I CANT WAIT FOR COLLEGE HILL TO PREMIERE. THIS SHOULD BE INTERESTING

DANCING WIT THE STARS IS GOOD THIS SEASON…MEL SHOULD WIN.

Im above cheating the food stamp people at 35 and still living in the hood working minium wage jobs. Lazy ass man that can’t keep a job, laying on the couch always wanting some ass please. And some point in life you have you have to want more for yourself. Im 21yrs old no kids and I got more since than some of these old bitches like Deb. What’s good for you honey ain’t good for me.

And Yes im from the hood, but I want for myself. I can’t stay in the hood. I got to do me, and I meet a man that want to take care of me, best belive I will show initiative
(drive) for you TANF hoes that means yes I can have my man take care of me but I can also take care of myself. No man is perfect, why ya’ll acting like they are I need security that’s why I makes my own cheddar. I don’t need a man telling me who I can have in my house and when and what I can and can’t do Im not 5 years old. Those who have children, hopefully your children will have more since than you. Get you own shyt!

@ #78; baby you are still young and not just in age; it shows in how you speak/write. RELATIONSHIPS, real RELATIONSHIPS are about COMPRIMISE not about control; that’s what it sounds like you are speaking of “control”. No one has the right to tell anyone you have to do this or you have to do that but when you make a decision (any decision) YOU HAVE TO CONSIDER THE OTHER PERSON’S FEELINGS!!!

lissa said…..
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
i hated the fact that his stepdaughter was mad that the kids were saying that she wasn’t his real daughter… it’s the truth aint it??

Uhhh you must didn’t watch the whole episode….Deb never told Angie that Irv was her step father….that’s why she was upset and asked her mother if it was true.

College Hill and Gotti’s Way=ghetto foolishness I can’t bring myself to watch…

I have seen a few clips of DWTS..Mel is tearing it up

Shar..rhymes about Kev and Brit…omg…stfu..he dumped u when u were pregnant…get over it…no need to be spittin verses about the shyt. Other than that..she looks nice.

College Hill was very interesting last night(two shows aired last night)-it looks as if they will be a great cast. But (Jenna:wearing the black) is already on my nerves! She and Marc are heading in the wrong direction already..it’s going to be one of those love/hate relationships. I like Maurice (in the blue cap)from Las Vegas(he ’s cute) and The PK from Jacksonville,N.C.-Spencer…is so “dirty south” it ain’t funny!(he showed up in a bright blue suit,the jacket was the kind that hits you at the calf) Jacksonville is about 20 min. ride from where I grew up in NC.

Kathie/Kathy(the girl with the fade)-is the young lady that’s into girls…she’s so pretty-but I think she may end up getting some” guy action” on the show,she says- she has in the past. Lonnie(wearing the white hat) the big light skin dude might try her!

I haven’t watched DWTS-this season. I wished I had to see Floyd dance,that would have been fun to see.

Shar I think will have a single if nothing else-based on the” buzz”,after the show,where they had to write their (own rap)-she ‘bagged” on Britney just a little-it was pretty good.

(Gotti’s Way)-is pretty good,Monday’s show had me crying (because of the situation that the kids at his daughter’s school created) but I will say KUDOS to Irv for stepping up to the plate,for that young lady-having a daddy means a lot!
Having a father-figure is important,because some young ladies get misguided without the love of a father and your “Daddy” is the one that shapes your mind frame of how a man should beand how a young lady should be treated,if you have the love of your father/daddy then a dude in the street can’t get into your head. You don’t have go seek out the love of a man,cause daddy has already shown it to you..so big-ups to Irv for that!

I gotta chime in on Gotti’s Way…

I’m actually feeling Deb for a few reasons. First, why make it easier for Irv to trick off all his loot on these groupy, gold-diggin hoes? I’m saying, make that fool pay to play! Second, what they are going through happens to everyone, rich or not. There are people that love each other but just can’t live together. I think she would be in the same situation even if they didn’t have all the money. She loves him, period! Women go through hell in the name of love.

DEB irvs wife is doing what she is suppose to she has 3 children!! she is at home taking care of them!! she should not have to work he took care of her from day 1 that was on him!! DONT HATE on her because he helped her become a HOUSE WIFE!! and that job is harder then getting or going to a 9 to 5…. DEB is the BEST THING irv got going right now he better RUN home and ask her to FORGIVE him because the other CHICK’s are going to DOG, TAKE and wont remember his name after!! DEB’s problem is IRV does cheat on her only BECAUSE he can and HE knows it!! if she gets a JOB he cant tell her nothin then! and he will be THREATEN by her more! he controls everything becuase he makes all the $$ so that is why he can COme and GO and call when he wants to because he pays the bills….!! DEB take his money!! and set a plan B up for you and your KIDS {JUST IN CASE} so if daddy leaves you have something to fall back on! DAMN THE REST……..

IRV really showed me what kind of man he is when he was talking and walking with ANGIE his Step daughter i really RESPECT him more because of that! now if he can just stop Disrespecting his WIFE i think GOD will Bless his MUSIC label more. BUT until he gets right with DEB & there children ” MURDER INK” will suffer!!! and not prosper…….

Starry night, you must have family or friends on that welfare check program, because you act as if that shit is the norm for females. Maybe in your neck of the woods but not everywhere. You sound very elitist. That is good if you made a good life for yourself , but some people have made mistakes and need some help from the government. Like mentally ill women who were raped and cannot work and have to get food stamps for their children. Or teens who get pregnant who cannot find gainful employment.

Hill Harper is gay anyway.

I’m inspired by Deb…
I broke up with the father of my 2 children when one of them was an infant. He tried to get physical and he had to go. Now that we don’t live together, we’re cool! BUT he keeps showing up at my house, sleeping on my couch, killing my action, trying to be my friend. Just like Deb and Irv. The only difference is that he’s broke. Can’t pay no child support. I make all the ends meet. I wish that muthasucka did have some money. If I gotta be bothered with his hatin’ ass at least PAY ME!!

Cha-Ching!!!

Shar is very talented, and she will make her mark.

Shar has proven she is able to stand her own ground as a celebrity.

Good luck, Shar!

77 and 78

not looking for a man to take care of you good
try finding a dictionary because the word you keep misusing is sense.
like common sense, street sense, no damn sense at all.

I LOOOOOOVE Gotti’s Way!
I don’t quiet understand why everyone is saying such negative things about Irv’s wife. How can you say a person is “lazy” when you’ve only seen her in ( 2) 30 minute episodes?
Being a mother to 1-2-3 kids with a husband who’s never around is a job in itself. Let’s give her some credit.
I’m glad VH1 decided to include her in Gotti’s Way so she can finally tell her side of the story.
I think the show wouldn’t be as interesting without her.

Against my better judgment I watched the first 10 minutes of Irv’s show. But then I had to turn that shit off when I realized what an airhead his wife is. I’m about tired of seeing dumb ass black women on TV.

LoL @ 88.

dayum i feel asleep lookin at college hill last night. It took a while for the excitement to come, so i dosed off

I think College Hill is ok!! But we really don’t need to see them all trying to sleep with eachother, cause that’s what just about all the college hills are bout! As far as Irv goes, I like his show, but it could use an extra 30mins to it!

# 51 Sexy Black

you sound smart

just make sure you get in writing that your money and credit line helped start you boyfriends’ buisiness so just in case anything goes sour bt you two (anything can happen in life) you are appropriately compensated as an initial investor in his buisness.

get something in writing

get that Co Ceo thing in writing

aint nothing wrong with writing it down

that doesnt mean you dont trust him
that doesnt mean that it aint real love

that just means that you handle your business

much success to you and your boyfriend

shar be switching up them contacts fast!

This season College Hill is going to be good I can just tell from the premiere episode. Jenna and Spencer are already at odds with each other and the show just started.

It’s good to see Shar doing something wit herself and she look so cute in the picture.

I watched DWTS Monday and Tuesday, but that crap come on too many nights. I be channel flipping tryna keep up with it. Imma just have to catch the elimination night or sumthin.

Gotti’s Way is a good show. This week’s show with him and his step daughter was too cute, it showed him in a better light than usual. Luv Salt and Pepa show too.

I like Shar and I think she will go far with her rap career (further than K-Fed). She has a dry wit about her that maybe useful to her, when making the album. I hope she goes for it. She really amazed me at how good of entertainer she was. I am really proud of her for not letting the haters keep her down. Do U Shar! Shar J All Day!!!

Hate all you want hoes, you are the same ones jumping back and forth from baby daddy’s, you get’s so sympathy here. This is a blog not college, so if you want me actually take my time to prof read don’t hold your breathe. Anyway I will take Hill harper “gay” ass over the nicca you have any day. Speaking of tendencies so your thug hero Jay-z aint gay huh sharing his apartment with another man,. Any who you can diss any AA man that is intelligent and spitting that real shit all day all you want. People like you are why most black men stay on the street corner and not go to school cause they don’t want to be perceived as gay. Love Hill to death, and his “gay” ass can still hit it anyway he like. Oh I’m glad I don’t think like you or my mother. Where are the real women at, abnormal people “gold diggers” always trying to bring normal people. If being with a man fo 20 years and not being married and having his baby while he can’t hold down a minimum wage job is for you the so be it.

Speaking of gay why is it that Black people always want to stereotype their own. Why do we always say that Black men who aren’t thugs are gay. Jamie Fox, Usher, Hill Harper, Kanye West and the list goes on. Hell who you really need to be looking at is Chris Brown and Omarion. They pretty than most women. Chris who I personally like is a little pretty boy. So you can say all you want about intellectuals Hill can still pull em. And one of them would be me if I could ever meet him. All intellectual men are Gay Gay gay, yeah right, all intelligent men are not gay, yous a true hood rat for real stop embarrassing yo peoples.

Mel B will win or @ least i hope..she and the cheetah girl are killin it on the show…

starry night

your logic is as flawed as your spelling. what in the sam hill are you talking about?

“people like you are why most black men stay on the street corner and not go to school cause they don’t want to be perceived as gay”

“Where are the real women at, abnormal people “gold diggers” always trying to bring normal people”

“They pretty than most women”

WHAT??????

@43 parks68110

Which one of my statements called her a golddigger? You’re a liar, i never called Irv’s wife a gold digger, but i did call her lazy…please don’t over dramatize what i said because something i said hit home and it hurts your damn feelings….i am calm, so i don’ need to calm down, you’re the one who saw fit to address me, so you calm down. Maybe you’re a lazy bitch, and what i said hurt. And for the record, you don’t know me at all….and i have had men who were willing to pay my way, and still have that opportunity, but my mother didn’t raise any dumb young women and she told me that’s not a good position to be in, but she really didn’t have to say anything cause i’m no dummy and i know that’s like trapping yourself in a corner, to be solely dependent on someone else, you couldn’t move or have anywhere else to go in that corner if you wanted to, sorry, i’d rather have my own, cause having your own equals options, i don’t care how well intentioned the guy may be, i say no thanks…so manty women are unhappy in their situation, but scared to move on cause they don’t know how they are gonna support themselves and their children….it’s nothing to be a housewife, but an unemployable housewife, a housewife with no education and no work experience is just stupid. I don’t know this woman’s education level or work experience….but for the fact she don’t want to move cause she’s scared of how the mortgage would be met show’s me she’s not intending to work anytime soon.

So many women find themselves on the wrong side of life when they man leaves them and they haven’t properly positioned themselves to move on….nobody is telling her to move on…i’m just saying she needs to prepare a cushion for herself just in case he does leave…get something going….them child support checks gone run out, and if i’m correct, she’s hoping for a nice long life…what then? Now when some women fail to prepare properly, then they get mad at the guy and his new wife and how they are living as opposed to her….Irv’s wife should sincerely use this opportunity to find her niche and get a good money making plan going….i know it’s what i would do…..but if you don’t like what i said, then whatever……do you…. my life is a happy one, and i can clearly see my future, and i’ve prepared and still preparing for it…that’s why i can post so definitively…..i have the best intentions when i say to Irv’s wife, prepare yourself for what may be…too bad if you took it some other way, maybe cause your life is fucked….

I swear, people kill me DELIBERATELY taking things you said outta context, cause nobody can be that damn dumb, just so they can feel better about their fucked up life….

@68 STARRYNIGHT

I COSIGN YOUR POST 500% WELL FUCKIN SAID. THERE ARE SOME DELUSIONAL LAZY BITCHES ON THIS SITE TRYING TO JUSTIFY IRV’S WIFE LAZINESS SO THEY CAN FEEL BETTER ABOUT THEIR SLACKIN ASS.

The Irv Gotti show is really weird, he claim to have known his wife’s daughter since she was 11months and he says that he simply adore her then why would he want to change her name now since the show is on, that is something that should’ve been done years ago. I just think he has really fallen off and is trying to get back anyway he can. I heard Ashanti left Murder Inc. Kudos to her if that’s true.

Wonder why Mel B and Eddie Murphy could’nt make it work she look better than Babyface ex?

I watch Gotti’s show and I am confused at how that 15 year old girl (Angie) didn’t know that Gotti wasn’t her real dad? They don’t have the same last name and she looks nothing like her mother, two brothers or Gotti you mean to tell me at 15 she never asked why untill somebody said something at school? Irv’s wife isn’t even fully African American and Irv isn’t African American at all so what did she think? That seemed a little staged to me. But anyways I give him credit for taking care of someone else child some dudes don’t want to take care of their own.

@ # 2

I was pretty much thinking the same thing like “What exactly is ur profession??”…She’s was worrying about not having to pay a mortgage. But I really dnt blame her…why pay it when u know u dnt have to….I love their relationship though and the bond his has with “ALL” of his kids…Gotti is too cute.

Shar is taking the title a little too far.

GO SPICE GIRLS!!!! “Spice World” was my shit in the 5th grade. Baby and Ginger Spice look HELLA DIFFERENT!!!

BOOOO College Hill…This season looks boring from the looks of that cast pic…I’ll probably still watch though.

@ What???

What ?? is the question I should be asking you. I addressed two other ppl. Why you felt the need to put your two cents in I don’t know. You are trying to find an argument where there is none. Since you are a little…..Let me break it down. Debbie is lazy. All Black men who are intelligent and not trying to be a thug are not Gay. I like a certain type of man who is not trying to be all hard and thuggish. So don’t assume because I like Hill Harper that he is gay, no he isn’t thuggish. If is still confusing to you, it’s probably because it had nothing to do with you in the first place.

Shout out to JSCENE!!

more jack a**es exploiting themselves for another make believe dollar sign.REALITY TV SHOULD BE FLUSHED DOWN A TOILET:p

I watched Celebrity Rap SuperStar and Shar J turned it out!! each time she hit the stage she got my votes and I can’t wait untill Shar Album Drop I will be the first one to buy it …

The gurl in the black with the nice weave…WHHOOOOOOO WEEEEEEE… I hope she becomes my next wife.

Shoot, I’ll sleep on her couch.. I would sleep on her bed too. Gotti’s ex or whatever is fine!

actually shar and countess did this for the guy that played hakeem on moesha,he wanted to be a rapper more then a actor so she did this in his memory…..so i aint mad at her…good job shar

starry night
what is confusing is your illogical rants and inability to comprehend and properly use the english language. so you got somebody to post for you GOOD ! at least now we know you have enough ’since’ to ask for help. lol

Hill Harper has NEVER been linked romantically with any woman. It has nothing to do with his intellectual prowess. I applaud that. It is funny that Keith Boykin loves mentioning him in his blogs, though.

I don’t want a thug no more than any other sane woman. All I was saying is that you are calling everyone on here “welfare queens” in so many words just because they are apologetic of Deb. You are very caustic in your speech and all that shows is that you sound very angry for absolutely no reason. You are insulting people’s intelligence for no reason. You are the one stereotyping black females. And I could care less about Jayz, for the record. It is good that you want people to have personal responsibility-all I was getting at is that some people come up hard and need a little damn help.

I knew that I recognized Kathy from somewhere….“Top Model” winner Naima and her twin sister Nia were on a previous episode to talk about their struggle with alcohol and drugs. Kathy was inspired by their story to speak about her own issues with alcoholism for the first time. Kathy said she started drinking when she was 8-years-old and would have a drink every day before school. She said she was so accustomed to the taste of alcohol that it was like water. When Dr. Ablow said she was an alcoholic, Kathy broke down and said she didn’t want that to be a word that defined her. She confessed she needed help and accepted Tyra’s offer of professional assistance….Who else caught this episode?

I knew that I recognized Kathy from somewhere, the Tyra Banks show…“Top Model” winner Naima and her twin sister Nia were on a previous episode to talk about their struggle with alcohol and drugs. Kathy was inspired by their story to speak about her own issues with alcoholism for the first time. Kathy said she started drinking when she was 8-years-old and would have a drink every day before school. She said she was so accustomed to the taste of alcohol that it was like water. When Dr. Ablow said she was an alcoholic, Kathy broke down and said she didn’t want that to be a word that defined her. She confessed she needed help and accepted Tyra’s offer of professional assistance….Did anyone else catch this episode?

“Top Model” winner Naima and her twin sister Nia were on a previous episode to talk about their struggle with alcohol and drugs. Kathy was inspired by their story to speak about her own issues with alcoholism for the first time. Kathy said she started drinking when she was 8-years-old and would have a drink every day before school. She said she was so accustomed to the taste of alcohol that it was like water. When Dr. Ablow said she was an alcoholic, Kathy broke down and said she didn’t want that to be a word that defined her. She confessed she needed help and accepted Tyra’s offer of professional assistance.

My bad…posting the same ish ova and ova!

Well I didnt watch College hill at all last season but this season looks promising! Not to mention MAURICE is fine as hell, why he’s tricking off on ole girl is beyond me though! But let me stop hating cuz I wouldve loved to be in her positon! I hate his name, but thats my own person problem (sigh) Neway the Jenna chick went to school with one of my friends, and despite how she seems on tv, i heard she;s cool. Moving on…

Salt is getting on my nerves but props for living for Christ!

I actually like the Gotti Show, at first I thought I would have no interest in it. But I like hs personality and it truly touched me to see his interaction with this daughter. It reminds me of how I was with my late stepfather.

As corny as it could have been, I really like Shar on the show. SHe really tried and it worked, Im proud of her. I dont know why we rather see people down than up.

And thats my two cents….

#114…you don’t know what you’re talking about. Hill has been linked with tons of women…do your research before you speak.
Keith likes to mention Hill because they both went to Harvard Law around the same time…..get your shit together please.