This is beyond sad and being heartless. This really shows what the world is truly coming to. How in the world can someone kill A SEVEN YEAR old boy (crying)

my heart goes out to her and her family.i pray for her strength.treasure the ones you love and don’t be about the nonsense because this is a reminder how short life can be

Folks please say “NO” to drugs, including marijuana. The longer term use of drugs including marijuana, eats away at the brain cells and this is what you end up with inhumane acts.

My condolences to the Hudson family!!!!

Jen, is probably in shock, how can anyone not be? I am so saddened by all of this and I hope and pray that the rest of the family will find the stregnth to carry on.
Let’s not forget, her MOM and BROTHER were murdered and now her NEPHEW too.
There is no way this is going to be an easy road for any of them. A mother has lost her child, Jen and her sister have lost their mom and their brother. Those people were somebody’s family and I can’t believe a cold hearted person could shoot them with no conscience and leave a child in a car?!? That is an all time low. That person is evil and is a terrible excuse for a human being. I am so sickened by this and so sorry for Jennifer and her entire family. There are no words. I can never say I can imagine how they feel. No way can I EVER imagine this type of pain, and I don’t ever want to have to know that kind of pain. Everyone, pray! This world is crazy!!

Being a resident of Chicago, I know that the “Englewood “neighborhood ( where Jennifer’s family resided) is one of the most notoriously dangerous neighborhoods in Chicago. It has a reputation of constant shootings, unfortunately involving numerous innocent children getting shot via drive by’s etc; and other random violence.
It saddens me that Jennifer’s mother wouldn’t move off of the South side and into a better community. I’ve heard that Jennifer begged her mother to move. The fool that committed this crime is a straight up coward nonetheless and he deserves the death penalty. We should continue to keep her and her family in our prayers.

This is Ridiculous!!!! I hope that man BURN!!!!!!!!

This is Crazy.

Jeeze.

My Heart Aches for them! I cannot begin to imagine their pain. He was still a baby!

RIP Sweet Julian, be with your Uncle and Grandma.

omg…im so sorry that had to happen to him i cant believe that the bastard just shot him and just left him to die like that. I dont know how people can be so evil and especially to children…it makes me sick. They need to HANG the bastard!!!!

J Hud your in my prayers…. xx

I’m speechless. I’ve been praying for her and her family every since I heard the news. This world is…I don’t even know.

That is not right!!! It is so sad

Jennifer you and your family are in my prayers…We all know prayer changes things..And I pray that you will make it through the storm. I have total faith you will
with God..Just let him lead and guide you through this very difficult and trying time.. To David, Please be the rock she needs and the shoulder to cry on…..
God Bless …and Bless.

Psalms 23
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. 2 He maketh me to lie down in green [1] pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. 3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. 4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. 5 Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest [2] my head with oil; my cup runneth over. 6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.

my heart bleeds for Jennifer … keeping her in our prayers.

And I want to know what the fuck this idiot was trying to prove?? Fuckin bastard.

The more I read about this ish, the more pissed I’m getting. And the sad thing is, shit like this happens every damn day in alot of black communities. Ughh

chicagobo im with you. rIp

To the Hudson Family my prayers are with you.

This is so sick and shocking it’s just unbelievable. Like the neighbor said “I would be sad if it was Suzie down the street” this is some sick stuff man.

I believe the death penalty is what is really needed in all cases like this. Why? Because look who’s tax dollars goes to feeding, clothing, medical care for these criminals. We the tax payers! Why should they commit crimes and then the ones they commit these crimes against get to pay for their crimes? Do you people ever think about this? It’s punishing the ones who was harmed. It makes no sense to pay good tax dollars to house these people. I total agree with “The Middle East countries” you kill, you get killed.

As the Hudson family will pay taxes and that means they will pay to feed the ones who killed their love ones. You see how silly this is? Some people don’t deserve a second chance, and this well, I don’t believe a murderer deserve a single hour on this earth.

As much as I don’t want to say this. That baby Julian has his wings now!!! Baby, sorry you had to be treated like this and what you had to see your lasts moments on earth, but I have faith in God, that you are at peace and a better place without us sinful people. Lord give us all strength to deal with this senseless murder of a family and especially this innocent child. Lord have mercy! This is so sad for me right now.

I’m sorry to add this, but I must say this. Somethings we can’t be quiet on.

I will not support any artist who shouts out those blogs who talked about “The Hudson Family” during this time. I repeat, I will not, support you, I will blacklist you and boycott you if you “shout out” these nasty people. We have to take a stand black people. Those who suggested that “Julia, without even knowing her, had something to do with her child being missing. I simply can’t support you for recognizing these blogs. We have to remember these people have feelings, family, and no one wants to go thru this and hear all this rumors.

I’ve canceled my registration with a lot of them, never to return. If I hear of an artist “shouting them out” I will simply not support them( the artist) anymore. If they want to blog, let them blog about being lonely.

We want change “Black people” we have to stand up for stuff like this. SR, you are really in need of intervention girl, you and any one who agrees and comment of your blog. Please, people stand with me on this. That photo of Julia, and her hairstyle is dis-tasteful. We as Blacks always talk the talk, but let’s see if we can walk the walk.

In honor of the innocent baby Julian….I have canceled my registration on these blogs, please join me.

Told yall they were gonna find him dead. Still F@cked up though.

I don’t even know where to start..I mean this is just sad..I can’t think straight..I mean shooting someone multiple times at the back is just wrong..And a 7 year old kid..I mean what the hell did he do wrong do deserve this..He must have been terrified..THIS IS HORRIBLE…
The only difference btw jennifer hudson and the rest of us is that she is a celebrity, other than that she is just like us so this just hurts me like i’ve known her the whole of my life…
My prayers go out to her and her sister..The lord is her stength..

Words cannot express what I’m feeling right now. I’m angry and shocked that people are so ruthless and have no respect for the living to go out and kill a family. I mean this happens too often and enough is enough. Tired of hearing about children lives taken for someone nonsense. It sadden me because I had hope for the little boy and I prayed for a safe return. The persons who did this are cowards and deserve everything that comes their way. Tired of these animals playing God and destroying families.

I send out out my deepest sympathy to the Hudson family as well as the community effected by this tragedy. May their souls rest in peace.

OMG! This is horrible news. I wish Jennifer har family and friends the best. And Ill pray for all of them tonight. This must be heart wrenching for them. R.I.P. to Julian King, Darnell Donerson(mother) & Jason Hudson (brother).

Im soo saddened about what has happened over the last few days. I just don’t understand what could possess a person to go out and kill three people, someone’s mother, someone’s brother and an nnocent sweet child. I can’t imagine how incredibly horrible Julian’s last few hours on earth must have been, he would have seen his own grandma and uncle be killed and feared for his own life.

Someone who Julian would have done this out of fear that if they kept him alive he would be able to describe or name the person. There is NEVER an excuse for killing or hurting a child. I hope the police are working 24/7 to find out who did this!

I also blame stupid people like neighbours who heard gunshots or saw the car but didn’t report it! And Balfools stupid pregant girlfriend who has been making up alibis for him. All those people are to blame for this attrocity. People who see crimes and say nothing because they fear snitching. I’d rather be labelled a snitch and know that an evildoer was being punished for a crime they committed, rather than have innocent people like Julian die.

I cannot even fathom the pain and hurt the Hudson and King family must be going through right now. Whoever did this should rot in hell, may God punish them sincerely! May they be brought to justice! And I pray the Hudson and King family can somehow recover and heal after all the suffering they have endured.

OMG! This is horrible news. I wish Jennifer, her family and friends the best. And Ill pray for all of them tonight. This must be heart wrenching for them. R.I.P. to Julian King, Darnell Donerson(mother) & Jason Hudson (brother).

I CANT IMAGINE GOING THROUGH THIS… MY HEART GOES OUT TO HER AND HER FAMILY… STAY STRONG, AND TRUST GOD. MY LOVE GOES OUT TO THE HUDSON FAMILY!

I grew up in the Englewood neighborhood and know exactly where that house is. This is such and unimaginable tragedy for the Hudson family and my heart felt condolences goes out to Julia and Jennifer. My prayers are with you sistas.

WOW! JUST WOW!
WHY WOULD THEY HURT AN INNOCENT CHILD WHO DID NO HARM TO NO ONE.
I’M JUST IN TOTAL SHOCK WHY WOULD THEY DO THIS?
I CAN ONLY IMAGINE WHAT THE HUDSON FAMILY IS GOING THROUGH.
LETS PRAY FOR THEIR FAMILY. ITS VERY VERY HARD TO GET THROUGH THIS, BUT GOD WILL DEFINITELY GET THEM THRU THIS.
THIS IS SO SURREAL.

This is just pure evil, God be with you Jennifer at this very difficult time.

#91

As I’m angry right now, I read your comment and wanted to curse you the fu*k out; but you know this won’t get us anywhere. It won’t bring that baby back. I had this conversation with my sister. I felt numb, I didn’t want to think someone would kill this innocent baby. However, as we talked, my sister reminded me that they probably was going to kill him because he saw too much. It’s so fu*k up; man it’s so sad.

Damn, it just hurts to write right now. Wow! I need prayer for my damn self right now, I can’t believe people can shoot a damn innocent child like this as if he was a damn animal. Hell, people don’t kill animals like this anymore.

Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Please pray for me because my mind isn’t right, right now.

This is terrible news and almost made me cry at work to find out this mess. Whoever did this will go through much pain beyond his living matters trust that his soul will not be happy either. My prayers go out to the Hudson family. Nobody is ever prepared to bury one person let alone three people in the same instance.

I too find it funny that the silly neighbors would say the silly things they said on tv. This is why it was so easy for this person to do it. People need to speak up and officers need to do their job. Why did it take so long to find this vehicle particularly right after the reward was anounced? Things like this are the reasons “ghettos” stay ghetto. In a rich neighborhood a car would’ve even be able to roll through the street twice without an officer pulling up behind them because people will call the cops quick. Forget all that “no snitching” bs that these cowardly rappers talk about. If it had been their family or your family you would want that rule to fly out the window.

I want to add this……

Please don’t go and buy teddy bears and stuff. Donate this money to the Police Department to help fight crime in your neighborhood.

Every little cent helps. I’m sure they have more crimes unsolved. Donate this to the people who would use it to get those criminals.

Let’s not forget our communities black people. We can’t bring the Hudson Family back, but please it’s so much we as a people have to work on.

This is WAYYYY TOOO MUCH! I feel so BAB, Who and Why would someone do this?! I We have to keep PRAYING!

jesus

ALL WE CAN DO IS CONTINUE TO LOOK UP FOR THE ANSWERS. THE PEOPLE IN THE WORLD TODAY HEARTS ARE JUST GETTING HARDER AND HARDER. MY PRAYERS TRULY GO OUT TO THE FAMILY. WE DON’T ALWAYS LIKE TO HEAR THIS BUT WHEN YOUR HEART SOFTEN ONE DAY JUST REMEMBER NOW THEY ARE IN A FAR BETTER PLACE THEN US. PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD ARE SICK MEAN JUST PLAIN OLD HEARTLESS. THE DEVIL IS ALIVE AND WELL. GOD BLESS.

This bastard who did this is sick. Not only to kill 1 person, but to continue and kill 3. And at that an innocent child.

That man will not enter heaven. God does not like evil or ugly.

I don’t see, like that person above me said, how you can look in the face of a child and shoot them. Not only once, but to death. I feel horrible when I have to spank my 3 year old daughter for writing on the wall with crayons. So all that. Ughh.

People in this world, is just sick. sick sick.

I feel so sad and all my prayers go to their family and close friends.
I can’t believe that someone would go so far to actually kill a child
it saddens me to hear that a young life was taken away

Stay strong Jennifer and family, you’ll make it through

I just read the news(just got home from school) and I immediately screamed. I’m like fighting back the tears as I type this. Jennifer my heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. You will be in my prayers. Words can’t explain how heartbroken I am for you right now I really hope they find the killer(s) and execute them TWICE!!!!!!!! Just reading how that innocent child was killed brings me to tears. Terrible!

This is truly sad. I really couldn’t sleep last night because the safety of Julian was on my mind so hard. I pray that God will see Jennifer and her family through these horrible times.

Damn could things get any worse? I still think this has something to do with Jennifer being who she is and the person who did it–be it Mr. Balfour or not–being jealous of Julia and her family. This doesn’t deserve to happen to anyone. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemies…These are three very important people whom Jennifer won’t see again. It’s such a shame.

That being said, two wrongs don’t make a right. Therefore, I don’t think death penalty is key here. Killing somebody won’t bring the person you love that was killed back. Life without ANY chance of parole will suffice just fine.

Be strong, Jennifer and Julia. God is in control and He will ultimately decide the fate of the culprit—whomever (s)he is.

Words cannot express the sadness that I am feeling right now (Tears are flowing). Stay strong Hudson Family. Don’t let this bring you down, God will bring you through it. Do not give the killer the satisfaction.

This changes your outlook on EVERYTHING! Things that seemed so bad don’t seem so bad after all. Things we make a BIG DEAL about, just doesn’t seem like something to make a fuss over anymore.

I pray that God strengthens the Hudson family and gives them unspeakable peace during this all.

Rest In Peace Ms. Donerson, Jason, and Julian

J

Dead as wrong! Death penalty is NEEDED; that’s what’s wrong in the world. It don’t bring your love ones back.

But I be DAMNED, if I should support with my tax dollars to feed, clothe, educate and full 100% Medical insurance to someone who wiped out my whole damn family. GTOH!!!

No, I can’t agree on this bull crap. So, you saying it’s okay with you if someone wiped out your family like that.

How do you think they live? with our tax dollars. 3 meals and all!

Man.
this is just so sad and depressing. I am so sorry for her loss. I cannot even begin to say how sorry I am. It is true, Jennifer Hudson is a very strong woman. I believe she will get through this with time, but right now it is such a tragedy. Ugh man!

Don’t come around my house, don’t call my phone, don’t call me in the air if you stupid enough to date a criminal minded thug ghetto piece of crap. You and him go live in the woods somewhere with that bull and if he threaten to kill somebody open up your mouth like you did when you ate that chicken, and tell somebody so I can get my nine and be waiting on him or give me a chance to press charges, or move up out of somewhere. THINK THINK THINK. That man didn’t have real love for the child in the first place, he just wanted a free place to stay and some booty. Stop it ladies, stop letting your kids get killed, raped, molested, abused by these nuts you bring in on them. If you use half of your brain as much as you use your lucy some of this mess will be prevented. That nut should have been put in jail for life on all those charges. What ever happened to 3 strikes you are out. We always protesting about unfair laws against black men that get out and come back and kill, who, somebody else black!! Black people are killing black people, you don’t want your sons in jail, but I don’t want that demon killing, robbing, stabbing, and raping me or my family! Raise him or send him to the army if he don’t mind, make him work instead of walking the streets wrecking havoc on other black people.

From The Bottom of my heart i send my Condolences to Jennifer and her family

what horror, inoccent mother , brother and a son kill. I write with tear in my eyes cause it so sad to hear this news. Jenifer keep ur head up n only one person can help u through this n that is god and the person who did this i hope u get punish for this. Only someone with no heart can do this to innocent child. What this world is coming to ? i pray for u n ur family jenifer, we love you . Keep believing in god . love

WHY? This is just too much! I can’t even imagine the pain that this is causing the family and friends of all involved! WHY????

My prayer goes out to tthe Family when your mother gone, I know mine is gone
and thier is no one esle on earth that really can replace her, Only God Jesus Christ will help them thru this time. I pray that they become even closer to each other and to the Lord.

Whoever this coward is will get his very soon. God knows and sees all and he know who’s behind it. TRUST!! His punishment will come. My prayers and thoughts are sent to the family.

O my goodness! My heart goes out 2 you Jennifer! im rely sorry for your loss. I will pray for you and keep you in my prayers so that you can get through this hard time. God is by ur side and will be there for you and will watch over you. May God rest on their soul for who ever did this cuz it aint right. Now i am speaking to who ever did this, why in the hell would u want to cause so much pain to someone and how would you feel if that was ur family! u need to go to jail and never come back!!! but i will pray for you Jennifer in ur time of need.
love…v

He seemed like such a lovable friendly little boy, and some animal not only shot him twice in the head, but he also had other head trauma…speechless.

And what about the police, didnt that Julia press charges against him for stealing the car? Why was he not in jail without bail because he was on probation for a violent crime. Somebody need to tell me something!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Obama/McCain or whoever get in office need to rewrite the law if you on probation for a violent crime and break the law you get a free go back to jail with no bail card ASAP, no exceptions. I ‘m sorry but I just got home from work and I am mad as a bull finding this crap out.

This is so sad. How could he do that to an innocent child. My heart is just hurting right now. My prayers go out to the Hudson family at this time of sorrow.

it truly has some sick people in this world.

god blesss the hudson family.you guys stay strong

People are sick!!!…Why do you need to kill the whole family?…Anyone for that matter?

SMH

GOD BLESS THE HUDSON AND KING FAMILIES!

this breaks my heart… he looked like such a happy child and i ask whoever did this how can you look at that face and shoot him…It takes a heartless SOB to do some shit like this. I pray for the hudson family… this one really hit home for me!!

I was sad to hear about Jennifer Hudson’s mother and brother being killed and now I am devastated to hear that her nephew has also been killed.Only a sick and deranged individual could harm and take the life of an innocent child.My prayers go out to the Hudson family.

MY DEEPEST DEEPEST SYMPATHY FOR THIS FAMILY. MY GOD, ITS SO HARD TO IMAGINE SUCH EVIL ON ANYONE, LET ALONE A YOUNG CHILD. GOD PLEASE HAVE YOUR JUSTICE!

wen i heard the boy was dead i burst out in tears. i just imagined my little brother in his place and how terrible i would feel. he was just a baby. they didnt have to kill him. an innocent life lost for NOTHNG. He must have been so scared when the murderer carried him away.i feel the most for jennifers sister. yesterday she sed she had faith that her son was still alive, i cant imagine hw she feels now. her baby her mother and her brother gone. i wonder were she met that bastard guy in the first place. if he is the murderer i pray he rots in hell

My heart goes out to the Hudson familty. May God watch over you through these difficult times.

you kno u gotta 2 be cruel 2 kill any1, but 2 shoot a 7 yr old multiple times what the F for???what he was gon do beat u up???

I can’t even believe this. That’s hatred to the fullest, why would anyone do this?? Julian had nothing to do with this situation, nothing at all.

Omg…
People do some disgusting things.
When they find who did this they need to shot his ass execution style.
I cannot imagine what the hudson family must be going through.
My prayers and condolences go out to them.
This is just horrible.
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dude probably got in an argument with the girl and was upset he couldnt be apart of their lives which means close to jhud. thats why he wiped them all out. first of all, why the hell is jhuds sister living at home still with their mother? she should have her own place. shes going to bring that slimebucket into her families life and get them all killed? im sorry but she knew what she was doing getting with a person who was convicted with attempted murder. i mean what can you get from that situation? or is she slow? not to sound apathetic and with no remorse but wtf? she’s putting everyone in a bad situation but if she lived on her own it would have been less of a tradgedy. im sorry but dont bring ur mess to other ppl. whatever its her conscious, she has to deal with it. i wish i could ask her was it worth it? i dont have balls like that but yall kno what im saying. now its the holidays when families get together. poor jen. i kno she will be depressed like no other.
and fool gave himself away but being uncooperative. i mean hello–dead give away.

I can’t believe that someone would have the heart to murder a child. This family, from all indications, seemed to be full of love. Jennifer Hudson, rose from such family to the success she is today - and that says so much of where she came from. She was always VERY CLEAR in her interviews with press, that her family was important, that that her mother came first. She is so very blessed to have had such a family, and to know they supported & loved her, kept things real with her, kept her grounded - I hope she and her sister are able to eventually find peace, and at least they have each other. Jennifer & Julia , and the father of Julian I don’t know you - but I’ve watched this crazy tragedy unfold, and I have a sour disgust for the persons who did this. May God take care of you, console you and your family. Know that many others like me have you in our thoughts and prayers. Please take care of yourselves. - With Love

DIESSSSSSSSS @ 136. TOO FUNNY

What I dont get is why people freaking out about this, I mean this is unfortunate. But these kinds of things happen everyday. My mom was shot to death 5 times in her face when I wa sonly 8years old, and that aint the worst part….my dad was the murderer. I dont know why people feel like these kinds of things cant happen to celebs. Everyone on here freaking out like they never heard of someone being murdered.

I wish the family the best in a time like this but honestly I dont have the time to be crying over the hudson’s stress. I have bills to pay and enough stress in my life.

@ #138
So you have had your stresses. So have many on here. That doesn’t mean that you can’t feel another person’s pain. Sheesh!

I dont think anyone on here is alleging that this is the first time they have heard of something like this. But it still hurts nonetheless.

We’ll do you a favor and if something unfortunate or a tragedy happens to you that we read in the news, we will carry on with our day because guess what? These things happen everyday, just like YOU said. **SMDH***

So where was the sister when all this happened? Curious question. Seemed like he was coming for her.

U know I really don’t see somebody black killing their own mother in law, brother in law, and stepson! I COULD be wrong BUT I just don’t see it happening…..especially killing the little boy. Given this guys rap sheet, and if he has a felony then he can’t get a decent job…who’s going to hire an ex con?? He might have been hustling and who knows who he pissed off. I think there might be drugs involved with him…..maybe others knew about his connection with J Hudson. I read a lot about crime stories, and it just seems to me like this was some type of hit, or assassination/payback type of thing and which unfortunately led to the deaths of these innocent people. I don’t think the guy did it…..but I think he knows who did, and thats why he’s not cooperating. IF he did then I know FOR sure we are in the last days, cause you just dont hear about black folks doing this type of mess! If it was domestic then why didn’t he kill Jennifer’s sister?? The “if I can’t have u nobody else can” type of deal? Something is off to me……

RIP man, that’s some fcuked up shit. Whoever did this I just want to know why? That’s three lives you’ve taken just like that. SMH.

jennifer i am so sorry for your lost but god will punish who ever did this they shoulld rot in hell . you’ll get through this much love beauty

@ 138 I agree , but the fact that someone would shoot a child in the head is what got me going . That’s some downright heartless shit there .

Oh my gosh this is so sad jen hudson looks like a humble person y would sumone do that to her family expesialy 2 a lil 7 year old and her mother thats evil and may God have mercy on who ever did this soul cuz u need more than just help i just hope jen keep her head held hi i kno its going 2 be major hard but u gotta make it boo u got 2 even if u stop the music biz 4 a while we as your fans understand we luv u JEN and may God keep his arms around u and your sis

Some comments on here, you simply have to ignore. Everyone’s life is precious and does not deserve to be taken away by any one other than God. I could never have such a hardened hard that Im not able to sympathize or even mourn with someone going through. Even Jesus Wept!!!! Im prayin for Jennifer and her family, may God Keep you strong and extend his hand of Mercy at this time in your lives. I know it’s hard, but He knows best and has prepared a mansion in Heaven for those that believe. and your mother, brother, and nephew are probably wearing their white robes as we speak, Smiling in Heaven.

@ 116 Hey hey come on that ain’t right. Look.. what about the pastor that killed his wife, put her in the freezer took his children and went to church to feed the flock!?!? The high school math teacher that toutured his son with fire and lighter fulid until the boy died !?!? The lawyer that killed his wife and kids with a damn hammer then called it self defense huh.. the doctor that for years druged his wife and daughter and had sex with both. Now surely these educated up standing people are not capable of doing such horrible things.. no see they are GOOD PEOPLE huh!!!! These type of crimes know no boundaries and no race. Lets stop being fooled by wolves in sheep clothing we have to be exteremly careful these days who we let in no matter WHAT they have done! Don’t blame this on her that ain’t right! A guy with a degree and no past record could have done the same thing! PEACE & LOVE

MY LORD THAT’S SAD. I PRAY THAT GOD CONTINUES TO WORK THROUGH THAT FAMILY AND THEIR SITUATION. WE KNOW THAT GOD HAS THE REVENGE AT THE END OF THE DAY!

RIP TO THOSE THAT ARE GONE.

GOD BLESS

BUT DURING ALL OF THIS, WHERE IS THE REAL BOYS FATHER???

@ 149. We posted a photo of Julian’s father on Sunday. He was at the press conference with Julia. Here is the link:

http://concreteloop.com/2...-up-memorial-outside-home