They look happy and very nice!! Happy New year!

I don’t know what he sees in her. She’s FAT and UGLY!!!

Congrats to the happy couple,
I do not know why people bash Tameka, she’s a pretty attractive woman ( no homo)

Her nose looks like a peen. She did bounce back after pushing out 5 babies. Her body is used to it. Like the matching star tattoos. Her voodoo is the bizness!!

Pretty teeth.

Tamika Looks really nice!!! She just had another baby… and she really looks cute here! Usher looks happy! We should be happy for them… and stop Hating!!

Come On! She is NOT fat, she ain’t stick thin but she def ain’t fat!

im sorry but she looks like a man 2 me he can do better than that

she is ugly

I THINK SHE LOOK VERY NICE. I MEAN SHE IS NO CHILI BUT WHO ARE WE TO SAY WHO PEOPLE SHOULD FALL IN LOVE WITH.. AND TOO ALL THE PEOPLE SAYING SHE IS FAT…AWW PLEASE SHE HAS HOW MANT KIDS AND JUST HAD A BABY? HELLO…I CAN’T HATE SHE LOOKS GOOD. THE BEST PIC I’VE SEEN IN A MINUTE…PLUS THEY LOOK HAPPY HAVEN’T SEEN THAT FROM THEM IN A WHILE EITHER

Why are people so stuck on looks!!! She’s pretty to me and it’s was on the inside that counts… Trust me looks can be deceiving. People need to grow up…

I think she is attractive girl. I think the people who are bashing her are just mad cause they aren’t in her position. Damn people just be happy that he’s happy!!!!!LMAO

Go usher!!

she really looks nice but i still think she puts her d*ck in ushers butt hole every night.

She’s so strong-faced

It don’t matter what you lot say about Tameka’s physical appearance as long as Usher is happy… that’s what matters.
He is a great entertainer with a pretty cool wife.
Congratulations on their new baby.
All the best this year.

i have always thought tameka was pretty, if she was anybody other than the wife of someone that yall haters would have never stood a chance with in the first place, then yall wouldnt hold her to such an unreachable level of perfection. long story short, stop hating!

I don’t know why ppl are calling Tameka attractive, this HAS to be a joke. KD Aubert is considered attractive, Halle Berry is universally attractive, Beyonce is attractive, Megan Fox is attractive, Kerry Washington and Kerri Hilson are considered attractive. Tameka is considered average…at best! On her best days she is only considered to be an average women so ppl don’t call her attractive the same way yall consider Alex Wek, who is clearly unattractive, attractive. Stop trying to make yall selves feel better, she obviously didn’t bag Usher on looks alone…be real yall.
PPl are calling her fat bc her body is type sloppy, it’s one thing to not be stick thin but to have ur gut looking all huge wearing a tiny dress and flappy arms, prepare for some criticism. I’m a realist.

Very classy lady.

This woman has been called every name in the book except a child of God. To make matters worse, most of these insults were thrown at her by her own race.

Kudos to Usher for marrying a strong and beautiful black woman and for having her back against evil doers.

They look like they’re having a great time. Happy New Year’s to them and all men who truly love their wives.

Um…she looks Fine to me.
They look happy. What else matters????

An Opinion

When you say another woman is attractive why do you worry about being called a “homo”?

Honey, there is nothing wrong with a woman calling out another woman’s beauty. I think women SHOULD compliment each other.

She looks nice te me! I GUESS PEOPLE ALWAYS GONNA FIND SOMETHING TO TALK ABOUT ESP THE SINGLE ONES

@ Realist Wow you must had a huge crush on Usher LMAO!!! You wrote whole paragraph trying to prove why she’s not attractive…It’s okay lol….

I wish them the best

@ # 22 Sad, but true.

They look happy, and thats all that matters!!

I have to say this is the best I’ve ever seen Tameka look. Usually she looks old and manly, but her makeup is great and makes hr face look softer and youthful. The matching outfits are very nice also. Congrats on the new baby.

They both look really nice! Happy New Year to all!!!

At Realist: Would you feel the same way if Usher was a regular dude on the street, and he was with Tameka? I personally don’t think Usher is all that. he’s attractive, but he’s not gorgeous…and I don’t even know if I’d call him cute. I don’t see where he’s any more attractive than she is.

They look very happy together…Good For Them!! And I’m just noticing the matching star tattoos. Cute.

@22 - I know! They look happy.

It shouldn’t matter who Usher is in love with…he seems happy…hell if she was white ppl would be complaining…she’s blk and ppl still complaining…love is love…sometimes finding love outside of ur usual type is what’s best for u…I’m with this guy ppl couldn’t picture me with because he’s not the type of guy all the women drop dead over and he wasn’t my usual type…but I’m blessed and happy to have him in my life…but the way I see it ppl are going to say what they want to say, regardless how u put a positive twist on it…back to the script…it’s good to see Usher and Tameka happy…

Deep Sigh… Well, its a new year and I want to start on a positive note! Hooray for the happy couple. Usher looks sexy as usual. Best Wishes to them and their family.

P.S. I know we all THINK he can do better, but he is just a regular dude at the end of the day! Like Luda said, “People are too picky these days”. LOL!

Happy New Year everyone!

@ RA RA I completely agree….

They looks cute together and she is pretty to me. Chili was not all that to me, so I don’t know why people compare Tamika to her. Tamika has very pretty skin. People are just jealous! I wish them MANY more years!

@32…being picky is the reason why most ppl are single esp. Women…I had to learn that the hard way…lol

For someone who has had all those children she sure can SNAP BACK REALLY FAST!

Tameka looks better from DISTANT pictures. They look HAPPY and that’s all that matters!

HAPPY NEW YEARS YA’LL!!!!!!!!!!

Its just mattter of time before she takes all this young brutha’s money and runs off with another man. This heffa ain’t foolin’ nobody. She probably spending USHER’S money on another man right now LOL

She looks pretty good for just having a baby. I wish them both the best.

I’m sorry, but she looka lika man

This relationship used to irritate me, but why? I don’t even like Usher. I swear he’s on the DL.

Aww they look really happy, and I think the matching outfits are cute.

Tameka is an attractive girl and I’m really proud of Usher for sticking by and up for her. I think its kinda sad that most of the negative comments about her are coming from us. If he’s happy with her we should just support them. I can’t wait to see pics of the new baby.

Happy New Year yall!!

Poor Usher, I think she raped him personally

I agree, Tameka is not ugly. I for one am glad that he married a sista sista and not some light skin girl, which is what most of hollywood wants, or a white women. She is dark with nothing really special about her. She is average like the rest of us, which shows that usher deep down probably wanted to marry a normal looking person. GOOOOO USHER!!

She is pretty, is she hollywood pretty, NO and that to me is SOOOO REFRESHING

Honestly, more boring New Years Eve pictures? I hope today is the last day that we’re gonna have to see all the stars and their NYE pics taken on somebody’s disposal cams…

WOW, I can say is they both look very happy and I’m a little jealous of having a baby in three wks and looking great.

I’m making a change this year. I’m not going to say anything negative about Tameka this year, cause Ush seem to be very happy with her and she’s given him a two preious gifts so I’m not madddd.

little kids shouldn’t be allowed to play on mummy ‘puters. The couple is beautiful. Tameka is pretty and Usher is rich and happy.

I thought him and chilli would have made it but he messed that up and came to this ?? she alright if you talking about looks

She is just tooooooooooo old for him. She brings nothing to the relationship, she doesnt make him look good at all. Since hes been with her he has lost his sexy!! He needs me in his life not her!!! ( This is Jealousy speaking! My eyes are green cuz I eat a lot of veggies is has nothing to do with Tameka!! )

USHER’S NEW YEAR RESOLUTION:

COME BACK HARDER, & NOT TO HAVE 2 FLOPS IN A ROW.

Once again it’s continued hate by our own race. When will we ever learn to love one another. I best most of the comments are coming from average looking people. Tameka is no Beyonce, but she looks great for someone whose had a baby 3 weeks ago.

My gosh, let’s see how some of you would look! I think she’s as descent looking as Usher is, as KEKE said, he aint all that either!

She’s pretty FERTILE, I see….

He’s uber-CORNBALL!

I wish them well!

Off topic: VS pink finally has stuff for a few hbcus, the designs are boring though. bummer..

oh and tameka looks really nice!

LOL @ some of these comments.

Tameka looks like the average black American woman to me. So for *some* people to think she doesn’t *deserve* to be married because she is *average* is EXACTLZY why so few black women will ever be married.

There is nothing wrong with a black woman who looks like her to be married - even to a rich and successful man.

She has been married twice - how many times have all you “dime pieces” been married?

I like these two.

Realist….are you serious! You have the nerve to name all light skinned individuals. It is so sad that we as black people we still equate skin color to beauty. It is 2009 and we will have a black president soon and this is like I am living in the twighlight zone….Usher and Tameka looks nice. And to think she just had a baby a few weeks ago!!!! And to those who said she is fat…where. And flabby where….wow….There must be a lot of supermodel, superthin, super light people who frequent this site. Lets embrace and not downgrade this couple. Plus there are a lot of “beautiful” couples who do not have beautiful marriages. People put too much on outside appearances. SMDH!!!!!!

It does not matter what anyone thinks about Tameka. The only thing that matters is that Usher is happy with his man. Usher is a great entertainer and he deserves a good man just like the rest of you females on this site. I support his ‘industry relationship’ just like I support those of Will Smith, Puffy, LL Cool J, Busta Rhythms, Red Man & Method Man, Eddie Murphy, Aresenio Hall, Loon, and Johnny Gil. Guys keep doing what you doing on the Dope Level (DL) and make sure those checks don’t bounce so you can keep doing you and the bruhs in your crew.

THOSE TWO MEN LOOK NICE!

Maneka is insecure thats why she keeps giving birth so Ush could stay! She was preggo, he married her, she is smart! Seriouly, I dont see a lot of woman giving birth not even a year after another birth its dangerous but glad it happened well for them.

Tameka looks gorgeous! Not too many chicks can look this good only a few weeks of giving birth, including some of you young ones. People need to lay off Usher, they make a great couple!

I feel sorry for Usher , when a wedding turns your career BAD, its over for him, unfortunately, I swear if he wasnt with her, he would have his fourth single as a huge one! Its justlike Mariah, when a wedding turns your career bad; but hey at least theyare happy!

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR…. makes me sick to my tummy!!! but whateva…. USHER BABY… YOU KNOW MAMA STILL LOOOOOOOVES YOU!!! WOOT WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT

I do think that usher has fallen off the map. He is lame now, But I dont think that has to do with him being married to Tameka, I just think his time is done. I thought his last cd only had about 4 good songs on it

I AGREE WITH #34 CHILI WAS KIND FLAT CHESTED AND LIL MANLY HER DAMN
SELF. MAYBE HE LIKE THEM OLD AND LIL MANLY. SHE MORE CURVY THAN
CHILI.

I don’t know why people think Tameka is so ugly. She’s not. She’s actually very attractive. She just has some Skrong features. Maybe people just hate that she (allegedly) caused a rift in his relationship with his mama. Eh? I dunno. I don’t think Usher would do much better if he was an average joe. He has that mole rat/ groundhog look to him.

I am glad that Usher has chosen to find love within the black community. What I don’t like (this is MY OP), is that she came with so much baggage. She according to timelines was messing with him (while she was married with 3 kids and he was with and without Chilli). Now that I have a problem with. I have a problem with a woman that leaves her kids in order to garner a man while not quite tying up loose ends with the first husband. Now that is tacky and nasty. Then to make matters worst, initially, she broke the bonds between Usher and his Mother/Manager. If i had to guess, this is part of the underlying reason why most people have issues with Tomeka. She didn’t come into this relationship with her hands CLEAN. For all of those who call others haters…….. would you advise your son to marry a woman (his FIRST marriage) to a woman with 3 kids, several years older than him and is a divorecee. I am a mother and I would NOT advise my child to get involved in a relationship like this. I would advise him to keep looking.

Beautiful chocolate woman! And Usher has never looked happier!! I love them. They are so real.

Is that sweat running down towards her elbow?

To each his own, who are we too fault who dude falls in love with. My issue is, she just had a baby less than a month ago. She doesn’t need to but up on those heels like that. Her body isn’t completely healed,

Next……

@ # 65….

I agree with you for the most part…… As a mother you and I both know that as soon as we tell (suggest) our children to do (or not do) ANYTHING, they do the exact opposite of what we told them………. I’m learning as a mother of a 20 year old, yes I had her young, to keep my mouth shut, and damn if that isn’t hard to do…………

Next……

I thought they were separated? but any who i love usher and supposedly he loves her but she did basically destroy the relationship he has with his mother and brother so i do believe she did do some work on him but they do look nice and i believe he can do better cuz she left her ex husband for him who knows she might even do the same thing to him after he’s worn out … congrats on their baby but he needs to open his eyes

she just had a baby in Nov…i wish i looked that good after having 1…my daughter is gonna be 8 months this year and i still have a pudge…i never thought tameka was ugly, i bet if she was red yall would be calling her gorgeous

and realist i am DYING to see what u look like if u calling her fat and her arms flappy??? Have you ever had children??? They do work on ur body and for her to have had another baby on top of the 5 she already has, she looks amazing…She always glows and looks so elegant, you are just a hater…Im just being the realest now

I think that she looks fine. Oh, I forgot, she doesn’t have wavy hair, light skin, and light eyes! She is not considered beautiful because she is missing those features. If Tameka isn’t beautiful, then neither is Nia Long, Gabrielle Union, Janet Jackson, Melinda Williams, Keshia Knight Pulliam , Sharon Leal. These are just a few of dark -skinned women in hollywood that are considred beautiful. But i guess your name has to be Halle berry or Beyonce to be considered black and beautilful !!!

Maybe she got them GOOD DUN-DEBBIES!

Some of you people have some serious issues when it comes to skin color.

Get off this damn light skin/dark skin crap. It’s poision to keep having this mentality that one is better than the other or to be envious because some black men may prefer one shade over the other. If they do prefer a certain complexion….GET OVER IT ALREADY! Just because a brother may not find you attractive doesn’t mean ALL black men feel that way. For your own miserable sakes, stop being so bitter.

@#43

Who the hell are you to say that a certain shade of black women are more of a “sista sista” than any other shade(s)?

That comment is a direct result of your own self-hatered.

As a light skinned black woman myself I was offended by your comment. How dare you go so far as to say I’m not as black as any other dark skinned black woman because I have lighter skin.

If that is what “Hollywood wants” than don’t be mad at me for it.

Glad to see the Mr & Mrs bringing in the New Year together. Very good sign for 2009.

IT AINT HATING IF SHE REALLY IS UGLY (WHICH SHE IS!). I DONT KNOW HOW SHE IS A STYLIST BCUZ HER CLOTHES ALWAYS LOOK LIKE THEY CAME FRESH OFF A WAL-MART RACK. & HER WEAVE IS ALWAYS BUSTED. WHAT A JOKE!

WTH # 73 with this ish….neither is Nia Long, Gabrielle Union, Janet Jackson, Melinda Williams, Keshia Knight Pulliam , Sharon Leal.

Tameka can’t be put in a category with these women. She has pretty brown skin and thats about it. Now u r insulting those women u listed.

Have u ever though some may think she is ugly bcuz of what they have heard about her character like having a criminal past, cheating on her husband, being the other women, having a stank azz attiude. That kind of tude can make someone ugly.

Even cute people with a nastu attitude are unattractive.

Usher and his wife look alike to me. Smashed nose and all. I think he has met his match becuz I hear he aint the best person either. They deserve each other.

@75 i don’t think that #43 was saying certain shades were more of a sista sista so don’t be offended. God made us all different for a reason. He loves us all no matter what beautiful shade and thats all that matters.

I think that she was basically saying she was happy Usher wasn’t brainwashed.

am not trying to compare light skinned or dark skinned women. I am a light skinned black women myself and all I’m saying is unfortunately, we as a race do not think of dark skinned women as beautiful that often and it is a shame! I get tired of people always saying that you are so pretty and I know that it is mainly because of my light complexion. I also have two daughters, one that is light skinned and the other is dark skinned and everyone is always gravitating towards the lighter one. My dark skin daughter thinks that she ugly because of her dark complexion, but my husband & I have always told her to be proud of your dark skin. We also tell my light skin daughter to be proud of complexion also. What I’m saying is that we need to stop making dark skin people feel least than beautiful. We all are beutyiful no matter what complexion we bare!!

@ Dangerous,

” some light skin girl”. You still wanna tell me there was no disrespect meant?

What was said in that comment had nothing to do with Usher being brainwashed.

Nice try.

@#80

If people are saying these things about your dark skinned daughter than it is up to YOU to instill in her that she is beautiful no matter what and no one else can define her beauty. You teach your kids to love themselves before they love others.

I for one have never made anyone feel less attractive because of their skin color so you need to be careful when you say “we”.

# 15 …OMG IM OVER HERE WEAK LAUGHING…

AS LONG AS THIER HAPPY IM HAPPY… I RATHER SEE A BLACK COUPLE TOGETHER THEN TO SEE THEM SOMEWHERE ON TV GETTING A DIVORCE OR GETTING CAUGHT CHEATERS

I’m still trying to figure out why you guys think Usher looks good. He is NOT cute, he is short and puny and if anything Tameka is the one that can do better. Any girl that stands next to Usher is going to look like a man because he’s so small.

MYopia like u said “GET OVER IT ALREADY” don’t take offense to it. We don’t need to be mad at our people for such a petty reason.

Dangerous

I am mad at the comment that was made not the person. I don’t know you or anyone else on this board personally and judging from some of your comments, I really don’t care to.

To think that I should not be upset when someone calls out a certain group of people that I am a part of because they think I don’t fit the color requirements makes YOU just as “petty” as they are. Not me.

You’re missing the whole point. Goodbye!

She looks pretty good for popping out two kids in a year but she still looks like a man.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. They look like they’ve been married for years- content and blissful:)

Usher’s SWAGGER is soooo GONE! Poor thang…he needs to stick with fatherhood and leave the music alone, because he will NEVER get back to “Confessions” status!

If Tameka only knew. Poor thang. Usher doesn’t love you sweetie, his entire crew laughs behind your back cuz they know how much of a basketcase u are. Ush isn’t fooled by you and most people close know he doesn’t want your blacka$$ around. Most feel sorry for you, all the begging you do behind closed doors to keep up the charade in front of the cameras. again no one envys you and u know this. but only those on the inside know what real.

He already left you hon, sorry to break the news. You are not in his thoughts even when he’s present. Ur a joke…no one laughs with you, they laugh AT you. trust.

Angel, please remove all of these comments based on skin color. There’s no need to show the world how ignorant some black people can be. Please.

i thought they divorced

@90

If Usher doesn’t love her and his peeps are laughing at her, then why is Ush married to her and making babies with her left and right?

You stupid hating envious beyotch!

I have a friend who used to hate on Tameka. One day she seen her in person and she said she will never say another bad thing about her. She said Tameka is drop dead gorgeous face to face. She said she just does not photograph well.

She looks nice here to me!!!

she looks like him…

@#93

No hate nor envy, I state the facts. You and I both know that the marriage NEVER was to take place. He walked out on that ass and she layed the guilt trip about the baby. Sorry but no love there. The second child still couldn’t make him stay which is why he wanted nothing to do with her during the pregnancy. But you already know this, it’s not news. LMAO!

Its hard to keep a straight face when Tameka is around but the crew manages somehow. I can still hear the laughter. and she isn’t the only chick spending his cash. Truth is Tameka is the one on an allowance.

IMO Tameka is not attractive. It has nothing to do with her skin tone, hair grade, etc., there is just something about the characteristics of her face that makes her so unattractive IMO. But Ursh loves her, so that’s all that matters

Tameka’s hair looks nice.

@ ur a joke

thank u for stating the obvious!!! its quite clear for those who have eyes to see, he is just waiting for the appropriate time to drop her. it wouldn’t be good for his rep to drop her while she was preggo or so soon after. folk talkin bout her dark skin…so not the issue. she’s FOUL. POINT BLANK…IT IS WHAT IT IS!!!

Too many haters on here. Just be glad he’s with a black chick. And Tameka is far from ugly. Congrats to the two!

Damn just because she normal she aint good enough for ol boy…Ive seen worse

she is a beautiful brown skinned women and love is love i hate when blacks are prejudice against there own people we come in all shades and sizes and that is what makes us beautiful leave the damn girl alone and she’s not fat she just had another baby in dec 08 cut the crap out

I agree with 96 .me and a friends saw them recently,she was begging like crazy and crying for them to go counseling.he no longer lives in the same house and the wedding ring not on his finger or did anyone not notice that hmmmmm

Talkk about a beard!

xo
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TEMEKA FOSTER RAYMOND SHE HAVE A TUMMY TUCK SO SHE CAN BE SLIM AGIAN SHE DID IT RIGHT AFTER SHE GAVE BRITH TO HER SON TO BAD SHE DIDNT DO HER FACE. USHER LOOKING GOOD AS ALWAYS THE ONLEY THING THAT USHER IS MISSING IS A REAL WOMEN IN HIS ARMS. AT LEASE SHE GAVE HIM TWO GOOD LOOKING BOYS THEY LOOK LIKE HIM. NOW NEED A BABY GIRL WITH A YOUNGER WOMEN AROUND HIS AGE HE IS STILL WASTING HIS TIME ON THAT GOLDDIGGER SHE AREADY HAVE ENOUGHT MONEY FROM HER COMPANY AND HER EXES AND SHE STILL DONT GIVE A DAME ABOUT HER THREE SONS SHE HAVE JUST USHER BABY BOYS I SEE THAT SHE DONT EVEAN HOLD THEM SHE GIVE THEM TO THE NANNY THEY HAVE. WHAT A DAME SHAME SHE DONT HOLD THEM.USHER LOVES HIS SONS HE HOLD THEM EVERYDAY WHEN HE IS NOT WORKING ON HIS NEW CD.

I wish people stop hating on Tameka, we don’t know anything about Usher nor do we know anything about her…we are just fans that know what the media tells us about them so stop acting like you know him and thinks he could of done better. One major part of growing up is to appreciate and enjoy life and that’s what it looks like he doing. If you are a true fan, u would be happy for him and worry about what he does for living which is music…not his personal life.

~The Lovely One~

How is it that you assume no one knows them personally? Excuse me for laughing but this is true satire. The love that supposedly exists between this couple only exists in Tameka’s mind. I bet she thought she was a real Atlanta housewife with the LouieVittion cake. How funny that was to all who were present. Didn’t he have that star tattoo with another woman first? I mean, shouldn’t wifey be more original than to be another copy cat? Super sloppy.

Usher & Tameka look nice in these pics

She still looks pregnant! I think she heard she just had another son by him.

Well…Good for them, glad to see them out & about, laughing and appearing to have a good time. Very nice.

Too bad his latest album aint doing half as well as CONFESSIONS (still my favorite album by USHER thus far).

Its funny how people didnt mention that those tottoes were copied from Chris Brown and Rihanna ….. wtf guys leave tameka alone, its usher who is getting it so lay back yo’ll. His albums are flopping cause he needs to apologise to his mom properly for humiliating her, not by buying her expensive gifts or rehiring her but by praying together with her and fasting for 6-9 days, then he will get back on track otherwise this dude is finito. So many new faces now, chris brown, akon, avant, the list goes on and on……… I hope usher reads this.

how the hell u pronounce that kids name??? what ever happened to naming ur kids normal names, or at least something i can sound out

I know not all, but we can be so nasty and abusive toward each other especially toward black women from other black women. What is that? Is there a special demon that inhabits black women to be so full of hate( it ain’t love) toward each other that goes beyond the “just general female _itchiness”? I am happy to always see this couple because of the negative reaction they received and comments on Tameka’s beauty. But, then we complain when black men call us out on SOME( not all) of our notorious attitudes as the reason they don’t want to be bothered with us all together. Black women was not this way in the past, look at the 60’s, 70’s, 80’s, etc when black women in general carried themselves with class and poise and we have evolved into the famous “black attitude” known all around the world for its special dose of venom. ANd black women today that do carry themselves w/that same poise and class have to deal with the stereotype imparted on them by the behavior of fellow black women. Come on people! We need to have a “Rebuke the nasty attitude and opinions day” where black women will smile at each other, sincerely( not this fake stuff) complement one another and be happy that a black man married a black women at all day!!

Black love ain’t it great.

EXCUSE ME!!!!
but tameka IS NOT ugly and she IS NOT fat she looks good for a women who has five children and you would expect her not to be stick thin.
Who every Usher would have married people would be finding some kind of fault with her, because they want him themselves.
At the end of the day they are just living there lives and trying to be happy, people need to deal with there own problems rather then look at other peoples and try to make their own personal issues not seem so bad.
To me they always look so happy together and is looks like they are really in love.
personally I wish them luck!

People, people, people…why is it instantly called “hating” when a person expresses their opinion and that opinion may not be the same as anothers? Tameka looks nice in the pic, but then again, who wouldn’t look nice with makeup artists, hair stylists and designer labels? I think people press the issue about her being ugly because many inside sources state that she isn’t a very pleasant person. There is always some truth to rumors and since she’s been in Usher’s life, there has been little to no positive stories run about her.

Like I’ve said before and I will say again. I luv “black luv”, but its better when its done right. As an educator, I see all too often how a woman’s relationship with men affect their middle school children. Tameka is close to 40 playing young girl games. I doubt that Tameka had an “oops” baby with Usher after already having 3 kids under the bonds of holy matrimony. She used the child as leverage to get Ush to do the honorable thing. Ush’s mom knew this and that’s why she disapproved of the wedding. Wake up people! She then had another child as soon as the doc said her body was ready. Why did she do all this? To keep a man that didn’t initially choose her first. I’m happy when people find love the right way but when u start lying and being deceptive, that’s when u lead to high divorce rates within our own community. That’s when u end up with all those damn Maury episodes.

I mean, Tameka aint out here doing charitable work like other celeb spouses. Her sylist business is on hiatus. She’s just been pushing out babies since she’s been married. Ush don’t even have his wedding ring on at New Year’s. People, stop being deceived by photoshopped pictures. All that glitters isn’t gold and stating that doesn’t make me a “hater”, it makes me a realist. I’m not seeking comfort in the appearance of another couple’s relationship. I know marriage is hard and I wish more people would take it seriously.

lmfaooooooooo@74,too much B,SCOTT FOR ME!haha

She looks like a man and that is that…
Usher can and should do better.. sorry….

She is very ugly.

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I think they look really nice. And she looks great for a woman who just gave birth a month ago. We all need to learn to “LIVE AND LET LIVE”!!!

People - She just had a baby 3 weeks ago. She looks beautiful AND SHE’S HAD 5 KIDS! Quit hatin’.

She looks like a mannnnnnn….

She looks like a mannnn..

They look good and I am so happy for the two of them finding love. So many people yearn for the kind of love that Usher found in Tameka. Let’s celebrate this afrocentric love because it is real and we need to respect that!

Don’t hate–congratulate and celebrate in the new year because tomorrow is not promised.

USHER IS NOT A LOOKER SO TAMEKA ISNT REALLY A DOWNGRADE AT ALL.

MY PROBLEM IS HER CHOICE OF OUTFIT. WHOEVER SAID THAT SHE LOOKS CLASSY IS MISTAKEN. SHE SHOULD HAVE CHOSEN A BETTER FITTING OUTFIT, WHICH IS WHY PEOPLE ARE CALLING HER FAT. SHE LOOKS STUFFED IN THAT DRESS…A CLASSIER CHOICE WOULD HAVE BEEN SOMETHING CHIC AND LOOSE FITTING CONSIDERING SHE JUST DROPPED A KID.

ITS ALL ABOUT PERSPECTIVE AND TAMEKA LOOKS CHUNKY BECAUSE HER DRESS ISNT FITTIN HER

NEXT………

Honestly I have ALWAYS found her to be pretty especially in these pictures and I find nothing wrong with her body and im not even her size, im only a size 6 but yet I dont see her as fat. Isnt she nearly 40 and had 5 kids or something? Her body looks like someone thats in her position. You guys are unrealistic sometimes. He isnt married to a supermodel. This is what an everyday attractive woman looks like at her age. What is wrong with that? I really do think she has a really pretty face. I wonder if she was a few shades lighter with the same face and body type, would she receive all this hate. Im a caramel complexion and I love it but to be honest most of the women I find the most attractive are always chocolate. Not sure why, I guess its just their skin more often than not just looks flawless but yet I prefer lighter skin men, weird.

Tameka is a pretty woman but she looks old enough to be Ushers mother and that dress is very pretty but it is not fitting her properly (it was not made for her body type). At her age she should try and wear something a little more age appropriate, she even looks uncomfortable.

TAMIKA LOOKS VERY NICE!

I’m still swallowing the pill that he’s married. However, I’m not gonna hate on Tameka. She apparently has what it takes to keep him happy, so I wish them nothing but the best. But, trust and believe, she’s smart bout dropping those babies back to back huh? Uh huh! Gone get that trust fund money girl!

Next…….

@Lakesha: Bascially you settled for someone ugly so you could have a man.

She looks nice, but there are still some manly features about here. He could have done better. He is to fine 4 that

how do you pronounce Naviyd?
lol @ #74, you know that woman has them good done debbies!!!

What in the Hell was he thinking???

Usher looks really, really happy in these pics. One of my friends is friends with him and he emailed her not long ago going on about how happy he is with his wife and kids. She said the email was really touching. I think all this BS about Tameka being ugly and Usher being gay is just nonsense. It looks like Usher has found true love. Tameka looks like a nice-looking sista. The issue is that a lot of people are just so blinded by light skin and unconsciously associate darker skin with ugliness. Someone like Beyonce is average looking and has a chunky, disproportionate figure and yet a lot of you guys call her a Queen and think she’s gorgeous mainly because of her light complexion and crossover looks. If you had somebody with Beyonce’s looks but much darker skinned, you’d be complaining that she had fat legs and was ugly.

Ok, first of all it kills me how people perceive Tameka dropping babies back-to-back is a way to trap Usher to staying with her. Could it be possible that Usher wants to quickly have kids because Tameka biological clock to have kids is ticking. Or maybe Usher wants to have alot of kids. Second, remember people, it takes two to make a baby, not one. If Usher didn’t want Tameka to have children back-to-back, he would have wore a condom or have her on birth control to prevent her from popping out babies. Truth of the matter is, Usher wanted to have children and I’m pretty sure they’ve discuss it beforehand. So stop with the ’she is trapping him’ BS. It’s ‘09, let’s leave that stuff in ‘08.

Only time will tell if he is using her for promotional reasons.

Its nice to see two people together and happy. I respect beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but damn, some people are just straight up hating!

@ 137, Agree. How do you know what went on in the bed between these two. People need to shut up and stop speaking about things they know nothing about. Trying to act like they are all about intergity have to call out people on not getting together the “right” way or so called trapping man. In reality they don’t have real integrity because if they did they would not speak on something they know nothing about and trash people because of their own judgement that could be further from the real truth. Not all rumors have truth to them, someone can start a rumor about you out of jealousy to do harm to you, so go ‘head with that. And why is it that she had to get pregnant to trap him, dont he know how to use a condom and men today don’t just marry you because you got pregnant, like puffy. Thay just pay child support and move on, he married her because he loved her, didn’t look like anyone had a gun to his head in his wedding pictures.

Tameka has the best coochie in the entire entertainment industry.

For someone who just had a Baby not to Long ago, She looks Superb……Get it Tameka……

N Peepz don’t Hate…..Usher don’t want U

LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING. IT HAS BEEN CONFIRMED BEYONCE HAS HERPES AND THAT SHE HAD AN ABORTION AGED 18 FROM SOME DUDE SHE WAS DATING IN TEXAS. SO WHY IS SHE CLAIMING TO HAVE BEEN A VIRGIN WHEN SHE GOT WITH JAY?

@132 I have plenty of options when it comes to man and no I didn’t settle to just have a man… I had a man, who was very attractive, for 5yrs, prior to my new relationship… the relationship was in different directions so we went our separate ways…I wasn’t looking for nothing new but God brought someone in my life who appreciated me as woman and human being…my new man is not ugly he just wasn’t my usual type light skinned or drop dead gorgeous like most women want, college degree, etc…u know how picky women are…what I’m trying to say is that I’m thankful I’m with someone who treats me with respect as a woman…I got caught up in he has to be this and he has to be that…God showed me a man who is loving, patient, respectful, and family-oriented…women get so wrapped up into looks but in the end that’s all they have and nothing more…I want a provider and man of God..I settle for that any day over looks…God can send our soul mates pass us a million times and still pass them by…what’s best for Usher is what’s best for Usher…it may not suit others…I don’t know him or Tameka personally…so I don’t know nothing about their relationship…he married her for a reason…it may not be for a reason everyone thinks…

Well, I am real. It is not about Tameka’s looks. The way the both are acting is a put on for the viewers. Usher is not happy happy, he is caught up in something that he wants to get out but do not know how without messing up his image. I do believe that he care about her but not love her. She is a mother and sometimes it do not look good to always have your boobies hanging out and in all her pictures that is what you see. That is not classy. I want say Usher can do better but they are not a good looking couple together. I am not hating, I am real.

I don’t understand why some of you guys don’t like Tameka (sp?) She’s not ugly… Obviously Usher dosn’t give a shit what yall said cause he got her pregnant again…and now has 2 sons. Damnit Ush…Where’s the baby girl?! C’mon man…

Man, bump all the ’she’s not pretty’ and ’she’s manly’ stuff…my thing is where are you kids???? Where is the baby you JUST pushed out??? Why do you have on a miniskirt when you know your ass hasn’t healed properly yet???? Take care of you….as a mother. This is the time you should be creating that bond with your baby not prancing around trying to make sure you’re in every picture with Usher to kill the break up rumors. You’re a wife for as long as he wants you to be…you’re a mom for life…..

@91

Who are you to tell someone to delete another person’s comments? You’re not the monitor.

@91

As far as the whole world knowing how ignorant black people are….TOO LATE!

Seriously, do you live under a rock?

I am the ultimate Usher fan (with his fine a–) so I have all the motive to hate..but I will not, because Tameka is a beautiful black women..which I have always thought. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, light skinned, skinny, and good hair does not determine beauty. It is a beautiful situation all together for a black man to marry his childs mother and not only be a father to his children but to her three as well..I wish them nothing but the best and longevity to their marriage. Stop hating, and you go Tameka with your beautiful self.

WHO GIVES A DAMN IF SHE IS FAT OR UGLY USHER IS THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS TO LIVE WITH HER IF HE IS HAPPY SO BE IT. I BET HALF THE PEOPLE COMMENTING DONT HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP. WORK ON YOUR OWN LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS.

i see better looking women on a daily basis so i wouldn’t even call her average. she’s not ridiculously ugly but she’s just not pretty if you take away the glitz and glamour. but i do agree that ppl tend to call lighter-skinned people beautiful even when they aren’t. there’s definitely a color complex that exists but don’t use tameka as the example for how it exists. use gabrielle union or kerry washington.

This is a shame how people are focusing how beautiful or ugly Tameka is. Whether Usher’s or Tameka’s marriage is working or not is none of our business. They married now with kids- so their hands our full. I think the wrong thing Tameka did from the beginning was get all into the cameras like she was a celebrity. This made people look at her closely and criticize. I hope the best for them, but she out too soon after having a baby. Your body needs to heal.

OMFG! Tameka is now PREGNANT AGAIN. It’s due September 2009. I hope they have a girl this time.

Well for all those who are hooked up on looks. just a lil message for you. men are not all hooked up on looks. boys are. when a man finally matures and is looking for a wife and a mother for his child, looks is not on the top of the list. usher is 30 people. not 19.

They look happy! Tammy looks pretty…..

Damn !! T is a real soulja.. Just had a baby in dec and she kickin it on dec 31,2008!!
LOL.. When I have my son Natural. I was in the house for a month . I also breastfeed too.I see she not. she drinkin and getting her groove back. Ain’t mad at her. She got a S on her chests. LOL And she got on High heels…Hell naw!!!

*Used wrong word*** When I had ….

you know what, even if you don’t think that Tameka is attractive, you must admit that Usher isn’t all that great looking himself. These two suit each other looks wise. I always though Usher was kind of average looking and if he wasn’t rich, most people wouldn’t give a good god damn who he married. Chilli was too cute for him.

To # 36.
(DejaStar7)

I took a look at your picture and you dont look like you could be with Usher, u need to take same distant pics yourself, talking bout u judging Tameka.Go and take a look in the miror and stop bringing other down.

Wow, Tameka is not Ugly at all, she is a beautifull black woman, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Some of these woman with negative comments here on this blogs think its all about beauty, you can be pretty all u want but some men just want a balance of someone intelligent or Educated, you have to bring something else to the table then just or ass or looks, values, the way you talk to a man and make him feel,

You can be drop dead hollywood gorgeous but if you are GHETTO AS HELL and a dumb ass you will get kicked to the curb after they are finished using you.
Not all pretty girl are marriage material it is not that simple.
So stop being ignorant and childish and stop hating on this beautifull couple.

Love In This Club Remixed!

Black people it is 2009 and we have our first black president. Start today by stopping this self hatred of our own people especially is they are brown skin and or not half white. We are so messed up by skincolor, this is a beautiful woman. nothing about her looks like a man. My God she has pushed out four beautiful babiers and pleas ethey appear happy, you would be so mad if he married white. This woman adds to his dynasty! I love them together. STOP Hating!!

they make a cute couple..eff all these haters

@139. Seriously. Integrity is a big word for you. Can you handle it? Maybe some strong truth and a big dose of what’s real will get our people back to having a little more of the “I” word. Nobody’s perfect. This is true. But as we get older, we all should grow stronger in our values, beliefs and convictions. Were my words about the very public Usher and his wife harsh? Maybe. But, words don’t destroy societies; ACTIONS do. I don’t have to act like I have integrity about how I found love. I used it. I’m not making any judgments calls on anybody because that’s not my belief. But, I can use this public site to invoke thought on situations through use of opinion. Have you ever stopped to think that God puts people in certain situations to help others see truth in their actions and in their own lives? So, FIFIJ123, calling out my opinions about Usher made you a pawn in my plan. Good job!!!

she looks like a giant next to him

but she iight

she look like a giant next to him everytime

but she iight

#2 Shes not fat nor ugly.You just have issues because Usher is not with YOU.

Beautiful pics.

So many childish females.Saying Tameka looks like a man and saying he can do better then that,Saying shes fat. Whatever happened to uplifting a black couple?shes a beautiful woman.Just that some of you folks are just to much into self-hatred & mad cause a fine man like Usher finally found himself someone he looks at like shes a queen.She had her own career before she met him as well & so they wore both set in their ways before they got together.They doublin up….!

Hes sooo into her.Which I think is good even though I think hes fine and I’ve been a fan of him for over a decade.People grow up…id think some folks would actually be happy about him growing up and finding someone to grow with.

I’m sorry for those who feel like most of us are hating on poor miss foster (and she has not earned her title yet).But you can’t ignore the fact that she was married with children at that,no one is concerned at what that did to her other three boys.I am happy for usher having his own children with her if that truly makes him happy.But as for his wife wanting to be a superstar instead of a good mother and wife ,and chasing him around so he doesnt cheat on her is not cool.If you were in her position would you leave your new born at home bonding with a nanny knowing the first three months in their life is critical?so before you defend her look at her actions ,in my opinion he should have done better by his children and himself.

@ # 169 TATIANA,

GET A LIFE!! Pure jelousy and envy (you are just looking for a reason to hate her) if she wants to celebrate New Years and leave the baby with Ushers mom or someone she knows very well and trusts with her newborn @ the hotel that is her bussiness, That one day is not going to ruin that baby’s life! he wont remember she went out on New Years eve back in when he is 10. Cant a mommy get a break????
Like Tameka said in her interviews, she is always with her kids, she just keeps them out of pics, cause people can be cruel. Dont judge anyone on their parenting cause she might be a better parent than you will ever be.( you dont spend 365 days out of a year with her and never met her.

Tameka was separated while with Usher, her and her ex- husband were over a long time ago, he has another girlfriend way before Tameka started dating Usher. Her ex- husband was not a cookie , he had his abusive ways and women on the side so dont even talk about things thatyou dont know shit about, YOU DONT KNOW THESE PEOPLE, all you know is what you read on the net.

Also there is a huge misconception about Tameka firing Ushers mom wich is bogus, they all get along fine and Ushers mom loves to come visit her and the grandbabies.

#169. You’re true hater & pathetic.SAD ….you are!

Again @169, trying to act like you all aout integrity and can’t stand this and that about folk but you sitting up here and running of about something you know nothing about. What is the integrity in that?! Like she can’t get out the house, what about the boys and her being married. You don’t even know what wnt on in that marriage as if her husband could not have cheated or whatever, you don’t know, so stop w/the fake integrity.
Shut up 164, betcha didn’t even know how to spell I-N-T-E-G-R-I-T-Y until you saw it in my post. Sit down! (and my typo is all good b/c its correct in there)

This is what that legacy of slavery has done for us. Make us fixate on such nonsense as color. We can’t help ourselves. It will take a while to fix our thinking. USA is becoming nothing more than a country of mixed races, cultures anyway. AFrican americans are fading fast with black men dying, incarcerated, and choosing love outside of the black woman ( which really doesn’t matter),

to 171 172 ,I have two children actually and work full time unlike miss foster or yourself.Before you leave the hospital the doctor tells you within the first two months a newborn;s life is critical because they have to bond with both parents ,.If you believed that she needed a break it would have made more sense to stay in close to your home instead of flying to las vegas .As for miss foster she has been seen with out the rest of her children more than once in new york .Usher will do better he already moved out .His mother was rehired and does not get along with his wife ,I worked his last two events in new york they had to be seated in two different places so sorry dream has come to an end.Lol my husband says you sound angry

@174 TATIANA

You are such a liar,LOL,yup thats why they look so happy on that pic!!!! making up stuff, my sister in law works for a production company here in Atlanta and also workswith the Raymonds.
They are still together, the reason You used to see Tameka and Ursh in NY is because he sold his ATL home and bought property in NY, they were living there for awhile since he was recording and also working on BROADWAY for years.
Now here is the thing, Tameka’s other son’s have a father who they are very close with( like she said) They share joint custody, their dad lives in LA, so he has them 1/2 of the time, wich is good, (they need more than only a mother) they need their dad as young men. They travel alot between NY—>ATL—–>LA, here kids aint always with her cause they are with their dad 1/2 of the time.
Tameka and Miss Jonetta get along fine, i know you wish they did not get along.
If Tameka wants to go out for new years eve then thats her case, she did not leave the baby for a full week, it was just a night. Get a life!! go watch your kids or something …instead of hating on people…i bet you dont even have a husband hating like that, maby an imaginary husband…lord who would want to be with a low life hating, ghetto ass bitter ball like you? And you did not work nobody’s events…maby in your dreams, You are way toooooooo ghetto.
I know it hurts….but they are happy and living together in the same house.

Excuse me but tone down the anger you sound like a groupie when I’m not even a fan lmao.Been married for four years actually had twins recently.I work for the NFl now and broadway years ago when she was not in the picture lol so yeah that would make me hmmmmmmm right .But its ok because I’m sure when the end comes you’ll defend her behavior right? but I don’t recall calling her ugly or stupid or even out of character,she needs to step her game up end of story .P.S I currently attend college ,so you would be right I’m nowhere near your level.

Go head 175!! Thank You!!

LOL…Pathetic..i dont know why i keep responding….. u probally was the janitor/ bathroom cleaning lady at the NFL or the (events),
Why would u think RN’s Registered Nurses are not educated? i am 24 / married and have a B.S degree in Nursing and currently 1 year away from finishing my masters (CRNA)…so whats your point?

I am happy that you are in college, i my world you should be in college, it s not anything like; …”wow…you are in college” YOU SHOULD BE IN THERE. My mom and dad both went to college so it s not anything optional. Like you act like someone front the gehtto who aint used to going to school or being educated…its normal…it does not make you superior.
I sincerely wish you good look in college and hopefully youw ill earn that degree for all your kids, so they can look up to you and they can have a better life.

You just gotta stop hating….you dont want god to turn your curses around on you and take stuff away from you.

Anyway i found out i got better things to do then be chattin with you

she need to look more like a woman than a man