Who cares.

Wow!!!!!!

Usher man up because I’mma need both of these women to sit down!!! We do not need to be hearing about the wife and mom acting stupid over you and your career on a daily!

Usher please listen to your mother.

Obviously you do since you took the time to comment. (@ #1)

Tameka is the devil! No one is feeling Usher anymore. LOL

Usher is a grown man, he’s also young, he will learn.

Like I said in a previous post. Someone can only do to you, what YOU let them. Usher apparently wants this, so don’t blame Tameka. They made this decision as man & wife. Mama Patton needs to butt out & let her son (as a man…a married man at that) run his own life. As much as she (and quite a few of you) hate to admit, he is now has hisOWN family. One that he (along with his wife) have to make decisions about for their well-being.

Usher!! whats wrong with you! you need to put ur girl in check and listen to your mama!

Tameka is a hott ass manly mess lmao….and dumb usher knocked her ass up so even if she did bounce..she’ll get paid TRUST but Usher will learn…wish he was still wit Chilli…that was a good look 4 him

I’m now convinced Usher made a mistake by bringing Tameka into his life.
Looks like a root. Usher, quick- Find some kinda witch doctor or voodoo priestess to get that shyt off of you!
Angel, please post the Essence photo shoot’s video clip. Tameka is obviously the boss in the relationship. Usher actually seems afraid of her!

since the baby is coming and if were the one who was carrying it….you would want the baby’s father to step up and slow down his career….usher can’t have a new cd out and a baby….that would be crazy

I hope Ursher doesn’t regret marrying this gal later on.

@ # 7

Well said.
Damn shame though. I used to love me some Usher.
Now…..not so much.

I’m just gonna say…MOTHER KNOWS BEST…..usher u figure it out.

Mama Usher needs to chill, he’s all grown up now. But seriously, who cares? Next

I wonder if Ursher’s mom was looking at Tomeka in that top right pic… lol. Looks like she was.

YOU ARE RIGHT HE IS A GROWN MAN NOW, BUT WHEN YOU DON’T GET ALONG WITH MAMA THERE IS ALWAYS GOING TO BE DRAMA!
USHER DON’T LOOK HAPPY TO ME AND A WOMAN CAN HAVE YOU DOING THINGS YOU DON’T WANT TO DO TRUST ME MY HUSBAND WAS DOING ALL TYPES OF SHYT B/C OF ME!!!!!!!!!

@ 10. I did post it.

Here is the link: http://concreteloop.com/2...s-for-essence-cover-shoot

Usher is a grown man but he needs to respect his mom, but his career is 4 him to decide.

Usher’s Mom can’t blame Tameka for getting her fired, Usher is a grown man - he has to take responsibility for that. As a mother I understand that it doesn’t matter how old your child is you will still love them and protect them with all of your might. But she has to realize as much as you dislike the woman, she is carrying your grandchild.

Usher needs to really take control of the situation.

I can’t see a women fuckin’ up her man’s money makin ventures ……… not smart ! It’s probably some alpha women shit going on here …… Ush is in the middle !!!!!!!!!

I had a feeling that Usher wouldn’t drop an album this year after Tameka became pregnant. Plus he will have to do a tour to promote the album which will require him to be away from the kid. Being there in the beginning of the child’s life is important but shit Usher is rich, I say build a baby room on his tour bus.

Everybody seems to hate Usher now and not because of his music but because he ain’t marry a supermodel, smh.

USHER’S CAREER IS PRETTY MUCH OVER

WITH THIS LIFESTYLE CHANGE HE WILL NOT SELL ALOT OF RECORDS

HIS POPULARITY HAS DROPPED TREMDOUSLY, HIM SELLING PERFUME AND OWNING A TEAM AND CAUSING CONTROVERSY IS NOT GOING TO HELP HIM EITHER.

A GOOD LOOK FOR HIM SHOULD’VE WENT THIS WAY:

MAKE A HOT ASS CD (WHICH WOULD BE HIS LAST) AND TO PROVE TO OMARION, CHRIS BROWN AND THE WORLD THAT HE STILL GOT IT

DO A WORLD WIDE TOUR (LIKE BEY)

THEN RETIRE AND HAVE A FAMILY

This sounds too weird. Forget the age difference and the fact that she had a few baggages when she met Usher. But, this is crazy. Usher is really not that young and he is mature for his age due to being in the entertainment business. This freakin chick got something on him. Trust. He’s not stupid. There is a deeper reason why he married her like he did and his mother knows.

His mother is speaking from the fact that she use to be his manager. So unlike his wife, she knows the business very well. She is the one whom made Usher the SUPERSTAR. So she had every right to call her daughter-in-law to let her know what she is doing to his carreer not his personal like, its business.

If someone was going to sabotage your carrer and you didn’t know it, wouldn’t you want someone whom loves you let you know?

This isn’t Tameka’s first child. And she is quite too old to be behaving like a 19 year old. She is foul and she know it. The reason why you don’t see her with her other kids is because her ex-husband is not having it. Thats why. He wasn’t going to have her drag their children under the bus. And she know it. So she is trying to control Usher as much as she can. She has something on him. When the time comes it will surface.

Damn Usher! Is Tameka’s pu**y really that powerful???!!!

LMAO at that picture you posted of Tameka

SMH

For this reason a man shall leave his Father and MOTHER and cleave to his wife….. His Mother needs to stay out of his business ….. K-Solo style…
Usher is a man, and his mistakes must be his mistakes!!!!! PERIOD

This a darn shame. Men and women can have a family and a career. Tameka is being selfish and Usher is a fool in love. She is a professional mother, she knows how to have a baby. But then again, I hope she does spend time with her children when the cameras are off. Usher’s mother is looking out for the well being of her child and it is only right. Mothers see what we can’t no matter how old we are.
(Our parents still look out for us even if we don’t want them to.) The mothers and fathers on this site know exactly what I am talking about…..

Tameka is acting like this is her first child, it’s baby #4… Husband #2… Anyway that comes with the territory when you marry a professional athlete, singer, etc.. They are home 30% of the time. NEXT!!!

He has enought money to hire her a nanny, that’s what she’s going to have anyway!! So she can follow him around the world. She was a clingy women before and after she became pregnant.

Tameka, your not a spring chick anymore, Sweetie….

momma patton aint his manager anymore, she just need to fall back and let her son live his life, sometimes ppl have to learn the hard way

dang ! i’d hate to be there on the holidays!

It makes you wanna grab him by the collar and shake him and scream WAKE UP MAN!!!

Craziness.. he’s whipped, bad!! And even if he tried to get out of that marriage, she is gonna make his life hell for that child support and alimony!! Damn shame

I agree #24. I was a BIG Usher fan. I got to meet him backstage in 2004 in D.C. when he was on tour and I had to do everything I could from fainting. But marryin this old washed up man, has really made him lose alot of sex appeal. Not to mention everytime I see them together she looks like the man of the relationship like she runs his life and Usher is a weak punk. Usher has lost a lotta cool points wit me for marrying trash and not listening to mama. Child MAMA KNOWS! Chris Brown has really stole Usher’s spot. I would rather see him with a woman with less baggage, and I agree Chilli and Usher were cute together, but he was so much cuter as a bachelor.

Usher is a grown man, a man that will make his own decisions regardless of what he is told by others. Right or wrong, they are his decisions to make. One thing that I hate that he’s probably doing is creating tension between himself and his mother. One knows that its hard when you are stuck between the mother who gave birth to you and the woman you now call your wife, but I hope he doesn’t make the mistake and pushes his mother away for good. She is the only one who will be there for him when everything else is gone (i.e. money, fame, and most likely, his wife)

He could have avoided this by just doing what everybody else does… announce an album date and then push it back.

I loved Usher but little by little that LOVE is deteriorating..

Speaking as a young (24) married person, there are plenty of relationships where one spouse is in total control (while the other is just following). Tameka is probably the one in charge. However, Usher may just be excited about being a “new daddy” and doesn’t want to miss out on eanything (hence the hiatus from music). With marriage (especially), things can be different from what they seem……..

*correction….anything….lol

COMPLEXNDOPE….I AM SO FEELING YOU.

People need to realize USHER is a married man w/ baby on the baby which makes it a FAMILY. I don’t blame Tameka, he needs to take care of home first and I’m not talking about money wise because we all know he can do that. This is his first child… (that we know of) and HE needs to spend some time with the lil fella. Cause once his album hits its going to be over. You got touring, promotion and all kinds of stuff. Beside don’t give Tameka all the credit for so call “ruining” his career. If Usher didn’t want to do it I pretty sure he wouldn’t.

Im Sorry But I couldn’t live like that… how do u marry someone that ur mother hates… His mother has been his mother forever and tameka im sure has been a man forever… so im sorry 2 say but dude would have 2 go i ride with my fam right or wrong…. cause MOST times ur family will be there no matter what… So losing my mama for ole man face would be out of the picture but ya know i guess thats the difference between him and me..but thats SO disrespectful

that tamika is somthing else and usher you are letting her tear your career down piece by piece when you do decide to release that little cd of yours i hope you still have some fans because i for one, will not be buying that s*hit! i refuse to spend any of my money to help support that gold diggin *itch!!!!!!

Usher couldn’t come out with an album now even if he wanted to…BECAUSE IT WOULDN’T SELL!! No one is feeling him as long as he’s attached to Tameka in any way, shape of form and he knows this.
Usher is in WAY over his head with Tameka, It’s time for some devine intervention!

Wow this Tameka is really painted in a bad light. We really don’t know how she is as a person or what goes on in her and Usher’s private life. But Mama need to back off for real tho. Let Usher off the Tittay now.

Mama should stay out of it and let Usher fall on his face so he can learn on his own. Can’t hold his hand forever let the boy go be glad you got a multi-millionaire for a son!

I’m convinced that Tameka has vodoo Usher! It’s soo out of his character. TAMEKA’S A BOSS!

No one cares, a person can do only what u allow them to

joneta needs to let her son be the fool that he is…he’ll have a britney awakening real soon after about 3 kids with tameka

@ COMPLEXNDOPE…….well said. And like I said, people call her ugly but Usher isn’t that hot in the looks department, people say she has an attitude but Usher is known for being arrogant, she’s a reflection of who HE IS. Whatever this relationship is, a good thing or a disaster, is THEIR problem, it’s TWO GROWN ASS PEOPLE dealing with their own choices….Mama Patton, leave them alone, you can’t do anything about it. No matter how fustrated parents can be, they have to let their children make their decisions. If Usher’s career is ruined don’t blame that on Tameka, that’s Usher’s career and nobody forces him to do anything.

All I can say on this one, is that God brings everything to light and one day, Usher will eventually see what and who Tameka really is. It’s all about her. Her way or the highway. If I was his mom, I would just back down and let the good Lord teach him a lesson. Don’t worry, this will sooner or later bite him in the ass. He’ll be like the prodigal son in the Bible. When all is said and done, only God will have to help him on this one.

Tamika…ure too fuckin old to act this way!ure a grown ass woman!this isnt ur first kid!and wtf u didnt marry a 9-5 worker u married Usherrrrr!a supastar and he needs to work!damnit!
and btw,I dont wanna be mean,but ure not getting younger girlfriend.dont scare the man away,there are plenty of young-hungry-hot ass-chicks around;)

@ #25
That just maybe the case!!! You know I never thought about that.

JONETTA HAS AGED SMH USHER NEEDS HIS ASS WHOOPED

Ya’ll are killing me with the Voodoo. (LMAO)

The Tameka hating is really getting old. USHER loves her whether shes a bitch or not! SO GET OVER IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah, I heard that her ex- husband has custody of the other kids. you know she would probably get some cool points if she incorporated her other kids in thier lives and the wedding and all of that. If you havent noticed Usher ass must not care about her other kids as well because he hasnt said shit about them either. Whenever I look at Usher with Tameka it doesnt even look conviencing, he looks like damn I fucked up… but oh well I need to make the most out of this for PR sake

He’ll learn the hard way.

I understand that usher is tryna do the right thing by supporting Tameka, but he needs to realize that his mom is only looking out for him, because she says that something’s not right about the situation. Just wait until this baby’s born….it’s gonna be even more drama in that family.

* because she sees that something’s not right about the situation

Usher needs to snap out of it - he is old enough to realize that mama does know best sometimes. I think his mama is dead on about Tameka, sad to say. Usher picked the wrong time to rebel and assert his manhood…he’s going to be paying for it dearly for the rest of his life - dayum URSH!

Wow. Mommy’s not playing. I hear that. Usher will soon come to his senses. I wish them all the best of luck. My guess is that Usher will need it the most. A couple of you are saying that he’s in love. I’m not quite to sure about that. I think Usher is more excited than anything else about his baby and fatherhood. But i certainly could be wrong. Its just my observation.

P.s. I’m too damn tired to spell check. so forgive me if there is any.

I know this may be hard for Mama Patton to do…but she needs to let Usher go!!!
He’s a grown man, with a wife, and a baby on the way. He’s not the little boy she helped to become a superstar.
She has to let him go, let him be a man, make his own decisions, and deal with whatever consequences his decisions bring.

I just hope Usher is not letting Tameka destroy his relationship with his mother, because his mother will ALWAYS be is mother. Tameka may or may not always be his wife. You don’t let anybody separate you from your family so they can control you.

awwww i hope they can work through this…i feel sorry for usher.

That’s Usher’s fault….you gotta be aware of a woman that just doesn’t get along with your mother? And yes, mothers can be a mess sometimes but EVERYONE has something negative to say about Tameka including her OWN family, so what’s really good?? Where are her other kids…..can she take time to focus on them so Usher can continue to be her meal ticket and put albums out? I swear, these fertile-myrtle cougars are getting outta control…

@ 7 I agree . Usher is not a child anymore . He can very well make his own choices . She may not like them but she can’t choose for him .

usher is a fool…

So hold on is Tameka supposed to push out his baby and deal with the last few months of pregnancy and all that by herself, whilst he’s flying around promoting an album. The album can wait a few months, how many women out there would want a situation like that for themselves…

Parents are only human and are not always right.. If my parents had each listened to their parents they would never have got married and been able to share a beautiful happy 25yr marriage in which they’ve stuck with each other and worked hard together to get through the hard times and also enjoyed many many happy times..

Maybe Tameka and Usher’s mother are too alike, I know that’s why my grandmother didn’t like my mother.

and let the record show usher married tameka because he wanted a mother…thats a deep statement think about it

His mother has always been his manager and he always called her by her first name…and in a interview once with MTV some time back he said sometimes he finds it hard for him to seperate his mother from his manager

I kinda understand usher’s mom but she cant breastfeed him forever. Both women are being selfish. Momma need to let him go ahead and make mistakes and learn from them. I wouldn’t want to see my son putting the thing he loves on a backburner on behalf of some female.

Wow #69.

I want them all to go away already.

Maybe Usher’s one of those weak men that needed to use a woman strong enough to stand up to his mother so he could stand behind them and use them to escape his mother.

I’m almost totally convinced (95% sure right now) that Tameka has Usher by his BALLS. If I was Usher’s mom I’d tell Tameka she ain’t gonna be pregnant forever….she should get the hint.

SO that baby IS Usher’s? AGAIN I thought she was pregnant this time by her ex-husband? If this baby IS Usher’s and he wants to take a break solely because he wants personal time since it is his first child and all that then that’s wassup but I just hope anyways it’s not because Tameka is trying to control him or ruin his career.

Come on now everyone. This man has a wife and a child on the way. Regardless if we want him to come out with new material right now, he has to take care of family first! ya know? Even if his wife is being selfish, if wifey wants him home………he gone be at the home front!