Sassy said it better than I did. kids will have to go through the “No child left behind” if they have children young with no money that is the point. The Simmons have the money because they had them the right way…So my posts are all on point…and Sassy got the point.

Men should take care of their children and women should stop having them so young this has wrecked havoc in black and Latino communities.

Why are some of u idiots congratulating this lil girl on getting pregnant? How awful! She should get her mickey mouse-wining voice career together. Hence, she chooses to screw without a jacket!!!! No maaaam!!!

“time grandmother.

“I’m proud of how she did it. I was 16 when I got pregnant,” said Jamecia.

Paris’ great-grandmother…”
WTF is she proud about. Paris aint married nor engaged, but is pregnant. Its seems the cycle wont e pregnant since Jamelia is ahppy that her teen* daughter is pregnant.

*Paris is 19 and will be 20 so she is @ least out of school.
Sigh. Common said it best:
To many woman say they is mothers,
not enought say they is wives.

@75 Sassy, You are right everyone has their opinion….like I voiced mine. Now I do not condone teen pregnancy at all. However, I”m not a VIRGIN therefore I run the risk/blessing of being a parent.

I’m not excusing anyone’s behavior….SEX leads to PREGNANCY. So people need to get off their HIGH HORSE. If you are too young at 19 to be a parent you are to young to have sex. Where in my post do I say teen pregnancy is okay. What I said was people who are having or has had sex at 19 should not be condemning this young lady.

That’s like a friend of mine use to talk down about single mothers….and she had 3 abortions. Seriously….sweep around your own front door!

You reference child abuse, rape, and etc as if that makes your comment valid. Those are apples and oranges.

Wow. at paris….these little fast as girls need to slow their ass down..(the fact that i’m 20 im wise) they need to stop trying to emulate these video hoes today. thats a bad influence on them right there.Parents today have no control over their kids and that is a damn shame..smh….i’m SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad my sister is not a hoe she is classy….and with a degree at age 21….ill be damned if i ever let someone try to do that to my sis.And her parents are just as stupid for saying them dumbass comments….LIKE BRITNEY SPEARS lil sis who got knocked up…thats a shame too..she is too young…its Jnot JUST based on the fact that kids today are having sex, it’s that THEIR NOT USING PROTECTION….NO pimpin, thats not coo….i’m glad i RAP IT UP everytime…glad my pops told me right yo….unlike someof these bruthas out here….i really do feel bad for Paris..she just don’t know what she got her self in…I JUST HOPE HOMEBOY MAN-UP TO HIS RESPONSIBILITIES…peace Holla back

Good-day,

I congratulate this ‘Paris’ for choosing to keep her un-born child instead of aborting it, which would have been the easy way out. I do not, however, condone nor will I congratulate this adolescent for having pre-martial sex and becoming pregnant. I will not congratulate her child’s father, most likely he is at the most 18-19 years of age as well - without stable income.

Her family supports her and that’s all that matters. When are we going to learn as a people that we deserve more, that we can accomplish so much with our lives - through hard work, struggle and dedication. I won’t say this is the end of her life, albeit, it will be hard times ahead for this young lady. She can still go on to accomplish her goals. I advise the first among them be to get a High school Diploma if she hasn’t (GED) and take college level course toward a more stable future for her and this child.

Peace.

Kimora aint SHIT!!! and that BITCH needs to understand that Russall made her who she is today.

There’s nothing for a mom to be proud of with their 19 year old unwed pregnant daughter. It’s not totally shameful but nothing to brag about

I thought Paris was more of a role model type for the young ladies, but I guess I was wrong. If I said congratulations I would be oh so fake so I wont. I will say best wishes, she needs them especially with mom and grandma seemingly condoning the teeneage unwed pregnancy.

The Lee Simmons family seem to be making it work despite the divorce and are putting the children first.

Mandela, it’s your party and you can invite or disinvite whoever you want regardless of how little sense it makes. I’m over it.

#18 I knew people would say this and I took his dissing Naomi as a fatherly admonition…something you do when someone disappoints you. Amy, on the other hand, is someone who he’s simply chosen to forgive…someone he didn’t care enough about to dismiss, in my opinion. Naomi has been close with him for years and she really really makes these sorts of demonstrative leaps when she’s doing stuff with his charity, saying she’s turned her life around and she’s changed…I don’t doubt her devotion to the cause or her sincerity, but I think she benefits from her involvement as well…so it really isn’t a big deal that he would have banned her for tarnishing its image a bit.

Wow @ Paris being pregnant. That is crazy. I still think of her as that little girl from AI.

Firt adout the little girl Paris.

Thats wrong all day long. I hope that she is prepared for a life oh hard times. We uplift this behavior and wonder why kids cant read, parents aren’t getting involved. Its crazy out here. AIDS DID NOT DIE. So why are all these young girls getting preganat? Who are these little boys who think it okay? Dont thet know AIDS will kill you and a bais/ corupt Child support system will put you in jail. No question asked. Its time out for this Black people. We need to take care of our oun so we do lose all that we have gain. This makes me mad. And yall just hi fiving her tail.

Second I am sick and tired of Women asking for child support if they dont need it. It’s time out for the kiddy shit once you are old enough. And to have a court dictate how that man spends time with his own kids. Sad and Childish. Why involve the system when you dont have to. I mean please really.

Paris’ mother sounds like a donkey! Who in their right mind would be happy to be a grandparent at age 35?!?!

To those of you saying there’s nothing wrong w/ it because Paris is over 18…there’s a little something called emotional development and maturity. 18 is set as the “legal age” for governmental reasons, but it does not mean you are truely an adult once you hit that birthday. Adults have to learn who they are by being a little selfish first and getting to know who they are and what they stand for….otherwise you have nothing to offer a child (b/c you’re too busy worrying about what’s good for you).

Paris is now just another statistic and she’s setting a bad example for all 3 of her fans who are probably teenagers as well and are probably going to get pregnant before they learn what an IRA is.

I really dont have anything to say about Paris…

Nelson Mandela was wrong for leaving out Naomi but leaving Amy in beacuse they both got issues so it should have been, either there BOTH in or there Both out.

THAT is a LIE! DO NOT believe this lie, Nelson Mandela DID NOT give Naomi the boot. I cant believe y’all r believing this BULLSHIT!

Never too young for anything I guess.I mean people get in the military at 18.Get a drivers license at 17.Get alcohol from ADULTS at any age.Girls get pregnant younger than 19, but it is kind of…weird, but hey it’s not me as long as she can raise her child, but she still young and without a GOOD PAYING job it’s going to be hard.

why does russel have to see his kids with all them people around yet kimmora and her man happily go shopping and all of that shit with them… anyway.

so is paris’s mum the same jamecia that sung “rodeo style” which is on the jason’s lyrics sountrack???? good luck to paris, 19 is young for having a child because in society, ur not really old enough to have finished education, held down a job and have money to provide for kids. she may also miss out on the fun of her early 20’s and so on but she is a young woman now, not a child (although she may look like one) so if she can financially afford a baby good for her but im sure she’ll be capable of being a responsible loving mother.

Who the hell says you have to be atleast 21-25 to have a baby? lol. I love how most of you are writing about not having a baby at a young age but only 1 or 2 are writing anything about not having sex. THANK YOU @ Black_Therapist!!!! I guess its ok to judge this girl while you are unmarried and screwing your damn self but you dont have the big belly to show everybody as proof. Yes, she is young but its kind of funny that I met a 41 year old not 2 days ago ready to kill herself over her 6 month old she thought she was finally “ready” for. All this, “at 19 you dont know this or that” is just your opinion. You need to say at 19 YOU didnt know this or that because you cant speak for every 19 year old out there. I know a few 30 year olds that arent ready for a pet much more a child. Since when 19 going on 20 is considered babies having babies? wow

Paris and child will be OK. I’m glad she has a supportive family because some of you sound ready to stone her in the streets. I guess it would have been better if her mother talked about her like a dog in public, or she was a walking graveyard like so many women using abortion as a form of birth control.

Black folks are harder on each other than on white people. Mandela obviously feels that Naomi makes blacks look bad with her antics. As far as Amy is concerned, she is white and he probably just likes her music.

Kimora is wrong for that visitation. That man is not abusive or a drug addict. Why must the nanny be present???

Although a child is a blessing, I find it hard to understand how her family member can say she is “proud of how she did it”. Is it because she is 19 and not 16? Either way, she is an unmarried, teenaged black woman. I know that in the times we live teenaged pregnancy is commonplace, but being “proud” of it is simply wrong in my opinion.

Wow Paris. Of all people. I never expected that. But, I wish her best. Aint got much to say to that.

Damn thats alot of money Russell has to pay…

Depending on the her birthday, she will be a 35 or 36 year old Grandmother. WTF is wrong w/this picture people? If I dared to tell my Mom I was pregnant @ 19 and she was 46, I’d still be getting owned behind that!!! Yes, I am proud to say that my Mother was 27, married, and had a Master’s before she had me. I am trying to keep up the tradition.

I’m still mad at Kimora as if Russell wasn’t going to do everything possible for them. That accompanied reasonable visitation stuff is some BS too she sounds bitter or sumthin. I wish my ex wife would she must have a good reason cause their is no way in hell.

these days being 19 and pregnant is like being 29 and pregnant (j/k) but you get my drift. 12 year olds are having sex now and it’s a shame. I didn’t lose my virginity until I went to college. So I guess I was 18 and that’s late for most people in the hood.

Russell…. I want to say what’s on my mind, but out of respect I won’t lol. But that’s what happens when you mess with them money hungry chicks.

Who is anyone to judge Paris and her pregnancy,she is just a product of the adults that she sees in her environment and her surroundings.If you are born into today`s world ,it is like being born and raised in a porno shop,because everybody is obsessed with sex,sexual thoughts dominate our culture and minds.It is not the fault of young people look at the behavoir of adults in our society that influences the way that kids think and behave.From music and Lil Wayne`s sexually explicit song lollipop to stars and celebrities like Oprah who shacks up with Steadman and they`re not married to Haile Berry having a baby out of wedlock to religion and Jesse Jackson fathering a child out of wedlock to politics and former President Bill Clinton having sex in the White House. Paris is just a product of her environment and the environment in todays world is hedonistic the behavior of adults and the stars at Mandela`s celebration sends the wrong message to young kids because it tells them that sexual pleasure,money and material things,and having good looks,are the greatest things in the world and not God.

Why y’all congratulating a 19yr old getting pregnant!!!!!!

MANDELA IS STUPID!

It’s just too much birth control out here for these young girls to get pregnant. Educate yourselves. Don’t be lazy, put something on or take something!

Shame on Paris and her Mammy!

Her mother sounds so ridiculous saying that she’s glad Paris did it the right way by getting pregnant at 19 as opposed to 16 when she did. Being pregnant at 19 isn’t any better. And I loveeee how she brought up the fact that she has a ring LOL.. so cliche… Paris has a beautiful voice and I personally think it would have been better if she had concentrated more on career… Nevertheless, I wish her all the best…

And I am not judging Paris at all… I understand that shit happens in life… All I’m saying is it would have been nice if she concentrated solely on her career, because she has such a beautiful voice that she could really be big right now… And her mother’s comment was beyond ridiculous…. come on man… We as black people got to do better…

its funny to to see so many people defending this little girl. First abortion is legal for a reson. It a person can so hey I made a mistake I’m not ready for, it’s better then the child growing up like some of these kids that we see everyday wondering where the parent are. It’s not bout her being a baby having a baby. Little girls look up to her. Not because she just there, she was marketed in that manner and she went along with it. She might be ready as she want to be, Ann Nesby might be ready with that check book, but what about the little girls that are watching her. ITs not ok to gamble with your life. AIDS PEOPLE it’s still here, onn the rise.

Damn! Why are so many young women getting pregnant!?! I’m starting to feel like I’m the only one who is not preggers! *Thank GOD*! lol

Being a mother myself, I can truly say that I would be so disappointed if my teenage daughter became pregnant, just as I am when any teenager does. Just as I am reading this is now the case with Paris. I am not judging Paris, but reading this story and the stories of other young girls who go this way, just gives you that terrible sinking feeling inside. How can you not feel that way when any one can see what unwed pregancies have done to the community and how hard these mothers have it. I’m sorry, supportive family or not, this is not something to be congratulated. I feel sorry for her.

Ok….Paris is preggie at nineteen. SO WHAT! As long as she takes care of her child its not a problem. i mean think back……..Women were married wit maybe 3 kids at twelve. You cant really put an age on childbirth. Who are you to say how old a person should be before having kids. Its all about that person and their priorities. If they are grown enough in the mind to get out and take care of that baby then whats the problem? She aint askin neither one of you dumb fucks for shit. Im 20 with a 1 year old son……im living well, im workin,MY own car, MY own place, MY own money. and im doin it by myself with no problems. So who says you should be a certain age before havin children. Stop judging! Yall aint god

They make it seem like it’s ok to have a baby at that age.But at least the father of the baby is there,and the fact he loves her and they are going to get married.Lately,it seems like anyone in their teens is getting pregnant,and making it seem like it’s ok when it’s not.What happened to teaching your children about having intimate moments when they’re married,or teaching then about intercourse and what that could lead to?(STD’s or teenage pregnancy obviously)I really don’t think it’s cool But I wish her well.

@ peggy

whether or not she can care for the child is not the point. at 19 you have not really lived yet and your mind still hasnt fully matured. she is a teen having unprotected sex with a man who is not her husband. does she have a thriving career? no….does she have a college degree? no

im not condemning her but i still think what she did is wrong and her mother clearly wasnt leading her in the right direction, since she claims she is proud of her daughter getting knocked up at 19 instead of 16.

you may be 20 with a child and living well, and i applaude you for doing it all alone, but children should be raised by both mother and father in a stable household.

yeah now she has a ring, but if she wasnt pregnant would she really be engaged? probably not…..marriage is supposed to be a lifelong commitment by two people, it shouldnt be used to cover up accidental pregnancies (solange, brandy, usher).

Russell made kimora? are you people KIDDING me? Kimora Lee was an established model by the time she was 14 yrs old dubbed at the face of CHANEL by karl lagerfeld at age 13 and before the age of 17 strutted down runways for the greatest designers of all time Like Christian Dior Giorgio Armani Versace etc. and also posed for harpers bazaar vogue and elle at age 15 Do your homework folks.

Rusell made Kimora? Okay umm Kimora was established model by the age of 14 and had already strutted for the worlds most renoun designers. Not to mention was also dubbed the face of Chanel by Karl Lagerfeld at age 13 and appeared on Vogue Hapers Bazaar and Elle at age 15. So she was already famous! If you really knew your facts you wouldn’t say a stupid statement like that. Do your research people!

Amazing…I seemed to see she had a personal account on the wealthy dating club RICHLOVING.COM for hot guys and girls to hook up for Hot Love and Sexy Dating. Her blog was updated very often. Lots of guys joined in her friend circle there.

It is said someone found her on the wealthy dating club RICHLOVING.COM for hot guys and girls to hook up for Hot Love and Sexy Dating. She has a personal account there with her pictures,blog…In her friend circle, some other stars can be found there.

gracious…clearly there’s a problem with the family when they are encouraging teenage/unwed pregnancies…ill pray for their families…

There ya go. Kimore finally got what everyone already knew she was after…a name for herself & Russell’s money w/out having to be with him. How the hell is she going to request that he be granted reasonable child vitiation which is to be supervised At ALL TIMES by the children’s nanny & security personnel?! She just want them to be able to come back to her & tell them about Russel’s girlfriend. I never see any damn nany or security when they her & her man are pictured with the girls. Peep Russel’ls statement though..please he is just playing it off in the public eye & that is sweet about him but Russell stop letting Kimora get away w/ s***. he needs to put her on blast for the person that she really is. I’ve seen him on Run’s house & he appears to not want to waste money which all those personal this & that for those kids is a waste. Kimora please get over yourself ; you have no booty & you serisouly need to get that double neck thing checked out. Kimore you would be a top person on my list, but your ego makes you so ugly.

“I’m proud of how she did it. I was 16 when I got pregnant,” said Jamecia.

Nuff said. Children emulate the role models they have.

And in this Naomi vs. Amy invitation mess, Naomi got the boot because when she was acting the diva-spoiled-fool she was wearing a hat with Mandela’s organization name on it. That is blatant disregard for the man himself and the ideals he stands for, especially when you run around calling him your honorary grandfather.

>>>>>>> all this “CONGRATS PARIS” n watnot is sum BULL & needs 2 b retractd.
>>>>>>> this girl SHUD NOT b N NEWAY PRAISED. this is a disgrace & it is
>>>>>>>unbelievable tht sum of u c this as a positive thing. she needs 2 be put n
>>>>>>>her place 4 this. PREMARITAL SEX is unacceptable; let alone havn
>>>>>>>a baby b4 marriage. she hasnt gotten the man’s name yet but she gon give
>>>>>>>him a child. u gotsta b krazi.as 4 me n my house my parents arent even >>>>>>>>ntertain’n such foolishness. as soon as i part my mouth 2 say im >>>>>>>>pregnant…IM DEAD!!! AND IM OLDER THAN HER!

>>>>>>>& her mother has the audacity 2 say shes “proud” of her. apparently she
>>>>>>>has not raised the girl ryt. & that is evident in this pregnancy. come on
>>>>>>>ladies present urselves as priceless beautiful black women & stop given
>>>>>>>these dudes (who most lykly gon b dun w/ u after u lay down) wateva they
>>>>>>>want. if he cant wait…he’s not the one. U R WORTH THE WAIT!

In reference to Mandela-its ‘his’ party so I guess his decision was valid. Amy Winehouse is a recording artist so I guess she had more to offer as far as ‘entertainment purposes’ than Naomi did anyway.

Kimora & Russ-I’m not surprised at the amount of the child support order. This is something that was probably already established between the 2 of them during their seperation,its just on paper officially now. They are business savy people & I’m sure they conducted this divorce in a mature manner. They both have moved on & its best that they finally put the marriage to rest. I watch her show on the Style channel & she does have a lot of security & extra cirricular activities for her girls. 1 thing I give Kimora is that she LOVES those girls & take care of them well. Over $400,000 in child support is nothing to him….for some of us that’s a couple of yrs salary lol. I think russel not speaking against her in the press is very mature of him whether he’s getting along w/her or not.

Paris-sad situation. She is young but can overcome the statistic if she raises her child right. Break the cycle girl!

LOVE JONES…RIGHT on point. thats exactly what i said about kimora and digimon (?) out with the kids.. just them. and she has the CHEEK, the F***ING CHEEK. to demand that he has 2 b supervised with his kids, like the man is some crack head or sumthin. lmao at “u have no booty”

Russell and Kimora were both adults when they married regardless of age. I know numerous young women who are dating older men and become highly upset if you challenge their age, committment, know how or if they are after money. They will fight to the death that it is love.

The children deserve the lifestyle that they are a custom to more than Kimora or Russell. Having a legal background, I am sure that there is more to that story which is not our business. But, Kimoras demands are to much, and MAD sisters who have been hurt want all men to hurt.

First let me start by saying that by placing the article concerning the pregnancy of the “19″ year old Pairs Bennett, the former American Idol Contestant, we are praising teen or irresponsible pregnancy! She is 19, an age at which in these days, with all the opportunities to advance that are available, you shouldn’t be worried about having a baby. To me this is just as bad as the 17 girls in Mass. that made a pact to get pregnant and of course Jamie Spears 16 year old ass having a baby. Babies are not an accessory! They are human lives that do not ask to be brought here and if they are you should be mentally, spiritually and financially ready to take care of them. This especially not good for young African-American girls to see, that are starved for affection, nurturing and love, because then this will give them validation to have a baby they are not ready for.

one freakin word for naomi!!! MOLLYWHOP!

I think that Russell is a loving father when it comes to his little girls and he probably would rather the girls continue with the lavish and priviledged life that he and Kimora has built for them then to go through a long drawn out battle that would rip the carpet from under their feet….Kudos Russell!

As far as Kimora…could be true that she was in it for the money, but it was actually Russell who pursued her…hard! She was extremely young and off rip he began spoiling her with lavish gifts and spoiling her. Which is why if you notice.. she (still) acts ” spoiled” and sometimes throw more temper tantrums than the girls when she doesnt get her way…LOL, Dijimon aint having it!

As for Naomi I am not defending her, she has an effed up, bullying type of attitude…ol’ bipolar heffa, Id like to see her hire a sista and then throw a phone at her or hit her….I bet ya every last track will be snatched out of her head!! Im sick of her in the news all the time for nonsense just like I was sick of Foxy Brown…ugh

What the hell… her mom says she’s “proud of how she did it”?
Why, cuz she’s over 18? That makes it even worse! Because there is no reason for any good and grown ass woman, with all of the conveniences of contraception, to have an accidental or unexpected pregnancy. And 19 is hardly old enough, although legally she’s an adult, is she mentally and emotionally mature enough for something like this? I see this happening all the time with you Black girls…

@ # 53. Ladyssolady

Cosign 100%.

I am 23 and all of my friends are on baby 2 and 3. None of the fathers take care of them and they all barely have a high school education. It seems to me people are having babies just because, I know someone who decided she wanted to be pregnant because all her friends have kids or are pregnantm, and they want them to grow up together. She is 22 but acts like she is still 16 she is the last person to be trying to have a baby she was homeless and un-employed before she got pregnant and is still in that situation now.

I wish Paris the best but this is nothing to be proud of.

Nothing new, it happens everyday..It’s a “big deal” b/c she is in the lime-light.. I wish her the best of luck, and I’ll see where the career goes from here.

Sorry but I think marriage at such a young age is stupid…. with child or without. You haven’t lived yet so sticking yourself in such a situation is… well… childish. I’d rather wish the child luck because she’s gonna need it. If things don’t work out, she’s going to suffer the most. Let this be a lesson to all you dumb or ignorant chicks. YOUR BODY… YOUR RESPONSIBILITY! Its called PLAN B (the pill that is NOW over the counter… I think lol but if the law changed, you can get it at a health clinic) and WRAP IT UP! Having a child at a young age is NOT cool nor cute and CAN be prevented w/ the proper education.

Well havin a baby is a blessing, no matter how young or old you are….for the younger folks (maybe a blessing in disguise) but if you old enough to open your legs you old enough to accept the consequences….but i guess in this case its not a consequence cuz the family seems happy about it. What i dont get is when her mom says “im proud of how she did it” DID WHAT…ok, i didnt go thru and read all the comments and im sure somebody has prolly said the same thing but WTH….what did she do….she aint married…what, because she got a ring its the right thing to do. so all we need to do is at least be with somebody to have a baby….i guess…..but congrats to paris anyways….if she like it i love it

About Kimora and Russell…I don’t see anything wrong with it. That kind of money is not much to him, don’t forget how much he’s worth. If he’s never with security while he’s out then hell yes you are getting security and a nanny to help you out while you’re out with my kids (If I was a celebrity of course lol). If you’ve watched her show, she’s very overprotective of those two girls so it doesn’t surprise me. A judge wouldn’t agree to that unless it was reasonable for the two of them.

kimora is trife

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