I’m pregnant and probably shouldn’t be saying this. But i can’t help but wonder what that baby is gonna look like. Can’t wait for the pics. As long as the baby is healthy is all that matters though.

#58 that’s not true what you said about a child being born to do wrong. If that’s the case then your saying God is wrong. To do wrong is something that a child learns. Not born with. Sorry boo boo I disagree with you on that one.

AWWWW@62, THERE ARE FAR MORE IMPORTANT THANGS THAN LOOKS ITSELF BUT THEY DO HELP, LOL AND JLEWIS U A MESS, LOL

72.
akaarta
Tuesday, November 27, 2007

Good for them!! I have a soon-to-be 3 year old and his birth (as is all children) was a blessing.

Why do people continue to hate on Usher and his wife? I have no complaints. Here is an African American male entertainer who could of had any woman in the world. He found love with an African American woman. They have my support for a long life together.

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I agree with you, I’m not sure why everyone thinks she looks “manly” etc, or why there is such an extreme amount of animosity directed at her. It’s kinda sad really.

@ JScene…I got unlimited EBT funds so I ain’t trippin off these fe’s. I’m trying not to get taken to the cleaner for them. lol j/k

Usher this is one confession that you should have kept in the closet, I bet Chilly is somewhere getting a good laugh about this. Well atleast since she has the baby she is not really a man.

@ 62, don’t even trip homie. I’ve been there…just get your money right. Get you a nice car and house. Chicks heads will be turning so fast that they will get whiplash. Then when they get in your face pull out a stack of a thousand $1 bills and smack the earth, wind, and fire out of them.

Soon as I get my money right, she gon’ come runnin’-Kanye West

#58 Kids are going to jail because states and the government keep building them. If they spent more time trying to prevent people from going than making places for them to go, it would help solve the problem. Especially us black men. We need to stay home and raise our kids, not expect celebrities to do it. And then act surprised when little Billy gets locked up. They got their own kids to raise who by the way are not going to jail. When’s the last time you heard about a rapper’s son or daughter getting locked up? Such a bad example for children though right? But people are waiting for us to go so they keep adding on to the prisons. How about raising our youth so that they won’t do anything to go?

Some of you can get so petty . Children are a blessing ,regardless of the circumstances . @ 77 I agree 100% Behaviors are taught and learned you’re not born with them . As long as the child is healthy and loved that’s what important.

@ 74 Cosign . It’s some miserable loney bitches on here !

Are we still talking about them?? The baby is a blessing, congrats on that. Now is she sending Ur-shur’s support dollars to her other children?? The COUGARS, I tell ya….

@77

I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE SAYING, I USE TO THINK THAT TOO. I LOOK AT A BABY, AND JUST SMILE (IF THEY ARE CUTE), AND JUST THINK AWWW, THEY ARE SO SWEET.

THEN I GREW UP AND STARTED ACTUALLY READING BOOKS, ONE BEING THE BIBLE..IF YOU REMEMBER, EVEN IN THE BIBLE, GOD KILLED CHILDREN, WHEN HE BROUGHT THE FLOOD CHILDREN WERE NOT EXEMPT. GOD READS HEARTS, AND HE KNOWS WHAT’S WHAT. AND EVEN IN SODOM AND GOMORRAH, CHILDREN WERE KILLED WHEN GOD CAUSED THE CITIES TO BURN CAUSE OF ALL THE BADNESS AT THAT TIME. WAS GOD WRONG?

AND I DON’T KNOW IF YOU REMEMBER THIS CAUSE IT SEEMS YOU READ YOUR BIBLE, BUT REMEMBER THOSE BAD KIDS WERE TEASING ELIJAH, ONE OF GOD’S PROPHETS WHO WAS BALD, SAYING “GO UP BALDHEAD, GO UP BALDHEAD.” AND GOD MADE THAT SHE BEAR COME OUTTA THE WOODS AND RIP THEM TO SHREDS. NOW WAS GOD WRONG?

DID YOU ALSO SEE THE MOVIE “THE BAD SEED?” THAT LITTLE GIRL LOOKED CUTE AND SWEET, YET SHE WAS RUNNING AROUND MURDERING FOLKS ALL OVER THE PLACE….AND COME TO FIND OUT, SHE WAS BORN WITHOUT A CONSCIENCE, JUST LIKE A PERSON CAN BE BORN WITHOUT LEGS, OR ARMS. PEOPLE BORN WITHOUT A CONSCIENCE HAVE NO CONCEPT OF THE VALUE OF LIFE, THEY ARE PSYCHOPATHS AND SELFISH, AND THEY ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN THE WORLD TO THEMSELVES, AND EVERYONE BETTER GET OUTTA THERE WAY….CROSS EM AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS…DEATH OR THE LEGAL SYSTEM USUALLY DON’T SCARE THESE TYPES OF PEOPLE CAUSE THEY ARE EXTREMELY MANIPULATIVE, AND THEY THINK THEY ARE SMARTER THAN EVERYONE…..

THE FACT IS, THERE ARE BAD PEOPLE BORN, AND THEY COME INTO THIS WORLD LIKE EVERYONE ELSE, WE ALL START AS BABIES…AND GOD GIVES US ALL CHOICES, BUT SOME PEOPLE CHOOSE TO DO BAD CAUSE THAT’S WHAT’S IN THEIR HEARTS. BAD PEOPLE START AS BABIES., SOME EVIL FROM THE START, KILLING ANIMALS, KILLING PEOPLE, STEALING, LYING, KILLING THEIR PARENTS, ALL WHILE STILL CHILDREN….YOU CANNOT TELL ME THIS DON’T EXIST, AND MANY TIMES IT’S GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH THE WAY THEY WERE RAISED…SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST BAD….POINT BLANK…AND GOD SAID HE WILL DEAL WITH THESE PEOPLE…

BUT I RESPECT YOUR DIFFERENT VIEWPOINT. IT’S HARD TO LOOK AT A CHILD AND SEE ANYTHING BAD (UNLESS THEY UGLY).

AND JUST TO BE CLEAR, NONE OF MY ARE ABOUT USHER’S NEW BORN BABY….I WAS JUST COMMENTING ON THE ONE POSTERS STATEMENT THAT ALLLLLLLLL CHILDREN ARE A BLESSING….

Tameka only has 2 kids with her ex-husband, Ryan and Kyle. Her oldest son Darren is from yet another relationship.

I understand #86 but what you said was all from the old testiment..And now we’re under the new testiment which is we’re all saved under grace. Grace=Jesus Christ…But it is what it is.

Your on a roll today. I’m on this site everyday and I’ve never seen this side of you before…Be nice now..We’ll never know what Usher has going on cause we aren’t there..A picture says a thousand words so let him be. If he’s happy GREAT if not then his mistake, his life. Let him live it…We’ve all been that road where we went stupid for what we thought was love…Big hugs to all…Nice to meet you/talk with you.

And I alawys find it funny when a woman is so sprung off some dick that she’s willing to name her baby after the baby’s daddy no matter how ridiculous the name is. Usher Raymond the fifth is a little excessive… She’s so extra.

@80 J LEWIS who wrote:

“@ JScene…I got unlimited EBT funds so I ain’t trippin off these fe’s. I’m trying not to get taken to the cleaner for them. lol j/k”

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U GOT UNLIMITED EBT FUNDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…..SEE, I’M ALREADY LOOKING AT YOU DIFFERENTLY, JUST WITH THAT STATEMENT. LOL. I’M SO ASHAMED…SORRY, I THINK ALOT OF US GOT A LITTLE “GOLD DIGGER” IN US.

I’m trying to get my “Juanita Jordan” on myself…F the dumb stuff. These double standards have got to stop. When will the man take the house, car, and money after the divorce???

@89

I HEAR YOU, GUESS WE JUST SEE THE WORLD DIFFERENT AND INTERPRETING THE BIBLE AND IT’S VERSIONS DIFFERENTLY AS WELL…

AND YOU ARE RIGHT ABOUT ME TODAY….I’M FEELING A LITTLE SILLY

@ J LEWIS

I THINK ERIC BENET TRIED, DIDN’T HE? UNTIL PEOPLE STARTED CALLING HIM ALL TYPES OF PUNKS AND BITCHES, THEN SUDDENLY, HE DIDN’T WANT ANY OF HALLE’S MONEY….LOL..

BUT KEVIN FEDERLINE’S CHANCES ARE LOOKING REALLY GOOD FOR TAKING HOME THE WHOLE POT; BRITNEY IS STRAIGHT TRIPPIN RIGHT NOW. I THINK BRO GONE CLEAN UP.

jscene wrote: “YOU BETTER GET STARTED CHASING THAT PAPER VIA A HUSTLE OR EDUCATION RIGHT NOW IF YOU EXPECT TO HAVE A DECENT LIFE”

Well, I start Pharmacy School in January and I should have my doctorate at 23. That “doctor” term should elevate things.

congrats to them both

I don’t know who is making me laugh more Jscene or J. Lewis slap the earth, wind, and fire out of her classic.

Congrats

Congrat to Usher and Tameka! A special congrats to Usher for becoming a daddy for the first time?
Some o y’all need to give up. Usher ain’t want shit to do wit y’all. Face it - Neva gon happen.

@95

GOOD, CONGRATS, YOU ARE WELL ON YOUR WAY….AND DON’T WORRY, TIME WILL RUN BY….I’M HAPPY FOR YOU, AND YOU SEEM SO SWEET….STAY SWEET, DON’T GET JADED; KEEP YA HEAD ABOUT YOU BOY….ONCE AGAIN, CONGRATULATIONS.

ummmm wow congrats I guess hmmmm…….

Congratulations to Usher and Tameka, I bet their baby is beautiful. As far as looks goes, everyone on here but, maybe 5 out of 200 people, think they are fine as hell and if truth be told, can DEFINITELYhave someone disagree with them. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Trust for every person in the entire world that may find someone unattractive to them, there is someone who will find you unattractive. We can prove this by naming people we as individuals think are fine/gorgeous and you will have people who will beg to differ.(sp)

No comment at this time.

I agree with 53

i’m sorry. i’m not happy at all about their union, let alone a baby. like my girl “new york” said, “i was expecting to see ciara or beyonce!”, not a homegirl like tameka!

Even though I still have my doubts about Tameka, children are a blessing from God so I can say congratulations to Usher. I know this is a huge step in his life and I’m actually every excited for him. I hope that baby Usher has that same hansome smile just like his daddy.

http://www.zshare.net/audio/5214386979069a/

here is an interview where he talks about it with an ATL DJ.

^^*very excited for him*^^

Did Tameka get her tubes tied? Or is she gonna keep poppin babies and not bring them around the fam?

LOL@76 ….i’m sure you’ll have an adorable child!! Congrats on your pregnancy.

The phrase “i only want my baby to be healthy” is overused. When I have kids, if I ever do, I want my kids to be healthy..but they BETTER be cute…. Before i met my bf, i would not date guys who I thought would not give me a cute child in case I accidently got pregnant (hey, accidents happen).

The majority of the comments here are congratulatory, which is nice for a change!!!!Bloggers can be ruthless!!!

Say what you want about her, but Tameka has got to be a strong black woman to withstand all the tabloid nonsense written about her -& MIND YOU MOST OF WHICH COMES FROM OUR OWN PEOPLE! Did NEone pick up their interview in Essence - she makes a good point when she said that if she were Hispanic or light-skinned, people would say that Usher has a beautiful wife. We don’t like ourselves.

DAMN, SHE KEPT IT REAL WITH THIS ONE. WE NEED TO WAKE UP PEOPLE!

CONGRATTS USHER

OH PLEASE @ 110.

TAMEKA IS FULL OF SHIT. I STILL WOULDN’T CARE FOR THE DECEITFUL BROAD IF SHE WAS LIGHT SKINNED. THE BITCH IS A LIAR WHO BRAINWASHED USHER AND HAD HIM DOING THE UNTHINKABLE ( EX: FIRING HIS MOTHER). USHER’S CAREER HAS BEEN NOTHING BUT TRASH EVER SINCE HE’S BEEN WITH HER AND NOW THAT THE LITTLE BEAST IS HERE, I’M SURE IT WILL ONLY GO EVEN FURTHER DOWN SINCE TAMEKA’S SPOT IN HIS LIFE IS NOW LOCKED AND SEALED. USHER IS OFFICIALLY HIS HUSBAND’S LITTLE BITCH AND WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN.

I was wondering when she was going to give birth, she looked 9 months in that photo up top. Im happy for them, who am I to judge!

oh and Usher better step up his game, cause I think Chris Brown is just like killing it right now, I think usher is getting to old to be dancing the way he use too. He better sit at a piano like Ms. Keys!!

IM SORRY, BUT IS USHER CARRYING HER PURSE IN THAT PICTURE?
MAN SHE GOT HIM WHIPPED

It shouldnt have been that hard to get the baby out, considering this is like her 5th pregnancy. She probaly had him in the lobby with that Stretched out Vagina of hers!!

@53

I agree with you. I get vibes about Usher’s wife, something uncomfortable, deceptive- shady. Usher should get a DNA test because it would be awful if he found out if that baby, who’s named after him, is indeed not his. I’m just glad the baby is healthy. Congrats on that, but the Mama just does not seem right.

usher would be wise for a dna check as for the gold digger his mama gonna get you .ushers album wont do so well you cant use the media when it suits you ,you had no problem putting your last relationship on blast

@110 im glad you consider yoursefl as a stupid person. I am thinking you are 9 so you can get a pass.

@JSCENE

Your comments sound interesting with all the explanations about the Bible. Are you or have you ever studied with JW’s? I’m sure your answer will let me know.

COME TO MY HOTEL PEOPLE, I WILL SHOW YOU A GOOD TIME

This is a black version of Britney Spears saga…

My comnent is meant only for the person who commented under the name “stupid people”.

(sighing)…another usher in the making…oh well

Congratulations to them, i hope the happiness continues for a long time and they have a blessed marriage. Children are always a blessing, and I think its a real shame that people just can’t say congratulations and keep their ill feelings to themselves.

To those of you bad minded ones who don’t have children yet, i hope you have the ugliest mannish daughters ever to grace the earth (not really but trying to put some perspectives on this) and find growth of spirit enough and hearts big enough to love them anyway… and also have faith enough to know that they will find a man to love them too and then you will maybe realise why Usher loves Tameka (I actually think she’s a very attractive woman).

@89, I’m not religious and I consider myself to be agnostic, but have spent a lot of time in church in the past.. Are you saying that from the New Testament, Jesus came to save us through grace and that means that not only human transgressions are forgiven but also the actions of GOD? wouldn’t that mean that Old Testament God was wrong?? I don’t actually care (as i said i am now agnostic) but having spent my youth in a church where the Old Testament was still very much a part of the doctrine as opposed to only the New Testament, it always fascinates me to see what other denominations believe.

LOL @ #3 - you are so right…

I’m speechless, i never thought i’d see the day when two men reproduced…wow

Congrats to them! I thought she was never going to have that baby.

whatever man…dude is played out now. go enjoy ya family and sell ya musk. more power to them

Congrats Usher and Tameka! I hope your son brings you closer than ever!

YOU KNOW WHAT…CONGRATULATIONS TO THEM.MAYBE HE REALLY LOVE HER.Folks can hate till’ the season shanges but he still gonna be with her.so live life and oh well.

@ 12 your soooooooooo right usher will never get away with his behavoir to all them girls in his playin days (which by the way i dont think is over!) the woman is gonna take half his money split lyke a banana and leave his ass for broke guy. i give them 12 more months wadduya think?

First of all (2 Timothy 3:16-17) 16 All Scripture is inspired of God and beneficial for teaching, for reproving, for setting things straight, for disciplining in righteousness, 17 that the man of God may be fully competent, completely equipped for every good work.

The entire Bible is relevant not just the New Testament. The above verse is taken from the New Testament and like it said all Scripture is inspired of God and beneficial.

Congrats!!!!

5th child Lord i always knew usher will end up with a haggard for a wife but damn! the woman is actually cute, the man is ugly and why the hell are they naming the chile usher v aint that what stupid white folk do?????????????

#62 you need to send me a pic…we are our toughest critic..you might not at all be ugly…..

.*sighs* I am sick of Tomeka and also sick of Usher too…let them crawl into a hole together…*I GIVE UP* let her have him..she already does anyway, at least for the next 18 years……I feel for him because all she did was marry a permanent baby sitter……but that’s his dumb choice and bad decision….don’t be surprised when you see Tomeka at all the parties and never see Usher (he will be @ home babysitting)……but for real, I can see them getting on stage to present an award at an awards show and being booed!

Jay-Z Has A GHOSTWRITER???

Page 43 of Hip Hop Weekly gossip section. Wendy spills the juice.

May wanna check it out.

good source.

ALLHIPHOP.com (http://allhiphop.com/blogs/rumors/archive/2007/11/26/18928032.aspx)

Go on Youtube.
Check Eminem “Im Back” and listen to his verse verse 8 bars in………then listen to Jay-Z “Success” on American Gangster. Explain that.

“I used to give a F$%# now i give a F$%^less…..”

LOL @ 70….I can see it now

Maury: Are you SURE he is the father?
Tomeka : ..(pauses)….I love this man….I do, I do
Usher : (Looks confused) ANSWER THE QUESTION!
Tomeka (Looks nervous) I’m 1,000 hundred billion percent sure! (sounding as ignorant as she looks)
Maury: Let’s find out!!! (Walks to the edge of the stage, grabs the envelope, holds envelope in the air walks back to chair and then sit down and opens the envelope)
Crowd cheers and claps
Maury: When it comes to 8 year old (USHER WILL PROBABLY WAIT THAT LONG, or LONGER) Usher Raymond, V… (looks at paper and shakes head) Usher, you are NOT the father
Tomeka : Runs off stage screaming NOOOOOOO!!!!! NOOOO!!!! MY MONEY!!!! oh..wait….I mean I WAS SO SURE!!!!! WHYYYYY!!!!!!
Usher : (sits with his head in his hands, looks up with tears in his eyss) I SHOULD HAVE LISTENED TO MY FANS…..
Maury : (trying to console Tomeka) We will help you find the father…
Tomeka : (not receiving the consolation) I was so sure……

I agree #9.

Congrats to them, but are we going to see her kids are just THIS baby instead cause it’s Usher’s huh. Oh well time will tell and I hope Usher’s mom went to see the baby or at least send Congrads.

OH WAIT, don’t forgot the guest apperance of Tomeka’s ex-husband…goes back stage and does the Dave Chapelle “Cold as Ice” move….(for ya’ll that don’t remember, steps over her in slow motion)

congratulations usher and tameka

i wish you all the best and may you be the best parents to your new born son
to all the haters out there, why do we try to tear down our own kind. lets be happy for them. stop the hating.

ewww…WHO CARES?

#95

Well you should be straight. Just stay in shape, treat the ladies good, and you’ll do just fine. If Seal can pull Heidi Klum…

Congrats!

As much as people like to speculate, we don’t know shit about their relationship. I was talking big shit like everyone else until I read the article about them in Essence. Tameka made some damn good points in that article. He could’ve chosen to marry the typical “can’t quite tell if she’s actually black video chick” type, but NO he CHOSE to be with her….with her beautiful BROWN skin and life experience most of these young hoes only wish they had.

its easier to be an ugly man/boy cause

if ur hung someone will f*** u
if ur rich someone will f*** u
and if ur nice/kind/intelligent etc someone will marry u

ugly women dont have the same luck

most men are intimidated by rich women period
and even if u hav a nice personality, men dont really give a toss

back to usher: when a man chooses a wife he should pick a respectable woman, with class, intelligence and integrity. but tameka does not possess any of these attributes.

furthermore she fudes with ushers mum, which is a bad sign because mum usually can detect whether a spouse is suitable or not. everyone knows this marriage isnt gonna last long and its pretty obvious. people arent hating on tameka, they can just see through her

@JSCENE, I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU ON THE BAD PPL BEING BORN INTO THE WORLD. MY MAMA AND I WERE HAVING THIS DISCUSSION THE OTHA DAY WHEN I WAS HAVING PROBLEMS WITH MY DAUGHTER. SHE SAID SOMETIMES KIDS CAN JUST BE A BAD SEED. ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY WERE CONECEIVED OUT OF WEDLOCK LIKE ME, BUT MY BRO AND SIS WERE NOT, SHE MARRIED OUR FATHER. SHE SAID I WAS A PROBLEM CHILD! LOL, BUT I NEVA SEEN IT. SHE KNOWS IM A GOOD PERSON WITH A GOOD HEART, BUT EXTREMELY HARDHEADED SOMETIMES. IM FROM THE 7TH WARD “HARDHEAD” SIDE OF NEW ORLEANS WHAT DID SHE EXPECT?, LMAOOOO. NOW I DONT LITERALLY MEAN BAD, BUT SOMETIMES I DO HAVE IT HARDER. CHOSEN PPL JUST DO. I GREW UP IN CHURCH AND NO MATTER HOW BAD OR WILD I GET, GOD KNOWS MY HEART AND THE WORD IS EMBEDDED IN ME AND I CANT RUN FROM IT NO MATTER WHAT. I AM INSTILLING THOSE SAME VALUES IN MY DAUGHTER, B/C AT ALMOST 5 YEARS OLD, SHE IS ALREADY VERY STRONG WILLED, JUST LIKE ME. IM NOT SAYING URSHER AND TAMEKA BABY IS A BAD SEED AT ALL, I DONT KNOW THEIR SITUATION. LOOK AT THE DEVIL, HE HAD TO BE THE DEVIL. HE WAS BORN TO BE THE DEVIL. GOD ALREADY KNEW THE DEVIL WAS GONNA DECIVE HIM IN HEAVEN, BUT HE WAS STIL BORN TO BE THE DEVIL. AND I AINT TRYNA GET INTO NO DEBATES WITH NO ONE ON HERE, I WILL NOT ENTERTAIN MESS, B/C MY THOUGHTS ARE JUST THAT. MY THOUGHTS.

148. get_me_bodied wrote: “…SOMETIMES KIDS CAN JUST BE A BAD SEED. ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY WERE CONECEIVED OUT OF WEDLOCK LIKE ME, BUT MY BRO AND SIS WERE NOT, SHE MARRIED OUR FATHER. SHE SAID I WAS A PROBLEM CHILD!”

We are all born with evil, sin natures! Its up to the parents to train the child in the way it should go! It don’t matter if you were conceived out of wedlock or not! If you want to get technical, Jesus was conceived out of wedlock! Joseph had only betrothaled her!

Psalm 51:5 - Behold, I was shapen in iniquity; and in sin did my mother conceive me.

If not for the salt of the earth and the holy spirit, we would all be uncivilized savages!

Don’t think any less of yourself cause momma gave daddy a little taste of her nectar before he signed on the dotted line! If anything, that makes you more special! She probably told him, “If loving you is wrong, I don’t want to do right”!

We were all created in God’s image, so there are no babies that need to be thrown out with the plancenta! Even the Devil could have chosen to do good over evil! We all have free will!

Those kids at Columbine and Virginia Tech go crazy because their parents teach them to hate and they let them play with guns before teaching them responsibilities!

You say you “grew up in church”! Does that mean you quit going? Why not give your daughter the same opportunity you had and let her grow up in church? …Rather than you instilling “second handed” values in her from home?

If you don’t want a debate, don’t make such profound statements! You put a lot of deep thoughts on the Loop!

ROFL @ #58, its not some children are killers, some children are crazy, the parents have literally total control, if you don’t discipline your child at a young age he gonna end up being messed up, and I know this because I’ve dealt with a lot of children before. If you don’t hit your child a bit (I don’t mean hard) then its gonna be an issue, and if you neglect your child too much then its also gonna be an issue, fact is if your children don’t treat you right its because of YOU, nobody else. there are somethings you can’t control like an autistic child or something along those lines, but otherwise seriously be a man/woman do ur bizz don’t blame your children its your mistake.. And I know this because I’ve on the real dealt with more then 6-7 children, and I’ve got baby sisters right now, and I’m seeing what goes on.. Things like Television influence your child, the amount of time you spend with your child matters :P, if u jus chillin watchin tv and letting the kid do whatever he wants in his room thats a problem ;p, u gotta check out wat he up to from time to time, otherwise u jus neglecting him.. anyway my thoughts.. its annoying when ppl blame the kids ITS FUCKING U I don’t care where u got it from ur head do the research and u’ll agree wit me. And this is no joke if you been to any Asian country you will see the amount of respect shown to a teacher and parents its amazing, cuz they do whatever u want, if they don’t they are looked upon negatively from society, they get in whatever career you want, if they get bad grades they get beaten (from teachers) but in the end u got a child gettin straight A+++ gettin a good job, respecting u, buying u that house.. And this is true jus research or go to South Asia or China, almost all Asian countries have this.. The reason I know this is from my cousins who are still in Asia literally all of them have been to (3) University, one is in the (1) Army.. and look at me :P, my parents are soft on me, I barely made it through highschool… ;p, so you def get an idea.. I’m not makin it up. I’ve never seen a Asian man on the streets before. I have seen both white and black males/females. On occasion you do you see an Asian but its very rare, and it has nothing to do with population, because we got hella Chinese here (ChinaTown) and I see mostly white people on the streets doing drugs.. I live near hastings where all the poor n ppl jacked up on something live.