MARY J. BLIGE’S GROWING PAINS
Saturday, December 15, 2007


Mary J. Blige - Roses
Mary J. Blige definitely did her thing on the new joint, Growing Pains, which hits stores this Tuesday, December 18th. I’m definitely going to pick up my copy. This time around, Mary worked with a plethora of producers, some that she’s done tracks with before. The album includes productions from The Neptunes, Bryan-Michael Cox (with whom Mary has excellent chemistry), The Dream & Tricky Stewart, Jazze Pha and Stargate. I think this album was a good melting pot of huge name producers, coming together to make a cohesive album for an established artist.
Mary J. Blige feat. Ludacris - Grown Woman
It’s hard to choose a favorite on Mary’s album because I actually like a lot of it. She really gave a solid effort - not that I was surprised, because The Breakthrough was a hugely successful and impressive effort from her. I’m proud of Mary.
Go visit Mary on MySpace and show her some love. Also, make sure you pick up your copy of Growing Pains next Tuesday, December 18th.








128 Comments
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76.
REBEL
Saturday, December 15, 2007 /
#65 Fergie’s Cd is the shit! Don’t sleep.
77.
SHITney Houston
Saturday, December 15, 2007 /
Mary is the GREATEST SINGER of this generation, NO SINGER who “CANT” sing DO NOT last 17 years in the game and remain on top, NO singer who “CANT” sing DO NOT get on stage with the GREATS like Aretha, Chaka. Patti, Gladys, Stevie, Elton etc. NOBODY can outsing Mary, Mary has 4 octaves, her voice can go ANYWHERE, she can sound like a man, she can sound like a lil’ girl. Mary is versatile when she sings, jus’ because she not singing about Kitty Kats & Bubblegum you DUMB broke YOUNG idiots dont understand her, ONLY the normal successful people understand her, thats why she is now OPRAH’s NEW BESTFRIEND and is KNOWN all across the world as THE QUEEN & THE VOICE! And to the dumb fuck that said Mary wish she could sing like Faith, stop fucking LYING you dumb weirdo, Mary would NEVER EVER say no dumb shit like that, she has stated on several occassions that she is HAPPY with what she has…it’s raw, it’s raspy, it’s soulful, it’s high, it’s low, it’s deep, it’s all kind of things, at least she still has a voice for her LOYAL FANS and not some broke BITTER people who is mad because Mary is the ONLY REAL SINGER from the 90’s STILL standing, where is SHITney? Phoni Broketon? Trandy? DEADliyah? Coke Evans? NOWHERE! Mary will be the last and ONLY SINGER standing.
78.
DOLLA MENU
Saturday, December 15, 2007 /
^^^^^^^ OH YOU WRONG FOR SPEAKING ABOUT AALIYAH IN THAT TONE
EVERYBODY GONNA DIE ONE DAY AND SHE DIDNT CHOOSE TO LEAVE US SO SHORTLY
THE NERVE OF YOU
THAT WAS NOT FUNNY
REST IN PEACE BABY GIRL
AND WHITNEY HOUSTON IS THE BEST OF OUR TIME.
I LOVE MARY JUST AS MUCH AS THE NEXT PERSON BUT YOU DONT GOTTA PUT EVERYBODY ELSE DOWN JUST TO SUPPORT THE PERSON YOU FAVOR
EVERYTHING IS NOT A BATTLE RAP
79.
pet dander
Saturday, December 15, 2007 /
Slavery was evil.
To actually think God made you superior than another by obnoxiously, sinfully, wickedly utilizing another human being for your gain is pure EVIL!
80.
Darius
Saturday, December 15, 2007 /
TO number 50 Rhinah has scanned about 800,000 thats far from Platinum and for someone to release 5 singles thats damn near SAD……………Shipped platinum and sold are 2 different things and she will never see the 3 Million Mary did with The Breakthrough
81.
Darius
Saturday, December 15, 2007 /
AND FYI TO EVERYBODY MARY WROTE ON 14 OUT OF THE 16 TRACKS ON GROWING PAINS THATS A SONGWRITER TO ME…………………..
82.
tia
Saturday, December 15, 2007 /
i love “roses” alot alot…i listen to it all the time.
83.
SUZANNE
Saturday, December 15, 2007 /
Mary J. Blige is the Queen and her music is real!
84.
Darius
Saturday, December 15, 2007 /
1. Work That
Blige, Mary J.; Feemster, Theron Otis; Sean Garrett
2. Grown Woman
Blige, Mary J.; Christopher Bridges; Dejoin Madison; Terius “The-Dream” Nash
3. Just Fine
Blige, Mary J.; Dream; Jazze Pha; Stewart, C. “Tricky”
4. Feel Like A Woman
Blige, Mary J.; Feemster, Theron Otis; Terius “The-Dream” Nash
5. Stay Down
Blige, Mary J.; Bryan-Michael Cox; Johnta Austin
6. Hurt Again
Andre Harris; Blige, Mary J.; Brian Sledge; Vidal Davis
7. Shake Down
Blige, Mary J.; Dream; Jazze Pha; Stewart, C. “Tricky”
8. Till The Morning
Pharrell Williams
9. Roses
Blige, Mary J.; Dream; Stewart, C. “Tricky”
10. Fade Away
Blige, Mary J.; M.S. Eriksen; Ne-Yo; T.E. Hermansen
11. What Love Is
Blige, Mary J.; M.S. Eriksen; Ne-Yo; T.E. Hermansen
12. Work In Progress
Charles Harmony; Ne-Yo
13. Talk To Me
Blige, Mary J.; Eric Hudson; Johnta Austin; Robert Wright; Verdine White
14. If You Love Me?
Blige, Mary J.; Bryan-Michael Cox; Johnta Austin
15. Smoke
Ne-Yo; Reggie Perry
16. Come To Me (Peace)
Blige, Mary J.;Dream;Kuk Harrell;Stewart, C. “Tricky”
85.
I.N.D.E.P.E.N.D.E.N.T.
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
Grown folk music at its best. LOVE “Roses.” “Shake Down” is nice too — I can definitely see myself vibing to that when I’m with my fiancee’.
All in all, I’m looking forward to this album.
86.
gg boo
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
I’m a little nervous about you #77 - that was a foul thing to say about Aaliyah. She was a great artist in her own right and so were/are the others you mentioned. I love Mary, too, but many of the things that make Mary so great is because she overcame so many things. However, her struggles almost parallel Whitney Houston’s who you so callously put down. Abusive men, drugs, etc…and we should be praying for Whitney’s full and total recovery so she, too can regain her whole life, the same as Mary was able to. Agree or disagree, you need to check yourself joking about someone being taken from this world so soon.
87.
InLoveWitIt
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
People mustn’t have anything better to do on a saturday night
@65 Fergie is disgusting. Her records are tailored to reach a certain “demographic”. Ms. Keys, makes music for older crowds I think.
Mary J Blige is certainly a favorite. She deserves the best cause she is a great voice for those who like that. Not everyone likes that voice. Just like folks were discussing rianna. Not everyone likes that voice either.
At the end of the day, these folks do this for money.
88.
Softest Place On Earth
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
I’m liking a lot of the songs I’ve heard so far. I’m gone cop the Mary album for the simple fact Mary always bring it, imo.
When you go to the stores pick up that new MARIO GO!
89.
REBEL
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
#87 That sounds like a personal dislike. So your argument can’t go far, sorry.
90.
Harlem Mami
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
I love Mary because has been able to keep it crispy even after all these years! LUV YA MARY!
91.
BIGVON
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
WHEN AN UNINTELLIGIBLE MUSIC FAN SAYS THEY DONT LIKE MARY..U SHOULD TURN YO HEAD AWAY FROM THEM…THEY DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY R TALKIN BOUT….SHE IS UNIMPRESSIVE..WHO IS THEN…EVERYBODY RKETINGWHO KNOW BETTER KNOWS MARY IS A BEAST….SHE IS ALL MARKETING AND IMAGE…FUC OUTTA HERE…HER IMAGE IS THE PROTOTYPE NOW….U R NOT MY AGE…COULDNT B..U DONT UNDERSTAND MARY…ANYBODY WHO KNOWS BETTA WOULD NOT B ABLE TO MOUTH THOSE WORDZ…WHERE U THINK HER RESPECT CUMZ FROM…WORKING..HOW MANY ALBUMS SOLD…SHE HAS A BANGA WITH EVERY RAPPER WHO COUNTZ IN THA GAME…REAL TALK..EVERY LAST ONE..AND PROLLY ON THERE CLASSIC ALBUM….SHE IS THE QUEEN BECAUSE OF AN UNCOUNTABLE HIT LIST..PLAIN AND SIMPLE…THA CHICK WHO SAID SHE WANTED HER MONEY BACK AFTA A MARY CONCERT….U JOKIN’ RIGHT…………
92.
thafuture
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
mary j. blige is on another level she’s droppin nothin but great musc and she’s the best…by the way check out this funny great producer: DJ Triumph
http://www.myspace.com/djtriumph383
93.
BKChick
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
Why do black people have to always “pit against one another”? First off, Mary is not the same music genre as Rihanna..SO JUST STOP IT!! Secondly, Mary J. has to stay relevant to the game and the music industry, because she is aging and she has to still be able to connect, unlike Janet Jackson and others, who simply don’t know how to stay relevant and cross music genre and age groups. So for this, I give Mary J. Mad props..I was at my daugthers 6th grade Winter Ball this past Friday, and they were all jamming still to Be Without You and Runaway Love (with Luda)…so on that note, Mary is still relevant to what is still missing in the game of Hip-Hop and R & B, and no one has taken her crown as yet…Not even Ashanti’s behind as well!!! So please stop comparing Mary to Beyonce, Rihanna and others…I love Faith Evans, unfortunately she would be Mary’s only other comparison, and unfortunately, Faith has not gotten the right Record Label and Producers behind her to stay in game, and Lauren Hill would be the other competition, and even Lauren has fallen off….Erkayah Badu is coming out with a new joint, but even she is a different genre as well..SO LEAVE MARY ALONE AND LET DO HER THANG! Coping the Joint on Dec 18th…”Love it or Hate it”…”All Hail Mary”, The undisputed Queen or Hip-Hop/R&B!
94.
stonerose
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
oh my god, this is what i needed to hear today! in my face tellin’ me to suck it up man, i know what she talkin’ ’bout and people urk the hell out of me tellin’ me all that mess. this is therapy. i will buy this tuesday, if i can’t but the album on itunes. got me crying
95.
gg boo
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
For all real Mary fans…
VH1 is having a Mary J. day on Tuesday. All her videos, documentaries and other appearances…. Just a heads up.
96.
rubyspirit
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
Mary needs to take a break and make us crave her music.
97.
Clickheretoreadcommentingrules
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
@94
Why in the hell would you wanna buy an album on iTunes? Technology degrades throughout the years and can be deleted but CDs can last for decades…go to Best Buy/Target/Wal-Mart/FYE/Virgin whatever, just go buy the damn CD! I’m sick of people buying shit on crappy iTunes.
FYI, you can upload your CD to your iTunes library and then install it onto an iPod or whatever
98.
Bryce
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
To be honest…this album is sub par to what Mary has released in the past…of all the songs, only three really stood out to me…:Hurt Again”, “Roses”, and of course, “Just Fine”…I really feel like Mary is running out of material because it does seem like she is constantly singing about the same thing…I wouldnt waste the 15 dollars.
99.
Darius
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
This album is way better than the last one and I guarantee another multiplatinum plaque
100.
Missdiva
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
who in the hel got the nerve to compare mary to rhianna…or you kidding jokester..lol
when rhianna see half of mary’s successful years in this game…which will be 8 or more years then you can START comparing…other than that keep it real and hope rhianna have enough in her to last that long in this game…for goodness sake people she just parlayed herself in the game over 2 years ago…
I WILL BE COPPING MY 2 COPIES OF GROWING PAINS TUESDAY…MARY ALWAYS AND I MEan always has something to say…thats all folks……..
101.
TIANNA
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
I LOVE this album. Mary really did her thing on this! Its definitely for the grown folks.
102.
Buttercup
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
Shake Down is my SHI*T
103.
BIGVON
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
SINGERS HAVE PRODUCERS…THATS WHAT THEY DO…MARY HAS ALMOST ALWAYS CO WRITTEN HER MATERIAL
HER COMPETITION IN THE GAME IS NON EXISTENT……..HER HITLIST ONCE AGAIN IS CHECKABLE…THESE R FACTS..NOT JUST SINGLES SHE GOT ALBUMZ…REMIXES…HER COLLABOS R WITH THE WHOLE ENTIRE INDUSTRY….
HER PERFORMANCES R CLASSIC….IF U LIKE R AND B AND DONT FUC WIT MARY..I DONT KNOW WHAT 2 TELL YA…
TO THE YOUNG’NZ COMPARIN HER 2 ANYBODY..DO YA HOMEWORK
WHY WOULD MARY STOP…SHE IS ON TOP OF HER GAME..SUMTIMES I DONT GET YALL OPINIONZ..SOMEBODY SUCCESSFUL WIT A REAL DAY JOB AS AN ENTERTAINER ALWAYS HAS 2 TAKE THIS DUMB ASS BREAK THAT YALL THINK THEY NEED…DONT LISTEN 2 THEY MUSIC..THATS HOW ARTISTS END UP ON BREAKZ……….MARY
TO THA (UNIMPRESSIVE) HATERS..U TELL ME WHATS HOT IF SHE NOT….
IM A DUDE AND CAN TELL U THAT SHE AINT ROCKIN WACK ASS RIHANNA HAIRSTYLE…….SHE BEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN FLY
104.
DOLLA MENU
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
“I GOTTA BE BUMPIN HEADS WITH YOU”"
LMAO
GON’ MARY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
105.
Kitten
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
#56 you have lost your damn mind! Teedra Moses can sing her ass off. And she has soul! I love Mary she is the shit she has soul and class I love her. I’ve always been a big fan since What’s the 411!!! Faith Evans voice is beautiful as well. Faith Evans wrote most of Mary’s music and she’s sung background on the majority of Mary J’s My Life album. So please don’t sleep on Faith. She’s married with children. Mary still thinks she’s young and she can do that b/c she’s the QUEEN! I love her and I will be purchasing her new cd and I don’t even buy cd’s anymore. And that Beyonce/Ashanti comment. We all know Beyonce is more talented than Ashanti but that’s not much competition. Ashanti can’t sing. Beyonce is overrated and someone had the nerve to compare Beyonce to the old Mary J who used to have 5 songs playing in heavy rotation over the radio. To me there’s no comparison. Beyonce is a pop singer who does the same dance moves and flinging swinging the hair looking dizzy as fuck. Mary is a soulful singer who doesn’t have the best voice in the world but she hits the spot for me. I can feel her. With Beyonce you can only hear her and she has no soul in her voice. We don’t have real singers anymore. Bottomline!
106.
CGJ
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
People who say they don’t “get Mary” are probably really young and have never experienced some of the things that she’s been through in her life
- everybody knows about Ki-Ci - if ANYONE who has ever been in love with the wrong man, and ALL the drama that comes from that…I know I’ve been there
- and then there’s the substance abuse to cope with the pressures of her career, and to escape (or keep up with) Ki-Ci ( My Life/Share My World)
- you kinda start figuring out what you gotta do to be a better you FOR you, and you get rid of all the drama (No More Drama)
- you’re coming into your own, and figuriing out what it takes to be YOU (Mary)
- And once you figure it out, you see the evolution of yourself, a woman (The Break Through)
- But then Breaking through is not the end, because maintaining that level of self-actualization you just reached takes WORK, and thus there will be “GROWING PAINS”
I have rode with Mary through the journey of her life, and every time I didn’t think I was ready to take the next step, Mary would drop a joint, and it would be what I needed to hear. I was dealing with an infidelity issue in my marriage, and I heard “Just Fine” for the first time - that became my anthem. And I was feeling “Work That” - work what you got! And now Roses - the QUEEN does it AGAIN! I can’t wait until Tuesday.
Mary’s story tell is a coming of age story for a lot of African American women. Cuz baaby, if you’re in your late 30’s, and you’r still stuck back there somewhere around “No More Drama,” you need to get it together.
107.
CGJ
Sunday, December 16, 2007 /
And as Mary would say - “you can hate it or looove it, hate it or loovee it…”
I Love Mary, but there are abviously a LOT of HATERS on the CL…
108.
Kiki B.
Monday, December 17, 2007 /
Wow I just loooove Mary’s new album she def. did her thang, can’t wait to cop Tuesday!
109.
MURDA
Monday, December 17, 2007 /
i’ve heard growing pains in its entirety, and no, its NOWHERE NEAR one of marys best works, not even close. its not a classic album. its just ok. shes not goin to do “breakthrough” numbers this time out. “just fine” FLOPPED HARD. coming off of the success of “be without you” single wise so far, she has not delievered. “work that” SHITS on “fine”. ever since her label merged into geffen, she just has not been the same. they pick all the wrong singles to support the album.
what makes “pains” wack is the production. its not tight at all. it was a horrible decision to have the dream, and tricky stewart produce the bulk of the songs.
this is supposed to be the “queen of hip-hop soul” where the hell are the hip-hop songs? theres only 2 hip-hop tracks on the entire album. WTF?! she needs to stick with what originally got her to the plateau shes on. THE HIP-HOP!!!
110.
Rob
Monday, December 17, 2007 /
Yo i have loved mary ever since i seen the real love video and i still love and will always love her…2 all the haters out there spend u time doin something else nobody is tryna force you to like mary b u and do wht u do and get ova it Mary is the shit and like she said “u can hate it or luv it.”
111.
ashley
Monday, December 17, 2007 /
mary you did yo thing ! luv it
112.
KSH
Monday, December 17, 2007 /
Mary is working it! This CD is going to be better than I thought! I heard them playing “Work That” during the Sunday Night Football game - GO MJB! I am def going to pick up a copy tomorrow!
113.
BLACK
Monday, December 17, 2007 /
HER ALBUM IS STR888888 FIREEEEEE……. ITS A MUST TO GET
114.
Work_That
Monday, December 17, 2007 /
The QUEEN! All of you folks need to stop with the comments saying you not a fan but you’ll by the CD. Stop faking she’s the QUEEN! No one will ever stop her!
Luv Ya,
Mary keep doing ya thing!
115.
foxxy380*RIP PIMP C
Monday, December 17, 2007 /
First off, all you people on here talking about you don’t like Mary and she can’t sing. Please answer one simple question for me. Why in da f^ck did you click on a Mary J ablum review post? If you felt that way, why waste your time dumba$$? And the ones that are saying Mary does not do grow folk music are the same ones who are on Bey/Rih post praising songs like Kitty Kat, Greenlight, Freakum Dress, Umbrella, Shut Up and Drive. Are you kidding me? So your comment/opinions doesn’t even hold water. Mary IS and will always be considered the Queen. Get over it B!TCHES!! And deal with it.
Tomorrow, Dec 18 I will be in the stores buying 3 copies. One for home, one for the car and one for the job. Yes, it’s that serious. LOL
116.
Sassycat
Monday, December 17, 2007 /
I’m not feeling this Mary J hate. She been in the game for years. A lot of people have fallen off. I laugh at folks who run behind the latest artist who is just a fad at the moment. Then when they dont do so well yall forget about them and go after the next person. I love Mary J music no matter what. Quite franklin she is doing great she keeps making music and she is currently happy. Alot of people don’t understand Mary J is being used to heal people through music she has a gift that a lot of singers dont have. Its nice to have a wonderful voice and thats all you have. Go to a Mary J show you will be enteratained and touched in a way you never been before.. Its not about the hype with Mary J and she will tell you that. . Yall can go crazy over ya Rhiannas and Beyonce’s this is a flashy world but do know they will get played out also.
Mary J is the bomb she has a great voice she brings a wonderful show. She always have a hit song and she is doing more than Music. And she dosen’t have to be hurt by a man to make a big hit. She proved that already.
117.
Christiana
Monday, December 17, 2007 /
Rihanna sings out her nose and that is annoying as hell- she’s just beautiful but her singing isn’t
118.
TIANNA
Tuesday, December 18, 2007 /
Mary may not be the BEST vocalist out here but, she is soulful. Thats what makes her different. When she sings about some realness - you feel her. Thats why everybody liked the old bitter Mary. But the new Mary did not lose that fire. I’m so feeling this cd.
119.
Mary Fan
Tuesday, December 18, 2007 /
I like Mary and have had since her start she has always been a soulful person that put everything she has into her songs
120.
Atl404sFinest
Tuesday, December 18, 2007 /
I just got it today! Grown Woman is tha SHIZNIT!, but there is one song that really hits home to me: What Love is (track 11). That song is sooooooo sincere and the way that Mary tiers the effects of love in this song is just so amazing. This CD has so much contextual advice. I hope that u guys are listening closely!
121.
Jessica D
Wednesday, December 19, 2007 /
i”m sorry, the new artist these days really are crap, the only two good artist in r&b femaie these dayz is keyshia cole and mary, i think people need to stop hatin om mary, she is the longest r&b singer out there, where is rhanna now?? all her other 3 songs after umbrella, all the songs flopped and jay-z wants to drop her, its all the same crap music of party party party, no realness of real life and how people is struggling in real life and they overcoming it, thats i respect keyshia and mary because they tell it how it is, so people who are hatin on Mary and Keyshia cole, get it together!!!!!!!!!!!!!
122.
YLC
Wednesday, December 19, 2007 /
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Young Mary J. Blige fans (male & female) will find this info useful.
123.
Nefertari
Friday, December 21, 2007 /
@106 You said: Mary’s story tell is a coming of age story for a lot of African American women. Cuz baaby, if you’re in your late 30’s, and you’r still stuck back there somewhere around “No More Drama,” you need to get it together.”
Preach sis!
Its ironic because I didn’t like Mary’s music UNTIL I heard Breakthrough and that made me go back and buy everything. She grew up. Some sisters had mothers who are stuck in misery and aunties stuck in misery so all they expect is misery. Mary’s music does show the transformation and she makes me proud. I love this new album as well.
Sisters we really need to work it out. “Mirror” is so real. “Work That” is so real. You won’t understand Mary until you allow yourself to grow up.
124.
Nefertari
Friday, December 21, 2007 /
And any sister who isn’t going to put “Grown Woman” on repeat in her truck, car, suv etc and blast it is missing out. That song is fire! Found my new anthem! My husband heard it and laughed “oh here you go!”
Go Mary!
125.
Brandon James
Saturday, December 22, 2007 /
Go Mary. Girlfriend might even go platinum this week
126.
Tangela
Wednesday, December 26, 2007 /
Well I loved the Breakthrough and I love Growing pains, her vocals are incredible, her style is incredible, love the hair style, the color and the cut you go Mary!
Keep up the good work, and may God continue to bless you with love, and happiness, I pray that God continues to bless your marriage, you two make a beautiful couple. I love you and I can’t wait until you come to Michigan. One day I hope to meet you.
P.S. Two of my favorites are stay down and talk to me.
127.
Nicole F.
Wednesday, December 26, 2007 /
Mary J. Blige is one of my favorite artist, I love each and every CD she has ever made especially Mary, Breakthrough and now Growing pains, I think Mary has grown a lot mentally, physically and spiritually, her vocals are incredible. She looks good and her style is incredible, I am very happy and proud of Mary, I think she is awsome, and most importantly she loves God and she loves herself . I also think if you have nothing nice to say don’t say anything at all at least that is what my mother taught me.
You go Mary!!!!
One of your # 1 fans Nicole F.
128.
Mark
Thursday, January 31, 2008 /
Kiesha cole?Lol. Wannabe marx j from back in da day. She cant even sing. MARY IS HOT AND I WILL LOVE HER TILL DA END.She so real and dis album is HOT.
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