big business and marriage is no different. I mean, the Bible says that you’re not supposed to cohabit or marry someone of another race but people choose not to make that an issue. Whatever.
WHAT THE FUCK?
Let Halle live.
The one thing we do know….all you muthafuckas on here writing about her pro and con…she don’t hear you and don’t give a damn. It is truly sad that many folks spend their lives on these blogs caught up in reality TV and celebrity worship. I don’t see any of the usual radical Christians on here quoting that scripture about worshiping false idols…maybe because if they were all that biblical, they wouldn’t be spending their time on a GOSSIP site.
Judah
How many races of people are there? And are you quoting the KJV, written by Shakespear for King James? In that book is there anything about false prophets and how we could recognize them? Also, if marriage is “the Godly “thing to do, why didn’t Jesus get married, to show us the right way to be, since he was demostrating everything else for mankind. I mean I’ve heard preacher say he was perfect and aside from dying for our sins, he apparently lived a sin free life. If marriage was ordained, why didn’t he, let’s say marry those last three years of his life? Was he a virgin? I mean he had been preaching since age 12, so surely could have made alittle time for love. He is in fact the definition?
I personally don’t think marriage (the way it is being presnted in this age) was meant to be uised as a way to validate holiness. If that’s the case nuns should marry priest. I agree that men, who slept with women back then made them their wives. In the case of Jacob, who worked for years to marry the youngest sister, but in turn had to marry the two older sisters first, that certainly wasn’t traditional. Or Solomon. Didn’t Abraham hook up with his wife’s friend (maiden) to have a son? In fact his wife (Sarah) hooked it up didn’t she? Who did Caine and Able sleep with? Didn’t it have to be their sister? Or Noah’s grandkids, who did they marry?
Something is fishy about this marriage thing. That’s all I’m saying.
“…the bible says that youre not supposed to cohabit or marry someone of another race…”
-Judah.
Ephesians 2:19-22
Check it out.
Maybe my intepretation is off. Can someone simplify
Eph 2:19-22
19 So now you Gentiles are no longer strangers and foreigners. You are citizens along with all of God’s holy people. You are members of God’s family.
20 We are his house, built on the foundation of the apostles and the prophets. And the cornerstone is Christ Jesus himself.
21 We who believe are carefully joined together, becoming a holy temple for the Lord.
22 Through him you Gentiles are also joined together as part of this dwelling where God lives by his Spirit.
#133
In a nutshell it simple means that the people, in Gods eyes, are viewed the same and that we should come together in order to build his kingdom. There is no seperatism if we are all working towards the same purpose. Unity is essential for this.
In regards to marrying or being with someone of another race Numbers 12 would be a more defining scripture reading.
Didn’t see it there either. Maybe it’s left to interpretation because other than the human race, how many other races for us to marry? And since we all fall under that unbrella, where’s the sin. All women are essentially built the same, although sizes and shapes vary, but maybe this applied when GIANTS like (Goliath) roamed the earth, or when prehistoric, ape-like creatures co-habitated the land. I can see why God wouldn’t want us to intergrate in that case, but man and woman? Hard to believe, since the same bible says we all came from Adam and Eve.
Numbers, Chapter 12
001: And Miriam and Aaron spake against Moses because of the Ethiopian woman whom he had married: for he had married an Ethiopian woman.
002: And they said, Hath the LORD indeed spoken only by Moses? hath he not spoken also by us? And the LORD heard it.
003: (Now the man Moses was very meek, above all the men which were upon the face of the earth.)
004: And the LORD spake suddenly unto Moses, and unto Aaron, and unto Miriam, Come out ye three unto the tabernacle of the congregation. And they three came out.
005: And the LORD came down in the pillar of the cloud, and stood in the door of the tabernacle, and called Aaron and Miriam: and they both came forth.
006: And he said, Hear now my words: If there be a prophet among you, I the LORD will make myself known unto him in a vision, and will speak unto him in a dream.
007: My servant Moses is not so, who is faithful in all mine house.
008: With him will I speak mouth to mouth, even apparently, and not in dark speeches; and the similitude of the LORD shall he behold: wherefore then were ye not afraid to speak against my servant Moses?
009: And the anger of the LORD was kindled against them; and he departed.
010: And the cloud departed from off the tabernacle; and, behold, Miriam became leprous, white as snow: and Aaron looked upon Miriam, and, behold, she was leprous.
011: And Aaron said unto Moses, Alas, my lord, I beseech thee, lay not the sin upon us, wherein we have done foolishly, and wherein we have sinned.
012: Let her not be as one dead, of whom the flesh is half consumed when he cometh out of his mother’s womb.
013: And Moses cried unto the LORD, saying, Heal her now, O God, I beseech thee.
014: And the LORD said unto Moses, If her father had but spit in her face, should she not be ashamed seven days? let her be shut out from the camp seven days, and after that let her be received in again.
015: And Miriam was shut out from the camp seven days: and the people journeyed not till Miriam was brought in again.
016: And afterward the people removed from Hazeroth, and pitched in the wilderness of Paran.
as a black man i am happy for halle i aint even offended that she is with a white man because simply i don’t think she is black she is mixed black people always claim someone that makes us look good.
if halle was doing things like super head every black women and men wouldn’t consider her black.
but i don’t understand how some of these people who consider her black aren’t mad that she dated interracial when y’all talked about black men so bad because kim kardasian was on the cover of that mag.
its extremely hypocritical to me also what is hypocritical how halle gets a pass for having a child out of wedlock but y’all talked down on Monica so much for it i don’t understand that i really don’t if its good for halle why not Monica she probably is just as rich as halle.
so it aint like her baby is going to be struggling this site really makes me realize just how much i don’t understand women.
Dropkick you’re right
Technically we are all the same race-at least the same species. A white man and an black mans penis has the same function. So does a white woman’s and black woman’s vagina. We can procreate with each other so I don’t understand how that’s a sin if God wants us to be “fruitful”. The way I see it is that the only thing that truely seperates us is our social preconditioning and how we interpret each other.
still gorgeous at 40!!!
Black people do not need to CLAIM anybody. We already have beautiful Black actresses who are doing their thing (Gabrielle, Sanaa, Angela who did her thing in Tina Turner, Nia, and others). Halle defined herself as that. The Black community did not force her to define herself as a Black woman. And real talk I would have never known Halle was a mixed person who had a white mother if I would have saw her walking down the street. And it does not matter if she had a white mother or not, that’s not a reason to justify the reason why it is cool for her to be with a white man. The reason it is justifiable is because she is human and people can date whoever they want to. Love is love and it does not discriminate by race or color.
@ 128 Damn, Halle is that you girl ? when I say “delusional” I’m speaking about people on this blog including you who get upset when someone’s opinion of Halle don’t agree with yours , like she’s your family member or something .lol Yes, that would be a delusion sweetie . It’s also pathetic how many posters wrote long paragraphs towards others about their opinions .. I said she’s not “special” b/c again you and all of the other stans go on attack when some one say something against what you think of her . meaning she’s not above getting criticism every other celeb on this blog does why not Halle ? Understand now ? Lol . Nothing halle or any other celeb does affect me . This is a gossip blog incase you forgot . Like I told you before I can say what ever I want, about who ever I want and you cant do shit about it ..lol. Stick to the topic which is Halle stop wasting paragraphs on me .. I feel special ..lol Im wondering how does it affect you being you felt the need to address me ?? lmao gtfoh !! Please tell me how have I attacked any poster here ? I read all of the comments and stated the obvious . People were arguing back and forth and being upset about others ppls thoughts . Read the comments for yourself and see, It‘s not like I just came in this post writing up shit for no reason . I always read all the comments before posting . You address me, out of all the post, mines !! lol . I must have hit a nerve . All that other filler shit you typed is not even worth addressing , I take it you didn’t have shit worthy of saying so you added that . Lmao
How many times you people gonna plead and beg for Halle to get married??? DAMN!!
She aint getting married, she aint getting married, she aint getting married, she aint getting married, she aint getting married, she aint getting married, SHE AINT GETTING MARRIED!!!!!! Damn, shut the hell up. I dont even care for Halle like that but yall driving me nuts. Halle dont want to give mariage another f*cking shot, so just drop it. Its her got damn life and she will pay for whatever sins she has made when her time has come and its judgement day, just like you, just like me.
I’m happy for Halle and I hope nothing goes wrong with her pregnancy.
As for those that think Halle is committing a so-called sin by not getting married (which, by the way, means nothing more than going through a civil ceremony), I wonder how many sins would be uncovered if a spotlight was shone on your life?
@136 It’s just ignorance that’s all.
Awww, baby bump! I never want kids in my life, but I find baby bumps so adorable! But wow, she took 35 pregnancy tests? Why the heck did it take so long to get a positive??
@Shannon75
Let it be known that I don’t like to strive over the Word of the Lord with anyone, but you need to be taught (Job 6:24-26, II Tim 2:14). Before anything else sis; in order for you to teach, which the scriptures say that you are NOT supposed to do, (Num 27:16, Prov 8:4, I Cor 14:34,35, I Tim 2:12-14, etc,) you should know and understand what you’re reading. You obviously do not understand, you were not called, or you’ve been mistaught (Prov 26:7, Jer 23:16-22). You will only damage yourself because lack of knowledge is forcing you to lie on the Word of the Lord and what it says. That sin is one that Christ says he will not forgive (Matt 12:31,32, I John 5:16).
Then you ran and took numbers 12th chapter completely out of context. The Lord allowed Moses to marry the Midianite woman because there were no Israelite women when Moses fled from Egypt into the wilderness (Ex 2:15-22). The Lord also allowed Boaz to intermarry with Ruth because she was the carrier of Obed, the grandfather of David. Whenever you see the Lord allow interracial marriage in the scripture, it’s an extreme exception that will play out later on. If that’s not the case, why did the Lord stipulate in his law that we were not supposed to intermarry with the other races (Deut 7:3). Go ahead and condemn yourself and say that the Lord changed his mind or some madness like that (Malachi 3:6, Isa 46:8-10, Eph 1:4,5, Heb 6:18, Heb 13:8, etc.).
Now if the Lord wants “unity”, why did he divide the nations in the first place (Gen 11:1-9, Deut 32:8). You need to be taught sis, lol. Stop trying to be proud. Christ himself said that he is coming back to bring division (Matt 10:34, Matt 25:31, Luke 12:51, etc.) and to rule the other nations (races) with a rod of iron (Num 24:17-19, Psa 2:7-9, Rev 2:25-28
1) Ephesians 2:19-22 is not talking about all races so stop the madness. When you read Ephesians 1:1, Paul lets us know that the epistle is written to the saints that dwell at Ephesus. The saints are the Israelites (Deut 33:2, Psa 50:5, Psa 148:14). Ephesians 2:11,12 tells us that they were “Gentiles in the flesh” because they were scattered Israelites from the various captivities and wars that had started to keep the customs of the other races (Psa 106:34-47). Verse 12 tells us that they were “alienated from the ‘commonwealth’” (land mass) of Israel because their ancestors were taken out as captives and slaves. You must know history and the Old Testament to understand Paul’s epistles. This is where the Christian church flounders (Matt 22:29). Paul himself said that his hope was for the ISRAELITES (Acts 26:6,7, Acts 28:20, Rom 9:3-5) Let’s get this understood, the Bible from start to finish is a saga concerning God’s Chosen race of people, the Israelites (Ex 19:5,6, Psa 147:19,20, Amos 3:1, Matt 15:24). You should know better because, by your own admission, your pastor is dividing your congregation with his white supremacist rhetoric. Once again, stop trying to teach until you learn.
One thing that is IRREFUTABLE is that, according to the Bible, the Lord tells us that the Israelites were and are his chosen and ABOVE all the other races (Deut 7:6, Deut 14:2, Isa 44:1, Rev 21:12, ad infinitum).
Now sis, if you can explain and juxtapose my scriptures in the context of the entire Bible like I have yours, then I need your email address because I need you to teach me.
@Dropkick
Brother, you ask good questions, which is good. You’re inquisitive, which is also good but you have to understand that most of these people that claim the Most High and Christ do not know what the hell they’re talking about but they’re intent on maintaining the confusion that you have because misery loves company (Matt 23:13).
First off, and I’ve heard this so many times (lol), Shakespeare did not “write” the Bible for King James. He wrote numerous sonnets to be played in King James’s court and he did translate some psalms for King James but he did not write the Bible. That is a lie. Both Sakespeare and King James were black men by the way, but that’s a whole other historical debate. If you want to read about the different races and their origin, read Genesis 10th chapter. You ask too many questions to anwser all at once. You can leave your email and I’ll expound on everything I’ve said here if you need that. Christ explains why he never dealt with a woman in a parable in Matthew (Matt 19:10-12). He sanctified himself. You’ll notice when you read the scriptures that most of the great men fell because they could not control their appetite for women. In regards to your question concerning the wives, men had multiple wives (Deut 21:15).
Adam and Eve were not the first people but that is a whole other topic but it explains who Cain and Abel married, which the churches cannot explain.
If you want to read some scriptures on false prophets and how to spot them, here you go (Deut 13:1-5, Deut 18:20-22, Isa 56:10,11, Jer 8:11, Jer 23:9-32, Ezek 14:9,10, Mic 3:11, Zech 11:4,5, Matt 23:1-33, Rom 16:17,18, II Pet 2:1-3, I John 4:1-3, etc.)
@140
I’m lmao at you right now because you are on here posting as if your life depended on it, talking about everyone else writing paragraphs, yet you are doing the same. Please get over it now. I’d rather see their paragraphs in one post then you posting hella times about a bunch of nothing. As far as being mad, child please. Like you stated this is a blog site and as someone that doesn’t post much I am simply stating the obvious, which is you look stupid telling others what they are and you are doing the same thing. I’m not sure what part of that you don’t understand. What is sad is you people on here mad at people that don’t care to join in on your steady bashing on this woman’s life. Talking about what she needs to do with her relationship when you probably don’t have a man your self. Some people even went as far as to quote scriptures from the bible. wtf?
It’s apparent that I have struck a nerve with you because you are back ranting, cursing and caring on, if you didn’t care you wouldn’t have even posted. The same way others are ‘delusional’ because they have good things to say about Halle, you are just as ‘delusional’ talking about others and on here talking about her life as if she cares. I stay lmao at some of you. It’s almost like some of you like arguing with people. I come here like everyone else, to check out the site and I like the fashion, but some of you stay on here always having something to say about someone else’s personal business. You don’t talk about their art, but always in their life. smh. Trust that you look the most pathetic by passers by. I love how you tried to flip the script on me and others, when you’re the one that’s the all around mess. You’re asking me am I Halle Berry, i’m starting to wonder if you’re Eric Benet. lmao! This is my last time posting towards you, hopefully you can find a life somewhere and quit trying to talk about what that woman needs to do with hers. If you want to sit around the computer all day and rant about people having a baby out of wedlock, by all means continue, don’t let me rain on your parade. I truly hope for your sake that you’re not grown doing this, because if so that’s really sad. lol! Good luck with that because i’m done. smh
@ 146 lmao That’s the best you could come up with ?? You couldn’t say anything about nothing I wrote b/c it was all on point . Where do you see me writing about a baby out of wedlock ?? where ?? please quote me on that . lol .Where do you see me saying what Halle need to do with her life ?? where ? please , quote me on that ?? lmao . Your whole post was worthless and said a bunch of nothing . Please, im not ranting this is pure entertainmet to me . lmao .Sit your ass down somewhere and holla at me when you have something to say . You wrote me a book about nothing but why you come on here and what you suspect of my life . that’s some pathetic shit there. lol. The things that you did speak about concerning Halle I never even said them .lmao Damn, but you’re laughing at me ?? lmaooo GTFOH!! Again Im not responding to that filler shit you wrote , this post isn’t about me so why are you concerned with my age and what I do all day ? you are responding to me ,matter of fact you addressed me ,but I want to argue ?? lmao ..What a jackass !!
@ 146 If you read instead of trying to get an award for stan of the year , you would see the scripture were posted saying you don’t have to have a ceremony to become married , that would be in the favor of Halle’s decision to not marry . Just dumb for no reason .lol
You go Halle! You are fine, 41, fit and RICH! If you want a baby go for it! I know the baby will be gorgeous with Halle and Gabe being so beautiful and it’s not a racial/color thang either! If this is the man Halle chose to have a baby with more power to her regardless of his race. Apparently Halle felt the timing was right and this is the man she chooses to be the father of her child and if he makes her happy so be it!
yeah, i’m darkskin so what?
the only reason halle crosses boundaries is because she is mixed and not too dark. for as long as i’ve been around there has never been a darkskin woman with broad features that both blacks and whites can agree on.
Dropkick…….
We cant have a thousand wives or husbands because it amongs other things is not stated in the New Testament. Solomon was of the Old Testament. The Old Testament was under the Law of Moses. The Law of Moses was done away with when Christ was nailed to the Cross. Christ fulfilled the law of Moses. When He fulfilled the law, He took it out of the way. It was no longer to be obeyed. Christ brought a new law. “And for this reason He is the Mediator of the new covenant….” (Hebrews 9:15). Covenant and testament means the same thing. Hebrews 9 explains it better in details. The bible was written by 40 men over a 1600 time period. Knowing this first, that no prophecy of Scripture is of any private interpretation, for prophecy never came by the will of man, but holy men of God spoke as they were moved by the Holy Spirit” (2 Peter 1:20-21). You are right no one is perfect and the bible is here to help us all to live according to God’s will not by earthly standards.
ROFL @ the BIBLE quotes… is it that serious people, I mean come on. And some of you have me ROTFL LMAO at the unnecessary arguments over this BS. I’m starting to question the sanity of a few of you up in this post argueing with people over this nonsense because a lot of you sound a H.A.M! LMAO!! D@MN lets let the woman live now.
JUDAH,
Before you continue to spoil these people minds and continue to justify personal gratifications, it is Not biblical to have sex before marriage and so forth. Fornication is sexual intercourse between 2 unmarried people, which is wrong..! Corin 6:18, Matt 5:32, Acts 15:20, Eph 5:3, 1 Thess 4:3. Pre-marital sex is sex between 2 unmarried people. Though the bible may not mentioned the exact words of “children out of wedlock”. How does one has childrent? Through sexual intercourse. And if its done out of marriage, that act is wrong. You are doing exactly what Mark 7: 6-7 is against. You are teaching the command of men, not God. You are really twisting these scriptures. Matt 19:4-6 is not speaking on having sex with a women and she becoming your wife. It is speaking on divorce. Joseph and Mary did not have intercourse before they were married. She was a virgin (Luke 1:34). She conceived through the spirit of God. As far as men sleeping with a women who then becomes his wife? That is of the Old Testament in which we are no longer under. We are of the New Testament in which we are to now obey. You can read my block 151 for explanation on that. And though there are many who conceive out of wedlock, the act is wrong, but there are ways to get our lives right with God. Committing sin and living and staying in sin is one thing, but committing a sin and then having a change of heart is totally two different things.
PEOPLE ON HERE WHO ARE AGAINST MARRIAGE, ARE PROBABLY THE NON MARRIAGE TYPES, AND ARE JEALOUS OF PEOPLE WHO ARE. MISERY LOVES COMPANY. IF A PERSON LOVES YOU SO MUCH, THAT THEY WANT TO GO BEFORE GOD TO COMMIT THEIR LOVE TO YOU, THAT IS A BLESSING. MARRIAGE IS MORE THAN JUST A PIECE OF PAPER, IT IS ONE OF THE MOST HONORABLE THINGS IN LIFE. REMEMBER, MISERY LOVES COMPANY. MARRIAGE HATERS ARE USUALLY RELATIONSHIP LOSERS.
@150, YOU CAN BE ANYTHING ON THE INTERNET, AND OH, YES ONCE AGAIN YOU ARE GETTING SOME RESPONSES REGARDING YOUR COMMENTS. YOU KNOW THAT SKIN COLOR COMMENTS GET ATTENTION LIKE BEYONCE. NEXT TIME BE A LITTLE MORE CREATIVE. OH, LET ME GUESS YOU ARE GOING TO THROW ABOUT 15 F-BOMBS AT ME, BOOM ME UP SCOTTIE.
Halle Berry is a lucky half breed that HOLLYWOOD accepted as the new BLACK!!! The BITCH use the black community and races when it was to her advantage. It is without a doubt a fact that at some point the black race wll be extict based upon all this mixed race dating. It is truly sad to read someof the post of the those that talk about mixed race as if it is a way out, and speak about the babies will come out looking BEAUTIFUL??? WTF. For those who have that mind set I must truly say that you are a sad case. I ask the real BLACK people 100% percent to continue to love your black man and woman,don’t allow society to tell you that black on black love is not right, continue to strive for excellence and educate our children. From birth teach them to to accept the skin they are in and love hard and strong like black people do. There is nothing more beautiful then black love because we struggle together and we achieve together. A child is not beautiful because of the texture of their hair and skin tone that may be like Halles. Fight the bull that is displayed throughout this BLOG… Black people and black love is REAL!!!!
Why won’t they marry if they feel fully committed to each other?
Judah, I respect your position on this matter but I sometimes wonder why it seem that you choose to ignore scripture that rebutes what you say.
Because you mention that the Bibles saga has always focused on the people of Israel than you should know that God ADOPTED All mankind into his family, stating that All who recieved him and believed in his name, he gave the RIGHT to become children of God. Children not born of natural descent(blood) nor of human decision or a husband’s will but born of God.
John 1:12-13
Gods Old Testament people came from a specifically chosen ethnic group but some OUTSIDERS joined them in their faith (Ruth). The Israelites recognized that God’s love and acceptance extended to people all over. Psa 65:8
The Gentiles are CLEARLY considered foreigners and not Israelites. However they are still considered neighbors and worthy of being “established among HIS people”. And everyone knows we must love our neighbor.
Jer 12:16
Deu 7:1-6 refers to marrying those that ARE NOT BELIEVERS in God and who are idol worshippers-those seven nations at the time were powerful and could easily influence the newly freed Israelites who had been under Egyptian rule and used to THEIR customs.
That’s why many churches today strongly urge people of the same RELIGION to be together. And since we have all been adopted as Gods children if WE BELIEVE then outward appearances do not matter(Samuel 16:7 )in terms of cohabitting and marrying each other.
We have just been appointed our new pastor a year ago and all I have to say about that is that God uses even the agents of Satan to do his work.
The Bible can be a very mysterious book but if you pray for Gods guidance before you open it, he hears you and guides you to understanding.
Saprise and Judah
Thanks to both of you. I know the topis strayed a little, but at least people are talking (texting). Made for some interesting reading and I’m sure it will continue. I respect all the research, scriptures and attention to my questions.
BlackLove4ever
Is there a particular “shade” of black person, another black person can be attracted to? I mean personally I like dark skinned sisters, but find co co and carmel sisters beautiful as well. Oh, what aout a light, bright and dam near white? You know like Angela Davis or Kathy Cleaver? These were strong black sisters and members of the Black Panther party. Are they black enough to love? I mean I’m pretty light myself, so mixing with a sister of that complexion will undoubtably produce children lighter than Halle. How black is black? Isn’t it true that genetically speaking two blacks can make a white? What about those sisters and brother who (for lack of a more modern term) are ‘passing’? I mean a brother can think he has another color, but when baby comes out looking like patton leather shoes, then we know right? Or can we even considered those ‘real’ blacks that have been raised by white parents, like Connor Cruise or Zahara Jolie-Pitt or David Banda Mwale Ciccone Ritchie (can’t get more black than African), can we let them into our love circle? Since we really don’t know who is and isn’t (because skin tones aren’t certain), what’s the lipness test to determine who’s black and therefore worthy of our love and loins?
“Deu 7:1-6 refers to marrying those that ARE NOT BELIEVERS in God and who are idol worshippers-those seven nations at the time were powerful and could easily influence the newly freed Israelites who had been under Egyptian rule and used to THEIR customs.
That’s why many churches today strongly urge people of the same RELIGION to be together. And since we have all been adopted as Gods children if WE BELIEVE then outward appearances do not matter(Samuel 16:7 )”
Sorry my time is limited to participate in the discussion this morning, but this is the truth. If you are a believer in Christ then you are part of God’s family and we are allowed to marry freely amongst one another. Race is not an issue.
@ dropkick
Re: lipness test
You asking the right questions and this is great debate but for the record it’s Lithmus test. I know this isn’t grade school and I ain’t criticizing but a little knowledge never hurt nobody.
yall kno halle is white 2 right just like # 69 sed she mixed but she dont look like it
PEOPLE ALWAYS WANT TO TALK ABOUT HALLE WITH A WHITE BOY –HELLO???? HER MOMMA IS WHITE!
My mother who’s been happily married for 24 years, has always said a good living with is better than a bad marriage. So F all of you. If Halle is happy what the hell does it have to do with any of you?
@Saprise
What are you, another uninformed sister trying to teach the Word of the Lord? Lol, why don’t ya’ll just stop already? Why can’t I just voice my opinion and keep it movin, damn. All that stuff I wrote in 3 posts and the only thing that you could beef about is the issue of marriage and multiple wives, (big saprise) lol. You did nothing but blaspheme your entire 2 posts and you showed how extremely ignorant and mistaught you are. I like when you said, “we can’t have a thousand wives or husbands….”, lmao. You could never at any time have had a thousand husbands according to the scriptures, sis. You cannot mix the Word of the Lord with your feminist nonsense (Ezek 13:17-23). The scriptures stipulate that men did and can have multiple wives and that they will again (Deut 21:15, I Sam 27:3, II Chr 11:21, Isa 4:4, etc.). The only reason why men do not have multiple wives now is because of the population control tactics instituted by the people in power, but that’s another topic. I wouldn’t advise multiple wives now because it’s mostly whores and whoremongers out here, but once again, it is not against the scriptures, so that’s a lie you told. There’s nowhere in the New Testament where Christ or Paul changed the scriptural laws (Matt 5:17-19, Luke 10:25, Acts 24:14,15, Acts 26:22, etc.). They both personally practiced celibacy to get closer to the Most High, so is that a law too(Matt 19:8-10, I Cor 7:1,2)? What scripture does Christ state that the laws of Moses were done away with (I Thes 5:21)? As a matter of fact, Christ says that the laws of Moses are FOREVER, so that’s another lie you’ve told (Matt 5:17-19). As a matter of even more biblical facts, Christ said that to believe in him, you MUST believe in the laws of Moses (John 5:45-47). If the laws of Moses were done away with, why is Christ called the Word of the Lord and the scripture states that he came in the “volume” of the book, meaning the entire Bible (Heb 10:7). Christ was the voice that emanated from in between the cherubim and directed the Israelites in their wars against the other nations and killed the Israelites in the wilderness (Psa 80:1, I Cor 10:1-10). He is also the one that killed all the firstborn of the Egyptians before the exodus as read in the Apocrypha. So that’s another lie you’ve told. No disrespect to you sis, but I don’t play with this Word in any way, shape, or form and neither should you. You so-called Christians cop out on the Old Testament because it’s too laborious to read, to you, and you cannot comprehend the parables or the prophecies (Prov 26:7, Isaiah 29:11-13, Mic 3:5-7, Matt 13:10,11).
Where in the Bible does it state that fornication is pre-marital sex? None of those scriptures that you gave indicate fornication as pre-marital sex because there is no thing as pre-marital sex. Save the church confusion for someone else. Fornication is sexual wickedness; pertaining to adultery, pedophilia, masturbation, homosexuality, bestiality, whoremongering, and whoring. That’s it. When you read the laws of Leviticus and Deuteronomy, there is nothing that tells you that fornication is pre-marital sex. You’re confusing man’s definition for words for the Lord’s definition for words. The laws stipulate judgements against all those things that fall under the umbrella of fornication. The only judgement for pre-marital sex is that the woman becomes your wife (Ex 22:16,17). That’s how you know that pre-marital sex is not fornication.
The Bible also tells us that a woman is not supposed to wear pants (Deut 22:5) but that law was probably done away with right? What’s funny about you so-called Christians is that you’ll quote the Old Testament in a minute if it feeds into your vain doctrine. Now in regards to you citing Heb 9:15, you only cut yourself, again. The scripture tells us that the new testament was needed for the “transgressions under the first testament…” (Isa 44:21,22). Now who was the first testament and covenant made with sis? Who? The Israelites (Ex 24th chapter, Psa 147:19,20). Christ was necessary to redeem the Israelites from the sins that they had committed under the original covenant with the Most High (Matt 1:21, Matt 2:6, Acts 5:31). In the same book that you cited, the book of Hebrews, Paul tells us the the New Covenant is for the Israelites (Heb 8:8). The only people that could sin under the old laws were the people that the laws were given to (I John 3:4). The laws were only given to the Israelites (Lev 1:1, Psa 147:19,20, Amos 3:1). I mean, it’s so damn clear.
@ Shannon75
Sis, I’ve never ignored any scripture. As a matter of fact, not only do I address the scriptures that you bring out, but I also explain them, expound on them, and give additional scriptures and historicity to the best of my ability. You do not answer or respond to any scriptures that I bring out because you can’t. You choose to ignore the scriptures that state that a woman cannot teach (I Tim 2:12-14), plus many other scriptures. It is what it is. You have no scriptural or historical knowledge of the Old Testament (Matt 22:29). It’s like if you only saw the second half of a movie, how can I respect your review (Isa 34:16)?
The scriptures tell us that the ADOPTION pertains to the Israelites (Rom 9:3-5). Just in your breakdown of John 1:12, it shows your lack of understanding. John 1:12 was an allusion to Hosea 1:10 sis. The scriptures are clear that Christ came and died for the sins of the Israelites (Matt 2:6, Acts 5:31). You can’t get any clearer than that. When the scripture in John 1:12 says, “as many as received him…” it’s referring to those amongst the ISRAELITES that received him because that’s all that Christ came for (Matt 15:24). When you read the gospels, there were Israelites that believed on Christ and those that didn’t, just like today (John 7:12, John 10:19). It’s already inclusive that you must be of the seed, but everyone of the seed is not anointed to grasp this Word. That’s what Paul was referring to in Rom 9:6-11. As a matter of fact, the book of Acts and Romans the entire 9th chapter shows us that the Israelites were whom Paul went to (Acts 26:6,7,23, Acts 28:20, Rom 10:1, ad infinitum). The seed of Jacob was always stressed and the scripture states that it is the seed that will inherit the kingdom (Psalms 22:23,30, Isaiah 45:25, Isaiah 46:3, Ezek 20:5, Psa 126:6, literally too many to cite). This is why Christ said that he must separate the “wheat from the tares”. He’s referring to the Israelites that must be taken out of all nations (Isaiah 10:20,21, Isaiah 11:11, Ezek 28:25, Amos 9:8,9, Zech 8:7,8, etc.). It’s really too much information for one post sis because we can literally go on for days. You need to be taught so that you stop unintentionally (or intentionally) lying on the scriptures. That white man’s Christianity makes black people too double-minded (James 1:8). That’s why you people will be on a Jena 6 post laying out your weak stratagems for the black community and then you’ll pop up on a post like this to say that God loves us all, lol. Confusion. There are two types of Gentiles when you read the Bible. The Gentiles according to the flesh and the spiritual Gentiles, the scattered Israelites, that were keeping the laws of the nations around them. The other races will repent when Christ comes back, in the spirit of truth, because they will be forced to. They will have to bow down to the Israelites and be made slaves (Prov 14:19, Isaiah 14:1-3, Isaiah 49:23, Isaiah 60:10-12,etc.), rebuild the land of Israel that will be destroyed in the oncoming nuclear war (Isaiah 61:4, Ezek 36:7-12,32-36, Micah 7:11-13), and worship the Most High in the OUTER COURT of the Temple away from the Israelites (Isaiah 2:2, Isaiah 56:6,7, Rev 11:1,2). People like Ruth knew their place and their role. They understood that they were not equal to the holy seed of the Israelites and that is why they were allowed to worship in the outer courts. Psalms 65:8 has nothing to do with the nations being accepted so I have no idea what point you’re making and I don’t think that you do either. Whoever is feeding you these scriptures needs to be taught also, lol. David was mocking the other nations for being fearful of those tokens because the scriptures tell us to not be (Jer 10:2). King David hated the other nations (races) and was known to torture them and use them as slaves to build up Israel (Psa 9:19,20, II Sam 8th chap., I Chron 22:2,3). See sis, I see that you’re trying to use Old Testament scriptures but you’re only showing that you really don’t know what the hell you’re talking about.
It’s funny that you cite Jeremiah 12:16 because the scripture states that if the other nations learn how to stop teaching the Israelites about Baal, they will be allowed to worship in the midst of Israel. They have not learned to stop teaching us about Baal. They refuse to because their spirit is not given to worship the God of Israel in the spirit of truth. Baal is who’s birthday you’re celebrating when you keep Christmas (Jer 10:1-5). This is what Paul was referring to when he prohesied in II Thes 2:1-13 about the “mystery of iniquity” and also what John the Revelator cited in Revelation 13th chapter. The other nations, particularly the edomites known today as the whites or caucasians, have set up false images of Christ so that people think that they’re worshipping the the Most High and Christ when they’re really worshipping Satan (Job 9:24). Do you know who that surfer dude is in the bedsheet and footies that they teach you is Christ, really is historically? A renaissance era general and pedophile that died from syphilis named Cesar Borgias. Look it up and look at his face.
Now if Deut 7:1-6 s talking about “nonbeliever”, lol, then why did Nehemiah cite the same scripture when the men and women of Israel started to intermarry with the Moabites, Ammonites, and the people of Ashdod (Neh 13:23-27). Let me guess, you know more than Nehemiah right? Those people were not the “seven nations” that you named. You need to stop adding unto the Word of the Lord (Deut 4:2, Deut 12:32, Prov 30:5,6, Rev 22:18,19). In Ezra 9:1-3, the scripture tells us that the sin that the Israelites committed was mixing the HOLY SEED, not sleeping with no damn nonbelievers. Ezra 10:2-5 tells us that the Lord advocated putting away both the husbands and wives of interracial unions, as well as the offspring. Once again, the races mentioned were not the “seven nations” you mentioned. Go up and ask any real, practicing white jew about the Torah and what it states and ask them if the other nations are equal with the Jews. I gurantee you, when they say no, you will not refute their claim because you respect the white man as god. That stuff you’ve learnt and are now trying to regurgitate is a cleverly disguised fable passed off as a religion (II Pet 1:16). When you read Rev 16:13,14 it is referring to the caucasian Christian missionaries that went across the earth teaching people their satanic bastardization of the Lord’s Word. That’s why their doctrine is likened unto frogs, because they jumped from one land to another killing, raping, and indoctrinating.
I Sam 16:7 is talking about David’s youthful physique because he was an extremely young man when he was first called by the Most High to fight Goliath. He was only about thirteen. It’s getting ridiculous now how you are perverting the scriptures. This is why the scriptures say that the sisters shouldn’t teach because you naturally try to effeminize the word if left up to your own devices. See, what alot of you so-called Christians don’t understand is that when you frivolously dismiss certain books and verses in the Bible, like many of you do the entire Old Testament, you’re saying that some points in the Bible offend you (Matt 11:6, Matt 24:10). You’re saying that you want this world to continue on the course in which it is going and Christ said to hate this world (James 4:4, I John 2:15). No disrespect but your method of scriptural study will only help those that are intent on living their lives to satisfy their lusts. You don’t have any answers. You only raise more questions that you can’t answer, especially when dealing with people that actually know what they’re talking about. You need to be taught sis, stop being proud.
for all u folks downing her a having a child out of wed lock, u guys can’t seem to broaden your minds, as hallie was saying marriage isn’t about the wedding it’s about the commitment, if two folks make vows and commit, then technically there married, in Gods eyes, with or without a preist or judge.
What so sad about the Halle Berry comments especially the one regarding Eric’s daughter. Is that you really don’t know what type of relationship they really have. Halle keep doing what you do and God Bless you and your children.
man some of yall on here are frickin idoits. WHO CARES ABOUT THE RACE!!!! IF YOUR PRETTY THEN YOU JUST ARE! I DON’T CARE ONE WAY OR THE OTHER AS LONG AS SHE HAPPY. AND PLEASE HALLE MAKES NAOMI C. LOOK SICK!
WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU …BLIND? ALSO OF COURSE SHES LOOKING A LIL BIT OLDER BECAUSE SHE A HUMAN AND SHE AGES’ YOU IDIOT. USE YOUR BRAIN AND DO THE MATH. I DON’T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT WHAT ANYONE SAYS. HALLE BERRY IS A GORGEOUS WOMAN. “oh she looks average” WTF!
HALLE KEEP DOING YOU!!!!!
OH AND FAR AS THAT OH SHE HAD A BABY OUT OF WEDLOCK AND WHATNOT………JUST HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE HAD SEX OUT OF WEDLOCK?….ITS JUST AS BAD IN CASE YOU DIDN’T KNOW IT’S JUST THAT YOU DIDN’T GET ANYTHING PRECIOUS OUT OF IT. THINK ABOUT IT THEN SHUT THE HELL UP.
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