LORD NOOO please dont let shar make an album

Gotti’s wife seems lazy and just want someone to take care of her….she needs to move on. Look like she’s just home allllllll day.

Ill watch College Hill and Gotti’s way. Dancing with the stars + celeb rap superstar=no. Irv knows damn well that it is cheaper to keep her. From the way she talks on the show she is still interested in getting her marriage back the way it should be, but Irv doesnt seem to want to comply. Hence him sleeping on the couch when he spends the night and him having his own place in the city. Doing it for the kids??

LOVE Mel.

didn’t watch DWTS but I do now to support her.

and ur right.

she kicking ass!!!!

Irv’s Wife’s daughter from a prior relationship looks nothing like her.

I like dancing with the stars, but i missed last night…who went home?

Good luck Shar. I hope she finds her space in the world…don’t know if rap really is it..

I missed college hill, i hope it’s worth watching.

But Gotti’s wife just seems like she don’t ever plan on doing anything for herself, that’s why she don’t want to move…cause she know Gotti is a hoe, and she’s scared her lazy ass gone get stuck holding the bag…but Gotti seems like he’ll always take care of home, even if he’s a big fat stank ass whoring ass negro.

I seriously think Irv and Deb should work it out. I mean come on, when someone cheats on you, that hurts like hell, and I can see why she put his ass out, but hell, you can still see that they love each other, they just show it in a different way. I think they should get some counseling and healing/love therapy. I so want to blame that damn Superhead! I mean Superho, her nasty ass caused a lot of ruckus in many other celebs marriages. She sure as hell have some of these niggas sprung!

As for Shar, she sure sounds good rapping! I think if she made an album, I can bet you it will sell way more than K-Fed’s bullshyt he calls an album.

But back to Irv, the show is dope and i’m feeling it.

I don’t see what the confusion is about with Gotti and his wife. They are not the first, nor will they be the last couple to seperate amidst claims of infidelity. Most may not want to admit it, but the majority of men cheat. Especially men with money, & some type of status. Women know this. Although some women stay with cheating men who have absolutely nothing to offer financially, most women wise up after a while and bounce. Most women however who are married to or deal with men with money and status typically won’t leave if they know of infidelity. Why? For the sake of love, children & family, and MONEY & SECURITY. To know that your husband is cheating is one thing but for him to openly admit it on airways is humiliating at the least. I believe that was the reason why she “kicked him out”. But I don’t expect her to divorce him nor him to divorce her. They obviously love each other and he “thinks” he respects her because he takes care of her but he obviously doesn’t completely understand what respecting his “wife” means.

@7

Nope, sorry, Irv is just a hoe, and he’s not done hoeing around yet, that’s why they are still separated…superhead is a side affect of their marriage, she is not the root cause…Irv made the marital committment to Deb, and he’s the one that opened the door and let superhead, and all the other skanks he was sleepin with into the marraige…people always want to blame the outside hoe, and it’s their fault to an extent, but she didn’t make no commitment to Deb, Irv did, and he should honor it. Superhead is just a wolf waiting to pounce, if you let her cause she don’t love herself….this is Irv’s fault.

But Deb was irritating me on the show cause it seems she plan to always wait for the crumbs Irv throws her….she’s still young enough to go try and make a way for herself, but my guess is she’s never worked and never supported herself…i could be wrong….

I happen to think Shar was very entertaining and hyped the crowd very well. Kendra sucked tho.

Oh let me find out this site is trying to stay away from the new Jena6 controversy…the video circulating the net of our hard earned money in one idiots mouth and bed…

This is what I am talking about finally a College Hill about something!! Jenna is too prety and Maurice is fine as hell… the rest of them are average. I plan to tune in every week.
Shar is da bomb…hope the album turns out dope.
Irv is a whore and needs to be a man and make it work with his family and live with them as a family unit.
Uh the spices…no comment besides I like salt & pepper.

I think Shar Jackson is absolutly beautiful

me and Melanie B had our baby about the same time and i dont look as good as that bitch do. i’m hating hard.

I watched Irv’s show. I love the fact that he took on the role of claiming his stepdaughter as his ACTUAL daugther. He’s been in her life since she was 11 months old, and he’s the only father she’s ever known. I really admire that about Irv.

But as for Irv’s wife, it seems like she still kind of wants to be with him, even though he said he couldn’t stop cheating on her. And I agree with the person who said that Irv’s wife just wants him to take care of her. She doesn’t do nothing but sit around all day. She’s just a golddigger.

Irv said even though he and his wife are separated, he will still do any and everything for her. So she’s well taken care of. She’s gonna continue sitting on her ass..lol

man im so jealous of shar, she got some pretty ass green eyes!

Irv is a disrespectful hoe who probably shouldn’t have gotten married in the first place-men like him should stay single. On the preview for an up and comming episode he states “Deb’s a good girl-but not good enough for me to stop fucking….” um what the hell no matter what context its stated in it is disrespectful as fuck! I mean thats the mother of his children and he chooses to be that blatant about his infedelities…? Anywhoo I just think he is a complete dick-and why is everyone acting like superhead was the cause when Ashanti was the main one who he was fucking-and she is still under contract with murder inc….anyways Deb needs to really move on with her life she is way too good for his hoein ass-I don’t care how rich he is my pride would not allow me to stay through such nonsense….and he is 37 he needs to sit down somewhere—giving these hoes out here the satisfaction of causing ruin to his holy union of marriage…….his mentality is all fucked up

Never really a fan of College Hill.
No comments on Shar and The Spice Girls.
Gotti’s Way….
I actually enjoy watching this show. I couldn’t stand this man until I caught the first episode. I think he’s a hard working man and somehow manages time for his family. It’s sad that he can’t stop cheating on his wife yet they seem like such a perfect match. They’re like best friends. It’s pleasant to see that there’s no baby momma drama. Although I can see that it takes a toll on her to know that he wants to be a free man and she still loves and cares about him. He seems like a wonderful father to his children.
I hope in the upcoming episodes he realizes that he has what seems like a great woman at home waiting for him, and he cuts all that other bs out.
I’ll keep wishing and watching.

Gotti’s wife has her children to think about. she is not just going to up and leave him. sad to say, but she has to think about maintaining her lifestyle along with the kids. I don’t think she is lazy if she is taking care of his kids while he is running around like a dog in heat. I was surprised to see how beautiful she was. he basically was looking for a dime, got it, got tired of it, and started stepping out. she would have to rearrange her life if they got a divorce, not him

Irv’s wife needs to cut her losses and move on. If she wants to play herself that’s one thing but when you have kids, dont play them too. She said she knew it was over when she read Irv saying in a magazine he cant stop cheating. You dont neet a man disrespecting you in the magazines. One of your kids could have read that, and her sons and daughter need to know that’s not how a MAN treats a woman or a WOMAN should allow herself to be treated.

I’ve never been a College Hill fan but I might watch this season. Shar did good, she bought her own flava to the songs. So of course an album is next for her. Eddie should man up but Mel can’t make him be in the baby’s life. She shouldn’t even have to ask he should want to see his daughter. I watched Gotti’s Way it’s kool, not exciting.

who cares……NEXT!

I LOVEEEEEEEEE MEL B SHE BETTER WIN

IM DIGGIN IRV’S SHOW…

I TIVO’D COLLEGE HILL ILL BE BACK LATER FOR MY OPINION…

Irv is just a mess he has a good woman but would rather have hoes….and even worse he is so blatant and disrespctful…he has kids and I am sorry but she might need to just chalk it up….okay the house is paid for….she will get alimony and child support she will be straight—–she can leave him! She is young and beautiful she needs to knw what it means to have a good man-he is a complete ass of a man!

Irv is annoying and fake. This reality show is a way to try to get sympathy in hopes his career will be booming again. Next!

Why is Shar dropping an album? What a joke.

I could care less about College Hill.

Irv wife was taking advice from DMX wife strange. CH was good last nite. Snooze to the rest

College Hill SUCKS, and even BET knows it. I’d rather watch Hell Date…

However I must say College Hill > Baldwin Hills

I was forced to watch College Hill last night & I must say it looks like it’s going to be a good show.

@25

Yes, DMX wife was giving her advice…i was crackin up…but i can say at least DMX wife aint sitting on her ass, hoping her man get right, so he can take care of her ass for the rest of her life….DMX wife went the fuck out and got a damn job….just like most mothers with children who are taking care of their families and WORKING…Irv’s wife just don’t want to work, but somebody needs to clue her in….right now, Irv’s assets are next to nothing, if nothing, so Irv is responsible for taking care of them kids, who will be big pretty soon, he’s not necessarily responsible for taking care of Deb…if she divorced him, the courts would give her a percentage based on his assets, which is zilch….bottom line, when them kids turn 18, she gone be out on her ass, with no money…cause by the time Irv’ would have moved on…and she’ll be old as hell with no damn money…..she needs to wake up and start making plans to take care of herself in case Irv decides to leave…alot of men do as they see the children growing older….she’s lazy and she needs to start using her brain. Being a mother is no excuse to sit on your ass, especially when your man is running around town with other women with his broke ass.

I think College Hill season should be good.

Also I didn’t neccasarily like Gotti’s Way because of Irv but wwatching the episode with his daughter he kind of won me over.

Ok…Ok, looks like College Hill is creepin’ on the come up with the cast. I must admit, it’s a much better look than the past casts…I just may watch this season!!

I HATE 99% OF BET’S SHOWS..COLLEGE HILL INCLUDED!

I’D BET MONEY THAT SHAR WILL MOVE MORE UNITS THAN K-FED.

MEL B. IS DEFINITELY DOING HER THING ON DANCING WITH THE STARS.

A REALITY SHOW NOR JESUS HIMSELF CAN SAVE THE SUNKEN SHIP THAT IS MURDER INC OR THE INC. OR WHATEVER THEIR CALLING THAT TRAGEDY THESE DAYS!

Shae actually did that Twista song pretty good, my only problem is 1( she always seem like she goes overboard to fit in (Shar, wake up, ur not White!) and 2( I wish she would make up her mind what color contacts she wants us to believe is hers……one day she is rocking the blue, the next day she has on grey and now she has the green and be teiing people in interviews that those are her real eyes, pls……which ones shar?

when saw the commericals for the show I was like “I aight watchin that”….I am glad that I did because the show is good, and I believe that it is giving hip hop a actual postivie image (gotti and his children, the talk with his daughter)…this show is very insightful…………….as far as college hill goes……who watches that show (constantly)

My bad 4 the typo….lets try it again, lol

Shar actually did that Twista song pretty good, my only problem is 1( she always seem like she goes overboard to fit in (Shar, wake up, ur not White!) and 2( I wish she would make up her mind what color contacts she wants us to believe is hers……one day she is rocking the blue, the next day she has on grey and now she has the green and be telling people in interviews that those are her real eyes, pls……which ones shar?

I watched it, I am interested to see what happens and who takes this internship serious. Its funny how this is a Real World and the Apprentice. BET make your own ish for once…gesh!

To Number 8

All men do not cheat. Just as all women aren’t golddiggers who are looking for a man to take care of them.

Why do women always wanna be taken care of? I mean, wasn’t the point of the movement to get away from that.

#25 If you think Irv is broke you are sadly mistaken..he’s got michelle branch and a new deal with a label the upfront money is in the $10 million guaranteed…he’s a proven hit maker..if he finally took that deal you know he got caked up instantly..Plus this dude was crying wolf over finances and probably still is (smart man) keeps the diggers and hangers on away..Look at how much money michelle has garnered for her previous label..trust me Irv is not hurting financially in anyway..plus ya’ll forget he’s got investments in clothing lines..

I’m just glad that the kids from College Hill are doing something worthwhile this time around, instead of just laying around the house, getting into fights, and somewhere in between maybe attending a class or two (which we barely see since the first one or two seasons).

And they did it here in Chicago. More incentive for me to watch!

Some of yall act like you never heard of a “stay at home wife/mother” . I like Deb and her position (raising the kids). It’s only been two episodes and some of you act like you know Deb personally. They have a long history together…they have a defined roles in thier relationship - some one works and the other take care of the home. I see nothing wrong with that.

I watched it.If you read the Bios on them especially Kathy, I can’t believe ghetto people react to why she wanted to wear her hair in a afro.Sad.

Marriage just had change from a traditional standpoint.I don’t think people take marriage as seriously as they use to because if they did divorce rates wouldn’t be so high.Some stay together for the kids, I mean maybe he staying with her because of the kids, but if you watched the episode his wife is afraid of him leaving her with bills,mortgage etc.

BET needs to come correct this season, because MTV shows are way, way better than BET. We came up short in that dept. The funniest thing they got is HELL DATE, now that is funny as HELL. LOL

Irv’s wife is disrepecting herself in ways that she don’t even understand. She needs to get herself together and move on. it will probably be cheaper for him to just keep paying the mortgage and she needs to get a JOB. Any man that blatantly tells you that you were not good enough for him to stop cheating and messing with those women needs to move on. I couldn’t even so much as look at him in his face. I would have to much pride to let him disrespect me like that. this thing is so much bigger than the cheating and the infidilities . Why don’t the realize that? what about teaching our kids what a BLACK family should look like, and respecting and loving your mate. Now I can understand if it just wasn’t meant to be or they didn’t get along, and it just couldn’t work, but that wasn’t the reason. The reason simply being he couldn’t keep it in his pants. If kills me how men/women would be so willing to give a good thing just for what ,all of 20 min of feel good. Just stupid

The show is actually good and Irv is a good father to his children. He is an asshole, but he does take care of his home. Give him props for something!

Damn JScene you cant let go of the fact that her husband is well off and wants to take care of her.. CALM DOWN If you had someone who was more than willing to provide for you Im pretty sure you wouldnt be running to work with bells on. Damn You done called her a golddigger and lazy in 3 post. Its obvious that you are unhappy with your current situation.. So do like she did find a man with some money. Its not her fault she happen to get with someone with a luttle money.. I swear you people kill me.. ANd I Know its your “opinion: Im just stating mine…

Shar a rapstar??? NOT.

I looooooooove Gotti’s Way. Irv has such a beautiful family, and it’s nice to see them all together. He needs to get his shit together and go home to his family though. One thing that I don’t get about him is how he just can’t give up fucking this chick and that one, not even for the sake of his family…unbelievable.

He really shouldn’t bank on Ja helping him come back cause that’s not gonna happen. He should focus on his other artists.

I THINK THIS SEASON OF COLLEGE HILL IS GOING TO BE HOT! THE FIRST EPISODE WAS PRETTY GOOD. I CANT WAIT TILL NEXT WEEK TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS NEXT!!!!

Mika I am mad at the crotch shot, but I feel you…

Gotti watching it, he annoys me but who cares…

If Brit the Twit can keep fake singing Shar can fake rap and get some money to take care of her four kids. I am not mad at her. That show was WHACK, but what is new for TV nowadays….

College Hill and Gotti’s Way shows are pretty good.But you know I can’t judge Irv, he does what he does, it don’t include me so.I think we need to stop judging people, and Irv is not broke, he invested his money in good shit while it lasted.Just because he been kind of gone from the spotlight for a while doesn’t mean he broke, he does have a family.

Unfortunately I didn’t catch College Hill interns but I’m pretty sure I’ll catch a repeat.

I saw the finale of Shar on the show and she did a good job. Record Deal? Dunno but she did a nice job for a little reality show.

I’ve watched Dancing w/Stars a few times. Cheetah/Spice girl are killing. J-Lo appeared lastnight. She’s preggers, why hide it?

Irv needs to stop playing games. I think he is using the kids as a way to stay in Debs life and pull strings. What’s going to set him straight is: coming past and seeing an unidentified persons car out front for Deb. Irv wants his cake and to eat it to. As long as he can have that family life and still hoe around when he feels like it they are going to have issues. Deb needs to put her foot down and let him know that he can be a father to the kids without sitting in her face all the time. If he bought the house for her, then it’s her house and honestly I don’t blame her for wanting to stay there vs possibly being stuck with a new mortgage.

LMAOOOO @ The_One. Stop it now, that is NOT a crotch shot.

Tanya that is so true about Irv. I think he’s very comfortable with his wife not working so he can control her. As long as he’s taking care of her, she won’t bring a man around that house.

FOR EVERYONE THAT SPOKE NEGATIVLY ABOUT DEBB: YOUI DON’T KNOW HER, IRV OR THEIR SITUATION. MY BOYFRIEND STARTED HIS OWN REAL ESTATE INVESTMENT COMPANY AND SOON I’LL BE QUITTING MY JOB PEOPLE ARE SAYING THAT IF I QUIT MY JOB IT WILL LOOK LIKE I’M A GOLD-DIGGER. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER 3-YRS (WHEN HE WAS BROKE) I’VE KNOWN HIM FOR 6-YRS (WE MET IN COLLEGE), FOR THE FIRST 2-YRS HE TRIED HARD TO TALK TO ME BUT I WASN’T FEELING HIM; HE WORE ME DOWN, NOW I’LL DO ANYTHING FOR HIM. INCLUDING PUTTING MY CREDIT ON THE LINE FOR HIM TO START HIS OWN COMPANY BECAUSE HIS CREDIT WAS SHOT TO HELL (CREDIT CARDS AND STUDENT LOANS). SO YOU SEE IT IS BECAUSE OF ME THAT HIS DREAMS OF BEING AN ENTREPRENEUR ARE COMING TRUE. SO YOU DAMN SKIPPING I’M NOT GOING TO WORK A 9-5 WHEN I DON’T HAVE TO; I’M GOING TO BE THE CO-CEO & VICE PRESIDENT THAT “MY” CREDIT STARTED. DEBB COULD BE DOING THE SAME THING, YA’LL DON’T KNOW!!!

LMAO @ Mika comment about Shar. Girl you know you gonna be the first one in line at the music store when her CD comes out. LOL!! j/k

Didn’t get a chance to watch CH but I know BET will rerun it so I’ll catch it then.

Like I said before, I don’t think anybody will be checking for a Shar rap album but I’m glad she won.

Gotti is one sad H.O.E. End of discussion.

I really liked the first two episodes of College Hill Interns :: FIRSTLY - I met them in Chicago at Self-Conscious (a sneaker store). They literally showed up at an event I promoted (2nd anniversary for this sneaker/streetwear retailer) with a camera and a mic and the girl jenna got on the mic and they were recruiting ppl to go to some sean kingston concert at mcdonalds.

ALSO — they went to my h.s. that i graduated from :: WALTER PAYTON in the last episode.

this is far more promising than past seasons.

–becca

i hated the fact that his stepdaughter was mad that the kids were saying that she wasn’t his real daughter… it’s the truth aint it??

@ 51 - I soooooooo agree with everything you said. There are thousands of white women out there that are “homemakers” and take care of their kids while their husbands are bringing home the bacon. You don’t hear people calling them golddiggers!!!

I spent five years at home raising my two young children, while my husband finished school and started his career. I don’t blame Debb for not being so quick to jump up and get a damn job. Raising children is a FULL-TIME job. Many men, like my husband, are fully content with their wives staying at home. This is what a marriage is about.

My grandparents have been married for 52-years and my grandmother has always been a stay-at-home mother. Getting back out into the workforce after all that time would be equivalent to a prisoner being released and expected to find a job with no experience. ( I am not equating parenthood to living behind bars!!!)

@jscene it just seem like an odd friendship to me. @37 I never said anything about money.

I scheduled my TV 2 tune to College Hill but I was doing too much and I wasn’t focused on it. Looks good tho’— at least this time they’re doing ish instead of worrying about who likes who and whatnot… I’ll be watching next week..

Plz stop the frickin madness of any and everybody putting out albums and ish. And what the hell are u ppl talkin bout sayin she did her thing. Tone deaf much??? The only one that sounded remotely good was Countess and she got booted too early. Shar? Babes, just stop it… don’t embarrass urself more than the media already has….

Like I said before, Irv’s show is like a black version of Dr. Phil cuz all it comes down to is him and his “wife” sittin on that damn couch and talkin bout the same ish over and over again. I think his wife can do better and to have their whole relationship documented is not helpin her to look respected… And was anyone else wonderin why the hell he would go and look for another house to pay mortgage on when Murder Inc. is officially @ the bottom of the barrel???

I watched College Hill last nite and actually enjoyed it, but why do I need to know so much about the kids personal life..with does that have to do with winning a internship!

What I don’t get is — why is Irv and his wife so free to put their foolishness out there for the world to see? Do they not consider the impact on their children? Marriages go through problems and families do break-up, but do the children need to have that exposed for all of the world to tune in?

It can be tough coming up without all of the ammunition they are providing - and some things your kids just don’t need to know. If this is about your business, let it be about your business, if you love your children, protect them and show them a little more respect than this.

Damn - it’s real crazy… people will do anything to be on TV.

# 55 - smiley
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You are so right, raising your children, and taking care of your home is a job.
One of the most important and least appreciated.

#11 I saw that video. Although it is ashamed that they would make such a video, do you really think the donated money went into their hands? No, it did not. It went to the defense fund. Their ignorance after the fact has nothing to do with the injustice done in the case.

#11 and #61 -

They didn’t make the video, someone took the images of them off of myspace and made a youtube video. It is a shame that those young men don’t understand better — But the Jena 6 controversy is not about the young men specifically, it is about the miscarriage of justice in the events. The time that was being considered was excessive for the crime committed. And yes, they committed a crime and should have been punished according to the crime, not according to their ethnicity.

Somebody needs to get those young men and explain what an extreme disservice they have done.

Ok…someone put a fucking noose over tupac’s statue…I’m ready to go to georgia and start fucking ppl up!!! That’s my word..Kayser9soze reported it on his blog..this shit is sickening..it seems like we are at the beginning of another race war and i’m sick and tired of the bullshit….

#61. Well had only one of them whopped the person who hung that noose it would be a different story. It was dumb of them to have “all” kicked that guys ass. So ignorance has been rampant from the moment the idea of hanging a noose came to mind to the white racist who did so..ignorance went thru the mind of these six when they decided to “all” get involved in violence. One person could’ve whopped that kids ass…flat out..then ignorance found its way into the court…from the judge to the prosecutor..then from there to the defense attorney for not making the courts look stupid and not showing that severe punishment of these teams was politically and socially motivated all the while making a mockery of the laws in place to protect us..then ignorance went further to these kids actually going to awards shows…sit your ass at home and try to get your life together…and it continues..so this whole situation is just one big pile of ignorance..if it weren’t we would not have a “Jena6″.
So I guess in this situation we can learn from ignorance..I hope these kids can someday sit down and reflect on the second chance at life ppl around the world gave them..because if we as a community didn’t care…they’d be in prison till kingdom comes…just please don’t be ignorant enough to give the detractors of the injustice fuel to hold you up to socially implanted stereo-types.

#62 I stand and applaud your intellect and articulated detailed opinion.

AT LEAST IRV GOTTI IS TAKING CARE OF A BLACK WOMAN AND KIDS!! I HAVE A NEW FOUND RESPECT FOR HIM NOW!

#65 why because he’s doing what other “REAL MEN” have been doing for centuries????

64.

JAY-Z IS ABOUT AS STRAIGHT AS CROOKED LINES
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
#62 I stand and applaud your intellect and articulated detailed opinion.
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Thank You Baby…

Again ignorance as usual so I will ignore them bloggers. Debb knows what she is doing
is wrong. In the first episode she advised her daughter not to depend on a man. Or did ya’ll miss that going to the mailbox checking for your TANF checks. There is nothing wrong with being a working woman and having a man take care of you. But there is something wrong with you not being a working woman with kids and depending on a man that can up and leave you for someone else. Or did y’all miss that too, in the first
episode she said that she was worried that if he got a new woman he would stop taking care of her and the kids. She is lazy like you said, a hard head makes a soft ass. She will learn in the end, when her and her kids are on the side of the road with straw hanging out of their mouths. And as far as being a stay at home mom…that ish is for white people, yo black gutter ass can’t necessarily depend on today’s black man. Shit a good man is hard to find and even they got their share of problems.

#68 perhaps you can’t depend on a man because of the men you’ve dealt with and their behaviours. Or perhaps its just the type of men that inhabit your world. Or perhaps you only LIMIT yourself to one preferrence, but there are men in this world of all “Races” who handle their business and I do mean all “RACES”.

So…what did Shar actually win?

The point I think some people are missing with Irv and Deb is that they are MARRIED. He can leave, but legally he’s obligated to take care of his wife and kids. That’s the difference between her and the people complaining about her. She has a HUSBAND not a babydaddy

Thank You #69; I’m tired of all of the male bashing just because females have a tendency to but attracted to the “bad boys”. I have a DAMN GOOD MAN, but I first had to examine myself before I could fully appreciate him!!!

[...] • Let’s hope that the contestants on College Hill: Interns keeps the ignorance to a minimum. [CL] [...]

College Hill looks good this season as oppose to the previous seasons that were a big”YAWN”. What was up with ole girl wearing a denim mini skirt and tank top to a “meet your boss for the first time meeting”? and the dude wearing a polo shirt, the “preacher’s son” wearing a three piece “cobalt blue” Steve Hardly” (as in hardly funny at times) oops I mean Steve Harvey collection suit from Burlington Coat factory store. And why did the one from the Bronx who clearly thinks she is the “ish” wearing long shorts(gray)and black blouse but carrying a brown purse!!! Hopefully the have jobs already lined up and that Dr. Ian tells them to all invest in a black, dark blue, gray, or brown suit because dressing for an initial first meeting with the “big boss” you don’t dress like “pimp of the year” or like you are running to Mickey D’s for a meal off of the dollar menu!!! As for “Gotti’s Way” It is entertaining and also good to see him interact with his family. So many men don’t do this or if the are living in the home don’t have the time to play Connect Four or make pasta because they are working 2 jobs or just not interested in “doing those things” They maybe scripted but I think they are honest and this is something he was doing even when he was “whoring” around. All that matters is that he loves his children. Though he played Deb, in the end all you want to know are you going to be there for your kids (financially and emotionally) screw the other stuff because guess what? “ish” happens and of course you are hurt and bitter but in the end maybe it was for the best and thank the Lord that you hopefully can learn from this and that you can hopefully “move on” But I think Irv and Deb still have unresolved feelings for each other. I know some y’all got it messed up with someone you really loved or were really feeling and you still had or have “mad feelings” for that person, but they are still up to whatever caused the rift in the relationship. That’s Deb and Irv. Watch and Discuss!!!!

No one care if you want to date hood rats or “bad boys” male whores or multiple baby momma having stanks. That leave the Hill Harpers and Morris Chestnut’s to a sister that can appreciate intelligence, brain and beauty. If you want to be gutter all yo life then all means do that.

I CANT WAIT FOR COLLEGE HILL TO PREMIERE. THIS SHOULD BE INTERESTING

DANCING WIT THE STARS IS GOOD THIS SEASON…MEL SHOULD WIN.

Im above cheating the food stamp people at 35 and still living in the hood working minium wage jobs. Lazy ass man that can’t keep a job, laying on the couch always wanting some ass please. And some point in life you have you have to want more for yourself. Im 21yrs old no kids and I got more since than some of these old bitches like Deb. What’s good for you honey ain’t good for me.

And Yes im from the hood, but I want for myself. I can’t stay in the hood. I got to do me, and I meet a man that want to take care of me, best belive I will show initiative
(drive) for you TANF hoes that means yes I can have my man take care of me but I can also take care of myself. No man is perfect, why ya’ll acting like they are I need security that’s why I makes my own cheddar. I don’t need a man telling me who I can have in my house and when and what I can and can’t do Im not 5 years old. Those who have children, hopefully your children will have more since than you. Get you own shyt!

@ #78; baby you are still young and not just in age; it shows in how you speak/write. RELATIONSHIPS, real RELATIONSHIPS are about COMPRIMISE not about control; that’s what it sounds like you are speaking of “control”. No one has the right to tell anyone you have to do this or you have to do that but when you make a decision (any decision) YOU HAVE TO CONSIDER THE OTHER PERSON’S FEELINGS!!!

lissa said…..
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
i hated the fact that his stepdaughter was mad that the kids were saying that she wasn’t his real daughter… it’s the truth aint it??

Uhhh you must didn’t watch the whole episode….Deb never told Angie that Irv was her step father….that’s why she was upset and asked her mother if it was true.

College Hill and Gotti’s Way=ghetto foolishness I can’t bring myself to watch…

I have seen a few clips of DWTS..Mel is tearing it up

Shar..rhymes about Kev and Brit…omg…stfu..he dumped u when u were pregnant…get over it…no need to be spittin verses about the shyt. Other than that..she looks nice.

College Hill was very interesting last night(two shows aired last night)-it looks as if they will be a great cast. But (Jenna:wearing the black) is already on my nerves! She and Marc are heading in the wrong direction already..it’s going to be one of those love/hate relationships. I like Maurice (in the blue cap)from Las Vegas(he ’s cute) and The PK from Jacksonville,N.C.-Spencer…is so “dirty south” it ain’t funny!(he showed up in a bright blue suit,the jacket was the kind that hits you at the calf) Jacksonville is about 20 min. ride from where I grew up in NC.

Kathie/Kathy(the girl with the fade)-is the young lady that’s into girls…she’s so pretty-but I think she may end up getting some” guy action” on the show,she says- she has in the past. Lonnie(wearing the white hat) the big light skin dude might try her!

I haven’t watched DWTS-this season. I wished I had to see Floyd dance,that would have been fun to see.

Shar I think will have a single if nothing else-based on the” buzz”,after the show,where they had to write their (own rap)-she ‘bagged” on Britney just a little-it was pretty good.

(Gotti’s Way)-is pretty good,Monday’s show had me crying (because of the situation that the kids at his daughter’s school created) but I will say KUDOS to Irv for stepping up to the plate,for that young lady-having a daddy means a lot!
Having a father-figure is important,because some young ladies get misguided without the love of a father and your “Daddy” is the one that shapes your mind frame of how a man should beand how a young lady should be treated,if you have the love of your father/daddy then a dude in the street can’t get into your head. You don’t have go seek out the love of a man,cause daddy has already shown it to you..so big-ups to Irv for that!

I gotta chime in on Gotti’s Way…

I’m actually feeling Deb for a few reasons. First, why make it easier for Irv to trick off all his loot on these groupy, gold-diggin hoes? I’m saying, make that fool pay to play! Second, what they are going through happens to everyone, rich or not. There are people that love each other but just can’t live together. I think she would be in the same situation even if they didn’t have all the money. She loves him, period! Women go through hell in the name of love.

DEB irvs wife is doing what she is suppose to she has 3 children!! she is at home taking care of them!! she should not have to work he took care of her from day 1 that was on him!! DONT HATE on her because he helped her become a HOUSE WIFE!! and that job is harder then getting or going to a 9 to 5…. DEB is the BEST THING irv got going right now he better RUN home and ask her to FORGIVE him because the other CHICK’s are going to DOG, TAKE and wont remember his name after!! DEB’s problem is IRV does cheat on her only BECAUSE he can and HE knows it!! if she gets a JOB he cant tell her nothin then! and he will be THREATEN by her more! he controls everything becuase he makes all the $$ so that is why he can COme and GO and call when he wants to because he pays the bills….!! DEB take his money!! and set a plan B up for you and your KIDS {JUST IN CASE} so if daddy leaves you have something to fall back on! DAMN THE REST……..

IRV really showed me what kind of man he is when he was talking and walking with ANGIE his Step daughter i really RESPECT him more because of that! now if he can just stop Disrespecting his WIFE i think GOD will Bless his MUSIC label more. BUT until he gets right with DEB & there children ” MURDER INK” will suffer!!! and not prosper…….

Starry night, you must have family or friends on that welfare check program, because you act as if that shit is the norm for females. Maybe in your neck of the woods but not everywhere. You sound very elitist. That is good if you made a good life for yourself , but some people have made mistakes and need some help from the government. Like mentally ill women who were raped and cannot work and have to get food stamps for their children. Or teens who get pregnant who cannot find gainful employment.

Hill Harper is gay anyway.

I’m inspired by Deb…
I broke up with the father of my 2 children when one of them was an infant. He tried to get physical and he had to go. Now that we don’t live together, we’re cool! BUT he keeps showing up at my house, sleeping on my couch, killing my action, trying to be my friend. Just like Deb and Irv. The only difference is that he’s broke. Can’t pay no child support. I make all the ends meet. I wish that muthasucka did have some money. If I gotta be bothered with his hatin’ ass at least PAY ME!!

Cha-Ching!!!

Shar is very talented, and she will make her mark.

Shar has proven she is able to stand her own ground as a celebrity.

Good luck, Shar!

77 and 78

not looking for a man to take care of you good
try finding a dictionary because the word you keep misusing is sense.
like common sense, street sense, no damn sense at all.

I LOOOOOOVE Gotti’s Way!
I don’t quiet understand why everyone is saying such negative things about Irv’s wife. How can you say a person is “lazy” when you’ve only seen her in ( 2) 30 minute episodes?
Being a mother to 1-2-3 kids with a husband who’s never around is a job in itself. Let’s give her some credit.
I’m glad VH1 decided to include her in Gotti’s Way so she can finally tell her side of the story.
I think the show wouldn’t be as interesting without her.

Against my better judgment I watched the first 10 minutes of Irv’s show. But then I had to turn that shit off when I realized what an airhead his wife is. I’m about tired of seeing dumb ass black women on TV.

LoL @ 88.

dayum i feel asleep lookin at college hill last night. It took a while for the excitement to come, so i dosed off

I think College Hill is ok!! But we really don’t need to see them all trying to sleep with eachother, cause that’s what just about all the college hills are bout! As far as Irv goes, I like his show, but it could use an extra 30mins to it!

# 51 Sexy Black

you sound smart

just make sure you get in writing that your money and credit line helped start you boyfriends’ buisiness so just in case anything goes sour bt you two (anything can happen in life) you are appropriately compensated as an initial investor in his buisness.

get something in writing

get that Co Ceo thing in writing

aint nothing wrong with writing it down

that doesnt mean you dont trust him
that doesnt mean that it aint real love

that just means that you handle your business

much success to you and your boyfriend

shar be switching up them contacts fast!

This season College Hill is going to be good I can just tell from the premiere episode. Jenna and Spencer are already at odds with each other and the show just started.

It’s good to see Shar doing something wit herself and she look so cute in the picture.

I watched DWTS Monday and Tuesday, but that crap come on too many nights. I be channel flipping tryna keep up with it. Imma just have to catch the elimination night or sumthin.

Gotti’s Way is a good show. This week’s show with him and his step daughter was too cute, it showed him in a better light than usual. Luv Salt and Pepa show too.

I like Shar and I think she will go far with her rap career (further than K-Fed). She has a dry wit about her that maybe useful to her, when making the album. I hope she goes for it. She really amazed me at how good of entertainer she was. I am really proud of her for not letting the haters keep her down. Do U Shar! Shar J All Day!!!

Hate all you want hoes, you are the same ones jumping back and forth from baby daddy’s, you get’s so sympathy here. This is a blog not college, so if you want me actually take my time to prof read don’t hold your breathe. Anyway I will take Hill harper “gay” ass over the nicca you have any day. Speaking of tendencies so your thug hero Jay-z aint gay huh sharing his apartment with another man,. Any who you can diss any AA man that is intelligent and spitting that real shit all day all you want. People like you are why most black men stay on the street corner and not go to school cause they don’t want to be perceived as gay. Love Hill to death, and his “gay” ass can still hit it anyway he like. Oh I’m glad I don’t think like you or my mother. Where are the real women at, abnormal people “gold diggers” always trying to bring normal people. If being with a man fo 20 years and not being married and having his baby while he can’t hold down a minimum wage job is for you the so be it.

Speaking of gay why is it that Black people always want to stereotype their own. Why do we always say that Black men who aren’t thugs are gay. Jamie Fox, Usher, Hill Harper, Kanye West and the list goes on. Hell who you really need to be looking at is Chris Brown and Omarion. They pretty than most women. Chris who I personally like is a little pretty boy. So you can say all you want about intellectuals Hill can still pull em. And one of them would be me if I could ever meet him. All intellectual men are Gay Gay gay, yeah right, all intelligent men are not gay, yous a true hood rat for real stop embarrassing yo peoples.

Mel B will win or @ least i hope..she and the cheetah girl are killin it on the show…

starry night

your logic is as flawed as your spelling. what in the sam hill are you talking about?

“people like you are why most black men stay on the street corner and not go to school cause they don’t want to be perceived as gay”

“Where are the real women at, abnormal people “gold diggers” always trying to bring normal people”

“They pretty than most women”

WHAT??????

@43 parks68110

Which one of my statements called her a golddigger? You’re a liar, i never called Irv’s wife a gold digger, but i did call her lazy…please don’t over dramatize what i said because something i said hit home and it hurts your damn feelings….i am calm, so i don’ need to calm down, you’re the one who saw fit to address me, so you calm down. Maybe you’re a lazy bitch, and what i said hurt. And for the record, you don’t know me at all….and i have had men who were willing to pay my way, and still have that opportunity, but my mother didn’t raise any dumb young women and she told me that’s not a good position to be in, but she really didn’t have to say anything cause i’m no dummy and i know that’s like trapping yourself in a corner, to be solely dependent on someone else, you couldn’t move or have anywhere else to go in that corner if you wanted to, sorry, i’d rather have my own, cause having your own equals options, i don’t care how well intentioned the guy may be, i say no thanks…so manty women are unhappy in their situation, but scared to move on cause they don’t know how they are gonna support themselves and their children….it’s nothing to be a housewife, but an unemployable housewife, a housewife with no education and no work experience is just stupid. I don’t know this woman’s education level or work experience….but for the fact she don’t want to move cause she’s scared of how the mortgage would be met show’s me she’s not intending to work anytime soon.

So many women find themselves on the wrong side of life when they man leaves them and they haven’t properly positioned themselves to move on….nobody is telling her to move on…i’m just saying she needs to prepare a cushion for herself just in case he does leave…get something going….them child support checks gone run out, and if i’m correct, she’s hoping for a nice long life…what then? Now when some women fail to prepare properly, then they get mad at the guy and his new wife and how they are living as opposed to her….Irv’s wife should sincerely use this opportunity to find her niche and get a good money making plan going….i know it’s what i would do…..but if you don’t like what i said, then whatever……do you…. my life is a happy one, and i can clearly see my future, and i’ve prepared and still preparing for it…that’s why i can post so definitively…..i have the best intentions when i say to Irv’s wife, prepare yourself for what may be…too bad if you took it some other way, maybe cause your life is fucked….

I swear, people kill me DELIBERATELY taking things you said outta context, cause nobody can be that damn dumb, just so they can feel better about their fucked up life….

@68 STARRYNIGHT

I COSIGN YOUR POST 500% WELL FUCKIN SAID. THERE ARE SOME DELUSIONAL LAZY BITCHES ON THIS SITE TRYING TO JUSTIFY IRV’S WIFE LAZINESS SO THEY CAN FEEL BETTER ABOUT THEIR SLACKIN ASS.

The Irv Gotti show is really weird, he claim to have known his wife’s daughter since she was 11months and he says that he simply adore her then why would he want to change her name now since the show is on, that is something that should’ve been done years ago. I just think he has really fallen off and is trying to get back anyway he can. I heard Ashanti left Murder Inc. Kudos to her if that’s true.

Wonder why Mel B and Eddie Murphy could’nt make it work she look better than Babyface ex?

I watch Gotti’s show and I am confused at how that 15 year old girl (Angie) didn’t know that Gotti wasn’t her real dad? They don’t have the same last name and she looks nothing like her mother, two brothers or Gotti you mean to tell me at 15 she never asked why untill somebody said something at school? Irv’s wife isn’t even fully African American and Irv isn’t African American at all so what did she think? That seemed a little staged to me. But anyways I give him credit for taking care of someone else child some dudes don’t want to take care of their own.

@ # 2

I was pretty much thinking the same thing like “What exactly is ur profession??”…She’s was worrying about not having to pay a mortgage. But I really dnt blame her…why pay it when u know u dnt have to….I love their relationship though and the bond his has with “ALL” of his kids…Gotti is too cute.

Shar is taking the title a little too far.

GO SPICE GIRLS!!!! “Spice World” was my shit in the 5th grade. Baby and Ginger Spice look HELLA DIFFERENT!!!

BOOOO College Hill…This season looks boring from the looks of that cast pic…I’ll probably still watch though.

@ What???

What ?? is the question I should be asking you. I addressed two other ppl. Why you felt the need to put your two cents in I don’t know. You are trying to find an argument where there is none. Since you are a little…..Let me break it down. Debbie is lazy. All Black men who are intelligent and not trying to be a thug are not Gay. I like a certain type of man who is not trying to be all hard and thuggish. So don’t assume because I like Hill Harper that he is gay, no he isn’t thuggish. If is still confusing to you, it’s probably because it had nothing to do with you in the first place.

Shout out to JSCENE!!

more jack a**es exploiting themselves for another make believe dollar sign.REALITY TV SHOULD BE FLUSHED DOWN A TOILET:p

I watched Celebrity Rap SuperStar and Shar J turned it out!! each time she hit the stage she got my votes and I can’t wait untill Shar Album Drop I will be the first one to buy it …

The gurl in the black with the nice weave…WHHOOOOOOO WEEEEEEE… I hope she becomes my next wife.

Shoot, I’ll sleep on her couch.. I would sleep on her bed too. Gotti’s ex or whatever is fine!

actually shar and countess did this for the guy that played hakeem on moesha,he wanted to be a rapper more then a actor so she did this in his memory…..so i aint mad at her…good job shar

starry night
what is confusing is your illogical rants and inability to comprehend and properly use the english language. so you got somebody to post for you GOOD ! at least now we know you have enough ’since’ to ask for help. lol

Hill Harper has NEVER been linked romantically with any woman. It has nothing to do with his intellectual prowess. I applaud that. It is funny that Keith Boykin loves mentioning him in his blogs, though.

I don’t want a thug no more than any other sane woman. All I was saying is that you are calling everyone on here “welfare queens” in so many words just because they are apologetic of Deb. You are very caustic in your speech and all that shows is that you sound very angry for absolutely no reason. You are insulting people’s intelligence for no reason. You are the one stereotyping black females. And I could care less about Jayz, for the record. It is good that you want people to have personal responsibility-all I was getting at is that some people come up hard and need a little damn help.

I knew that I recognized Kathy from somewhere….“Top Model” winner Naima and her twin sister Nia were on a previous episode to talk about their struggle with alcohol and drugs. Kathy was inspired by their story to speak about her own issues with alcoholism for the first time. Kathy said she started drinking when she was 8-years-old and would have a drink every day before school. She said she was so accustomed to the taste of alcohol that it was like water. When Dr. Ablow said she was an alcoholic, Kathy broke down and said she didn’t want that to be a word that defined her. She confessed she needed help and accepted Tyra’s offer of professional assistance….Who else caught this episode?

I knew that I recognized Kathy from somewhere, the Tyra Banks show…“Top Model” winner Naima and her twin sister Nia were on a previous episode to talk about their struggle with alcohol and drugs. Kathy was inspired by their story to speak about her own issues with alcoholism for the first time. Kathy said she started drinking when she was 8-years-old and would have a drink every day before school. She said she was so accustomed to the taste of alcohol that it was like water. When Dr. Ablow said she was an alcoholic, Kathy broke down and said she didn’t want that to be a word that defined her. She confessed she needed help and accepted Tyra’s offer of professional assistance….Did anyone else catch this episode?

“Top Model” winner Naima and her twin sister Nia were on a previous episode to talk about their struggle with alcohol and drugs. Kathy was inspired by their story to speak about her own issues with alcoholism for the first time. Kathy said she started drinking when she was 8-years-old and would have a drink every day before school. She said she was so accustomed to the taste of alcohol that it was like water. When Dr. Ablow said she was an alcoholic, Kathy broke down and said she didn’t want that to be a word that defined her. She confessed she needed help and accepted Tyra’s offer of professional assistance.

My bad…posting the same ish ova and ova!

Well I didnt watch College hill at all last season but this season looks promising! Not to mention MAURICE is fine as hell, why he’s tricking off on ole girl is beyond me though! But let me stop hating cuz I wouldve loved to be in her positon! I hate his name, but thats my own person problem (sigh) Neway the Jenna chick went to school with one of my friends, and despite how she seems on tv, i heard she;s cool. Moving on…

Salt is getting on my nerves but props for living for Christ!

I actually like the Gotti Show, at first I thought I would have no interest in it. But I like hs personality and it truly touched me to see his interaction with this daughter. It reminds me of how I was with my late stepfather.

As corny as it could have been, I really like Shar on the show. SHe really tried and it worked, Im proud of her. I dont know why we rather see people down than up.

And thats my two cents….

#114…you don’t know what you’re talking about. Hill has been linked with tons of women…do your research before you speak.
Keith likes to mention Hill because they both went to Harvard Law around the same time…..get your shit together please.