VIDEO: MARIO TALKS ABOUT HIS MOTHER’S SUBSTANCE ABUSE
Monday, October 15, 2007
Check out this trailer for Mario’s new MTV special. The singer speaks candidly about his mother’s addiction to drugs. Make sure you catch the show on October 20th @ 1:00pm EST on MTV. [ Thanx Synia ]
In related news, his new album Go is set to hit stores in November. Make sure you check out Brian’s post about it and go support.








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1.
Dothepocketknife
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Oh, poor baby
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whytry?
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
I will check it out. That must be REALLY hard for him to deal with. I wish them the best & I pray his mother gets help.
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Dothepocketknife
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
I think we all know someone with drug issues. That addiction ain’t no joke. I’ve seen families torn apart because of it. They’re going on my prayer list.
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yes
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
The guy that posted the videos ratting out BET awhile back is very upset about this. lol It’s Mario’s business to tell.
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Pookie
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
How sad was that to see that tear fall from his eye! Wish I could give him a hug. I will definitely be praying for him to be strong and for his moms to kick this addiction. She’s still a young woman and has so many more years ahead of her, if she wants it. He’s one of my favorite artists.
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Dyshea
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
damn he got his mama’s nostrils, i couldnt work up enough nerve to put my business out like that though
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Nay
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
That’s really sad. I really feel for him. i’ll definitely tune in for his special. i hope his mother will be able to overcome that demon
8.
HARLEMBROWN67
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
That just show’s how he has evolved as a man, cause you have to be strong to help the people you love the most. She could be anyones; mother, sister, daughter, aunt and friend, we all know and have a family member like this. Be strong young man, GOD will bless you more than he already has.
9.
brittany
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
amen @ #8!
It’s hard to love someone with an addiction to anything…and its even hard to harder to talk about it with other people so for mario to do this respect him a million times more. Im going to make sure that i watch this and i cant wait for his album.
10.
Bouga
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
He’s a smart and sensible young man. Hope his mother realises what she is doing to her kid and do the necessary thing.
I’m loving his album by the way. I’ve never really paid attention to his previous 2 albums, but this one is a banger.
11.
Nelly
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
REALLY………………
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Simplistic
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
wow it looks good…its a shame when people have to go through this…im 19 and im dealin with the same shit wit my momz….be on it since i was like 8…if it wasnt for my b/f i’d be lost…i hope he got a shoulder to lean on
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MS. Rochelle
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Wow. Now that’s real life. His mother is right, only she can control when she’s ready to no longer be a drug user. My prayers go out to him for the strength, courage and ability to come out of this ordeal successful. It’s a tough job trying to balance loving someone when they don’t love themselves enough to not abuse their body, mind & spirit. I really hope his mom chooses turns her life around, but I also hope he continues to pursue his life aspirations to the fullest regardless of how his mother chooses to live her life
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JJ650
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW.. ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS WOOOOOOOOW!!! MY BOI WAS CRYING YO THAT ALMOST MADE ME CRY. MARIO IS SO FREAKIN HUMBLE YO IMA BE PRAYING FOR HIM AND HIS MOTHER FROM HERE ON OUT.
~JJ
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Nikki
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Wow, that’s crazy. I will have to catch the repeat though.
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whytry?
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
@ 12 SIMPLISTIC,
So sorry to hear that you are in the same situation! Prayerfully your mom can come around & get the help that she needs.You’ve dealt with this for 11 years! I KNOW that must be painful. Glad you have someone in your life to lean on. I pray that you will always have a source of strength!
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msmiami
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
aww thats something I would have just kept to my self.
18.
dj
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
i would bust in dat bathrom and throw dat shit in the toilet if my mother thought she could do drugs about me
19.
No Drama
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
I have to commend him for this. Kids need to know that just because you are a celebrity and making money doesn’t mean you have a perfect life. My prayers are with Mario and family.
20.
Jackie
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Correct me if I’m wrong, but Isn’t his last name Winans, and I maybe wrong about this too, but I thought his mother was a famous gospel singer. I hope I am wrong about that one. But I will pray for him, no addiction is easy to deal with
21.
BLISS
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
that’s deep! may god be with you & your mom..so sad
22.
Fine N Mellow
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Wow, I feel bad for him. Having anyone that you love strung out on drugs aint no Joke. it tears families apart. That shit is deep seeing tears fall from him eyes. I hope his moms sees herself and changes her life if not for herself at least for her kids.
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thickems
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
That is sad. What his mother said was definitely true. She could only get help when she is ready and I hope it is soon.
24.
Dijah
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Who would have thought. It just goes to say that EVERYONE has a story. Glad he’s coming out with his story. I know he’s not the only one with a mother strung out.
25.
So sad
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
No he is not Mario Winans. Mario Winans is light skinned and was with Bad Boy records.
I am sorry for Mario and the pain that his mom’s addiction has put him through. It can be a heart wrenching experience. He is in my prayers.
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MRS. B.
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
I did not see the interview but by reading the comments, I can see that it was a touching one. My prayers goes out to Mario and his mother. Everyone has to deal with a family member with some type of addiction. I just pray that everything works out for Mario and his mother.
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BRWNCRAYOLA
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
I hope he’s not given her money. I can’t believe his mother agreed to go on camera like that. They REAL LIVE got a shot of her needle and the whole nine. Im def tuning in, that’s crazy.
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keishe
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
My prayers go out to Mario and his mom. I hope he gets her the help she needs and she actually uses it.
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Dame
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
That video was so sad I heard him speak on his mom before when the movie Freedom Writers was out.
30.
foreverblessed
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Wow this bring tears to my eyes!! I pray that his mother change awww poor mario god bless him
31.
skateboard-t
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
awwwww..thats wassup..
he could’ve just left her behind..but he cares..
::wipes tear::
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BRONX BOMBER
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Unfortunately, this not the first time he went public about this.
He mentioned his struggle with his mom in an old Sister 2 Sister magazine kinda when he first came out, but at that time I beleive she was cleaning herself up. I guess not. Its so sad.
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Ms. Truth
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
THEY NEED TO GIVE HIM A REALITY SHOW.
34.
Shann934
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
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mogul_in_the_making
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
i have no sympathy for his mother, neither do i have any sympathy for him
mario listen to this..you`re fucking grown up man not a toddler or teen so if your moms is on rocks so be it..i mean its not like she`s raped or something..
i have sympathy for orphans, hundry kids,refugees, victims of racism but sympathy for a grown ass woman buying drugs????? hell no
if you love her so much take her to rehab if she`s no no no no then back the fuck off and let her die
you can take a horse to the stream but you cant force him to drink water
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thehardway
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
I have tears in my eyes watching this because I’m going through the exact same thing with my mother. I know what it’s like to want to move on with your life and be happy but in the back of your mind you’re waiting on a phone call saying your mom has overdosed or has been arrested. I’ve had money stolen and checks stolen, and been told every lie and sad story there is to get money from me.
Fortunately I’ve moved away and am trying to move on with on with my life but is very hard because even with everything that has happened, that’s still my mother.
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thomian
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
^^^You sound dumb as hell. Dont get me wrong, I do believe that addicts are the most selfish ppl in the world and I do not feel sorry for her. Rehab is not jail. You cannot make someone go to rehab. They have to want to go, and they have to want to stay. I have a friend whos sister was on drugs. After years of trying to help her she cut her off to save her sanity. Her sister ended up dead at the hands of probably another drug addict(police said)who raped her first. She had been living on the streets. My friend still blames herself. It is not easy to just cut off a friend, or sibling. I can’t imagine trying to cut off your mother. I will pray that his mother will find her way even if I’m only praying for the sake of her son.
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LDYK
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
aww that i ssoooooooo sad . I wish him well. it’s so sad to see what some folks have to deal with and try to maintain their sanity. let alone a postive image and a music career.
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mogul_in_the_making
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
@37
did you listen to what his mother said? she said her addiction will be over till she decided its over
so what ? leave her the fuck alone
crackhead bitch
40.
Queen_Chrissee
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Yeah, i saw this on MTO. It was so sad. At least he’s being strong. But I am still so sad about this issue happening to his mom. She not only needs help, but she needs lots of prayers and support. So does Mario. It’s so sad that he had to grow up so quick. He couldn’t really enjoy his childhood b/c of this.
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thomian
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
^^^I listened to what she said and I read what you wrote. I simply responded to how you aimed at Mario. I couldnt care less about his mother. You said “if he loves her so much” as if he didnt love her then said “let her die”. Just let his mother die? WTF kind of shit is that? I would probably be in the same spot that he and Keyshia Cole is in. I would be angry, sad and still trying to save my mothers life. I could never just let my mother die even if she was the one killing herself.
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mexchick
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
aww,thats so sad ,but her substance abuse didnt even get this young man down,he’s obviously very strong ,and whether or not his mother overcomes addiction,she still did a good job raising him somehow.
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mogul_in_the_making
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
@thomian
i get what you`re saying but remenber these druggies are the most selfish people you can meet
does she love her son? i dont think so
she has a unique love and that is her dope…and she knows her son is bringing the money to support her dirty habit, she doesnt love him and thats sad and he`s the one suffering for what?
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ashleymichelle
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
@ 35 na i don’t agree with what you said. His own MOTHER that he loves is on drugs! and you have the ordacity to tell him to grow up…chill out…its apparent that you don’t know what it feels like! Im going through a similar situation..and you don’t know what other people are going through so you really don’t have the right to say that ignorant shit you just said! dumb fuck
Anyways imma definitly be watching this show…its not all candy coated and showing the glam side of his life like shopping and cars and shit like that! but its real! Its shit that people can relate to. Mario has always been one of my favorite artists…hes really grown up!
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thomian
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
“does she love her son? i dont think so”
Well I def. agree with that. I dont think she loves him even half as much as he loves her. Do you really think he will stop suffering if he turns his back on her? If she were to die today the only person whos suffering would stop is hers. He will suffer the loss of his mother forever.
46.
Jus me...
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Bless his lil cotton socks….
how can you love , one who dnt love themselves?? through prayer and strentgh.
awww, lil tear in his eye….
47.
SweetLesa
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Unfortunately, most of us can relate to what Mario is going through. My mother is on drugs and so is my older brother. It’s really heartbreaking to watch people break down from being on top of the world to being at their lowest low. I am still in denial about my brother. I would have never thought it could happen to him. Anyway, my mom has been on drugs since before I can remember. At the age of 17 my twin and I ended up raising my lil sis. We are all fine now. I am getting my Masters’, my twin is married, my lil sis is in college and working. At some point Mario is gonna learn you have to cut the cord. She doesn’t want help, so there is nothing you can do. Show her some tough love and move on to save your sanity. We Gotta Make it Work.
48.
Tonya Renée
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
That is so sad. Makes me love him even more…
49.
d
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
35 you said it better than i could… My mother has been going through the same ish…. I used to feel sorry about her situation and even cried about it, but I realized that I can’t worry about what she’s doing becuase it will get in the way of what I am trying to acomplish in life. Every since I let my mom go emotionally I have never been better. I graduated from a top university (Duke) and I also have a great career!!! The only thing Mario can do is let his mom “do her”. At the end of the day she’s going to stop when she wants to and if he allows her situation to be heavy on his heart he will never be happy… The only way he will be happy is if she truly kicks her habit or dies… My mom has been off the ish for 5yrs but she gets her high in other ways (prescription drugs)… once a druggie always a druggie… I am not saying disown your mom but keep her at a distance.. out of sight out of mind….
50.
abovethespotlight.blogspot.com
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
I have developed a lot of respect for Mario
It takes a lot to put that out into the public
51.
sexydiva
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
@ 20 No, that’s Mario from Diddy’s label (Badboy) , totally different person. That takes alot to put your personal business out there like that, I commend him.
@35 That’s easy for you to say because that’s not your mother. Regardless of her habits ,this women gave birth to him he love her that’s his mother. Who would just let their mother die ,even though she don’t want treatment ? We all have someone in our lives who do things we don’t approve up ,we still want them to get help weather they do or not . Im quite sure she do love her son but people with addictions don’t /can’t see past their next high . It’s sad but don’t knock him for loving his mother unconditionally . That’s what we are suppose to do .
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mogul_in_the_making
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
@49
thanks for understanding…i see some people are attacking me ..lol because i said mario should let his mother go …
@44 you damn right i`m happy to have a mother who gave me unconditional love and a father who has been there for me……i`m happy to have a mother who has never been on drugs and just because i`m blessed to come from a “black“ family where you dont have druggies doesnt mean i cant feel sorry for people who go through it, i feel sorry for mario but he`s an adult and needs to move on and maybe when he has a family of his own he should set the example ..whats her reason for being on drugs?
@45..we`re all gonna die sooner or later by the way i think if she dies he would have a much more better life…peace!
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sexydiva
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Sorry for the typos ** woman **whether **
54.
Sexy Black
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
@ #20 Mario Winans (the one whose mother is a gospel artist Vickie Winans, he is also BeBe and CiCi’s nephew) is the one signed to BAD BOY; this is Mario (remember “Just a friend 2000″?
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Kander1625
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
wow - that’s deep…but it’s something that so many of us deal with on a daily basis. Whether the drug is cocaine, alcohol or marijuana…when someone in your family is addicted it affects you.
Big ups to Mario for showing that despite all the fame and fortune, these stars deal with regular everyday stuff just like the rest of us. So many of our young people idolize and want to immulate what they see on stage, and I often wonder if they could really handle it if they knew what these stars’ lives were really like once they stepped off the stage. They compromise themselves continually, and yes, they deal with stuff that everybody else does, and it’s probably worse because they are in the public eye.
I am a fan of Mario’s music and his talent, but this simple clip makes me RESPECT and ADMIRE him as a man.
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ladyloza
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
so sad, i hope he finds a way out from his pain.
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Kander1625
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
For all of you saying how selfish Mario’s mom is, and how she doesn’t care about him, only loves drugs, etc…you guys have obviously dealt with someone close to you with an addiction. And are really young and inexperienced with life. Wow.
I don’t think it’s a matter of choosing between those you love and the drug - the drug chooses you - addiction is physiological and psychological - it effects the mind and the body. And it’s not so easy to shake. Both of my parents were addicts - one an alocoholic and one on drugs - all of my life. And the funny thing is, I never, ever doubted that they loved me, or that they loved the liquor and the drugs more than me.
Fighting addiction is a battle that, just like Mario’s mom said, first starts with the addict choosing to get clean. I’m sure she’s probably tried several times to get clean for Mario’s sake, but until she does it for her own sake, it will not stick. My mother has been sober 17 years, but will tell you that everyday is a battle, and that she will always be an alcoholic. My dad died clean and sober, but the wear and tear that prolonged drug abuse caused on his body led to a stroke and a very unexpected death.
As the child of an addict, you always ask yourself 2 questions - is it my fault, and how can I fix it? You grow up a little bit when you realize you can’t fix it. You then realize that you have to heal yourself so that you can move on with your life.
It is obvious from this video that Mario loves his mother. Going public with it in this way may be what he needs to begin to heal. It’s a very personal and private matter to go public with, and he should be commended for that.
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LULU
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
awww my poor baby.. i love you MARIO and cant wait to cop ur new cd!!!!!!!!!!!! muahzxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Ty
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
So…is this to promote his new album? I mean, I’m not really sure I understand what the show is for.
60.
BE STRONG MARIO!
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
I remember when Mario first came out, ironically I have his first and 2nd CD, maybe I will go out and purchase that 3rd. Be Strong Mario! He has a whole lot on his shoulders, it’s good that he genuinely cares about the health of his mother, even though the mother doesn’t see it in herself.
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che
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
i wish him my best i’ll b prayin 4 dem he needs 2 pray hard 2 nothing’s impossible for god 2 do
62.
che
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
i wish him my best i’ll b prayin 4 dem he needs 2 pray hard 2 nothing’s impossible for god 2 do
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che
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
jus pray mario nothing is impossible for GOD 2 do
64.
lala
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Wow reading all of these comments has somewhat helped me. My bro is battling an addiction and it is VERY VERY hard on the family. U get angry, then sad and u want to disown them but when u are living it, it is very hard to turn away. For those of you that do not have this situation happening to a family member or even a close personal friend thank God! He has really blessed you and yours. I still thank God for my bro and my life becuase as strange as it sounds things could still be worse. Anyways I will pray for Mario because I really now what its like to be in that situation. And I commend him for being candid- often family members are ashamed of this situation in their family (I often have this feeling myself about my bro).
Cheers…
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Sherance
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
so what mario’s mom was on crack good thing I never met her or I would run through her myself. hell we all got dope fiends in the family.
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Paul
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
#35. You are a senseless FOOL!!! No one is perfect. So if Mario wants to express love for his MOM!! Let him. **** You might FALL!! Maybe not to drugs but something else!!.
67.
famou$ dude
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
i think nick cannon gay.. dude can’t keep a woman for nothin’. or maybe no woman takes him seriously.. lmao.. another lame azz n*gga
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JOEY
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
aww thats so sad. i love me some mario. talented young black man. i wish him all the best. the show looks like its gonna be really good.
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mynameis
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
Sorry to say this but his mother is a COLD HEARTED BITCH!!
She doesnt deserve a child, never mind a son who is successful and caring and so loving.
She makes me sick
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ThinkAboutIt
Monday, October 15, 2007 /
This has to be hard for the brother — here he shuld be celebrating his success and talents and he is carrying such a heavy burden. Addiction for anyone you love has to be hard, but especially so when you are watching your mother kill herself slowly.
71.
Karen
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
Oh my goodness!! I almost cried for him wiith the little tear coming down. Is it bad that I still couldn’t focus on the subject because of how good he looks, lol?
But seriously, I couldn’t imagine what that is like. I will be adding Mario and his mommy to my prayer list. Poor poo-poo!!
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bo0gz
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
smh my thing is why make a show out of it??????
makin a show jus publicises the situation it is not takin the crack pipe frm her it possibly consequently is makin her more famous nd given her money nd more access to needles, hopefully she’ll see herself on tv nd stop shootinn up (if she is evn really on dope)
but doesnt mario have an album coming out soon?!? didnt he jus drop his new single “crying out for me“!?! you can be fooled by his marketing techniques not ii!!! dis is NOT mario tryin to help his mother out at all [dis is mario da business man]
73.
Funkybella
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
This goes out to MOGUL_ in_the_Making:
It’s not as easy as it seems to watch someone you love kill themselves slowy.. When your mother, father, sister, brother or best friend is a serious herion or crack addict, please come back to this site and tell everyone how easy it is to give up on the person you love. PLEASE, PLEASE come back to concreteloop and tell everyone that you had NO PROBLEMS dealing with a close family members addiction. I would love your advice, so I can help my brother, friends and co-workers… PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASER, tell me how you would do it?? Cause I know, that you MUST be GOD and have all the answers??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
On a another note:
You do/must eventually give the person you love ( addict ) tough love, even if it means letting them walk the streets, getting arrested, kicking them out or not having any contact with them. It is truly up to them to get the help they need..they have to be READY and the awful fact is that some people are never ready. In saying that, no matter what kind of tough love you give the addict in your life.- YOU WILL NEVER,EVER STOP THINKING ABOUT THEM OR WORRYING ABOUT THEM..it’s IMPOSSIBLE. Addicts are selfish people but that’s not who they really are..it’s just the drugs that turn them into a Monster. … TRUST I KNOW.
Blessings to anyone who is dealing with this issue or has dealt with it in the past.
Love & Light Always
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hood_shit
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
I’m sorry but homie is STILL cornball as hell. And I hate when celebs use their ‘trump’ card (i.e. drug addiction, molestation, etc.) to drum up media attention… Get the fuck outta here! We all dealing wit shit!
75.
Bobo
Tuesday, October 16, 2007 /
I have read all the comments that people have sent alot of them judgemental. Some of them may be true. I dont think he intentually ment to use this as a sales tacted and I can see how that conception could come about. However his mother has a serious problem. No reality show nor the love & devotion of her her son is going to help her she needs a whole loft more than that. She hates her self and is on a sucide mission. She Needs the Lord, deep therapy and needs to learn to love her self first before you can get any progress. Remove her from her enviorment not meaning rehab. Mario needs to take some time out and deal with this personally and privately or wash his hands of it totally if he chooses to remain sain. The two of U cant do it yourself. Remove as many resources as u can. She is going to hate u. But @ the end she will love u and herself. Dont put this on tv . If u have kids They dont need to no this about their grandmother. Its ok to keep your suppotive friends updated of your possitive progress. Then once u fix your own family problems u and yr mother should help others. Starting with those fans thats going through the same problems and still find time to support u.
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