All she wanted to do was get knocked up. Dysfunctional ass.

It’s truly sad to hear what I would assume are black women on the blog looking at Halle as if she is a gift from GOD. Halle is not fully black so how does she truly represent a beautiful black woman? You need to turn around and look at your mom and grandma and aunts who everyday struggle or don’t to make ends meet and life better. These are the women who TRULY encompass black beauty. I make no apologies for this statement “Halle, is another biracial product that is mixed up and confused in the head. We all know in the end the relationship willnot work and she will be left raising a 25% black child, that’ s sad and confused like her. TRUE beautiful black actresses are: Sanaa, Gabrielle

Good look Halle! Marriage does not = automatic happy status!

Do what’s good for you gurl!

Why aren’t people upset that he’s a WHITE man? Not that I am, but in reading these blogs for some time now, one can’t help but notice ANYTIME a brother has a white girl on his arm he’s crucified! Kids be pretty and all, but sisters don’t be giving a dam when it’s a brother. Man they rip that woman a new one, criticizing everything from her hair to her toes, to her motives. And the brothers get no slack either. They get called weak, stupid and everything else.

Recently Polo The Don said he “liked” white women and we almost had a Jena 6 moment on here. Sister rose up and tore him a new one. We know that this is the case whenever a brother marries or dates a white woman, although I’ve noticed some slack for those who date Latinas or Asians. But let a brother be on Oprah with a white woman and sisters will say “No, No, No!” like Amy Winehouse.

Makes no differents to me what another man choses, but in a brother’s quest to understand Black women, I can’t help but notice the double-standard. An just because she had two failed marriages with brothers, doesn’t give her a pass, or does it? How many sisters does a brother have to fail with before he can decide to date whites girls and be applauded?

Good luck to Halle, I feel like that’s one the brothers lost, but it does reenforced my thoughts that something must be wrong with this woman. I mean brother after brother, and one even felt it necessary to slap her to deafness? Not justifiable, but how mad do you have to make a brother to slap you to deaf? Extremely is my guess.

I’m glad she gets to have a baby and didn’t do something stupid like travel to Russia and adopt one of their kids. The fact that she wanted kids so bad, but didn’t adopt a black child like Tom Cruise, Angelina Jolie and other “A’ listers prior to get knocked up is troubling. Guess based on her background, she couldn’t parent a full blooded black child. And what happened to her “Mother Daughter” relationship with India (Eric’s daughter)? Remember the story of how hthe lil girl’s mother died and Halle was there for her and stuff? Guess when you drop the Dad, you drop the kids.

FTR, I am aware she is half white and may not look at ethinicity as we do, but the sisters are really giving her kudos for the “Canadian” man and child. Hey wait a minute, Rick Fox is Canadian too….hmmm then I guess they have black models in Canada as well.

I wish Halle and Gabrielle nothing but the best in their relationship and for their child(ren). Do what works for you girl and keep it moving.

I cannot believe the comments some of you all are making. I mean we are entitled to our own opinions but I just cant believe that you all are serious with some of the things you are saying. Im at work, so I cant respond like I want, but I’ll damn sure co-sign with any body who has time to address the madness.

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I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST HALLE PERSONALLY…BUT IT’S LIKE THIS,
HER BABY IS A BASTARD EITHER WAY YOU WANNA SUGAR COAT IT.IT AIN’T OKAY TO HAVE KIDS OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE AND
I AIN’T BOUT TO CELEBRATE STUFF LIKE DAT.MONEY , OR NO MONEY.STOP GLORIFYING THIS CRAP.

If Halle doesn’t want to get married, so what. It’s not like she hasn’t already been married and divorced twice. And it’s not like marriages last a long time anyway, so what’s the point. There is no point in making a promise to someone that you’re not going to keep. I 100% understand where Halle is coming from on her stance on marriage. I would love to get married and be with that one person forever. But let’s get real, it’s simply not happening like that today. Not many people want to be commited to just one person. Love is love. The child isn’t going to be any more loved whether it’s raised by two loving parents that’s not married then it would with two loving parents that are married.

I think that what Halle meant is that a ceremony and a ring does not equal commitment. if two people love and care about each other then they are bond together. everyone knows that a piece of paper does not keep people from cheating or being abusive to their spouse. she was in two “committed” relationships and neither one of those guys treated her like a wife. I agree she has some issues, but so does everyone. the thing is to find the person who is willing to look beyond the flaws and issues and wants to be there for you. alot of people get married thinking that someone is going to save them or make their life better, when it does neither. if she feels that marriage is not the right choice for her, then who are we to judge.

@ # 79

the difference between halle and polow the don is he has openly put black women down in order to justify why is likes white women, i have yet to hear halle talk negative about black men or generalize them because a couple of black men have done her wrong, i have no problem with him dating white women but -

what i dont understand about oprah is how she never pays attention to important stuff like jena 6 but has halle berry talking about her pregnant ass.

who da fuck cares if she is pregnant or watches maury.

oprah is wack and halle is looking mighty old

u kno what complex #26…

i heard he was gay too…

but he sure is sexy!

@ # 79

the difference between halle and polow the don is he has openly put balck women down in order to justify why he likes white women, i have yet to hear halle say anything negative about black men or generalize them just because a few black men have done her wrong.polow the don deserved all the backlash he got, he is ignorant ! and i don’t give a damn what halle did there is no way in the world she deserved to be hit ! especially by a man who was supposed to care about her, and how can you justify a man hitting a woman so hard she loses 80 percent of her hearing? black men date outside of there race(not all of them of course) all the time halle is just taking a page out of the same book.

@Antwanm.. You took the words right out of my mouth. I don’t agree with Halle promoting babies out of wedlock there is enough of that already and look at the results of it!!! Halle that is not a good look.!!!!

AS A BLACK MALE I DON’T MIND HALLE BERRY HAVING A CHILD WITH A STRINGY, GAUNT WHITE BOY - ALTHOUGH I WAS A LITTLE SAD…BUT THE WOMAN HAS DATED / MARRIED BLACK MEN FOR ALMOST TWO DECADES- DENZEL, SPIKE, ERIC, THAT FOOTBALL PLAYER?

IT AINT LIKE SHE DID NOT TRY A BROTHER - SO I RESPECT HER FOR DOING WHAT SHE GOTTA DO!!

Good for Halle - she didn’t get discouraged after 35 negative tests - that’s resolve! She sure has “popped out” to be only a few months along though.

My questions isn’t whether the two cases are equal, but that sisters scream when brothers (not jus Polow) date white women. They get all extra critical of the woman and questions the brothers blackness. But Halle getting high fives and “Go on girls” from the same black women. I mentioned this before when it was announced that she was pregnant.

Can’t justify it, neither can one justify the beating Bishop Weeks put dow, but the questions was “What did she (they) say or do moments before the swings and kicks?”

Black men have been dating white women for years, but so have sisters. From Whoopie, Diana Ross, to Kerry Washington, but never do they get the fanfare that brothers get. Seems a little doubled standard.

If a brother dates 15 sisters, and marries one or two. He still can’t date a white woman eventhough sisters know his past. They just believe thathe should give another sister a try. Let Shaq or Dwayne Wade marry a grey girl and see what I’m talking about. Even Big Tigger, who we recently learned, “ass was tore to the white meat”, would get beat up by sisters if he now decided that he would be with a white woman. Sure sisters eventually get over it, but initially, it ain’t no “I’m soooo happy for them!” responses. That’s the doubled truth,…. Ruth.

It’s funny to me how people are saying that black men “failed” Halle and how she HAD to get a white man to treat her right. Since when did getting someone pregnant = being treated right?

The same way she is all giddy over Gabe, she was giddy over David Justice and Eric Benet. The same “spiritual connection” she says she has with Gabe is the same “spiritual connection” she said she had with Eric Benet. Halle has been with Gabriel for a little over a year. She was with David and Eric for about the same amount of time.

What is the difference between this relationship and the others? Why is everyone SO convinced she is REALLY happy this time? Because Gabriel got her pregnant?
Halle’s failed relationships had nothing to with the men being black. If this relationship is going to work it will be because Halle learned something from the bad ones and she’s become wiser in her choices. It won’t have anything to do with the skin he’s in.

White men cheat on and abuse their women too. And being cheated on doesn’t hurt any less b/c you don’t have a marriage license.

I’m sorry but I’ll believe Halle’s story when I see. Nevertheless, I wish her a safe,healthy, and peaceful pregnancy.

I’m very happy for Halley, that baby is going to be gorgeous because both Halle and
her boyfriend Gabriel are stunning. No one really cares if he is white, I read one of the statements said he is white ,we already know that and no one cares. Love is Love. Halle can date whatever race she chooses she is bi-racial and most men are
attracted to her regardless of color. I guess if you are prejudice then race would matter. NO one cares.Love is Love.

@DROPKICK: Black men get just as upset with black women for dating outside of the race. They tend to be less vocal about it than black women, but they don’t like it.

And just my opinion, but some black women get upset when they see a black man with a white, latina, etc woman, not because of the race of the women, but because of the attitude and air that black man has about him. A lot of black men get this “air” about them when they get a woman outside of the race. They act like they have “arrived” and they got something “better”.

Black women can act like that too. My friend lives in an east coast city that has a lot of BW/WM relationships and she said that some of the black women have this “I’m better than you because I got a white man” vibe about them. Like their relationship is guaranteed to work because they picked the “right” color this time.

shes flawless.

# 33….You said, So happy for her!!! Who cares what ppl think, its a new day and time. Yeah its a sin, but god ain’t knocking nobody for it, he forgives.

Okay, can you say Ignorant!! A new day and time doesnt not change the Bible. The scriptures stays the same even if the world is changing. It still does not make it right, just with all other sins. Why would God not knock it, if hes against it? Though no one is perfect, we suppose to strive to do better, not diligently sin and think “oh well forgive me Lord ” and expect to be forgiven, its not that simple at all. As in always, just because everyone is doing, does not make it right. If people would commit themselves to God as they do sin, this world wouldnt be half as bad.

“No hating but I’m about sick and tired of Halle. We get it. We’re happy or you, but this chick has 0 substance. Everytime she opens her mouth, I feel ablaze from all the heat spitting out. ”

NUFF SAID!!!

Love Halle, she is beautiful and talented, but what is the big deal about having a baby out of wedlock! Glad she is preggers, but I don’t think it is necessary to go on Oprah.
Second…
I agree with most of the comments…My point regarding her being pregnant is this- whether people,celebrities or not, have had a child out of wedlock or remained virgins until they are married is not the norm in society. The majority of society fornicate and do all sorts of things that are sins in God’s eyes one sin is not bigger than the other. No one cares about living according to God’s will and those who do or try to will surely tell you it is a daily struggle. If Halle and Gabriel have such a spiritual connection then why not give marriage a try. He’s good enough to sleep with and make a baby, why not marry him.
DON’T GET IT TWISTED- I am not judging her because I am no saint, simply stating my opinion.

Maybe it has to do with the way the woman treats him. Maybe women from others races simply deal with them as individuals and not as birthrites. Maybe there’s no power struggle over who could or should run the house better. Black women have an ability to pump you up, but they also jump at opportunities to tear you down. How many times do we hear about how the black woman did this, that and the other? They raise the kids, keeps the house, I read one woman’s comments that they even “type our term papers” to help us through school. Then we (black men) gotta hear about how positive and strong they are. How independant they are and how they don’t need a man to begin with. Hell how can a brother feel good about himself with her after she took every opportunity to tell him that it’s because of her that he’s anything at all.

When you see brothers in the mall or about town with their women, you’re right, there is no since of pride or air about them. Why do so many looked emotionallu drained and beatdown? Why don’t they look as happy as those with women of other races? Probably because their happy. Happy not having to compete for props. Not having to constantly live up to the standards of the black woman. Any brother who openly dates outside his race has already come to the conclusion that he can’t live up to the “ideas” of what he suppose to be in a sister’s eyes and dates who he wants, caring less for what they think.

It just seems to me that sisters aren’t being real when it comes to the issue. treat your man good, and he’ll probably be happy to be with you. Make him think that it’s his obligation to deal with your mess and he’ll opt out or sneak out of the relationships. I’m a man and I can assure you that there is no “Don’t like black women” drives in the community. Sisters dig there own holes, and negative stereotypes and we suppose to just look past it.

Sorta like the exception with white people and the “n-word”. Brothers can say it, but when they (whites) do, then we want to riot. WE ALL know that’s a double-standard, but other than comedians, we never hold our feet to the furnace over it. This is another one of those issues. Sister’s ruining brothers for themselves and others sisters, then getting upset if they leave the race. In Halle’s case, she should be in the same boat as the brothers, or thrown overboard with the others.

“I think Halle being beautiful is not only because of her physical appearance, but she seems like a good person, you can’t put make-up and hair weave on a persons spirit, that has to shine from within.”

I’m the opposite. I think she’s (Halle) beautiful (not so much with all that hair), but she has no substance. Naomi C. may have “attitude”, but at least she has a personality/substance IMO.
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“Jamie Fox even said that she is the only person in show business that he has ever seen that looks even better in person then what they do on t.v.”

Jamie will say anything to get in a females pants, so this isn’t saying much.

Yeah yeah she’s pregnant good for her….it’s gonna be a pretty baby but w/e Oprah had Superhead on her show.

ewwwww for two seconds I had a crush on her co-star Benicio when he was in Sin City *shrugs*.

If you’re gonna be in a committed relationship then fine…..that’s what marriage is supposed to be except it’s legalized by PAPER.

She don’t lose cool points for not getting married and it’s not like people should get any for being married….humans are the only ones so stuck on getting married and the institution of what marriage is supposed to be.

Saprise

If the Bible doesn’t change, then why can’t we have ten thousand wives like Solomon? Wasn’t Jesus techanically born out of wedlock? Also, who wrote the Bible and who was St. Agustus and what contributions did he make to the Bible? I believe he was the pervert who made everything sexual an abomination in the Bible, but I could be wrong. Lastly, what were women’s roles then as oppose to women’s roles now? And if all laws and rules apply, why do so many dam the condemned? Jesus said “He that is without sin cast the first stone.” There was a reason he said that, because all have sinned and come short of the mercy of God. He then asked where were her (the biblical Supahead) judges, and since there were none to be found he instructed her to go in peace and sin no more. We still have judges thtrowing stones, be it in favor of marriage or not, for white women/men and against them, for having a baby out of wedlock and not.

@ dropkick

what do you mean black women should treat there men right and they will be happy? what about them treating each other right? a relationship does’nt work one way ! black men can’t expect to be teated like kings if they are not treating there women like queens ! just like black men who date white women like to point out all the negative things about blackwomen,but what about all the not so good things we can say about black men ,not all of them of course,but i can be ignorant and generalize all black men and say they are dead beat dads,drug dealers,serial cheaters,disrespectful and uneducated the same way these men point out and generalize that all black women are loud, ignorant,and have bad attitudes, but no you don’t see us saying all black men ain’t worth shit, but for some reason when the shoe is on the other foot we don’t get the same benefit of the doubt with our men.

Is Halle a Christian? If not , then I doubt if she feels that she’s committing a sin.
How many people here were born out of wedlock or who have parents that are divorced right now?
I concur #67.
Gabriel is hot.
Halle looks good.
I guess #77 just cancelled Halle’s “black” membership, LOL.
Light skin, Dark skin, whatever-we are all people.

Last time I checked we were entitled to our opinions. If we don’t think Halle Berry is attractive, then so be it. If we think that Ms. Berry is average, that is our opinion. If we Not everyones’ thoughts fall from the same tree.

At this rate, we should just all be communists.

so what halle berry’s pregnant big freaking deal.

Halle is not special . smh . I’m in total disbelief that some of you wrote long ass post about other ppl’s opinions of her . Everyone will not like her ,deal with it . I hope she finds the happiness she’s been searching for . One word of advice Halle, If the baby don’t bring you happiness you can’t put it back . Yes I said it . I dont even think she’s happy with herself but hey , thats just my opinion but Good luck !

@ sexydiva I totally agree . that’s a damn shame too !! People won’t say what the want to because it’s halle . some of you sound pathetic as shit on here arguing with any and everybody because they aren’t saying positive things about her . So what, she’s had failed relationships so have I and many other women I dont want a damn pity party !

Misunderstood,

Girl I was about to jump into my own ass, until I re-read my post and rtead what IU wrote. which was, “treat your man good, and he’ll probably be happy to be with you.”

I don’t think that’s anything new. It’s called the golden rule. For a minute I thought I said something foolish like “Black women don’t treat there men right.” Glad to see that is not the case. Guess I was misunderstood.

But thanks Hon.

Halle want her baby to be as White as possible, so that is why she tryed so hard to have a baby by a white guy. I very much doubt the relationship will last. Doesn’t sound convincing enough for me.

I’m happy for Halle, but I know I’m not the only one expecting tragedy to fall. The woman has a bad track record. Every man she gets with is the most wonderfulist thing in the world until something happens. I do wish her the best. Everyone deserves a little happiness.

And is it just me, or is anyone else tired of Oprah marriage bashing? Was I the only one that heard her say, that marriage-less relationship was the “new direction America was going.” Just because you decided to forgo your dream of marriage and children, Oprah, doesn’t mean that it is or should be the direction that America should be taking.

@Dropkick good point but that is Halle, she cant do any wrong. lmao . Polow da don was a bad example but I see where you were getting at . Reggie Bush, Taye diggs, and a few I cant name off the top of my head , catch the heat on here . like someone said before it hypocrisy but as you can see a lot of ppl will find a way to explain why they are so happy for Halle.

I’m a mixed black woman like Halle bi-racial and I think that black men have been dating outside their race for years. No one has sad anything negative about it. Why would someone want to say something negative about Halle and Gabriel yes Halle’s
boyfriend and baby’s father is white, that’s not important, what is important is the love
that they feel for one another. It created something beautiful a baby. I agree with Cinderella that baby has no choice but to be gorgeous both parents are supermodel
attractive. Some black men don’t like black women, but they will date me. Why? They would think i’m exceptable because i’m mixed not a good way to think. I do think that love is where you find it. So, some black women have started to do what the black man has done for years. I know you are thinking men of other races don’t find black women attractive. They do, all types of men approach me. Don’t be closed minded you may miss your chance at love.

There’s no need for any debate, in my opinion, because this whole scenario was and is so damn predictable. Brothers have to understand that the majority of the sisters that do go with the white man, especially in entertainment, will do what they have to do to make it work. The pressure is on the sisters to make it work and see the best in their white man at all times because they have bad-mouthed, encapsulated, and denigrated any and every bad experience that she has ever had with every black man from infancy to adulthood because her mind was trained against black men and most black men have been trained to not use their minds. Remember that, for the most part, when the black woman has decide to cross over, it’s usually because she’s finished with the black man in every way. This is what Serena Williams was alluding to when her confession, and the confession of damn near every famous black woman, was leaked about one year ago. You’re not going to hear Halle Berry or these other women bad-mouth black men, in public, because it would expose them more than it could hurt the black man. The black man has already destroyed himself. When brothers like Wesley Snipes or Polow Da Don appear to badmouth the black woman in public it shows that they are frustrated at their inability to discipline themselves because these sisters only conduct themselves a certain way because they can. Brothers don’t really stand for anything anymore so of course there isn’t going to be any respect there.

In regards to “childbearing out of wedlock” it always amazes me what biblical laws or statutes people choose to uphold as opposed to the ones that they decide were for “back then” (Malachi 3:13-15, Rom 15:4). It even more amazes me what biblical laws people will absolutely fabricate because there is absolutely no such thing as pre-marital sex or child-bearing out of wedlock (Mark 7:6,7). Our people dealt with order, for the most part, back then so there was an organized way in which the sisters were courted and the marriage ceremonies and procedures were carried out. When a man has intercourse with a woman she becomes his wife ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE (Gen 24:67, Ex 22:16,17, Deut 21:13, Deut 22:13-19,28,29). There is nowhere in the scriptures where pre-marital sex is mentioned in and of itself because a phenomenon like that didn’t and still doesn’t exist. It was known as whoring or whoremongering. If a man engaged in intercourse with a woman prior to the official marriage ceremony, i.e. Joseph and Mary, she became your wife (Gen 2:24, Matt 19:4-6, etc.). If a man has wanton “casual sex” with numerous women he is a whoremonger (Eph 5:5, I Tim 1:10, Heb 13:4, Rev 21:8, Rev 22:15). If a woman has wanton casual sex with numerous men she is a whore (Lev 19:29, Lev 21:7, Lev 21:9, Prov 23:27, Ezek 16:25, Amos 7:17, etc.). Simple as that. The confusion comes because people are trying to qualify the Word of the Lord with this society (I Cor 10:21). If you have a problem with people having children before a marriage ceremony, that’s your own personal beef, and you have a right to it, but it is not biblical.

well,dropkick we know thats not always the case, just because you “treat you’re man good” does’nt mean he’ll be happy enough with you to treat you with the same amount of love,respect and admiration i wish it was that simply ! prime example my mother a very submissive(black woman) cooked,cleaned let my dad be the man of the house, never belittled him, showed him the up most respect and guess what he still was’nt happy! my point is you can’t have a happy relationship unless both parties play there part.some black men need to take responsibility also in relationships why are some black women not happy in there relationships with there men what’s there reason’s for having attitudes obviously both parties are not doing something right!

#119 SAY THAT!!!!!!!

And, Judah, that was some real azz stuff you just said (2nd paragraph) about things being biblical. The church makes a huge deal out of fornication and rightfully so…but it’s interesting how there wasn’t a huge amount of talk about that in the bible. Like you said, either you became sombody’s wife/hubby or you were a whore, flat out. I’ve always wondered about that but never had the time to really ponder it. Interesting…

Adding to my last post… Just thinking about it…that was EXACTLY the case with Adam & Eve. I dont recall God perfoming a marriage “ceremony” with them. They did what they did and they were considered husband and wife. No white dress, flowers, or cake. lol

Melanie,

My point is they DO say something about it! On here all day everyday. Trust me, I’ve seen it and wonder why. Love IS where you find it and I believe it trancends color lines. I lived in Germany for almost five years. At first, sisters were acting all stuck up like they did in America (mostly Amercan girls), but once a brother stated dating Latinas, Brits and Germans (some were black, some were white), the sisters started coming in groves. Some had even said that they saw me with a “white” girl and didn’t like it. I had come to find out that many of them wanted me to run an extra mile or take an extra step to date them, but when I didn’t they came to me rather than let me look happy with anyone of a different race. What blew it for me personally, was the fact that although we sized up well in the bedroom, many could not identify with the Black struggle, particularly in America, because of course, they weren’t America. So on civil rights issues, I was speaking a different language, literally. So, it was a trun off to some point that some didn’t know what I had come from, and naturally I thought they couldn’t assist me in getting to where I needed to go. After returning to America, it felt good to know that black women I dated actually identified with me better and therefore made the relationships better. Needless to say, I married a black woman and have children. When I explore my thoughts as to what I personally find attractive in sisters, I would have to say their bodies. Not discounting their minds (we know how brilliant they can be), but black women have bodies like they made it up. Not just talking in a sexual way either. The way they look in clothes. Their shades. The fact she can hair like India today and Beyonce tomorrow is like getting more than one woman. I like the way my girl calls me her “n*gga” when we’re playing around (I know it’s corny), but no other race can say it to me without me second looking at her ass.. Even if you get a stacked white girl or latina, her assets are still compared to a sister. Plus, I can’t speak for no other, but black love is a MoFo and looks and feels good. I want my sons to consider black women first, but I won’t limited their view, should they decide to go in other directions. Besides, I’ved worked hard enough to place them in schools where they interact with other races, far more than the one white guy I went to school with and the two mexican kids I remember. Naturally, they have been attracted to latinas and phillipinos, because that’s what approaches them, bt we will see.

When a black woman loves you, man that feels good, but when she hates you, Lord have mercy.

As far as others wanting our women, what’s new? The fact that they can be with a black woman and be spare from the “I’m the reason you’re successful” speech probably appeals to them the way it appeals to brothers when dating other ethnicities. Sisters don’t say sh*t like that to white men, because they’ll only firing back with, “I’m the reason your ass is in this country to begin with.” and they’ll shut up. But brothers can’t have success with blackwomen claiming the credit as a way to elevate herself and put him down. Even if a brother never deals with a sister, while making his mark, they’ll say…”Well, wasn’t your momma a black woman?” Wutever?

I think it’s pathetic that a black man needs a women to make him feel any kind of way, he should feel these things about himself regardless. Please give me a break. nothing but poor excuses.

@ halcyonc

Can I just say you make me laugh. I was looking at some of CL’s posts from a while ago and one thing never fails, and that’s YOU on this site hating on HALLE. I call you a HATER not because of your dislike, but because your screen name is constant on being in a post about her talking crazy. If you don’t like her then fine, but why continue to go out your way to talk crazy about someone you don’t know? I’ll never get that. Halle bothers you that much? lol! I swear if some of you people could get anymore pathetic. Some of you sound a little too bitter for your own good.smh

All of you on here talking crazy, please remember that you are on here commenting about her life, she’s not somewhere talking about you. To the people that keep bringing up the fact that she is bi-racial, you folks need to cut that out. If people didn’t know her mom was white, then you wouldn’t even know that woman is mixed.
Please get over it already. Someone said she was on Oprah to just talk about her pregnancy, that’s not true, she was on Oprah to talk about her movie coming out. I’m mean at least get the facts strait. The sad part is she actually seems like a nice person trying to live her life, and people will find anything to nitpick on, I don’t see how she puts up with it. smh

and @ TAMMY #111

What’s also pathetic is you skimming through the post to find whatever negative post you can to agree with about this woman. Just come out and say you don’t like her, and get it off your chest. lol! You act like you commenting on people that don’t chose to bash Halle is any better then people that are on here commenting towards others that are bashing her. Like someone said by a few of you not caring for her or finding her ‘average looking’ i’m sure she’s not losing any sleep. Oh well.

@ 124 lmao ! I cosigned one person and believe it or not her post wasn’t even negative towards Halle . Damn, reading is fundamental . If Halle aint losing sleep why the hell are you ?? lmao . I will say what ever I want to and you cant do shit about it . You couldn’t find anything better to say to me ? How can I like or not like someone I dont even know ?? that’s what’s wrong with some of you delusional ass ppl on here . I’m gonna have my opinion just like you have yours . Im not attacking anyone because they dont agree with me like so many others on here , yes you would be one of them . Thank you for helping my point . lmao

If you’re not with a person to make you feel good, then why be with them? If not to feel good emotionally, physically, whatever.

It’s like being religious, but not needing God. Being hungry but not needing food. Having an opinion and not being able to express it. On second thought, who gives a dam what you think? How pathetics is it that you’re STILL commenting on what I think? Or that your still replying to me when I’ve already told you on other posts where the f*ck to go! Get off my CYBER NUTS! And you know who you are.

Halle looks absolutely great. I am shocked, but happy she is pregnant. Im sure with both the parents good looks the baby will be beautiful.

Mad ppl have something to say about her not getting married again anytime soon if at all. I have no feelings towards her decision for several reasons.

1. its her life
2. she had two horrible marriages
3. her and her boo are content with the set up they have so why mess it up
4. its 2007 if more ppl chilled out and tried to connect with each other through mind, body and soul before running to the alter we would have less divorces.

TAMMY said:

“Halle is not special . smh . I’m in total disbelief that some of you wrote long ass post about other ppl’s opinions of her . Everyone will not like her ,deal with it . I hope she finds the happiness she’s been searching for . One word of advice Halle, If the baby don’t bring you happiness you can’t put it back . Yes I said it . I dont even think she’s happy with herself but hey , thats just my opinion but Good luck” !

@ “sexydiva I totally agree . that’s a damn shame too !! People won’t say what the want to because it’s halle . some of you sound pathetic as shit on here arguing with any and everybody because they aren’t saying positive things about her . So what, she’s had failed relationships so have I and many other women I dont want a damn pity party “!

“@Dropkick good point but that is Halle, she cant do any wrong. lmao . Polow da don was a bad example but I see where you were getting at . Reggie Bush, Taye diggs, and a few I cant name off the top of my head , catch the heat on here . like someone said before it hypocrisy but as you can see a lot of ppl will find a way to explain why they are so happy for Halle”.

@ TAMMY #125,

Apparently reading isn’t too fundamental for you. lol! Maybe you should take time out to read your own post. If Halle is not ’special’ then why are you taking time out of your day to give meaningless opinions? Exactly. You are on here accusing others of being ‘delusional’ and ‘pathetic’ for not wanting to bash the woman, not realizing that you are sounding the same way. If people chose to think that ‘Halle does no wrong’ as you like to put it, how would that affect you? I bet you if all the comments towards Halle were negative you wouldn’t have anything to say. I usually just read the comments, I don’t comment all the time but I find it more then hilarious that some of you people are on here accusing others for something you are guilty of as well. I’m not attacking you, just stating that you look about the same you are accusing others of looking that’s all. It’s apparent you must be losing the most sleep considering that you have posted quiet a bit over someone that is not ’special’. You must have been waiting right by the post because your post is right under mine. lol!! I don’t know, if I don’t care for a celeb I don’t even waste my time posting on them, but thats just me. Just like you have the right to voice your opinion on a post, so does everyone else. What I had to say was simple and strait to the point, you can take it how you want to. Good bye. smh

@CMEEZ

That’s because in this society, they make big things out of little things, and little things out of big things (Matt 23:23-33). The deception that the Lord has allowed Satan to put on the people is that most of these pastors and reverends are the Pharisees of the scriptures. They don’t really believe in Christ, they claim Christ because they need him for their hustle (Mic 3:11, Zech 11:4,5). They know that the people don’t know anything, and the pastors themselves rarely know anything, so it allows them to create their own way to worship the Most High (Jer 3:15, Ezek 34:1-8, Luke 6:39). All this fluff about the “sanctity of marriage” and the likelihood is that people will get divorced because they worship the ceremonial ACT and not the mental and spiritual commitment. Everything in America is about big business and marriage is no different. I mean, the Bible says that you’re not supposed to cohabit or marry someone of another race but people choose not to make that an issue. Whatever.

WHAT THE FUCK?
Let Halle live.
The one thing we do know….all you muthafuckas on here writing about her pro and con…she don’t hear you and don’t give a damn. It is truly sad that many folks spend their lives on these blogs caught up in reality TV and celebrity worship. I don’t see any of the usual radical Christians on here quoting that scripture about worshiping false idols…maybe because if they were all that biblical, they wouldn’t be spending their time on a GOSSIP site.

Judah

How many races of people are there? And are you quoting the KJV, written by Shakespear for King James? In that book is there anything about false prophets and how we could recognize them? Also, if marriage is “the Godly “thing to do, why didn’t Jesus get married, to show us the right way to be, since he was demostrating everything else for mankind. I mean I’ve heard preacher say he was perfect and aside from dying for our sins, he apparently lived a sin free life. If marriage was ordained, why didn’t he, let’s say marry those last three years of his life? Was he a virgin? I mean he had been preaching since age 12, so surely could have made alittle time for love. He is in fact the definition?

I personally don’t think marriage (the way it is being presnted in this age) was meant to be uised as a way to validate holiness. If that’s the case nuns should marry priest. I agree that men, who slept with women back then made them their wives. In the case of Jacob, who worked for years to marry the youngest sister, but in turn had to marry the two older sisters first, that certainly wasn’t traditional. Or Solomon. Didn’t Abraham hook up with his wife’s friend (maiden) to have a son? In fact his wife (Sarah) hooked it up didn’t she? Who did Caine and Able sleep with? Didn’t it have to be their sister? Or Noah’s grandkids, who did they marry?

Something is fishy about this marriage thing. That’s all I’m saying.

“…the bible says that youre not supposed to cohabit or marry someone of another race…”
-Judah.

Ephesians 2:19-22
Check it out.

Maybe my intepretation is off. Can someone simplify

Eph 2:19-22

19 So now you Gentiles are no longer strangers and foreigners. You are citizens along with all of God’s holy people. You are members of God’s family.

20 We are his house, built on the foundation of the apostles and the prophets. And the cornerstone is Christ Jesus himself.

21 We who believe are carefully joined together, becoming a holy temple for the Lord.

22 Through him you Gentiles are also joined together as part of this dwelling where God lives by his Spirit.

#133

In a nutshell it simple means that the people, in Gods eyes, are viewed the same and that we should come together in order to build his kingdom. There is no seperatism if we are all working towards the same purpose. Unity is essential for this.

In regards to marrying or being with someone of another race Numbers 12 would be a more defining scripture reading.

Didn’t see it there either. Maybe it’s left to interpretation because other than the human race, how many other races for us to marry? And since we all fall under that unbrella, where’s the sin. All women are essentially built the same, although sizes and shapes vary, but maybe this applied when GIANTS like (Goliath) roamed the earth, or when prehistoric, ape-like creatures co-habitated the land. I can see why God wouldn’t want us to intergrate in that case, but man and woman? Hard to believe, since the same bible says we all came from Adam and Eve.

Numbers, Chapter 12
001: And Miriam and Aaron spake against Moses because of the Ethiopian woman whom he had married: for he had married an Ethiopian woman.
002: And they said, Hath the LORD indeed spoken only by Moses? hath he not spoken also by us? And the LORD heard it.
003: (Now the man Moses was very meek, above all the men which were upon the face of the earth.)
004: And the LORD spake suddenly unto Moses, and unto Aaron, and unto Miriam, Come out ye three unto the tabernacle of the congregation. And they three came out.
005: And the LORD came down in the pillar of the cloud, and stood in the door of the tabernacle, and called Aaron and Miriam: and they both came forth.
006: And he said, Hear now my words: If there be a prophet among you, I the LORD will make myself known unto him in a vision, and will speak unto him in a dream.
007: My servant Moses is not so, who is faithful in all mine house.
008: With him will I speak mouth to mouth, even apparently, and not in dark speeches; and the similitude of the LORD shall he behold: wherefore then were ye not afraid to speak against my servant Moses?
009: And the anger of the LORD was kindled against them; and he departed.
010: And the cloud departed from off the tabernacle; and, behold, Miriam became leprous, white as snow: and Aaron looked upon Miriam, and, behold, she was leprous.
011: And Aaron said unto Moses, Alas, my lord, I beseech thee, lay not the sin upon us, wherein we have done foolishly, and wherein we have sinned.
012: Let her not be as one dead, of whom the flesh is half consumed when he cometh out of his mother’s womb.
013: And Moses cried unto the LORD, saying, Heal her now, O God, I beseech thee.
014: And the LORD said unto Moses, If her father had but spit in her face, should she not be ashamed seven days? let her be shut out from the camp seven days, and after that let her be received in again.
015: And Miriam was shut out from the camp seven days: and the people journeyed not till Miriam was brought in again.
016: And afterward the people removed from Hazeroth, and pitched in the wilderness of Paran.

as a black man i am happy for halle i aint even offended that she is with a white man because simply i don’t think she is black she is mixed black people always claim someone that makes us look good.

if halle was doing things like super head every black women and men wouldn’t consider her black.

but i don’t understand how some of these people who consider her black aren’t mad that she dated interracial when y’all talked about black men so bad because kim kardasian was on the cover of that mag.

its extremely hypocritical to me also what is hypocritical how halle gets a pass for having a child out of wedlock but y’all talked down on Monica so much for it i don’t understand that i really don’t if its good for halle why not Monica she probably is just as rich as halle.

so it aint like her baby is going to be struggling this site really makes me realize just how much i don’t understand women.

Dropkick you’re right
Technically we are all the same race-at least the same species. A white man and an black mans penis has the same function. So does a white woman’s and black woman’s vagina. We can procreate with each other so I don’t understand how that’s a sin if God wants us to be “fruitful”. The way I see it is that the only thing that truely seperates us is our social preconditioning and how we interpret each other.

still gorgeous at 40!!!

Black people do not need to CLAIM anybody. We already have beautiful Black actresses who are doing their thing (Gabrielle, Sanaa, Angela who did her thing in Tina Turner, Nia, and others). Halle defined herself as that. The Black community did not force her to define herself as a Black woman. And real talk I would have never known Halle was a mixed person who had a white mother if I would have saw her walking down the street. And it does not matter if she had a white mother or not, that’s not a reason to justify the reason why it is cool for her to be with a white man. The reason it is justifiable is because she is human and people can date whoever they want to. Love is love and it does not discriminate by race or color.

@ 128 Damn, Halle is that you girl ? when I say “delusional” I’m speaking about people on this blog including you who get upset when someone’s opinion of Halle don’t agree with yours , like she’s your family member or something .lol Yes, that would be a delusion sweetie . It’s also pathetic how many posters wrote long paragraphs towards others about their opinions .. I said she’s not “special” b/c again you and all of the other stans go on attack when some one say something against what you think of her . meaning she’s not above getting criticism every other celeb on this blog does why not Halle ? Understand now ? Lol . Nothing halle or any other celeb does affect me . This is a gossip blog incase you forgot . Like I told you before I can say what ever I want, about who ever I want and you cant do shit about it ..lol. Stick to the topic which is Halle stop wasting paragraphs on me .. I feel special ..lol Im wondering how does it affect you being you felt the need to address me ?? lmao gtfoh !! Please tell me how have I attacked any poster here ? I read all of the comments and stated the obvious . People were arguing back and forth and being upset about others ppls thoughts . Read the comments for yourself and see, It‘s not like I just came in this post writing up shit for no reason . I always read all the comments before posting . You address me, out of all the post, mines !! lol . I must have hit a nerve . All that other filler shit you typed is not even worth addressing , I take it you didn’t have shit worthy of saying so you added that . Lmao

How many times you people gonna plead and beg for Halle to get married??? DAMN!!

She aint getting married, she aint getting married, she aint getting married, she aint getting married, she aint getting married, she aint getting married, SHE AINT GETTING MARRIED!!!!!! Damn, shut the hell up. I dont even care for Halle like that but yall driving me nuts. Halle dont want to give mariage another f*cking shot, so just drop it. Its her got damn life and she will pay for whatever sins she has made when her time has come and its judgement day, just like you, just like me.

I’m happy for Halle and I hope nothing goes wrong with her pregnancy.

As for those that think Halle is committing a so-called sin by not getting married (which, by the way, means nothing more than going through a civil ceremony), I wonder how many sins would be uncovered if a spotlight was shone on your life?

@136 It’s just ignorance that’s all.

Awww, baby bump! I never want kids in my life, but I find baby bumps so adorable! But wow, she took 35 pregnancy tests? Why the heck did it take so long to get a positive??

@Shannon75

Let it be known that I don’t like to strive over the Word of the Lord with anyone, but you need to be taught (Job 6:24-26, II Tim 2:14). Before anything else sis; in order for you to teach, which the scriptures say that you are NOT supposed to do, (Num 27:16, Prov 8:4, I Cor 14:34,35, I Tim 2:12-14, etc,) you should know and understand what you’re reading. You obviously do not understand, you were not called, or you’ve been mistaught (Prov 26:7, Jer 23:16-22). You will only damage yourself because lack of knowledge is forcing you to lie on the Word of the Lord and what it says. That sin is one that Christ says he will not forgive (Matt 12:31,32, I John 5:16).

Then you ran and took numbers 12th chapter completely out of context. The Lord allowed Moses to marry the Midianite woman because there were no Israelite women when Moses fled from Egypt into the wilderness (Ex 2:15-22). The Lord also allowed Boaz to intermarry with Ruth because she was the carrier of Obed, the grandfather of David. Whenever you see the Lord allow interracial marriage in the scripture, it’s an extreme exception that will play out later on. If that’s not the case, why did the Lord stipulate in his law that we were not supposed to intermarry with the other races (Deut 7:3). Go ahead and condemn yourself and say that the Lord changed his mind or some madness like that (Malachi 3:6, Isa 46:8-10, Eph 1:4,5, Heb 6:18, Heb 13:8, etc.).

Now if the Lord wants “unity”, why did he divide the nations in the first place (Gen 11:1-9, Deut 32:8). You need to be taught sis, lol. Stop trying to be proud. Christ himself said that he is coming back to bring division (Matt 10:34, Matt 25:31, Luke 12:51, etc.) and to rule the other nations (races) with a rod of iron (Num 24:17-19, Psa 2:7-9, Rev 2:25-28

1) Ephesians 2:19-22 is not talking about all races so stop the madness. When you read Ephesians 1:1, Paul lets us know that the epistle is written to the saints that dwell at Ephesus. The saints are the Israelites (Deut 33:2, Psa 50:5, Psa 148:14). Ephesians 2:11,12 tells us that they were “Gentiles in the flesh” because they were scattered Israelites from the various captivities and wars that had started to keep the customs of the other races (Psa 106:34-47). Verse 12 tells us that they were “alienated from the ‘commonwealth’” (land mass) of Israel because their ancestors were taken out as captives and slaves. You must know history and the Old Testament to understand Paul’s epistles. This is where the Christian church flounders (Matt 22:29). Paul himself said that his hope was for the ISRAELITES (Acts 26:6,7, Acts 28:20, Rom 9:3-5) Let’s get this understood, the Bible from start to finish is a saga concerning God’s Chosen race of people, the Israelites (Ex 19:5,6, Psa 147:19,20, Amos 3:1, Matt 15:24). You should know better because, by your own admission, your pastor is dividing your congregation with his white supremacist rhetoric. Once again, stop trying to teach until you learn.

One thing that is IRREFUTABLE is that, according to the Bible, the Lord tells us that the Israelites were and are his chosen and ABOVE all the other races (Deut 7:6, Deut 14:2, Isa 44:1, Rev 21:12, ad infinitum).

Now sis, if you can explain and juxtapose my scriptures in the context of the entire Bible like I have yours, then I need your email address because I need you to teach me.

@Dropkick

Brother, you ask good questions, which is good. You’re inquisitive, which is also good but you have to understand that most of these people that claim the Most High and Christ do not know what the hell they’re talking about but they’re intent on maintaining the confusion that you have because misery loves company (Matt 23:13).

First off, and I’ve heard this so many times (lol), Shakespeare did not “write” the Bible for King James. He wrote numerous sonnets to be played in King James’s court and he did translate some psalms for King James but he did not write the Bible. That is a lie. Both Sakespeare and King James were black men by the way, but that’s a whole other historical debate. If you want to read about the different races and their origin, read Genesis 10th chapter. You ask too many questions to anwser all at once. You can leave your email and I’ll expound on everything I’ve said here if you need that. Christ explains why he never dealt with a woman in a parable in Matthew (Matt 19:10-12). He sanctified himself. You’ll notice when you read the scriptures that most of the great men fell because they could not control their appetite for women. In regards to your question concerning the wives, men had multiple wives (Deut 21:15).

Adam and Eve were not the first people but that is a whole other topic but it explains who Cain and Abel married, which the churches cannot explain.

If you want to read some scriptures on false prophets and how to spot them, here you go (Deut 13:1-5, Deut 18:20-22, Isa 56:10,11, Jer 8:11, Jer 23:9-32, Ezek 14:9,10, Mic 3:11, Zech 11:4,5, Matt 23:1-33, Rom 16:17,18, II Pet 2:1-3, I John 4:1-3, etc.)

@140

I’m lmao at you right now because you are on here posting as if your life depended on it, talking about everyone else writing paragraphs, yet you are doing the same. Please get over it now. I’d rather see their paragraphs in one post then you posting hella times about a bunch of nothing. As far as being mad, child please. Like you stated this is a blog site and as someone that doesn’t post much I am simply stating the obvious, which is you look stupid telling others what they are and you are doing the same thing. I’m not sure what part of that you don’t understand. What is sad is you people on here mad at people that don’t care to join in on your steady bashing on this woman’s life. Talking about what she needs to do with her relationship when you probably don’t have a man your self. Some people even went as far as to quote scriptures from the bible. wtf?

It’s apparent that I have struck a nerve with you because you are back ranting, cursing and caring on, if you didn’t care you wouldn’t have even posted. The same way others are ‘delusional’ because they have good things to say about Halle, you are just as ‘delusional’ talking about others and on here talking about her life as if she cares. I stay lmao at some of you. It’s almost like some of you like arguing with people. I come here like everyone else, to check out the site and I like the fashion, but some of you stay on here always having something to say about someone else’s personal business. You don’t talk about their art, but always in their life. smh. Trust that you look the most pathetic by passers by. I love how you tried to flip the script on me and others, when you’re the one that’s the all around mess. You’re asking me am I Halle Berry, i’m starting to wonder if you’re Eric Benet. lmao! This is my last time posting towards you, hopefully you can find a life somewhere and quit trying to talk about what that woman needs to do with hers. If you want to sit around the computer all day and rant about people having a baby out of wedlock, by all means continue, don’t let me rain on your parade. I truly hope for your sake that you’re not grown doing this, because if so that’s really sad. lol! Good luck with that because i’m done. smh

@ 146 lmao That’s the best you could come up with ?? You couldn’t say anything about nothing I wrote b/c it was all on point . Where do you see me writing about a baby out of wedlock ?? where ?? please quote me on that . lol .Where do you see me saying what Halle need to do with her life ?? where ? please , quote me on that ?? lmao . Your whole post was worthless and said a bunch of nothing . Please, im not ranting this is pure entertainmet to me . lmao .Sit your ass down somewhere and holla at me when you have something to say . You wrote me a book about nothing but why you come on here and what you suspect of my life . that’s some pathetic shit there. lol. The things that you did speak about concerning Halle I never even said them .lmao Damn, but you’re laughing at me ?? lmaooo GTFOH!! Again Im not responding to that filler shit you wrote , this post isn’t about me so why are you concerned with my age and what I do all day ? you are responding to me ,matter of fact you addressed me ,but I want to argue ?? lmao ..What a jackass !!

@ 146 If you read instead of trying to get an award for stan of the year , you would see the scripture were posted saying you don’t have to have a ceremony to become married , that would be in the favor of Halle’s decision to not marry . Just dumb for no reason .lol

You go Halle! You are fine, 41, fit and RICH! If you want a baby go for it! I know the baby will be gorgeous with Halle and Gabe being so beautiful and it’s not a racial/color thang either! If this is the man Halle chose to have a baby with more power to her regardless of his race. Apparently Halle felt the timing was right and this is the man she chooses to be the father of her child and if he makes her happy so be it!

yeah, i’m darkskin so what?

the only reason halle crosses boundaries is because she is mixed and not too dark. for as long as i’ve been around there has never been a darkskin woman with broad features that both blacks and whites can agree on.