they dont look too happy together..wtf was he thinking…in this case USH momz was right…she tryin to lead ur career, she a gold digger, been used and abused (given the other children) and SHE LOOK LIKE A MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! u deserve better !

@48 sure you do you sound pretty yourself

Tameka and Usher look DEFIANT! Like Fuck the world! Their body language reads: US against EVERYONE! Oh well! Good luck with that!

Good to FINALLY see one of her damn kids!

Is some of yall mad cause he with a real black woman?

with all of the money between them, I just wish she does something better with her hair, it just always looks a mess, IMO

@77 Thanks, and if your being sarcastic Thankyou anyway

Most of the people posting how old Tameka is, or how ugly she look, or how many kids she has. How many of you are all that? You have no right to judge anyone by what they look like, and how many kids they have. You are suppose to be looking for iner beauty as well.

I would like to see a picture of y’all…and count how many children and baby daddies y’all got….

@#28
You are dead on…..!
I mean I never got the hate on this one. Who knows what will happen with them but his age, his celeb status and her looks and her kids have little to do with it. He’s always liked older women and I completely respect him for being with a chick he obviously connects with instead of someone he chose because they’d look sexy for the paparazzi. Isn’t a true, good relationship about connection and how the person makes you feel?

I wish them and everyone else truly in love the best. It’s not that easy to find or keep good love.

And what you see in public is not always indicative of a private relationship. That’s for sure….

I wanna see their baby boy!

How does he look unhappy? some of you are ridiculous.

It’s cute that he’s hanging out with his step son. I don’t blame them for not releasing baby pics. Most of you will probably just criticize the little boy and call him ugly anyway, no matter what he looks like.

Listen up people. It’s not so much tameka is ugly, it’s her disposition. She was up in arms against ayone and everyone as soon as Usher made her his woman. She started stuff with Chilli and Usher’s mother can’t even stand her. What does that tell u? I think alot of people see Usher and feel he can have his choice of any woman and in comparison, Tameka does not rank high on looks. You guys can say what you want to but at best she’s an average looking woman. Look at chilli? She was older than Usher too but her age was never an issue really because A. She didn’t look her age and B. She’s Gorgeous. I think her and Tameka have similar complexions honestly. Chilli has that long hair but she isn’t light skin or mix. Tameka is old,looks it, and very average looking. No star quality and she’ll just ride the reigns of Usher’s sucess…

i dont know if anuybody will get this but her face has a lot of space..like she dont really lok like she has cheekbones or nothing in between her eyes and mouth…
but her sons cute

Its apparent that many of you sistas come from broken homes, where men were devalued and father/mother relationship was not on the forefront.
Love is not based on looked whether you have a million dollars or $10. Love is based on something so much stronger which is why many of you don’t understand it, question it or just plain will never experience it. All you have is your sad comments and insults about this black family that shows exactly how far the black woman’s mindset and fallen into the gutter of foolishness.

So since you continue to insult this brotha and his family.. . God will continue to bless them. I am sure the Raymonds would love to thank all their haters in person for keeping the blessings flowing for them.

Black love is more powerful than your fruitless mind. Get some “real” black love of your own.

I LOVE, BLACK LOVE!

What the hell is a “real black woman look” we are all different in looks. That’s what makes us beautiful from looks of Beyonce all the way down to miss Ebony herself Alek Wek. We as black women can never unite because we too busy being color struck and thinking that one particular shade is the epitome of what a black woman. It’s not light and it’s not dark it’s all shades. My dark skin women and light skin and my in between women need to get it together! We are all beautiful! so stop it!

Anyways Tameka looks better than she did before so that’s great and good for usher he sound someone that he loves

@58 SKANKNESS aka Hotness

Do you even know the meaning of negative? both of the statements you and the other chick made where full of negative comments, just like the others that you disagree with. The only difference is that your negative comments were directed to them and theirs were directed at Ms Foster. You are taking this way to personal, so YOU must be the ugly one. Having flashbacks? They are not talking about you sweety. Get some help, maybe even some meds. smooches

I know it gets annoying to be a celebrity sometimes, especially with all the cameras in ur face all the time. It look like they just want to run out to the store and just be normal people…but they can’t because the paparazzi is snappin pixs as they parallel park the car…

I’m happy for their relationship though and I hope they last becuz there are enough broken homes and families giving up on each other.

If Usher was courting a white woman (let alone one with kids of her own) ya’ll would be bitchin’. Stop that.

@91 Okay super-save-a-hoe! I would have really liked it if the people who I so-called were referring to had addressed the issue instead of u. Just by you saying “Smooches” already tells me what you look like, a ghetto hobbit ,what a BIRD! lmaooooooooooo

You just can’t take it, can you? You can’t stand a woman apart from the stereotype being with a man who should be shooting for the stars… If black athletes started actually marrying black women, you’d die… I cannot believe this!

whateva, HOTbreath. You are not even worth my attention. You are officially dismissed.

does anyone else think that usher and tameka are the new whitney and bobby . . . . which means they are destined for the same failure?

The song is mediocre at best!! If you singing about the club the shit in going to be a guaranteed hit (negroes love that). NEEEEXT.

@54 i didn’t say anything that was not the truth!

@ #73,
Give me a break. You’re the one that mentioned that she had dark skin NOT me; so you’re the one that needs to COME OFF IT! I love how you subconsciously let that out. i was speaking of people who are of mixed race not so far down in their genealogy, not those from several hundred years ago!

Tamika is a great representation of the everyday Black woman! I have been to many cities in the states with large Black populations, and if you walk down any street you will see many Black women that look like her. There is nothing wrong with the way she looks. Just because there are plenty of insecure women out there doesn’t make her any less attractive. He Obviously doesn’t want you! GET OVER IT!

It makes me so pissed off that there are so many women who are mad at seeing a Black man with a Black woman! Heck a Black woman with any man, misery loves company! Is he not suppose to be with a her because he’s successful? Is he not suppose to be a good father to his children (including the step sons)?

I’ll just sit around and laugh and wait for CL to post something on Kim K and Reggy and wait for the shit to hit the fan!

@97 so then shut the f*ck up!

who cares..probably wont last

There are a whole lot of ugly darkskin women on here taking these comments personally.

Take a deep breathe and realize that they are not talking about YOU.

So sad.

#103
you are REALLY REALLY unintelligent.

ELLE a phant

They are not talking about you. relax. geesh.

#105
SMH If the woman is believed to be the AVERAGE BLACK WOMAN, why shouldn’t ALL BLACK WOMEN be offended when she is denigrated merely because she isn’t conventionally attractive?????????????? Or are you okay with bigoted tripe?

Did anybody on here say she was ugly because she is dark? Maybe I missed it. Maybe it’s because dark skin women feel that they are unattractive so they think that is the reason people say she is ugly. You know there are some ugly light skinned women, too. Why can’t it just be their opinion. Just like you have yours.

I@Sugar150……So true….The mainstream media has us thinking that “Black”
people are of mixed races , with lighter skin and caucausian textured hair. We
rarely see black people in the mainstream media who look like their dad is Eddie
levert and whose mom is Patty Labelle. I’m just so glad that Usher and P Diddy
were not scared to have a true black babies. I applaud them….

#53 I’d kiss you for that comment- preach mami. Tanika looks pretty in those pics- she got them eyebrows done- work it

Some of you can’t phantom the fact that Usher married that older “ugly”women .. Lmao . Say what you feel he seems happy and at the end of the day ,Why do we care ? I also find it hilarious how some of you just find any excuse to dislike this women . I don’t think she’s all that bad looking to be honest . If he like it I love , Idon’t have to live with them so whatever .

LMAO, and not at Tameka and Usher.( They look Happy, and like any other couple.)

at these comments.

People can have their opinions, but when it ends up in a pointless debate about people who have nothing to do with you, and dont know you exist.

iits entertaining

#107
I didn’t read a single comment in this topic, aside from yours…the last one I saw when I refreshed the page… And I responded to it because it seemed so short-sighted… My initial comment was made blindly…I just KNEW someone was calling the woman names and ripping her head off because I HAVE read blogs about the woman in the past that were unbelievable…And, as it turns out, I was right… I was right to post that first comment under the assumption that there was a barrage of hateful comments about the woman. Again, this woman is believed to represent the average black woman… So, if hearing her called “ugly” and “maneka” does nothing to you, then that’s fine… It annoys me…

@100

@47 oh please come up off it! the only reason you probaly saying that she’s beatiful because she is darker skin(actually she really isn’t that dark)and most if not all of us black folks from the U.S are mix. and i don’t think she is the best candidate for showing how a black woman look like.

where do i accuse you saying anything about her being dark skin? I made my own assumption just like you assume i want usher. that’s your fantasy not mine i find it interesting that you go to all these major black cities and you see tameka’s i disagree black women for the majority do not look like her. the women in my family don’t look nothing like her. another thing is i don’t care if he marry a black woman. there you go again assuming. i think i doesn’t matter if she was white or black if she ugly she ugly. don’t try to make me feel wrong for having an opinion that goes against yours. anyways this getting old real quick.

Damn this just doesn’t make any sense I wish he would come out and tell the world that he married a man that adopted children so we don’t have to wonder anymore.

She has all the things that men run away from:
1. The fact that she is old as hell.
2. Has not one child BUT THREE.
3. She has a how do i put this nicely, a body that shows you “had” many children.

So wtf Usher, let us know wassup.

No hate involved.

@ 107 i agree everybody (well some of you) want to throw the poor dark girl card. if someone thinks she ugly can’t it be that it has nothing to do with her skin tone

USHER IS JUST FAKING IT FOR THE CARMERA AND TAMERKA TO THEY NOT MAD AT EACH OTHER THEY WONT THE CAMERAS JUST GO WAY SO THEY CAN SHOP ALONE. BUT THAT WILL NEVER HAPPENED AND THEY SHOULD SHOW THEY BABY ANDGET PAYED 6.5 MILLON JUST LIKE JLO AND OTHER STAR DID. BY THE WAY JLO TWINS ARE SOOOOOOOOOOOCUTE THE GIRL LOOK LIKE JLO AND THE BOY LOOK LIKE BORTH OF THEM. AND WEAR ARE HIS OTHER KIDS?

THE SECOND PICES TAMERKA IS SMILING AND USHER IS TRYING TO STILL BE MAD AT HER THEY JUST FAKERS. THEY NOT MAD AT EACH OTHER AFTER ALL.

Neither one of them be looking “Happy” in the pic. I mean ya’ll know the drill you a star so folks gonna take pics. Just do like Jay and B, smile all the time(B) or just give a blank glaze(jay) lol

The song, it’s gotta grow on me cause it’s not that hott.

lmao @ 13

>>>> shawty got them apple bottom jeans… she looks soo pretty she made it >>>seem ????like she doesnt care tho, like yea.. we just do what we wanna omg if%%% that was my hubby id be like Hell no BItch, stay away and lemme see ur hand.

He looks so happy!!! and so does she! love the books Tameka!

>>>>but seriously y is usher fine?.

>>>> and thats the song is sooo cool , icant 2 c his son in the vid thats what
???? its all about showing parenthood ;):))))))

I luv Tameka’s bag!

SAY IT AFRICAN _QUEEN! TOTALLY AGREE! WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE TO DECIDE WHAT IS WHAT TO SOMEONE THEY DON’T EVEN KNOW…JUST KNOW HIS SONGS. KNOW NOTHING ABOUT THE MAN. YOU DIDN’T WANT HIM WITH CHILI! IT WOULDN’T MATTER WHO HE IS WITH THEY WOULD STILL BE MAD/HATIN CUZ IT AINT THEM!

Hope you got a pre-nup Usher! You never know…

Maybe they’re actually….. *Shock* ….in LOVE!!!!

I don’t understand what the big deal is, she isn’t sleeping in any of your beds….so who cares. Usher chose to marry her, obviously he sees something you guys don’t.

If he had married some pretty model type, everyone would be asking why he married some gold digging bimbo ………….

I’m not hating but the reason I feel that the relationship is not right is because she shows bad character. I think I lot of people don’t like her, not because she is married to Usher, but because of the way she got with him. Cheating on your husband and leaving your kids behind for another man is not a good way to start off in a relationship. She is a pretty woman but her attitude and the way she carries herself is shitty.

……bitch poleeze usher is a meal ticket for you and yours lolololol NEXT

How do anyone knows how she got Usher ? Were we there ? My grandmother always told me “believe none of what you hear and half of what you see ” . Some of you are way too consumed with this shit . I don’t care who like her or not, but atlest have concrete proof of her short comings , not some mess off of the rumor mill . geez ..

Yuck, i can’t stand her style; my mother dresses better. She has absolutely no “it” factor.

…. in the pictures above usher looks pissed …. he looks like he grabbed her hand and they had a arguement picture r worth a thousand words lolol

Is it just me but do they look like an awkward couple? She looks older (nothing wrong with that) and she seems very sophisticated. Too sophisticated for him.

yadda yadda

#43 you preaching! I agree 100%. I am hoping that many posters on here just have a hard time with expressing their opinion about Tameka (truly hoping). I had to think twice before I made my first comment. I am glad I did b/c I truly expressed how I felt without insulting her. She probably looks better than the majority of females on here.

We’re just used to extremely long fake weaves, a lot of make-up and skin tight clothes. The celebs that look that way in public likely look just like Tameka in private, which is an attractive Black woman being herself.

Why Usher not wearing his wedding ring??? hmmmmmmmmm

im sorry but this looks like a lil boy with his mother.

tameka looks like a pedophile and like she is molesting usher.

this is just gross.

@128: I totally agree with you. I think many folks here are not looking at the overall picture & dynamic of Usher & his wife’s relationship. It started on shaky ground to begin with. You #128 clearly described the situation. And, they were together during Usher’s relationship with Chilli & Eishia Brightwell. Usher does not look happy in those pics. He does not look like he’s at peace. It has nothing to do with Tameka’s complexion or the fact that she’s older black woman. It’s about her stink attitude with everyone especially the fans and her totally disrespect toward Usher’s mom during the wedding. The relationship will probably last 2-3 years tops.

It may be just me, but Tameka looks pretty in the first picture. I normally think she is a very plain and homely looking woman with no style,but in that picture she seems sort of pretty. Maybe its the glow of having a child. Or maybe she is glowing because she knows she has all of us jealous

i never thought of usher as a real man or any other male celebrities as real men who thought for themselves, because i thought they only did what makes their fans and labels happy. i see usher in a whole new light now. he made his own decisions. ive been around black people long enough to know that the majority of them would rather see usher with a mixed girl or model. i commend him not just for marrying a black woman, but for being a man and making his own decisions, because i know that hes having problems with people he know about marrying a black woman who dont look like halle berry or mariah carey, im just keepin it 100 witcha

boooooooooooooooooo-hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiisssssssssssssssssssssssssss!

@47 sugar150 being mixed myself it makes me smh cause its so true most peeps b/c of the media only think mixed black women are beautiful! when they see african american men with african american women they wana hate when most of em hatin african american wake up! its hott! to see usher with her not every chick looks like b or a keys!

Looks like Usher’s been shopping at Urban Outfitters ..I got the black jacket he has but mine has a hood and I just got the shirt as well BOTH at Urban Outfitters last weekend ..

I couldnt do Botega tho lol

She ain’t ugly…she ain’t fine…I will go ahead and say this though: MUST BE LOVE….I pray that they have a real relationship.

@ #5, #72,

If a person–USher or non-celebrity who has no kids meets a person who has multiple kids, an ex-husband or ex-wife, doesnt mean the person with the kids/ ex-spose/baby daddy can’t find love again. My issue with you is with your comment about her having “all those kids”. If you feel like someone with kids can by all means fall in love then why is there a problem with Usher or a non-celebrity with no kids fall in love with Tameka? Answer nothing!

Yes, Tameka may not be as beautiful as Halle Berry, Chilli or Gabrielle Union, and yes, she may possibly be a mean controlling women or yes she may be someone who trapped Usher–but thats Ushers LIFE! It sounds like to me you are a lil’ salty he didn’t find and marry you. And thats real talk.

People who have “all those kids” have as much right to meet and fall in love with A Usher, Chris Brown, or whoever else who is so “young with no kids”. Your comment was very juvenile and honestly, it was ridiculous and in your respone to me, you were beyond contradictive. Thats my issue. Now you can respond if you want to but i’m done……..have a Blessed Easter weekend with you & yours.

I’m sorry, but I just dont get it….and maybe its not my place to either but yo! Ush u trippin dawg. this chick got u wrapped madd tight around her big ass index finger. i guess what they say is true, love is blind. but dawg u Stevie Wonder in this bitch!!

Get a grip people. So you saying that if someone pops out from nowhere and snap your picture, you’re gonna be flashing a Kool-Aid smile…. gimme a break!! Reality check!! These people are human too and they don’t have to prove anything to anyone. (fans included) Anyway…., congrats to them and I wish them nothing but blessings.

omg i LOVE usher im a big fan of his butt ewww why did he marry that girl i mean i dig the love thing and u fall in love wit who u fall in love wit but ughhhhh she sooo no cute and she lookz like a man why would he even be seeen wit hea but what eva if he likes it than i love it i jusss say outta alll the woman in this world that look iight he picked the fluglyest one ewwwww

tameka is ugly as fuck.

IT LOOK LIKE HE WAS ABOUT TO BEAT HER UP. AND YOU DUMB BECUZ I WOULLD OF STAYED WITH CHILLIE 4 THAT. THATS ALL I HAVE TO SAY