Everyone looks like they are having fun…..but Im starting to get worried about Tocarra she seems to have some deeply hidden self esteem issues…She always seems so desperate to be liked and received well by the public….also seems desperate to remain on TV and “standards” bar seems to be getting lower and lower. *Shrug* I miss the ANTM cofident and secure Tocarra

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omg i didnt even know that was toccara she looks soooo cute!!!!…and nice hair cut!!!

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Toccarra is a very pretty sister. I’m not loving this outfit–but she is young and can pull it off. That being said, admittedly what follows is a repost from another blog where I oiginally posted it. Its my soapbox for my sisters, so I’m posting it here as well. You/We are too beautiful not to be told these things every now and then.

@everybody who says Tocarra needs a breast reduction…

Respectfully-I disagree. Poor girl is damned if she does and damned if she doesn’t. MOST women want to lose weight without losing breasts. She managed to do it–and on every blog at least one person is talking about Tocarra’s back pain–the funny thing is that Tocarra hasn’t said anything about back pain. Why is it that Pamela Anderson can be skinny with huge breasts and she is the epitome of sexy—but Tocarra needs a breast reduction? I’m SURE that injecting silicone balls into your breasts is heavier than the real ones.

Additionally, if you are heavy busted like that (I have been since high school) you have had lots of years to carry the breasts around. Your breasts are supported by your back, shoulder and chest muscles. As long as she got stronger through lifting weights on FIT club–she is probably carrying them around much easier than when she was heavier all over.

Finally..I was driving to work thinking about this this morning–we have completely and totally bought into the biggest lie white society has told us this century…

First, our skin was too dark and therefore not feminine enough so we wanted to be white.

Then our lips were too big and therefore not feminine enough so we wanted them to be thin.

Then our hair was too nappy–and not feminine enough so we wanted to be permed.

NOW, our bodies are too curvy–and ironically STILL not femnine enough so we want to be built like teenaged boys (sorry Kate Moss and the rest of them look like teenaged boys with plastic breasts.

Funny thing is—while we are running around trying our damndest to be like them–their women are injecting silicone into every body part that they can–trying to get lke us.

Its a trick. Stop falling for it. Get healthy. Get strong and Get fit–but none of that means you have to get bony teenaged boy looking.
It is such a trick.
Not falling for it.

Happy to be Nappy
Love my Lips
Brick House Curves in All the Right places
Chocolate is in my name for a reason
American culture and its attempt to make everything wrong about a black woman can Kiss my a$$

i don’t know why WEBBIE won’t cut it his fuckin eyebrows he looks a HOT ASS MESS!

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shit all dem lame azz niggaz datz on here yall need 2 take dem off real talk like Terrance dat dude so lame put me on 106 i bet ihave dat hoe crunk Birdman,Wyane,DJ Khaled watup Blood.Webbie u b clean den ah bitch bro keep it gansta ur cd go hard den ah bitch, A i want u and Zro 2 do a song together dat hoe gone go hard.South gone hold it down ya digg.

wat bet spring bling

Toccara looks sexy.. i hate hair cut on her, but i’m loving that stomach & hell with the person saying she needs a one piece.. I’m pretty sure you can’t look that good in a two piece! =) haters!

and post 157 I couldn’t have agreed with you MORE!!! =)

damn ya took sum nice piks well i wish i can meet sum of ya but i cant but i think sum day i will……lol but gots to go bye..

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