She looks gorgeous!!!

And Bill it’s not just Black women.

OPINION_ONE said:

CONCRETELOOP I’m begging you!!!!

You people are EXTREMELY relevant to the mainstream media, so use your power wisely. Do we need to give free publicity to magazines like KING Magazine? Especially when we were all doing everything to encourage people to boycott BET’s “We gotta do better” stereotypical TV show not so long ago. Our image has been damaged let’s keep it decent whenever we HAVE THE POWER TO. Stacey’s body is hot at age 42, good for her, but c’mon CL, let’s not give this kind of press the time of the day on this site.

Sincerely,
OPINION_ONE

Bill Said:

I cosign 101%
I was watching BET last night, and they had two shows on that annoyed the hell out of me
Black Celebrity Poker & Hell Date….

King Magazine is a magazine that is trying to put accross the message that Black Woman are nothing but Oversexed Big Butt Woman…

I don’t apreciate the stereotype.
I don’t appreciate the images that they are trying to project about OUR community.

Other communities think we (the black community) are nothing but junkies & hoes.
Why reinforce that image in THEIR minds….

Peace

This girl body is the shiznit. I’ve always thought that Stacey Dash had more class than to pose for KING magazine. She looks great and very natural. I mean they can say what they want but she looks better than Janet Jackson. She has a natural clean look to her body and face. I think Lisa Raye kills it too. I’ve already started my walking regimen.

@74 you said it all…i guess she feels she has to compete w/ these youngens,

BLACK DON’T CRACK…makes me want to work out HARDER!! GO AHEAD STACEY..MAKE IT RAIN ON THEM YOUNG HOES!!!!

If your 42 and look this good You have to Give it up for her(Round of Applause)lol

Let me start by saying im not HATING! but where the hell did all that come from! i seen her nude pics when she posed 4 playboy and she didnt have all that! that goes 2 show that KING is always enhancing something! but if it all hers i aint made get it STACE! lol

airbrush, angles, midlife crisis… whatever, she looks great!

She 42!! what!! man i wonna look like thats when im in my 40’s! lol

I’m luvin her body… She has good genes especially when she is in her 40’s!!!! I’m lookin forward to my 40’s…lol

whoa. she still looks GOOD!!!

Flatbush Vixen said:

Let me start by saying im not HATING! but where the hell did all that come from! i seen her nude pics when she posed 4 playboy and she didnt have all that! that goes 2 show that KING is always enhancing something! but if it all hers i aint made get it STACE! lol

Bill Said:
“Rhymes with Snitch” said the same thing !

She was either Photoshop’ed or Adobe’ed for King Magazine…

See for yourself……..Warning, Nude Photo’s……

NSFW (Not Suitable for work !!!!! - NUDE Photo’S !)
http://rhymeswithsnitch.b...stacy-dash-naked-ass.html

NSFW !!!!
NSFW !!!!
NSFW !!!!

* I read somewhere she has a 17 year old son…I wonder how he feels about his mother posing nude…..

She’s trying to show everyone what she’s working with! No shame in her game, no need to apologize for her business decision to flaunt her assets!

@Bill

I agree totally brother, but you can’t win. If the black man has the sisters dress half-naked, he has no respect for black women. If he asks them to stop dressing like a damn whore, he’s trying to “control” black women. Let them do what they want. They’re “liberated”. Then when the white man calls them “nappy-headed hoes”; they get irate, want to write petitions, blame some rappers, and go on Oprah crying, lol.

she is fkn hott!!! i’d do her even though shes only a few years younger thn my mommy!!

i had no idea she was in her 40’s. i thought she was like in her twenties maybe early thirties. but reguardless she still looks good. and since when does she have that big of a butt?

DAMN

42 no way!!!!!!!!!! SHE COULD PASS FOR 19!!!!!!

Her, Lisa Raye, and Janet Jackson are killing everything 40 and below..

I see you Stacey! She looks absolutely FABULOUS, for ANY age! I swear, Miss Dash doesn’t look a day over 25.
I agree totally with #54 (Amarie4911): If I looked like that NOW (and I’m far from my 40’s), you probably wouldn’t be able to keep clothes ON me! (j/k) Stacey has just inspired me to get my lazy self back to the gym.

Judah and Bill, how many black men have asked black women to stop dressing like a whore vs the images rappers spew everyday?

How many?

wow 42??? shes the same age as my mom and im 19!!! i can’t believe that!! i can’t picture my mom on the cover of king lol

do your thang stacey!!!

BLACK DONT’T CRAAAAAAAACCCCKKK!!

setian said:

Judah and Bill, how many black men have asked black women to stop dressing like a whore vs the images rappers spew everyday?

How many?

Bill Said:

In doing research on your question, I found a very interesting article on The Black Woman (Jezebel) Stereotype

http://www.ferris.edu/jimcrow/jezebel/

* I was actually searching for speeches that Elijah Muhammad and Malcolm X have made on this topic…..Give me a few minutes to research further…

I agree 100% with comments 24 & 25. Comeback? Pls. Those 2 movies will probly be straight ti dvd.

What is her job?

Stacey has a teenage son, Austin Williams(1991). So does Garcelle Beavais( Fancy from Jamie Foxx show), Oliver(1991). How do these two ladies pose naked\*ss shots with teenage sons?

How embarassing it must be for 17yr olds Austin & Oliver. I’m sure that they have friends massaging their penis\ejaculating to their mom’s pictures!

She looks FANTASTIC!!! AHH!!!! Work out Stacy!

I think that ass has been photo shopped…………or something

Bill, i agree with you that it was unnecessary for her to pose for king. Most people were not surprised because we all saw her earlier nakid pics. I honestly believe that why there is less of a backlash against her is :

1. Because she is older. Sexuality/Purity has always been strictly for the young. society cares little for people deemed older.

2. Because most people are GENUINELY pleasantly surprised (even us women) at how fab she looks for her age.

3. Because of (2&3) above, i personally do not get the impression that the black women that see these pics think to themselves “hmm, when i get to 40, if i’m looking as good as her, i”ll strip for king”

I’m aware of the black woman’s ‘jezebel’ history. I just do not see how this woman posing for King, can be seen as being on par with the gazzilions of images, videos that black male rappers have perpetuated and profited off by using black women’s bodies over the past 14 years.

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A small piece on Stacy from here:

http://www.starpulse.com/...sulted_son_before_baring_

Stacey Dash Consulted Son Before Baring All

Stacey Dash only agreed to pose naked for Playboy after her teenage son gave his blessing. The 41-year-old cousin of rap mogul Damon Dash is best known for her role as Alicia Silverstone’s pal Dionne in the hit film Clueless.

She tells Empire magazine, “I asked my 17 year-old son and he was like ‘Okay, Mommy, do it.’”
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As for this above…i guess its their family their business. I’m surprised he would be ok with it but who knows…maybe he’s one of those artsy kids…ok i’m reaching but meh who knows? Everyone’s been commenting so i though i’d put the link up.

she looks good for 42, but at 42 shouldn’t you be some where with clothes on rocking some grand kids. I mean really grow old gracefully

@Setian

I don’t know how many men have asked black women to dress properly. In 2008, we’re talking about 50 years since the initial cultural change to women dressing more provocatively for attention and vanity (and really to exalt the woman for the purposes of destroying the family unit). We’d have to go back to the late 1950’s and see what the black man’s reaction was to black women dressing that way to gauge it properly. The black man may foolishly give a half-naked woman excessive attention but he did not encourage or teach the black woman to do that initially. The white woman started that at the behest of the white man and black women followed after. At this time we’re living in an age where anything and everything goes and yet people sit back and wonder why there are so many sexual deviants.

The black man has become a massive whoremonger but America encourages casual sex. The black woman has become just as big a whore as the black man is a whoremonger, both spiritually and physically. This summer is coming and it will be difficult to tell the difference between the average woman and a prostitute in Times Square. Like I said, I could care less how little clothing the black woman chooses to wear. Whatever spirit you put out is what you get back. If one chooses to dress like a whore and think like a whore, they will be treated as a whore and justifiably so.

42? you mean 24, right?

I can’t believe people really congradulate this kind of sh*t. KING Magazine a degrading magazine towards women and women like Stacy are stupid enough to do it. I can’t believe you all think that this is ok when she’s a MOTHER of 2 MALES who have to deal with their friends seeing this and making sexual humorous jokes. How would y’all feel if yout mother posed like this? If you say you wouldn’t have a problem, you must be a perv, female or male if you would like to see your mom half naked. She’s very pretty and looks young, but shouldn’t go this low. I’m not hatin, at all… that’s just how I feel.

I always knew that some girls would stay looking like 21! Stacey is killing the game. Her body is sick and her face is flawless. I can’t believe that she looks that dayum good! I am Beyonce, Shakira, the old Britney, all those video hos need to bow down to this chick. I mean come on Bitch! Yes!

ahhhhh hello ahhh okay.. did’nt we just see a pic of her last month looking like she was 50?? her bod is not like that for real!!!!! ! ! lololololololo King is crazy!!!

Judah you said:
I don’t know how many men have asked black women to dress properly.
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Well i can answer that. None. EL ZERO. nil. nada. No one.

Yet there are quite a lot of rappers who have infact done the opposite. I just disagree with your implication that black women as a whole resist attempts by black men to dress ‘properly’ but complain when rappers demean them as if this is done on some sort of equal ground. Heck if many (even half) of black men were down with the “don’t dress like a ho” mentality, RAP as an artform (specifically videos) would be dead.

I have different feelings about how women dress today(i personally dress however i feel like that day) but thats a whole nother topic.

OMG …. wow. I could care less about her being 42 cause I would fuck her @ 72 if she looked like that. See, this a PRIME example of a BAD CHICK! All you little girls take notes (along w/ you buttaheads). Ppl need to STOP EGOTRIPPING ugly b*tches like Buffy and Angel. Neither one of those hoes got a damn thing on Ms. Dash! Beauty, BOOTY (lol) AND intelligence. Step ya game up LAMES!!! Oh and yes that’s her ass… refer to “Clueless” AND “All Falls Down” vid.

did we not just see a pic of her last month looking like she was 50! lolol
king need to stop!!

@Setian

No disrespect to you sis but you can’t answer a damn thing. If you’ve never encountered a black man that knows how a woman should dress, then it’s your loss, but I doubt that you would listen to him anyway. That was the point of what I was telling Bill. Bill just used his post as a platform to speak on how the sisters dress so I guess you can make it one black man huh, lol? You further advanced a point I was making when you spoke about how these rappers are controlled by the record labels in making a certain amount of songs and videos to cater to the black woman showing her ass. The black man has no power to tell the black woman how she should dress, and he definitely hasn’t been taught how he should teach his woman to dress. This is why you can “dress however you want” (codeword for whore). The issue is much deeper than Stacey Dash. Look at how you ended your post. You said you dress how you feel that day, so please don’t act like you have any regard for how a man tells you that you should dress. It’s another cop out. The only time that the black woman gets offended is when the white man rejects her conduct because he controls the money.

Lmao @ all of these hypocrites in here. They all constantly tell someone like Mariah that she’s slutty, tacky, and needs to dress her age, and she’s too old to be doing this, and that, but it’s perfectly fine for Stacey Dash who HAS children, and is in her 40s to have her ass hanging out on the front cover of King mag. Yet the majority here are stating how great she looks for her age, and how nice her ass looks on the front cover on this magazine.

Lmao. Fuckin hypocrites.

DANG THAT IS WHAT IS UP MAKES ME FEEL BETTER ABOUT TURNING 30 lol!

I agree with you BiIl and Judah.

Why at 40 do you come out naked in playboy and king? I guess 40 is the new 30 or maybe even 20 because only in your 20’s would you be so insecure that you have to prove “you still got it”. I thought you hit your stride in your 40s. Spiritually,family and career if you are lucky to have both should be on point. Why the need to be assed out? I just dont get it.

I’m 41 and I call tell you that it’s NOT hard at all to look like this. You simply have exercise, eat right and eat LESS. That last one, eating LESS is what messes up MOST black women by the time they get in their 40’s.

But I have to agree with Bill. The ONLY person that needs to see me looking this hot is my husband!

I agree there is a lot of hypocracy here. Why the ok to a woman with kids and criticize a woman with none.

Judah I get it.

It starts in the home with your parents instilling self worth.

Personally I find it hard to say wow go head girl show your ass and not think about the implications it has on black people in America. This kind of stuff confirms what others who are not black in the country what they purcieve to be true about black men and women.

Most other races judge blacks totally different than if it was Paris or Linzey.

Honestly whats the point in posing nude. If it is not for high art than why do it. It is certainly not for respect.

STACY LOOK GREAT, HER AND HALLE ARE KILLING IT FOR 40. I DISAGREE WITH THE 40 IS THE NEW 30 AND 30 IS THE NEW 20 THING. SO MANY ADULTS HAVE THE “PETER PAN SYNDROME”, WHAT HAPPENED TO BEING ALL OF 40. I THINK THAT IT IS SO COOL TO SEE ADULTS WHO AGE GRACEFULLY, INSTEAD OF TRYING TO KEEP UP WITH 20 YEAR OLDS.
STACY IS TOO BEAUTIFUL FOR THIS TRASHY COVER, SAVE THAT FOR WOMEN LIKE BUFFY AND DEELISHES AND BOOTZ. STACY IS VOGUE MAGAZINE MATERIAL.

“But I have to agree with Bill. The ONLY person that needs to see me looking this hot is my husband!”

Exactly!!! Why do this? Her husband is a punk. lol

@110 , sounds like you are not dealing with men that went to/are in college. What a shame!

Actually, there is a lot of disrespect towards me in your post Judah. You end it by likening me to a whore because i told you i dress how i please. You have made a lot of assumptions in your post.
I’ve met a lot of black men. Most of them do not make it their business to tell women what they should or shouldn’t wear mostly because, in all black societies that i’ve seen (save for African muslims) most men assume that women decide their own dress codes (clubbing, weddings, church clothes, etc) which (like rap videos have done today to some extent) is often influenced by pop culture and has done so for thousands of years. Your post assumes that men SHOULD TELL women what to wear and how as if they are too stupid or whorish (like your attack towards me) to make the right decisions on what to wear on a day to day basis. I wear what i like, how i like and when i like quite fine. Do you consult your woman every day about what you should wear? And if your answer is no, then should i assume that its a code word for ‘whore’ or ‘ a terrible dresser’ or ‘gay’?

Or have i committed the ultimate sin by daring to assume a black woman should tell a black man how to dress! Oh the horror!!

You have hostility towards black women. It is not black women that control the money that makes the rap videos Judah. It is not the black women in the vids who invest in that video in order to build some kind of ‘rep’. No one remembers most video ‘hos/girls’.You are right to some extent though….unless it was some kind of emergency type situation, it is very highly unlikely that i would listen to any man or WOMAN telling me what i should wear for the day. Then again, i don’t hang around insecure, stupid, hypocritical, nut jobs with control issues who have a low opinion of all black women. Neither do i doubt my sense of style

I cosign too Bill. And another thing, what does a woman tell herself to justify posing like you are nothing but a fuckable piece of meet. Excuse my language but I needed to state it plane and simply what it is.

Why do so many women feel that their butt and breast define who they are?
Why do so many women feel showing their bodies will validate their sexiness?
Who are they looking to validate this?

And why don’t women realize that a really good black man would not want to see the beautiful black queen exploited?

WHEN ARE BLACK WOMEN GOING TO REALIZE THAT A TRUE KING WOULD NOT WANT HIS QUEEN EXPLOITED.

I HAVE MADE UP IN MY MIND THAT THE WOMEN DON’T DO THIS FOR THE MEN, THEY DO IT FOR THEMSELVES AND THEIR SELFISHNESS. IT IS FUNNY THAT SHE ASKED HER SON IF SHE SHOULD DO IT. C’MON, WHO IS SHE KIDDING. SHE WOULD HAVE DONE IT NO MATTER WHAT AND IS’NT IT CRAZY THAT YOU WOULD EVEN THINK IT IS REMOTELY OK TO EVEN ASK YOUR TEENAGE SON THIS QUESTION. THAT IS JUST BEYOND ME.

YOU SHOULD BE ASKING YOUR SON ABOUT IMPORTANT THINGS GOING ON IN HIS LIFE RATHER THAN WHETHER MOMMY SHOULD POSE NUDE.

THE EGO IS IN CONTROL HERE TELLING PEOPLE TO GO AGAINST GOOD COMMON SENCE!

#121 You do not find a man to tell you how to dress because he went to college

You learn how to dress on your own. From your mom when you are little, from your mom AND influences from friends as a teenager (usually you’re sneaking that ish) to adulthood where the fashion of the day, religious beliefs, ceremony or event and what you feel like/your sense of style that kicks in when you’re an adult.That varies from persson to person and woman to woman.
Please do not weep for me, I’ll skip the college men’s dress advice thanks!

Stacey is timeless. She could still play the role of a teenager… CLUELESS THE COLLEGE YEARS.

Stacy is definitely holding her own… sister looks good, keeping herself in shape and working.

Ive always thought that Stacy Dash was a very beautiful woman. She proves that you dont have to look hard, worn, or old just because you are in your 40’s. However, I dont neccesarily think that posing scantily clad in king magazine is the hottest thing on earth to do. Not just for a 42 year old woman with children, but it could be a 23 yr old woman with no kids. People should not have to be exposed to the crevices of your poseterior end, in order to draw the conclusion that you are beautiful.

STACEY DASH get that shit!!!!! @ 42 she is killing these youngins.

I kinda see some people’s point with the objection to the cover.

However, you see older white women looking young and sexy in men’s magazines, (Pam Anderson is 40 and men are still hot for her) the media praises it. But if a black women does so, white media ignores it and our own community puts them on the dart board. I think it’s pretty double standard to me.

Like I said I think Stacey is beautiful. It shows that she eats adn lives a healthy lifestyle. It’s a reflection imo that Black people has to lay off the soul food.

This is VERY TACKY. I would not consider this to be aging gracefully. She looks like one of the Flavor of Love girls.

Everyone take note: Age does not accompany good taste or class when it comes to Stacy Dash. Angela Basset on the other hand, can teach her a thing or two.

#74, I’ll drink to that!

@130, please do not take this comment as an attempt to attack or offend. However, we are not responsible for what white people do. Just as it has been proven to us that they are far from accountable for what we do. We are responsible for ourselves. And that is part of the problem. We should NOT just go along with the flow because it is thought by another culture to be acceptable. If we dont STAND for something we will FALL for anything. That is exaclty what is wrong with alot of us now. I dont give a rats ass what Pam Anderson does. Quite frankly, I think that its trifling all across the board. If we (black women) do not demand respect, or dont want men to look at us like peices of meat at a slaughter, then what do WE do to fix it?? We stop giving them reasons to!! Who cares what another culture thinks is cool. We’re not them and theyre not us. Further more, if we dont respect ourselves, or make our men respect us, what do you think people of other races and cultures will do? No offense. Just something to think about.

Cosign 134

YOOOOOWWWWZZZZAAAASSSS….. she is gorgeous!!! at 42?!?!? SAY WHAAAAAAAT SAY WHOOOOOOO?!?!? omg…. go on girl…. thank God i’m black…. only black people can age so gracefully…. or not at all (ie: ms. dash)…….. i don’t think her booty was ever THAT huge….. it’s definitely the angle….. but whateva…do your thang ms missy!!!

You know sxyqblondie, I agree. When I made that comment, it was in no way to condone what she was doing nor the white people.

- We shall be held accountable to what we do.
- I wasn’t trying to imply that it was right because white people were doing it. I was just poining out a double standard.
- We don’t need to go with the flow. We are our own in individuals.

However, I feel that she has to do what she has to do. Then again, she doesn’t really have much of an acting career.

If we want to see better representations of black women it starts to us, the whole black community to stop settling for less.

Shop Girl said:

WHEN ARE BLACK WOMEN GOING TO REALIZE THAT A TRUE KING WOULD NOT WANT HIS QUEEN EXPLOITED.

sxyQblondie said:

@130, please do not take this comment as an attempt to attack or offend. However, we are not responsible for what white people do. Just as it has been proven to us that they are far from accountable for what we do.

Bill Said:
I cosign both sxyQblondie & Shopgirl 101 !

Staley said:

You know sxyqblondie, I agree. When I made that comment, it was in no way to condone what she was doing nor the white people.

- We shall be held accountable to what we do.
- I wasn’t trying to imply that it was right because white people were doing it. I was just poining out a double standard.
- We don’t need to go with the flow. We are our own in individuals.

However, I feel that she has to do what she has to do. Then again, she doesn’t really have much of an acting career.

If we want to see better representations of black women it starts to us, the whole black community to stop settling for less.

Bill Said:
Nicely Written !
We should Protect the Images of Our Black Queens !

Bill and Judah,
Black people need to evolve not regress.
Enlightenment is powerful but one must seek enlightenment to be enlightened.
Can anyone understand what I am talking about!

wow she looks great….. but 42 and assed out on a magazine? up your star game, you would never see vanessa williams like this, or mary j blige. maybe if she was 24

I swear people kill me..If she was in that exact same stance,posing butt ass naked in playboy,yall would call it “artistic” But cuz it’s King magazine she should be ashamed of herself ?? Get real..Who cares how old she is ??? People act like just cuz u turn a certain age u gotta roll over n die somewhere..Out of all the 18361836862894696896839638685 pics she’s taken in her life time,she wrong for posing for KING ? It’s KING magazine!!
Who cares if her booty is airbrushed,King’s had females in their 20’s with airbrushed booties,which would be considered worse ? Someone in their 40’s,or someone in their 20’s?? Bottomline is,she looks good regardless..If some of yall looked like she does @ 40,yall would be doing shit way more out there than what she did..Step ya game up

If i look like that when im 42 my azz would be all over King, XXL, Playboy and every other magazine there is out there….so the hatas need to stop hating.

STACEY DASH IS 42?!?!?!

I disagree she is giving these women world wide a run for there money!

@ Bill

Bill u so full of shit
talk about protecting the images of black queens one day and skeeting in a black woman’s face another day. not long ago you “bill said” when i look a black woman all i see are lips, hips, and fingertips. and on the spread for latavia

Bill Said:

If I was in the VIP room at the strip club, I would let her worship at the throne….

“Bow Down Latavia…Ah yeah, that’s it baby..Careful with your teeth !!!”

so which is it bill, how many faces you got?

It’s funny to hear some of you say that if you were 42 and had an ass like that, you’d be all over King, Playboy, ect. But the fact is that if you can’t rock that look NOW, trying to at 42 is likely a pipe dream, lol!!

The second point is that if you had a man that really cared about you, HE wouldn’t want your ass all over a magazine either!

She could have worn a pair of tight fitting 7 jeans, and the effect would have been the same.

Whatever Bill…he fact that she is married and has 3 kids is reason she should do it! How many women at 42, married, pushing 3 kids out look like that. I think it’s showing she’s still sexy …

on another note..

why when Janet did it, everyone was like she need to act her age, cover up, she’s too old, but Stacey do it, It’s like Damn! Stacey hot! I hope I look like her when I grow up?? Can we stop wit the Janet hate. Janet is just to fine, always been fince since Chamaine… I aint saying Penny cuz that R KElly Territory..but girls luv to hate!

@122 Setian

If your point is that you wouldn’t listen to what a black man said in regards to how you dress, then what the hell is your point, lol? You’ve disrespected yourself far more than you think I did and you’re exhibit A or how self-destructive the mindset is of our people. You obviously just wanted to argue because my comment struck a cord. The truth usually does. Now had you paid attention to my entire commentary instead of cleaving onto one sentence (that you took out of context) you would see that I’ve consistently said that I could care less how the black woman dresses. It would not even be worth a thought had it not been that the Most High tells us how a woman should dress and that’s the perspective that I’m speaking from. It just amazes me that so many black women have this cavalier attitude about how they carry themselves and yet they’re so sensitive in regards to how they’re perceived. If you’re going to dress as a whore don’t get offended by the solicitors. Worse yet, those same sisters have the nerve to have no respect for the black man’s opinion but they feel that he, conversely, should stick up for them when the white man says how he really feels about the black woman. I don’t think so.

The black woman has walked out to the end of the proverbial branch and WHEN it breaks, not if, she wil fall to the ground and be forced to humble herself. Simple as that. If someone saw a young black male with a red bandana hanging out his back pocket, that person would assume that that young man was a gang member. If I see a black or hispanic woman with no underwear on with a pair of jeans hanging off her behind, I must assume that she is a whore. Simple as that, because she is advertising herself as a whore does. Then, hilariously, those same under-dressed women have the nerve to constantly pull up the jeans that they wanted to hang off their ass when they left the house because they’re embarassed by the attention that they lusted after. Buffoonery at it’s best. Stacy Dash is emblematic of the addiction to attention that modern day women have and it goes hand in hand with their insecurity. This is why black people have the highest divorce rate and the lowest marriage rate. Many sisters are consumed with themselves.

Like I’ve also said already, the black man more times than not will not tell you how to dress because a) he hasn’t been taught how a woman should dress, and b) he knows that the black woman will not listen. I never said that black women control the money in rap videos, lol. I don’t know what you’re reading. I find that many black women believe that they are above reproach and when they are told that they may possibly be wrong, they retort by saying that you “hate black women”, lol. If I hated black women like you say, I would say nothing (Galatians 4:16). I would stroke sisters’ fragile egoes until I got from them what I wanted like so many brothers (and men of the other races) do. I’ve never spoke of “all” black women. No man can. The reason why you got offended is because you felt that the sister that dresses whorishly to gain attention and has no intent of listening to what a black man says is you. Our people have become an embarassment, both men and women, and it must be addressed.

@ 147

to answer your question. As a loyal Janet fan, here are the reason she got dogged:

- that was like the 100th magazine cover that year where she was pin-up. It got annoying to the public.

- KING is beneath her. Say what you want about her career all you want. She’s JANET JACKSON for crying out loud!!!! She’s a legend written in stone. King is for C listers and below.

However, it was tame compared to other KING spreads.

I WHOLE HEARTEDLY COSIGN WITH #148 JUDAH!! No one can make me think otherwise, and the sad part about it is that I am a black woman. You people who make foolish attempts at comparing this display of stacey dashes exposition with the same conduct of others, are senseless. I am sorry to say it, but its true. It doesnt matter what magazine she posed in, it doesnt matter WHO chose to do the same exact thing. My outlook on the issue would still be the same. Nothing is more embarrassing than to be in a public place, (the club, the store, ect) and see the way that some of our black women dress and carry themselves. Everything that should be left to the imagination, is right there in your face. The real sadness in it all is that you can randomly catch men fondling them, touching them, and all kinds of unnecessary bull. These same men, (in alot of cases) will often assume that because this female allows it, that others (who may be more respectable) will allow it as well. My biggest issue with this is that the RARITY has now become the NORMALITY and we are now all (as black women) being crunged into this pathetic box. IT SHOULD NOT BE THAT WAY!! We have a responsibilty to respect ourselves at all costs!!! You may say that Stacey Dash, and whomever, looks good half naked sprawled across some mens magazine. But what if it were your wife? Or your sister? OR BETTER YET YOUR MOTHER?? Would you feel the same way then? Have we lost sight all together of what is supposed to be sacred? because “TV” and “The MEDIA” has made you eat up their garbage, and you now believe that there is nothing wrong with this. THERE IS SOMETHING VERY WRONG WITH IT, AND I DONT CARE WHO DISAGREES!! AND AS JUDAH SPOKE OF IN HIS COMMENT, IT IS FOR CRAP LIKE THIS THAT WE ARE VIEWED AS A COMICAL PEOPLE. WE ALLOW OTHERS TO GUIDE US INTO “WHATS IN” , EVEN IF “WHATS IN” IS “WHATS WRONG”. AND THEN WE MAKE CLOWNS OF OURSELVES, AND SIT BACK AND WONDER WHY THE WORLD POINTS AND LAUGHS.