i see better looking women on a daily basis so i wouldn’t even call her average. she’s not ridiculously ugly but she’s just not pretty if you take away the glitz and glamour. but i do agree that ppl tend to call lighter-skinned people beautiful even when they aren’t. there’s definitely a color complex that exists but don’t use tameka as the example for how it exists. use gabrielle union or kerry washington.

This is a shame how people are focusing how beautiful or ugly Tameka is. Whether Usher’s or Tameka’s marriage is working or not is none of our business. They married now with kids- so their hands our full. I think the wrong thing Tameka did from the beginning was get all into the cameras like she was a celebrity. This made people look at her closely and criticize. I hope the best for them, but she out too soon after having a baby. Your body needs to heal.

OMFG! Tameka is now PREGNANT AGAIN. It’s due September 2009. I hope they have a girl this time.

Well for all those who are hooked up on looks. just a lil message for you. men are not all hooked up on looks. boys are. when a man finally matures and is looking for a wife and a mother for his child, looks is not on the top of the list. usher is 30 people. not 19.

They look happy! Tammy looks pretty…..

Damn !! T is a real soulja.. Just had a baby in dec and she kickin it on dec 31,2008!!
LOL.. When I have my son Natural. I was in the house for a month . I also breastfeed too.I see she not. she drinkin and getting her groove back. Ain’t mad at her. She got a S on her chests. LOL And she got on High heels…Hell naw!!!

*Used wrong word*** When I had ….

you know what, even if you don’t think that Tameka is attractive, you must admit that Usher isn’t all that great looking himself. These two suit each other looks wise. I always though Usher was kind of average looking and if he wasn’t rich, most people wouldn’t give a good god damn who he married. Chilli was too cute for him.

To # 36.
(DejaStar7)

I took a look at your picture and you dont look like you could be with Usher, u need to take same distant pics yourself, talking bout u judging Tameka.Go and take a look in the miror and stop bringing other down.

Wow, Tameka is not Ugly at all, she is a beautifull black woman, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Some of these woman with negative comments here on this blogs think its all about beauty, you can be pretty all u want but some men just want a balance of someone intelligent or Educated, you have to bring something else to the table then just or ass or looks, values, the way you talk to a man and make him feel,

You can be drop dead hollywood gorgeous but if you are GHETTO AS HELL and a dumb ass you will get kicked to the curb after they are finished using you.
Not all pretty girl are marriage material it is not that simple.
So stop being ignorant and childish and stop hating on this beautifull couple.

Love In This Club Remixed!

Black people it is 2009 and we have our first black president. Start today by stopping this self hatred of our own people especially is they are brown skin and or not half white. We are so messed up by skincolor, this is a beautiful woman. nothing about her looks like a man. My God she has pushed out four beautiful babiers and pleas ethey appear happy, you would be so mad if he married white. This woman adds to his dynasty! I love them together. STOP Hating!!

they make a cute couple..eff all these haters

@139. Seriously. Integrity is a big word for you. Can you handle it? Maybe some strong truth and a big dose of what’s real will get our people back to having a little more of the “I” word. Nobody’s perfect. This is true. But as we get older, we all should grow stronger in our values, beliefs and convictions. Were my words about the very public Usher and his wife harsh? Maybe. But, words don’t destroy societies; ACTIONS do. I don’t have to act like I have integrity about how I found love. I used it. I’m not making any judgments calls on anybody because that’s not my belief. But, I can use this public site to invoke thought on situations through use of opinion. Have you ever stopped to think that God puts people in certain situations to help others see truth in their actions and in their own lives? So, FIFIJ123, calling out my opinions about Usher made you a pawn in my plan. Good job!!!

she looks like a giant next to him

but she iight

she look like a giant next to him everytime

but she iight

#2 Shes not fat nor ugly.You just have issues because Usher is not with YOU.

Beautiful pics.

So many childish females.Saying Tameka looks like a man and saying he can do better then that,Saying shes fat. Whatever happened to uplifting a black couple?shes a beautiful woman.Just that some of you folks are just to much into self-hatred & mad cause a fine man like Usher finally found himself someone he looks at like shes a queen.She had her own career before she met him as well & so they wore both set in their ways before they got together.They doublin up….!

Hes sooo into her.Which I think is good even though I think hes fine and I’ve been a fan of him for over a decade.People grow up…id think some folks would actually be happy about him growing up and finding someone to grow with.

I’m sorry for those who feel like most of us are hating on poor miss foster (and she has not earned her title yet).But you can’t ignore the fact that she was married with children at that,no one is concerned at what that did to her other three boys.I am happy for usher having his own children with her if that truly makes him happy.But as for his wife wanting to be a superstar instead of a good mother and wife ,and chasing him around so he doesnt cheat on her is not cool.If you were in her position would you leave your new born at home bonding with a nanny knowing the first three months in their life is critical?so before you defend her look at her actions ,in my opinion he should have done better by his children and himself.

@ # 169 TATIANA,

GET A LIFE!! Pure jelousy and envy (you are just looking for a reason to hate her) if she wants to celebrate New Years and leave the baby with Ushers mom or someone she knows very well and trusts with her newborn @ the hotel that is her bussiness, That one day is not going to ruin that baby’s life! he wont remember she went out on New Years eve back in when he is 10. Cant a mommy get a break????
Like Tameka said in her interviews, she is always with her kids, she just keeps them out of pics, cause people can be cruel. Dont judge anyone on their parenting cause she might be a better parent than you will ever be.( you dont spend 365 days out of a year with her and never met her.

Tameka was separated while with Usher, her and her ex- husband were over a long time ago, he has another girlfriend way before Tameka started dating Usher. Her ex- husband was not a cookie , he had his abusive ways and women on the side so dont even talk about things thatyou dont know shit about, YOU DONT KNOW THESE PEOPLE, all you know is what you read on the net.

Also there is a huge misconception about Tameka firing Ushers mom wich is bogus, they all get along fine and Ushers mom loves to come visit her and the grandbabies.

#169. You’re true hater & pathetic.SAD ….you are!

Again @169, trying to act like you all aout integrity and can’t stand this and that about folk but you sitting up here and running of about something you know nothing about. What is the integrity in that?! Like she can’t get out the house, what about the boys and her being married. You don’t even know what wnt on in that marriage as if her husband could not have cheated or whatever, you don’t know, so stop w/the fake integrity.
Shut up 164, betcha didn’t even know how to spell I-N-T-E-G-R-I-T-Y until you saw it in my post. Sit down! (and my typo is all good b/c its correct in there)

This is what that legacy of slavery has done for us. Make us fixate on such nonsense as color. We can’t help ourselves. It will take a while to fix our thinking. USA is becoming nothing more than a country of mixed races, cultures anyway. AFrican americans are fading fast with black men dying, incarcerated, and choosing love outside of the black woman ( which really doesn’t matter),

to 171 172 ,I have two children actually and work full time unlike miss foster or yourself.Before you leave the hospital the doctor tells you within the first two months a newborn;s life is critical because they have to bond with both parents ,.If you believed that she needed a break it would have made more sense to stay in close to your home instead of flying to las vegas .As for miss foster she has been seen with out the rest of her children more than once in new york .Usher will do better he already moved out .His mother was rehired and does not get along with his wife ,I worked his last two events in new york they had to be seated in two different places so sorry dream has come to an end.Lol my husband says you sound angry

@174 TATIANA

You are such a liar,LOL,yup thats why they look so happy on that pic!!!! making up stuff, my sister in law works for a production company here in Atlanta and also workswith the Raymonds.
They are still together, the reason You used to see Tameka and Ursh in NY is because he sold his ATL home and bought property in NY, they were living there for awhile since he was recording and also working on BROADWAY for years.
Now here is the thing, Tameka’s other son’s have a father who they are very close with( like she said) They share joint custody, their dad lives in LA, so he has them 1/2 of the time, wich is good, (they need more than only a mother) they need their dad as young men. They travel alot between NY—>ATL—–>LA, here kids aint always with her cause they are with their dad 1/2 of the time.
Tameka and Miss Jonetta get along fine, i know you wish they did not get along.
If Tameka wants to go out for new years eve then thats her case, she did not leave the baby for a full week, it was just a night. Get a life!! go watch your kids or something …instead of hating on people…i bet you dont even have a husband hating like that, maby an imaginary husband…lord who would want to be with a low life hating, ghetto ass bitter ball like you? And you did not work nobody’s events…maby in your dreams, You are way toooooooo ghetto.
I know it hurts….but they are happy and living together in the same house.

Excuse me but tone down the anger you sound like a groupie when I’m not even a fan lmao.Been married for four years actually had twins recently.I work for the NFl now and broadway years ago when she was not in the picture lol so yeah that would make me hmmmmmmm right .But its ok because I’m sure when the end comes you’ll defend her behavior right? but I don’t recall calling her ugly or stupid or even out of character,she needs to step her game up end of story .P.S I currently attend college ,so you would be right I’m nowhere near your level.

Go head 175!! Thank You!!

LOL…Pathetic..i dont know why i keep responding….. u probally was the janitor/ bathroom cleaning lady at the NFL or the (events),
Why would u think RN’s Registered Nurses are not educated? i am 24 / married and have a B.S degree in Nursing and currently 1 year away from finishing my masters (CRNA)…so whats your point?

I am happy that you are in college, i my world you should be in college, it s not anything like; …”wow…you are in college” YOU SHOULD BE IN THERE. My mom and dad both went to college so it s not anything optional. Like you act like someone front the gehtto who aint used to going to school or being educated…its normal…it does not make you superior.
I sincerely wish you good look in college and hopefully youw ill earn that degree for all your kids, so they can look up to you and they can have a better life.

You just gotta stop hating….you dont want god to turn your curses around on you and take stuff away from you.

Anyway i found out i got better things to do then be chattin with you

she need to look more like a woman than a man