Glad to see the Mr & Mrs bringing in the New Year together. Very good sign for 2009.

IT AINT HATING IF SHE REALLY IS UGLY (WHICH SHE IS!). I DONT KNOW HOW SHE IS A STYLIST BCUZ HER CLOTHES ALWAYS LOOK LIKE THEY CAME FRESH OFF A WAL-MART RACK. & HER WEAVE IS ALWAYS BUSTED. WHAT A JOKE!

WTH # 73 with this ish….neither is Nia Long, Gabrielle Union, Janet Jackson, Melinda Williams, Keshia Knight Pulliam , Sharon Leal.

Tameka can’t be put in a category with these women. She has pretty brown skin and thats about it. Now u r insulting those women u listed.

Have u ever though some may think she is ugly bcuz of what they have heard about her character like having a criminal past, cheating on her husband, being the other women, having a stank azz attiude. That kind of tude can make someone ugly.

Even cute people with a nastu attitude are unattractive.

Usher and his wife look alike to me. Smashed nose and all. I think he has met his match becuz I hear he aint the best person either. They deserve each other.

@75 i don’t think that #43 was saying certain shades were more of a sista sista so don’t be offended. God made us all different for a reason. He loves us all no matter what beautiful shade and thats all that matters.

I think that she was basically saying she was happy Usher wasn’t brainwashed.

am not trying to compare light skinned or dark skinned women. I am a light skinned black women myself and all I’m saying is unfortunately, we as a race do not think of dark skinned women as beautiful that often and it is a shame! I get tired of people always saying that you are so pretty and I know that it is mainly because of my light complexion. I also have two daughters, one that is light skinned and the other is dark skinned and everyone is always gravitating towards the lighter one. My dark skin daughter thinks that she ugly because of her dark complexion, but my husband & I have always told her to be proud of your dark skin. We also tell my light skin daughter to be proud of complexion also. What I’m saying is that we need to stop making dark skin people feel least than beautiful. We all are beutyiful no matter what complexion we bare!!

@ Dangerous,

” some light skin girl”. You still wanna tell me there was no disrespect meant?

What was said in that comment had nothing to do with Usher being brainwashed.

Nice try.

@#80

If people are saying these things about your dark skinned daughter than it is up to YOU to instill in her that she is beautiful no matter what and no one else can define her beauty. You teach your kids to love themselves before they love others.

I for one have never made anyone feel less attractive because of their skin color so you need to be careful when you say “we”.

# 15 …OMG IM OVER HERE WEAK LAUGHING…

AS LONG AS THIER HAPPY IM HAPPY… I RATHER SEE A BLACK COUPLE TOGETHER THEN TO SEE THEM SOMEWHERE ON TV GETTING A DIVORCE OR GETTING CAUGHT CHEATERS

I’m still trying to figure out why you guys think Usher looks good. He is NOT cute, he is short and puny and if anything Tameka is the one that can do better. Any girl that stands next to Usher is going to look like a man because he’s so small.

MYopia like u said “GET OVER IT ALREADY” don’t take offense to it. We don’t need to be mad at our people for such a petty reason.

Dangerous

I am mad at the comment that was made not the person. I don’t know you or anyone else on this board personally and judging from some of your comments, I really don’t care to.

To think that I should not be upset when someone calls out a certain group of people that I am a part of because they think I don’t fit the color requirements makes YOU just as “petty” as they are. Not me.

You’re missing the whole point. Goodbye!

She looks pretty good for popping out two kids in a year but she still looks like a man.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. They look like they’ve been married for years- content and blissful:)

Usher’s SWAGGER is soooo GONE! Poor thang…he needs to stick with fatherhood and leave the music alone, because he will NEVER get back to “Confessions” status!

If Tameka only knew. Poor thang. Usher doesn’t love you sweetie, his entire crew laughs behind your back cuz they know how much of a basketcase u are. Ush isn’t fooled by you and most people close know he doesn’t want your blacka$$ around. Most feel sorry for you, all the begging you do behind closed doors to keep up the charade in front of the cameras. again no one envys you and u know this. but only those on the inside know what real.

He already left you hon, sorry to break the news. You are not in his thoughts even when he’s present. Ur a joke…no one laughs with you, they laugh AT you. trust.

Angel, please remove all of these comments based on skin color. There’s no need to show the world how ignorant some black people can be. Please.

i thought they divorced

@90

If Usher doesn’t love her and his peeps are laughing at her, then why is Ush married to her and making babies with her left and right?

You stupid hating envious beyotch!

I have a friend who used to hate on Tameka. One day she seen her in person and she said she will never say another bad thing about her. She said Tameka is drop dead gorgeous face to face. She said she just does not photograph well.

She looks nice here to me!!!

she looks like him…

@#93

No hate nor envy, I state the facts. You and I both know that the marriage NEVER was to take place. He walked out on that ass and she layed the guilt trip about the baby. Sorry but no love there. The second child still couldn’t make him stay which is why he wanted nothing to do with her during the pregnancy. But you already know this, it’s not news. LMAO!

Its hard to keep a straight face when Tameka is around but the crew manages somehow. I can still hear the laughter. and she isn’t the only chick spending his cash. Truth is Tameka is the one on an allowance.

IMO Tameka is not attractive. It has nothing to do with her skin tone, hair grade, etc., there is just something about the characteristics of her face that makes her so unattractive IMO. But Ursh loves her, so that’s all that matters

Tameka’s hair looks nice.

@ ur a joke

thank u for stating the obvious!!! its quite clear for those who have eyes to see, he is just waiting for the appropriate time to drop her. it wouldn’t be good for his rep to drop her while she was preggo or so soon after. folk talkin bout her dark skin…so not the issue. she’s FOUL. POINT BLANK…IT IS WHAT IT IS!!!

Too many haters on here. Just be glad he’s with a black chick. And Tameka is far from ugly. Congrats to the two!

Damn just because she normal she aint good enough for ol boy…Ive seen worse

she is a beautiful brown skinned women and love is love i hate when blacks are prejudice against there own people we come in all shades and sizes and that is what makes us beautiful leave the damn girl alone and she’s not fat she just had another baby in dec 08 cut the crap out

I agree with 96 .me and a friends saw them recently,she was begging like crazy and crying for them to go counseling.he no longer lives in the same house and the wedding ring not on his finger or did anyone not notice that hmmmmm

Talkk about a beard!

xo
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TEMEKA FOSTER RAYMOND SHE HAVE A TUMMY TUCK SO SHE CAN BE SLIM AGIAN SHE DID IT RIGHT AFTER SHE GAVE BRITH TO HER SON TO BAD SHE DIDNT DO HER FACE. USHER LOOKING GOOD AS ALWAYS THE ONLEY THING THAT USHER IS MISSING IS A REAL WOMEN IN HIS ARMS. AT LEASE SHE GAVE HIM TWO GOOD LOOKING BOYS THEY LOOK LIKE HIM. NOW NEED A BABY GIRL WITH A YOUNGER WOMEN AROUND HIS AGE HE IS STILL WASTING HIS TIME ON THAT GOLDDIGGER SHE AREADY HAVE ENOUGHT MONEY FROM HER COMPANY AND HER EXES AND SHE STILL DONT GIVE A DAME ABOUT HER THREE SONS SHE HAVE JUST USHER BABY BOYS I SEE THAT SHE DONT EVEAN HOLD THEM SHE GIVE THEM TO THE NANNY THEY HAVE. WHAT A DAME SHAME SHE DONT HOLD THEM.USHER LOVES HIS SONS HE HOLD THEM EVERYDAY WHEN HE IS NOT WORKING ON HIS NEW CD.

I wish people stop hating on Tameka, we don’t know anything about Usher nor do we know anything about her…we are just fans that know what the media tells us about them so stop acting like you know him and thinks he could of done better. One major part of growing up is to appreciate and enjoy life and that’s what it looks like he doing. If you are a true fan, u would be happy for him and worry about what he does for living which is music…not his personal life.

~The Lovely One~

How is it that you assume no one knows them personally? Excuse me for laughing but this is true satire. The love that supposedly exists between this couple only exists in Tameka’s mind. I bet she thought she was a real Atlanta housewife with the LouieVittion cake. How funny that was to all who were present. Didn’t he have that star tattoo with another woman first? I mean, shouldn’t wifey be more original than to be another copy cat? Super sloppy.

Usher & Tameka look nice in these pics

She still looks pregnant! I think she heard she just had another son by him.

Well…Good for them, glad to see them out & about, laughing and appearing to have a good time. Very nice.

Too bad his latest album aint doing half as well as CONFESSIONS (still my favorite album by USHER thus far).

Its funny how people didnt mention that those tottoes were copied from Chris Brown and Rihanna ….. wtf guys leave tameka alone, its usher who is getting it so lay back yo’ll. His albums are flopping cause he needs to apologise to his mom properly for humiliating her, not by buying her expensive gifts or rehiring her but by praying together with her and fasting for 6-9 days, then he will get back on track otherwise this dude is finito. So many new faces now, chris brown, akon, avant, the list goes on and on……… I hope usher reads this.

how the hell u pronounce that kids name??? what ever happened to naming ur kids normal names, or at least something i can sound out

I know not all, but we can be so nasty and abusive toward each other especially toward black women from other black women. What is that? Is there a special demon that inhabits black women to be so full of hate( it ain’t love) toward each other that goes beyond the “just general female _itchiness”? I am happy to always see this couple because of the negative reaction they received and comments on Tameka’s beauty. But, then we complain when black men call us out on SOME( not all) of our notorious attitudes as the reason they don’t want to be bothered with us all together. Black women was not this way in the past, look at the 60’s, 70’s, 80’s, etc when black women in general carried themselves with class and poise and we have evolved into the famous “black attitude” known all around the world for its special dose of venom. ANd black women today that do carry themselves w/that same poise and class have to deal with the stereotype imparted on them by the behavior of fellow black women. Come on people! We need to have a “Rebuke the nasty attitude and opinions day” where black women will smile at each other, sincerely( not this fake stuff) complement one another and be happy that a black man married a black women at all day!!

Black love ain’t it great.

EXCUSE ME!!!!
but tameka IS NOT ugly and she IS NOT fat she looks good for a women who has five children and you would expect her not to be stick thin.
Who every Usher would have married people would be finding some kind of fault with her, because they want him themselves.
At the end of the day they are just living there lives and trying to be happy, people need to deal with there own problems rather then look at other peoples and try to make their own personal issues not seem so bad.
To me they always look so happy together and is looks like they are really in love.
personally I wish them luck!

People, people, people…why is it instantly called “hating” when a person expresses their opinion and that opinion may not be the same as anothers? Tameka looks nice in the pic, but then again, who wouldn’t look nice with makeup artists, hair stylists and designer labels? I think people press the issue about her being ugly because many inside sources state that she isn’t a very pleasant person. There is always some truth to rumors and since she’s been in Usher’s life, there has been little to no positive stories run about her.

Like I’ve said before and I will say again. I luv “black luv”, but its better when its done right. As an educator, I see all too often how a woman’s relationship with men affect their middle school children. Tameka is close to 40 playing young girl games. I doubt that Tameka had an “oops” baby with Usher after already having 3 kids under the bonds of holy matrimony. She used the child as leverage to get Ush to do the honorable thing. Ush’s mom knew this and that’s why she disapproved of the wedding. Wake up people! She then had another child as soon as the doc said her body was ready. Why did she do all this? To keep a man that didn’t initially choose her first. I’m happy when people find love the right way but when u start lying and being deceptive, that’s when u lead to high divorce rates within our own community. That’s when u end up with all those damn Maury episodes.

I mean, Tameka aint out here doing charitable work like other celeb spouses. Her sylist business is on hiatus. She’s just been pushing out babies since she’s been married. Ush don’t even have his wedding ring on at New Year’s. People, stop being deceived by photoshopped pictures. All that glitters isn’t gold and stating that doesn’t make me a “hater”, it makes me a realist. I’m not seeking comfort in the appearance of another couple’s relationship. I know marriage is hard and I wish more people would take it seriously.

lmfaooooooooo@74,too much B,SCOTT FOR ME!haha

She looks like a man and that is that…
Usher can and should do better.. sorry….

She is very ugly.

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I think they look really nice. And she looks great for a woman who just gave birth a month ago. We all need to learn to “LIVE AND LET LIVE”!!!

People - She just had a baby 3 weeks ago. She looks beautiful AND SHE’S HAD 5 KIDS! Quit hatin’.

She looks like a mannnnnnn….

She looks like a mannnn..

They look good and I am so happy for the two of them finding love. So many people yearn for the kind of love that Usher found in Tameka. Let’s celebrate this afrocentric love because it is real and we need to respect that!

Don’t hate–congratulate and celebrate in the new year because tomorrow is not promised.

USHER IS NOT A LOOKER SO TAMEKA ISNT REALLY A DOWNGRADE AT ALL.

MY PROBLEM IS HER CHOICE OF OUTFIT. WHOEVER SAID THAT SHE LOOKS CLASSY IS MISTAKEN. SHE SHOULD HAVE CHOSEN A BETTER FITTING OUTFIT, WHICH IS WHY PEOPLE ARE CALLING HER FAT. SHE LOOKS STUFFED IN THAT DRESS…A CLASSIER CHOICE WOULD HAVE BEEN SOMETHING CHIC AND LOOSE FITTING CONSIDERING SHE JUST DROPPED A KID.

ITS ALL ABOUT PERSPECTIVE AND TAMEKA LOOKS CHUNKY BECAUSE HER DRESS ISNT FITTIN HER

NEXT………

Honestly I have ALWAYS found her to be pretty especially in these pictures and I find nothing wrong with her body and im not even her size, im only a size 6 but yet I dont see her as fat. Isnt she nearly 40 and had 5 kids or something? Her body looks like someone thats in her position. You guys are unrealistic sometimes. He isnt married to a supermodel. This is what an everyday attractive woman looks like at her age. What is wrong with that? I really do think she has a really pretty face. I wonder if she was a few shades lighter with the same face and body type, would she receive all this hate. Im a caramel complexion and I love it but to be honest most of the women I find the most attractive are always chocolate. Not sure why, I guess its just their skin more often than not just looks flawless but yet I prefer lighter skin men, weird.

Tameka is a pretty woman but she looks old enough to be Ushers mother and that dress is very pretty but it is not fitting her properly (it was not made for her body type). At her age she should try and wear something a little more age appropriate, she even looks uncomfortable.

TAMIKA LOOKS VERY NICE!

I’m still swallowing the pill that he’s married. However, I’m not gonna hate on Tameka. She apparently has what it takes to keep him happy, so I wish them nothing but the best. But, trust and believe, she’s smart bout dropping those babies back to back huh? Uh huh! Gone get that trust fund money girl!

Next…….

@Lakesha: Bascially you settled for someone ugly so you could have a man.

She looks nice, but there are still some manly features about here. He could have done better. He is to fine 4 that

how do you pronounce Naviyd?
lol @ #74, you know that woman has them good done debbies!!!

What in the Hell was he thinking???

Usher looks really, really happy in these pics. One of my friends is friends with him and he emailed her not long ago going on about how happy he is with his wife and kids. She said the email was really touching. I think all this BS about Tameka being ugly and Usher being gay is just nonsense. It looks like Usher has found true love. Tameka looks like a nice-looking sista. The issue is that a lot of people are just so blinded by light skin and unconsciously associate darker skin with ugliness. Someone like Beyonce is average looking and has a chunky, disproportionate figure and yet a lot of you guys call her a Queen and think she’s gorgeous mainly because of her light complexion and crossover looks. If you had somebody with Beyonce’s looks but much darker skinned, you’d be complaining that she had fat legs and was ugly.

Ok, first of all it kills me how people perceive Tameka dropping babies back-to-back is a way to trap Usher to staying with her. Could it be possible that Usher wants to quickly have kids because Tameka biological clock to have kids is ticking. Or maybe Usher wants to have alot of kids. Second, remember people, it takes two to make a baby, not one. If Usher didn’t want Tameka to have children back-to-back, he would have wore a condom or have her on birth control to prevent her from popping out babies. Truth of the matter is, Usher wanted to have children and I’m pretty sure they’ve discuss it beforehand. So stop with the ’she is trapping him’ BS. It’s ‘09, let’s leave that stuff in ‘08.

Only time will tell if he is using her for promotional reasons.

Its nice to see two people together and happy. I respect beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but damn, some people are just straight up hating!

@ 137, Agree. How do you know what went on in the bed between these two. People need to shut up and stop speaking about things they know nothing about. Trying to act like they are all about intergity have to call out people on not getting together the “right” way or so called trapping man. In reality they don’t have real integrity because if they did they would not speak on something they know nothing about and trash people because of their own judgement that could be further from the real truth. Not all rumors have truth to them, someone can start a rumor about you out of jealousy to do harm to you, so go ‘head with that. And why is it that she had to get pregnant to trap him, dont he know how to use a condom and men today don’t just marry you because you got pregnant, like puffy. Thay just pay child support and move on, he married her because he loved her, didn’t look like anyone had a gun to his head in his wedding pictures.

Tameka has the best coochie in the entire entertainment industry.

For someone who just had a Baby not to Long ago, She looks Superb……Get it Tameka……

N Peepz don’t Hate…..Usher don’t want U

LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING. IT HAS BEEN CONFIRMED BEYONCE HAS HERPES AND THAT SHE HAD AN ABORTION AGED 18 FROM SOME DUDE SHE WAS DATING IN TEXAS. SO WHY IS SHE CLAIMING TO HAVE BEEN A VIRGIN WHEN SHE GOT WITH JAY?

@132 I have plenty of options when it comes to man and no I didn’t settle to just have a man… I had a man, who was very attractive, for 5yrs, prior to my new relationship… the relationship was in different directions so we went our separate ways…I wasn’t looking for nothing new but God brought someone in my life who appreciated me as woman and human being…my new man is not ugly he just wasn’t my usual type light skinned or drop dead gorgeous like most women want, college degree, etc…u know how picky women are…what I’m trying to say is that I’m thankful I’m with someone who treats me with respect as a woman…I got caught up in he has to be this and he has to be that…God showed me a man who is loving, patient, respectful, and family-oriented…women get so wrapped up into looks but in the end that’s all they have and nothing more…I want a provider and man of God..I settle for that any day over looks…God can send our soul mates pass us a million times and still pass them by…what’s best for Usher is what’s best for Usher…it may not suit others…I don’t know him or Tameka personally…so I don’t know nothing about their relationship…he married her for a reason…it may not be for a reason everyone thinks…

Well, I am real. It is not about Tameka’s looks. The way the both are acting is a put on for the viewers. Usher is not happy happy, he is caught up in something that he wants to get out but do not know how without messing up his image. I do believe that he care about her but not love her. She is a mother and sometimes it do not look good to always have your boobies hanging out and in all her pictures that is what you see. That is not classy. I want say Usher can do better but they are not a good looking couple together. I am not hating, I am real.

I don’t understand why some of you guys don’t like Tameka (sp?) She’s not ugly… Obviously Usher dosn’t give a shit what yall said cause he got her pregnant again…and now has 2 sons. Damnit Ush…Where’s the baby girl?! C’mon man…

Man, bump all the ’she’s not pretty’ and ’she’s manly’ stuff…my thing is where are you kids???? Where is the baby you JUST pushed out??? Why do you have on a miniskirt when you know your ass hasn’t healed properly yet???? Take care of you….as a mother. This is the time you should be creating that bond with your baby not prancing around trying to make sure you’re in every picture with Usher to kill the break up rumors. You’re a wife for as long as he wants you to be…you’re a mom for life…..

@91

Who are you to tell someone to delete another person’s comments? You’re not the monitor.

@91

As far as the whole world knowing how ignorant black people are….TOO LATE!

Seriously, do you live under a rock?

I am the ultimate Usher fan (with his fine a–) so I have all the motive to hate..but I will not, because Tameka is a beautiful black women..which I have always thought. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, light skinned, skinny, and good hair does not determine beauty. It is a beautiful situation all together for a black man to marry his childs mother and not only be a father to his children but to her three as well..I wish them nothing but the best and longevity to their marriage. Stop hating, and you go Tameka with your beautiful self.

WHO GIVES A DAMN IF SHE IS FAT OR UGLY USHER IS THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS TO LIVE WITH HER IF HE IS HAPPY SO BE IT. I BET HALF THE PEOPLE COMMENTING DONT HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP. WORK ON YOUR OWN LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS.