why are you making rihanna look like woody woodpecker as of late?

Hello,
What is the best hair care method for chemically straightened and colored hair? Should washes, trims, perms be more frequent?

Hey Ursula!

What leave-in hair moisturizer would you recommend?

(dead @ #1)

Hello Ursula,

I have a round face and my hair is shoulder length and straight I want a new look for the summer.. Any suggestions???

My hair is all natural with no chemicals and have decided to grow dreadlocks. My hair has been twisted 2 months now and is yet to lock, do u know of any product that can be used to speedup that process. Gel is currently being used but it itches so I would prefer a more natural product since I also define myself now as being a modern Rastafarian. Thanks!

I tried hair by the pound and I feel as though its expensive and delivers the same as the store weave. With that said what’s the best weave to use and maintain? …concreteloop readers can answer too lol thanks..

I want folks to stop hating on rihanna and her rooster hair. let her do her thing please ppl. With that said, I recently got a my hair cut into a chic mohawk, but now it’s growing out. what is the best style to transition into?

LOL # 1, you wrong

MY Question:

I just had a baby about a year ago and i noticed that my hair was growing while pregnant but after the pregnancy it started to fall a lot, like chunks of it would fall. How can I stop my hair from breaking and falling, and is there a product I can use to make my hair grow more?

-Diana

Hi!
Can you tell me the best hair products for curly frizzy hair? I’ve tried so may but it seems that I can’t find one that moisturizes and makes the curls look fresh? Also what’s a good deep conditioner for curly, frizzy hair?

Also is it possible to transition from chemically straight hair to hair with a natural wave?

I just got my hair styled in kinky twists and I would like to know, what products can I use to help it to start growing?

Hey Ursula,

I’ve made the decision to go natural by transitioning. I have a slightly curly texture but I can’t determine what hair type at this time. Are there any regimines, products, or styles that you feel are best for transitioning hair?

Question:
I know a diffuser is used for curly/wavy hair and how do i use one to bring out my natural waves and also what are some great products to use

I had the rihanna mohawk with the tail style, now it had grown out and I have been going to the little hair school getting roller sets with the blue rollers. But my question is what are some good products that I can use to get it to grow healthy and a good length ( shoulder length)

Hi I cut my hair into a bob almost 2 years ago and just about this year decided i wanted to grow it back but it seems like its taking forever!! Any suggestions?? Im to the point where im regretting i cut in the first place because my hair was at least shoulder length before.

I want to know how do you make her hair stand up, like in the LAKERS games, her hair is like up with so much volume? How do you make that look happen?

Hi Ursula,
iam 20 ans have only been to the hair dressers ONCE!!I pretty much relax,weave and braid my own hair…but its been getting quite dry recently and only looks sleek and healthy for a few days after it’s relaxed.
HELP!!!

Ursela -

Is it safe to get low//highlights on the same day as receiving a relaxer?
What’s your opinion of Kera Care products?

I am thinking of cutting my hair short…but not sure what I can do at home (meaning products and techniques) I can use between salon visits to keep my hair looking good.

@ BECUZ IM WORTH IT

The comment was unnecessary, sorry dear. I swear, misery LOVES company!

ANYWHO…

Greeting Miss Ursula. I have a question relating to hair vitamins. There are several places you can purchase vitamins but I am interested in your opinion of one. There is a popular vitamin pill called Hairfinity. It contains Vitamins A, C, D, B-Vitamin Complex and Botin MSM. They have a website that includes the supplement facts and promotes the product with high praise. Do you think it’s a good product to use?

I’ve been transitioning to natural hair for about 4 months and am in dire need of protective styles! I understand that braiding is a good choice, however, I am unsure if braiding for long periods-of-time is the best idea for my hair. Do you have any other options that require little-to-no heat? Thank you Ursula, and congratulations to you on your success.

My hair is badly damaged, and i don’t know if it’s the perm i use or the last sew-in i had, do you recommend any products for this?

I have been wearing wigs because after my first bout with a sew in weave, which I left in too long, all of my hair came out. I must admit, I hadn’t taken the greatest care until now, but it seems to grow really slow and some spots don’t seem to be growing at all, mainly the top and the sides. Is this due to nutrition or dryness? I live in LA, the land of hard water.

@ 20..my role

sweetie..i will ask whatever i want..who made you the authority on CL to decide what is appropriate and necessary?

sat down somewhere and worry about them vitamins you need bald head scally wag

and to everyone else..i am a fan of Rihanna but that hair do be sittin up high sometimes..it was all in fun

Hi,

I went to a dominican hair salon for awhile and over time my hair was severely heat damaged and I had to chop off all my hair. Now that my hair is cut, I’m battling horrible scalp dryness and scalp flakiness. I’m thinking this is due to the fact my scalp was maybe partially burned by all the overheated blowdryers that were used? I’m now going back natural and I don’t use any shampoos with sulfates which seems to be helping halfway, but in terms of finding a leave in conditioner, I have not had any luck. I now have braids but my scalp is crying for moisture. Is there anything that can quench my hair and not leave buildup??Is there a specific regimen I should follow?

My friend has very bad damaged hair. She’s thinning on the top of her head and bald spots are becoming noticeable. Her hair is short up front and the back of her hair stops at her neck. Her hair is very dry no matter how much hair lotion she puts in it. Her hair never stays moist, which causes it to break. So she figures to go natural and leave the chemicals alone. She hasn’t had a perm in about 8months and her hair is so unmanageable. What can she use on her natural hair to keep it moist? She went the store and brought the Organic Root Stimulator products. Will this help her hair gain some length or strength? What pill vitamins could help treat her damaged hair?

Thanks

Who does Samata Angel’s hair? It always looks so dope!

I want to make my hair thicker because it is thin and how do I get my hair to grow back around my edges.

thanks

Hi Ursala,

I have a head FULL of hair and everyone always asks me if it’s a wig. I were wigs alot because my hair underneath is OUT OF CONTROL! Right now it’s cut into a short bob but it’s so thick and grows so fast it’s super hard to maintain. Do you know any hair products that will straighten and control my hair during it’s growth period? I get my hair relaxed but my hair grows so fast I need something in between for sleek and shine.

Thanks!
-Crystal

*** Sorry Ursula*** : )

i was wondering if you could tell me what’s a great perm? And shampoo and conditioner? Also what promotes healthy hair, I’m looking to get my hair cut, I love melinda williams haircut also rihanna and halle berry how would I keep something like that up? Please and thank you for your time.

lesa

ok so i cut the sides of my hair off like lala what are the best curly weaves to try to give the rest of my hair the full affect. and ho do i apply then if one sifde of my hair is shaved

Hello

I love getting my hair colored to try something new, but every time I do it shed real bad and I have to get it cut short to start all over again which is cool because I love to try something new but…How can I get my hair dyed and still keep it healthy and full? I have thick and soft hair it grows back fast too

Hello, What is the best leave in conditioner, and shampoo would you recommend for damaged hair. Also what would be the best hair oil to use ?

I’m British and there is a big lack of good hair products in the UK. My hair is mostly in twist braids, before my hair used to be think and long. Now my hair ‘appears’ not to be growing. I use Doo Groo recommended by a friend. I am of African national, pls help I want my thick long hair back. I would also like to bleach part of my hair white/blonde….any ideas? Thanks xox

Hi Ursula,
I was wondering how often do you think African American hair should be washed? I have short hair that I get washed, styled and conditioned every two weeks, but I’m not sure if this is not enough or just right. Really wanted to know so I can keep my hair healthy. Thanks!

Ursula,

My question is my hair tends to be dry. It is chemically treated. I am also noticing some shedding. What is the best product for this issue? I have heard abt the Ojon line also, but it is pretty expensive. What is also a good moisturizing shampoo/conditioner. Thx

Hi Ursula,
I have chemically relaxed hair and would like to wear my hair curly, wavy during the Summer. How can I achieve the curly/wavy look with relaxed hair?

Ursula, I stopped relaxing my hair almost a year ago, and its the healthiest its been in years. My question is what pomade or gel works best on non-relaxed hair. I love ponytails in the summertime, but my hair doesn’t seem to lay down as well as it did when I had a relaxer.

Hi Ursula! What is the quickest and best way to grow natural hair? What products do you suggest?

Thanks!

Hi Ursula,

I recently purchased a titanium iron made by Babyliss. I’m wondering why my hair isn’t as silky when I shampoo/iron at home vs. when I’ve gone to the salon to have it done. It’s more coarse and dry. Could it be the conditioner/heat protectant that I’m using before I iron it?

Hello Ursula,

i wanted to know if you knew any kinds of good curly weaves that look similar to teyana taylors lace wig? im looking for natural looking soft curly hair but i dont know which to purchase…thank you for your time.

Good day.

Hi Ursula,

Is it ok to leave a small amount of conditioner in your hair for dry hair?

Also, what’s the deal with alopecia? Does it only affect women of color? Is it curable

Thanks

Tee

Hi Ursula,

I have Fierce Layers, at it’s longest point my hair is 16″ and the shortest is 3″ (all mine, no weave) - I guess my hair resembles a modern day Farrah Fawcett… I love my hair and am complimented on it each day - my problem is that I have Dry Flaky Scalp. Is there anything I can do for this?

Also, I’ve never do my own hair and I will be attempting to wash and style it for the first time ever. What drying method would you suggest I use? (If I had to think of a celebrity with similar hair texture to mine, I would guess a mix of Jordin Sparks and Corrine Bailey Rae)

Hope you can help!

~Sabaa

HEY URSULA!!

A WEEK AGO, I SHAVED MY HEAD STRAIGHT BALD! NO, I DIDN’T GO CRAZY BUT I WAS JUST SOOO TIRED OF DEALING WITH MY THICK, COARSE, OUT OF CONTROL, EVEN THO REGULARLY RELAXED HAIR. PLUS JUST LIKE #8, I HAD A BABY OVER A YEAR AGO & CHUNKS WERE FALLING OUT!! SO I SAID, THE HELL WITH THIS!

IT FEELS GOOD NOT TO HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT HAIR NOW SO I CAN CONCENTRATE ON MY SCALP, THE FOUNDATION. MY QUESTION IS: SINCE I’M STARTING ALL OVER, WHAT CAN I DO NOW TO MY SCALP NOW TO ASSURE THE BEST & HEALTHIEST HAIR WHEN IT GROWS OUT?? (WHICH IT SEEMS TO BE DOING VERY QUICKLY!)

THANX!

that can also be straightened …thanx again.

I have natural hair thats a little past shoulder length, however it has been the same length for while now. What can I do so that my natural hair will continue growing?

HAHAHAHHAAH @1

I second that.

RIhanna’s hair is a MESS.

Hi Ursula,

I am a hairstylist and I know my work is really good. But I want to put my skills out to the world. Being as though your so young and talented. Would you have any advice to help me further my career as well?

Hello Ursula,

Im trying to grow my hair out and I was advised to put peppermint oil in my shampoo but im not sure how much I should put in.
How much would you recommend? Also does glover mane and sulfur 8 make your hair grow?

Thanks for your time!

Ursula!!

My hair is VERY damaged, I have bald spots on the sides and right in the front (from parting it, in the middle ironically enough to brush the hair down, to cover the bald spots on the side, I am of mixed race and my mother’s hair is very very thin. I have resulted to wigs and some weaves back in my day. but honestly I don’t know what else I can do….I live in Sacramento CA and am too embarrased to walk into a salon. What can i do?

Due to wearing a ponytail all the time, my hair has broken out profoundly in the back. I have a nice grade of hair but it doesn’t appear to be growing back, what can I use/or do to make it grow?

Also, is it true that if your hair is uneven we have to cut it all even and start over. Even if that means going really short. Some beauticians say its true and others say it isn’t. What do u suggest?

Hey Ursula,

First I would like to say congrats on your success.

My fiance has thick natural hair. His dandruff is TERRIBLE, he has tried Sulfur 8, Head & Shoulders, and Selsun Blue, but none of these products seem to work, after about a week his dandruff looks like it just snowed on his head LOL Do you know of any products he can use to tame this PROBLEM!!

Do you do hair in NYC (outside of celebrity hair)? And if so, where?

I am planning on getting my hair cut this summer, and I like the looks of Keysha Cole & Rhianna. My question is I just dont want the regular cut and curled look how do I get the loose curly styles on a short hair style? Also I have breakage in the center of my head, that is the only problem area in my hair the rest is pretty thick. But in that one spot it stays broken off. Thanks: )

HI URSULA!
You are the most amazing hairstylist! My question is I’m starting to work out and I was wondering if you can give me tips about gym hair cause my hair is so sweaty when I finish that I have to wash my hair, what should I do HELP!!! Also, I”m thinking about getting my hair cut very short, what are some short styles that you prefer ?

Hey Ursula,
Ok, so I am the epitome of mixed (Chinese, Jamaican, Irish, Spanish, African American, Native American Indian, and thats just to name a few.) So I have a hard time finding the right hair care. My hair is naturally curly, but is not coarse or nappy. It’s thin, and gets frizzy when curly. My problem is I want to wear my hair in a natural state more because I am growing it out. Do you have any products that will prevent frizz and contour my curls, along with providing moisture and help my hair grow? I know I am asking for a lot, but I am growing it to donate to locks of love. I have used Mixed Chicks and Jessie’s, and they work alright, not great. I just want something that will work….. Ok, last problem when my hair is straight I do not like to weigh it down with hair oils. What can I use to give my hair the shine and moisture that is necessary without looking like a greasy mess?….. Please Help! Thank You!!!

Currently I’m wearing a sew-in with my natural hair left-out at the crown and edges. It’s incredibly humid here in Atlanta and while I prefer to rock my hair bone-straight (without a relaxer), I notice that sweat and humidity cause my left-out edges to revert towards the roots. What type of styling product can I use to prevent my natural hair from curling up at the roots while combating humidity and frizz.

Hey Ursula,
I wanna transition from relaxed hair to texturized. My hair past my shoulders and I’m not really a short cut kinda girl. I’m tryin to avoid really damaging my hair during the transition… So not too much heat aside from the blow-out I get from the Dominican salon. Can I just put the texturizer onto my new growth and clip the relaxed ends slowly or should I just rock braids or a weave in the meantime while I wait for my natural hair to grow out and texturize it all at once. My hair is a 4a/b so I figure the texturizer would make my hair more manageable.
Thnx

hey ursula i ave a roundish shape face and i wan 2 try the full front bang style but i am afraid that it will only make my face appear rounder than it really is..tell me if you think i sholus try it or any other suggestions you might have thanks.

Hi, I have been growing my hair out since spring 07, I had it cut in January and I have a great hair stylist who treats and press my hair every two weeks. The problem is its now summer in Detroit, that means 90 degree weather and high humidity. So 20 mins after I get it pressed it looks like I just rolled out of bed. What am I suppose to do with my hair durring the summer time? Is there a product I should use or do I go back to sew-ins for a while?

Does Sulu Max Gro actually work?

Hey Ursula!!!
I am a 22yr old female with mid-back length dreads. I must say, that I am tempted to cut them off because of the limited style options. Are their any fun, funky, crazy but cute styles you can suggest so I can avoid the BIG CHOP???

Hi, I have been natural for about two years.. i wear my hair straight ..i wash it it every week because it gets extremely oily and i like my hair to move and flow. but because i wash it so often i do use a moisturizing shampoo and conditioner. then i flat iron it.

my question is, what should i use to protect my hair from the heat i put on it ..i want a product that does not leave an oily film on my hair. also what product do you suggest to bluck humidity?

heyy girll!

my question: is it bad to perm the front of your hair only wenn yu have a weave in.. and yu start to develop new grow in the front??

-.. Ladyy A!

Has Ursula answered ANY question(s)? I’ have not read one answered question since CL has featured her.

Hi Ursula, I am 16 years old and i have been getting a perm since i was 9 years old. My hair was growing a lot and was very healthy. But recently my hair have been breaking, became very thin, and doesn’t grow as much as it used to. I thought it was because i was perming my hair too often, or because of a product i was using. I was wondering what would be the best products to use so that my hair can start growing and become strong and healthy? Also i am using Motions as my relaxer, do u recommend anything better?

@62, I’m not Ursula but YES. lmao. I’ve done it for a min and let’s just say I had the Brandy. And I’m not talking about the wig style. lol. I think because we have the tendency to over work the edges to make it blend with the weave. And we neglect the rest of our natural hair. So of coarse with time,the grade of your edges will be thinner than the rest of your hair. But wait and see what solutions Ursula has, because I want to go back to that style

Hey im in college and have not been able to find a salon that i get to on a regular basis…what suggestions to you have for maintaining healthy hair (permed) while away at skool?

DO YOU KNOW ANY GOOD PRODUCTS TO PREVENT FRIZZY HAIR?
DO YOU KNOW ANY PRODUCTS THAT HELP FIGHT HUMIDITY? * i hate when i step outside & its humid & my straighten hair gets all messed up & frizzy.
WHAT IS THE BEST SHAMPOO TO USE?
BEST FLAT IRON?

thanksss.

HI URSULA I HAVE A SHORT CUT AND IM PREGNANT. IM TRYING TO LET MY HAIR GROW OUT… ANY SUGGESTIONS ON VITAMINS OTHER THAN PRENATAL VITAMINS TO HELP MY HAIR GET STRONGER

Hi Ursula, i wanted to get my hair sewed-in with a straight weave, and i wanted it to be very versatile and to look very natural.. I know that I have to leave out my natural hair around the edges but i am not exactly sure how. Can you please tell me how to do it, so that i can switch from a side part, to a middle, and maybe a bang, without my tracks showing and to achieve the natural look? Please!!!

Hi Ursula!
Im a dude and i want to color my hair but i don’t know if that okay or should i just leave the coloring to women.i am your complexion and I have colored my hair jet black before and i turned out to be really nice. It was like an oriental esque! any suggestions??

Heyyy! I’m in a situation… I’ve had long hair all my life and I recently took a very big step decided to cut it very short like a Rihanna type of thing of course I didn’t realize how hard it is to maintain it or even style it. I would love to learn how to make my hair look as cute as Rihanna’s what hair products should I use?? My hair is very manageable and full. HELP please!

um okay…so I’m natural and BC’d in January. I tend to be a product junkie but I’m trying to put those ways to the side. I know they say when your natural not to use mineral oil or products with petroleum in them because they clog your pores, so I tried to the evoo route and other natural oil routes and my scalp with be dry again in an hour. When I use products that do control those harmful products my thirst is quenched. What could I use that’s not harmful but will quench my natural hair’s thirst? I’ve tried Carol’s daughter and Natural Shea butter which is way to heavy at times. HELP A SISTA OUT lol

Oh and Ursula can u tell us what u think about the ‘Instyler’ especially on natural hair???

excuse my typo’s

Hey Ursula,

Okay so I will be starting college this fall & I want to do something different to my hair. My hair is in a grown out bob but I don’t like the current state its in. I really want to cut it into this http://tinypic.com/r/2vnnino/5 its similar to how you cut rihannas but im having a couple of problems….
1) I don’t go to the hair dresser often so I’m having a hard time finding someone that I will trust to cut my hair
2) I’ve been reading that you have to find a cut that fits your face… will that look nice on a heart shaped face..or does face shape really even matter?
3) Do think that this hair style will be manageable for a college student? I only get a relaxer maybe once a year & my mom is saying to keep my hair slicked down I’m going to have to get more relaxers…is there special products you use on Rihanna to get her hair to stay slicked down?
Thanks!

Ursula,

My hair has been shedding excessively for over a year now. My hair is really thick and it is not visible, but every time I comb or brush my hair its all over the place. It is amazing how much shedding I have everyday. I get my hair done every two weeks and get a retouch every 4 weeks or else my hair is really ‘nappy’ and difficult to manage. My stylist has recommended flaxseed oil, increased moisturizer and we have even switched relaxers…none ofthis has worked. I go to the doctor regulary and I am in good health. Can you please recommend something to help with this probelm. Also, I have always had shoulder length or a little longer hair. I have been wearing a short bob for a bout a 8 months, don’t use a lot of products and have recently cut my hair a little shorter hoping the shedding would stop, but still no luck!!! Please help!!

Hi, Ursula. Okay, let me give you a brief history. I would describe my hair as thin, and not very strong. There is a two parts of my edges that seems to have really weak hair, and the middle of my nape also, and it doesn’t seem to grow as much as the rest of my hair, but I think its natural (from my grandmother). My mom’s been relaxing my hair since I can remember, and it’s only been salon- and beauty school-relaxed a couple times. Also, spring ‘08, I got the “Rihanna”, and my hair has grown back, but I don’t think it’s grown back fast enough. I also do weaves and braids sometimes, but I feel like they damage my hair, especially after I take it out. It now looks like a little bob. However, my friends tell me that when its freshly permed, it “looks” healthy! Enough rambling. Basically, I would like to find out how I can make my hair healthy, stronger, and grow better.

Hi!
My hair is dry so when the summer comes around it is unbearable. It does nothing but frizz and I can never style it. Please suggest what i can do other than wearing it in a bun!

Ursula
I took out my weave about 7 months ago and my head was full of hair and length past shoulders. I didnt take care of it like I should have due to being busy and throwing it into a ponytail/not wrapping at night. Today, my hair has thinned out due to shedding so I started using Aphogee Products to stop the shedding. It seems to have stopped but how do I get the thickness back without getting a weave (length is still there)? Also, when I do wrap my hair and unwrap it doesnt fall correctly, its stiff and straight.
Thanks for all your help!!
Danger

@ 24 BECUZ IN WORTH IT

No your comment was not “all in fun”. I can tell by how offensive your response was toward me.

If I pissed you off I am sorry, that was not my intention. But honestly I do you think Ursula would respond to your question when you putting down what she created…nope!

oh, and its call freedom of speech that gave me the authority to say what I want here on CL…just like you have that right to ripped on Rihanna’s hairstyle for no reason.

Don’t hate on the bald headed females because someone called you out your comment. Unlike yourself, I’m trying to find a solution from my problem…too bad they don’t have vitamin to remove that negative spirit in you. And I reocmmend spell check next time you comment, “Sat down” – its SIT down love.

Sorry CL viewers for moving off the topic.

Look at me talking about this chick and can’t even spell recommend, LMAO!! I am a fool!

Have you ever use this product moroccanoil.

Hello,
i wanted to know what products can be used in order to keep in curls for the whole day, and what curling irons are the best to use, and how to these celebrities keep in those DAMN CURLS??!?

Thank You

Is there a difference you see using GHD vs. CHI…we all want to know that on YOUTUBE….thanks honey

Hi Ursula!!!

It seems like, since i cut my hair into a short Rhianna-esque pixie cut, I’ve been having dry itchy scalp and dull lifeless hair is their anything I can do to help this (i.e. hair products beauty regiments). Please i need help!!!

Thanks Ursula!!!
Adrianne

How did you do rihannas hair in the wet curly look?

I have relaxed, jaw length hair but it is incredibly thick and full. I did a radically short haircut last year and I didn’t get the results I was hoping for because my hair is too full. I want to try out the haircuts that are popular now (i.e. the blunt bangs trend) but for one, I don’t know a stylist that will be able to work around the the thickness, and two, if I trust someone to do so, I think I will just get an ultra-volume version of the haircut I was asking for. What do you recommend for a woman who wants to experiment with haircuts but has thick hair? Should I just avoid trendy hairstyles altogether?

i wanna go natural but im kind of scared……what should i do???
thank you

Hi Ursula, Love Your Work! Lately I have been using a Non-Sulfate shampoo and it seems that my relaxer is reverting very quickly after my touchup causing my hair to look under processed. Do you have any suggestions on what I should do? Thanks in advance!

Hi Ursula! My question is what methods to recommend to help maintain chemically straightened hair?

Hi Ursula! My question is what methods to recommend to help maintain chemically straightened hair?

I have the length of hair that it want and it is healthy, but the only issue that i have is that it is not as thick as i would want it to be. It’s very thin and about shoulder length…any suggestions on how to thicken my hair up and im already talking a gnc ultra-nourish hair vitamin.

My hair is about 6 or 7 inches past my shoulder, and I get it blow dryed and flat ironed…Usually in the summer I don’t do much with it but since its getting hot I want to wear it natural, but it gets all dry and brittle…What’s a product that I can use that will keep my natural hair moisturized?(maybe like Teyana Taylors wig)

Forgot 2 mention my hair is puffy in post #92

Hey Ursula! Post #12 and I are in the same boat. I’m transitioning from relaxed to natural as well. I use the FHI Hot Sauce as a heat tamer (just like you said ). How often would you say is too often to flat-iron hair?

I have a 3 year old with very thick, dry hair. I was wondering if there were any products that you could offer to help her hair retain moisture?

Hi Ursula, help me please!! I’ve noticed that my hair is becoming dry and thin at the very ends due to (i believe) heat styling. Do you have any suggestions for pretty protective styles for the summer. My hair is currently approx. bra strap length and quite thick.

Thanx, Allie

Hi. This is my first time doing this. But um… I have a “chubby face” lets say im “thick”aka kinda overweight. but my hair is shoulder length well it just touches it slightly in the front and in the back its closer to the bottom of my neck it touches the back of my shirt. I guess its natural layers but. i want to know what kind of hairstlye looks good. and my ends are horrible. with the summer heat coming on strong what can i do to make sure they are nice and straight and not bushy?

I really like Angela simmons and vanessa simmons hair when it is curly/ wavy like when they went on their vacation. do you know what type of hair that is or what kind of hair i can get that is similar?

Hello Ursula,

I am transitioning from relaxed to natural. I used pretty much all natural hair products, and I’m noticing that my hair is growing a lot faster. Right now, my hair is in kinky twists as a protective style. But it itches like crazy and appears to be really dry. Any suggestions on what I can used for moisturizer?

Also, when my hair was not in kinky twists, I noticed that it felt dirtier faster than it would have when my roots were relaxed. I typically wash my hair now once or twice a week. When it was relaxed, I didn’t wash it for two or three weeks. Is this normal for going natural hair?

Thanks!

My situation is I have done so much to hair recently it looks like it stopped growing. And on top of that I hate perms. I was thinking about going natural but I still want to have fuller longer hair. I been doing so much research on it but it’s starting to scare me. What are your thoughts on going natural? The pros and cons? How would I know it’s right for me because it doesn’t fit everyone?

question: do the shampoos and conditioners for split, damaged, and broken ends really work or is it just hype? i get split ends and i need a remedy!

Hi,

What products would you recommend to help stop my hair shedding/breaking at the temples?

Hi Ursula.

Currently I have been letting my hair grow out naturally, and its been going well for the most part. But my one complaint is that I can’t find a daily moisterizer that isn’t heavy and greasy. For a time I was using hemp grease and now Pink oil lotion. Both do fine, but are so greasy I have to damn near wash my hair everyday. lol! Is there a lighter moisterizer for black hair that actually works, and won’t leave my hair a extremly oily?

hello Ursula!!

I noticed my hair fell out with no effort while i was a vegetarian for 2 yrs. i found out that protein and iron are needed for a healthy head of hair which i desperately lacked because I also have a mild case of anemia (iron deficiency), so i recently started eating fish and taking vitamins. Also, i “had” a hair stylist who literally burned my scalp every time she did my hair!! . The hair line has sort of receded and thinned out a bit, and i want to know what i can possibly do to make that hair grow back? or have my hair follicles been ruined due to the scorching, head ache pounding heat my hair dresser inflicted on me? I’ve been pampering my hair ever since, I’m just scared that my hair wont grow back to its full thickness…. do you know any good products?

@ 74, Im so glad you asked that question because I have the SAME problem. My hair grows back really quickly but it sheds SO much. It’s SUPER thick, so just like yours, you cant tell but its so bad that I leave hair EVERYWHERE!!! I hope Ursula answers your question cause I would really like to know what to do as well. : )

Hi Ursula,

Since I was in middle school, I have always performed my own chemical services, including relaxers and color. Most recently, I wore a sleek shoulder lenght bob. At the end of January 2009, I put some black dye in my hair. On the morning of February 14th (my worst Valentine’s Day EVER), I put a relaxer in my hair; both the dye and the relaxer are manufactured by the same company (L’Oreal). Upon rinsing the relaxer out, ALL of my hair detached from the roots and the roots of my hair turned an auburn brown hue. Ok… since then I have been purchasing and making my own wigs, but my hair is growing back a totally different texture. I went from a fairly thick, somewhat fine and soft hair texture to a very thick, coarse, brittle texture. I have about an inch + of hair now, but I am still concerned; it’s nappy (LOL). Do you have any suggestions about anything (and I do mean ANYthing) I’ve mentioned?

hi im 14 and i’ll be turning 15 over the summer and I feel that I deserve a change in my hair. I just recently took out my Kinky Twists and that took a lot of my hair out So now i have twists to help my hair grow out and get thicker. But when school starts in August for me I want chinadoll bangs and nice cut and I wanted to know how can I maintain this hairstyle without perming my hair?

What methods and products can I use to get my natural hair, type 4a or b, to be straightened almost as good as if i went to the salon?

I really like your cut in the pic above. i want that look but is it earsy to manage?

Hi Ursula,

My hair is cut somewhat like Rihanna and wanted to know first, what do you use on her hair to get it to stand up like that? My hair is on the finer side and REALLY soft. Second, what kind of curlers or flat irons do you use?

Hello Ursula

Would you have a suggestion for someone who doesn’t want to relax her hair anymore, I need advices on how to blow dry , flat iron and put weaves on my head(whole head and just on the back)?

My hair has been damaged by relaxer and weaves
I have problem with hair loss on my temple
but it’s growing back with pantene shampoo and conditionner + palmer & organic cream and temple balm

now I just advices on how to maintain healthy flat iron hair ( at home advices please)

thank you

Ladies, please get your hair done professionally!

Hey ! I’m 14 and I’ll be turing 15 in July and I’ll be a sophomore so I want to change up my style a little bit. Recenty I took out my kinky twists and since I took out my hair I now have twists to help my hair grow and get thicker. But when school starts in August I want to get chinadoll bangs and a cut, but the problem is that my hair likes to frizz up. I wanted to know should I perm my hair to maintain this hairstlye or not?

Hi Ursula,

I wore micro braids consistently for about 9 months. Even though I took them down every two months and got them redone, Im now noticing that im back to wearing my own hair that there is a thin spot in the crown of my head. What products or treatments would you suggest I try?

Helo
I would like to ask you about rihanna’s new short hairstyle.
i was wondering if it is her real hair or if it is weave if it is weave im am wondering how it is placed because i would like too get the same hairstyle.
i was also going to ask you about your advice on quality type hair that i could use
and tecniques with using weave for i only do glue in weaves
thankss x

Hi Ursula,
I live in Florida where its super hot (we wake up to 85 degree weather @ 7am!). I have a short cut, what’s the best way to keep my hair healthy is such heat? It tends to sweat out really fast b/c of the heat. Thanks!

ok so i bought milky way weave, the curly type and its been 2 weeks and its already knotted and frizzy. i tried putting fantasia frizz serum on it but that doesnt work and i also tried washing it to but that didnt work. wha can u suggest i do to stop the frizziness?

Ursula if i dye my hair jet black wen is the next time i can get it dyed a honey blonde dye without it damaging my hair? also, what color blonde does Keri Hilson use for most of her hairstyles??

Hi Ursula,

I have been transitioning my hair to natural for about 3 months. I use color also. What is a good conditioner that won’t strip the color. I braid my hair at night, which does make it grow. Not as fast as I’d like but it does grow. Are vitamins helpful.
Thanks,

what is the best way to take take of really slpit hair without chopping it off all at once?

Ursula I need you to describe in detail how you do Rihanna’s shortcuts. Some people don’t understand how to recreate a style just by looking at a picture because it doesn’t look anything like the picture once it’s done.

THANKIES!

I have very course hair…It seems like I have to relax my hair every 3 weeks to keep it manageable. What type of relaxer can I use for very course hair?

Is paint dripping a good look? And i it more damaging to your hair since the color is only applied to the ends?

What is the best hair weave if you want both the wavy/straight look?

Hello Ursula,

I have a very formal event to attend soon and I would like my hair in marcelle waves (similar to finger waves but with body) bun. Can you please give me advice on how to achieve this look. Also do you know someone in the Los Angeles area that would be able to achieve this look for me?

Please advise and thank you for your time,

—Desperately seeking Marchelle Wave Expert!!!!!

hey.
i just went from long to short short. how do i maintain it? wats dat product Rih Rih on her hair dat makes it lay sooo nicely…..

Hi Ursula,
I’d like some tips on how to achieve Chrisette Michelle’s edgy hairstlye. I currently have my hair tapered and longer in the front. What products do you suggest I use and how should I be ‘curling’ my hair. Thanks!!

Hey Miss Ursula - love ur work - uv revolutionlize the game with RiRi’s look! love it
I’ll like to know if you cud do/post a video up on how to make the beautiful soft curls that rock the runway constantly - you kno with the part in the middle with bangs and the back long and curly -and what makes them stay so perfect - wat products etc?

Cheers x

Hi Ursula,

I have dry, coarse hair and live in Fla, and I sweat in my head when exercising, a lot. I am noticing some breakage around the edges since I have been running. What can I do to prevent? I believe that the sweat is drying my hair out, but I can’t not work out. Please help.

Hi I have a few questions. First I purchase a Chi curling iron and it literally burned inches off of my hair…I want to know whats the best products to achieve maximum growth and healthy hair. shampoos, conditioners, oils. And is it not healthy to not oil or grease your scalp? And I have a scalp that hurts. mainly at the temple where the only thing that relieves it is pulling. is there anything I can do about that?

uRSULA GIVES THE SAME GENERAL ANSWERS TO EVERYONE QUESTIONS..WHY ARE YALL STILL ASKING HER STUFF?

HOW ABOUT THIS QUESTION….DO YOU STILL DO RIH RIH’S HAIR?

ASK HER THAT ANGEL LA..PLZ! LOL

hello and congrats Ursula,

my question is, i am going to perm my hair, i want to get that ”just from the salon” look, after i perm it, will iron flat irons give me that look?

thank you in advance!

Hey Ursula! I have been wearing my hair in kinky twist and micros for the past 2 years and I wanted to change up my hair and get a Rihanna/Keyshia Cole/Michelle Williams haircut. Would short hair be easier to manage than long hair?

iAM A LIGHT SKINNED WOMEN WITH SHORT HAIRSTYLE ON CUT OF RIHANNA. i TRIED THE BLACK HAIR I FELT IT WAS TO DARK FOR ME. WHAT OTHER COLORS DO U THINK GO GOOD WIT LIGHT SKIN TONE.

Ursula:
I have dry end regardless of how much I get my ends trimmed every time my hair is retouched my end are still dry. What can I do for dry ends?
Thanks,
Jennifer

When I was in Cincinnati a couple of months ago for a wedding, the hairstylist used a product on my edges called “Edges.” I’ve spoken with her and although she insists I can find it here in LA, I haven’t had any luck what so ever. Have YOU ever heard of this product and if so, do you know where to get it?

I really loved Michelle’s hair in the Destiny Child solider video, how did she get it like that?

i just want to say that you guys should definitely pick the question about teyana’s hair b/c i love her hair too

What is the best way to get dirtballs out of your hair when you have it braided or in kinky twists? I’ve read online that washing it with beer helps breaks up the dirt, is that true?

Hi Ursula,
Ok so I haven’t permed my hair in about 5 yrs, and before I decided to stop perming my hair, I permed it very rarely, maybe every 5-6 months. My hair is usually in braids, and I’ve only trimmed it like twice…so my question is, if I was to perm my hair, will I still be able to put it in braids without it breaking? Also I had another questions considering the volume of my hair. Whenever I straighten my hair with a hot comb my hair is really really thin, but when my hair isn’t straightened it appears to be really full, so what can I do to create volume when my hair is straightend, and what products do you recommend that will actually GROW my hair and prevent breakage, because I’ve been trying to get my hair past my shoulders since I was ten. Thank you so much for taking out time to read this e-mail, and I really hope that you’ll be able to get back to me at your earliest convienience. Thank you soo much and have a Great Day!!!!

I’m 20, i live in Paris and here in France a good afro-hair stylist it’s hard to find!
My hair are really f*cked up because of relaxing and stuffs and i want them to grow. But i don’t know what i have to do! On the front they are really broken… i guess i have to shave my hair or cut them really short but this kind of hair style it’s not my type. I need some advice please!

Hey there Ursula,

I am a postal carrier that delivers mail on a daily basis, meaning I am out in the elements (sun, rain, wind, cold and dirt). My hair is chemically treated (relaxed with box relaxer Organic Root Stimulator regular strength) without color. I sweat in my head a lot so I am not sure of what I can do to properly take care of my hair on a daily basis. I try to keep it moisturized (Wild Growth Hair oil is the only oil my hair does not soak up) and washed/conditioned but I usually let it air dry, meaning I don’t put heat in my hair that often. I just dont know what I can possibly do with my hair because I sweat so much its a waste of time to keep relaxing it, especially in the summer months, but it would be crazy to let my relaxer grow out and keep getting it flat ironed because iI sweat in my head, so that would be a waste too. So far this summer I have kept it corn rowed but I dont want to keep doing that because I am scared my edges will get pulled out. Currently my hair is shoulder length cut in layers (for an everyday ponytail). I want to keep my length and keep my hair growing but…I just dont know how to put my question in the proper words. What do you recommend to someone in my case that still wants to have nice, stylish and healthy hair in my situation? Please help me. I love your styles and your advice.

Thank you in advance for your time and advice.

Ashley Smith

Hey, :). MY question is, what color should i dye my hair? I want something that compliments my skin tone, im brown skin with a reddish undertone, if that makes sense lol but..i want a color that really brightens my skin color.

Hi Ursula i just finished watching Destiny Child solider video and I realized she had three different hair styles, the one I want to know about is the one that she is sitting on the motor cycle. How did she get her hair like that?

I have short hair and it is not shaved in the back but more tapered. My hair is really thick and I would like to know what is a good moisturizer that won’t weigh my hair down?

I have permed hair that dries out easily. I try to keep my hair moist but my hair soaks up the moisture like its nothing. Is there a leave-in conditioner, or moisturizer product that you recommend will help my hair retain moisture?

Ursula what is the current short hair cute style for the summer. I’m looking for a new look and want a nice clean short hair cute.

ALL YOU ASKING FOR PRODUCT RECOMMENDATIONS WILL GET ABSOLUTELY NOOOO HELP FROM HER! IF YOU HAVENT NOTICED IN THE PREVIOUS POSTS SHE DOES NOT GIVE OUT PRODUCT NAMES..!! THERE IS PROBABLY A REASON FOR THIS I DONT KNOW .. BUT ALL YOU ASKING WHAT TO USE ARE WASTING YOUR BREATH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ok here is my question: i have been natural for 4 months now and need a new style bad. i dont always want to rely on braids to keep my hair before my BC (big chop). my mom suggested i do a quickweave but i heard it damaging to the hair. is this true? what styles can i do and what products should i use while transitioning

I am full black with coarse hair and I apply relaxer on my hair. I just cut my hair to rihanna’s current hair length. Please what products do I use to maintain my short hair? And what gel do I use to hold my hair?

Hi Ursula, what is a good pomade to use, something that keeps your hair down? like Rihanna’s hair ?

um, does she ever answer the questions lol????

Hey Ursala,
My hair is thin at the roots and it thickens as it gets to the end. I used to dye the top half of my hair red & someone told me that was part of the reason so i went back to my natural black color but no change as of yet. Do you recommend any products that I can use to thicken my hair? Thanks!

Hi Ursula,

I recently got a haircut similar to Rihanna’s. I am struggling on choosing a new regimen. I hate rollersets and I do not want heat damage from my Chi iron. I use heat protectants, but I know that my hair will still get damaged. What kind of regimen can a really short haired girl do to keep her “do” looking sleek?

I am really interested in knowing how you broke into the business of doing celebrity hair.What steps do you have to take.I’m 25,i’ve been doing hair since high school….i no I’m a good stylist, I am fully liscensed,just recently relocated to Atlanta and i have no idea where to start, eventually i would luv to become a well rounded stylist like yourself and moving up to a celebrity stylist.

Hi Ursula,

Whats the best way to maintain my rihanna look-a-like hair????

Hi Ursula , I was wondering how often should you should wash your hair because I wash my almost every week I use pantene shampoo and conditioner and I use smooth ‘n shine hot oil treatment then I wrap my hair with BB foam hair setting lotion. I also use some of the Olive Oil items and I also use ApHogee Gloss and Spritz . So is there any such thing as using to many different items on your hair?
and is it a good thing to shampoo your hair alot ?

Hey Ursula,

I have really coarse(like seriously coarse) and dry hair. I always try keep it healthy by relaxing it and going to the hair dresser for the washing set etc. But it seems like whenever i get it fixed at the dresser with relaxers it always falls out. I can never find the right relaxer that can relax and keep my hair healthy. What hair products do u recommend for really coarse hair or am i doomed with this problem for life?

QUESTION: IM THINKING ABOUT TRYING A RELAXER CALLED PHYTORELAXER. DO YOU USE THIS RELAXER ON YOUR CLIENTS, HAVE YOU HEARD OF THIS RELAXER ??????

QUESTION: I HAVEN’T HAD A RELAXER IN 5 MONTHS AND IT IS HARD TO COMB THRU MY HAIR. ITS NOT TANGLED, BUT REALLY COURSE. WHAT PRODUCTS ARE BEST TO USE ON COURSE HAIR ??????

When buying human hair for sew-in hairstyles, what is the best hair (Indian, ect…) to buy to blend permed hair with the weave?

Greetings Ursula i’m really trying trying to get my natural hair back to where it was but until now i just can’t seem to find the right product for it. they just keep on breaking and splitting at the ends. I’ll be ever so greatful if you can just guide me in finding the right products cause i’m definitely not gonna perm my hair watsoever. Thanks and have a blessed one.

I am 22 years old with very thick permed hair. My problem is that I have really bad dandruff that acts out of control if i dont wash my hair atleast every week faithfully. The products that i use are designer essentials and redken, can you suggest hair products or ways to cure my dandruff problem??

I am growing my daughters relxer out, any pointers. I also would like to get her braids do you have any suggestions? I would like to say it’s a honor to have a beautiful talented stylist answer questions about our hair!!! Also you do a great job on RIRI she always looks great. Do you take appointments? Just joking!!!

HI URSULA!! HOPE YOU CAN HELP ME OUT..I AM HAVING THE HARDEST TIME WITH MY HAIR..MY HAIR WILL NOT GROW IN THE BACK..THE HAIR ON THE NAPE OF MY NECK IS BASICALLY ALMOST NONE EXISTENT! THE REST OF MY HAIR COMES DOWN TO THE MIDDLE OF MY BACK..BUT THE BACK IS VERY DAMAGED FOR SOME REASON AND WON’T GROW. CAN YOU HELP?!

Can u tell us about some hairstyles 4 the summer because I cant wear a wrap due to the fact that my hair will puffs up and I cant get my hair braided because its so soft an sit breaks my hair off. HELP

Congrats, Ursula on being in Elle mag.

Hi, Ursula! Just wanted to start of saying that I love your work. I used to have really thick hair and I got it braided one time by this african shop and shortly afterwards got a relaxer! My hair started thinning alot so I went to a doctor and she told me to stop getting relaxers. During my transition from relax hair to natural my hair starting falling out really bad and I even got a couple bald spots. My doctor told me that I have a slight case of alopecia and that I can still get my hair straiten but I should stay away from heat, like strong blow dryers. I wanted to know if the chi iron or maxiglide was a save way to strait my hair? I can’t get sew ins so right now I have a quick weave with my hair out in the front, ( which I know is not healthy because of the clue)What kind of hairstyle do you suggest I can get without having to wear a wig? Help Please!

I was thinking of getting a low hair cut like Riri’s but my jaw is so square I’m worried I’ll come out looking all big headed. Any tips on what kind of cut to get?

Hey Ursula… I was wondering what the best hair straighteners are and is it safe to use products that protect my hair from heat?

Damn seems like my post got deleted. Here’s my question:

Hi Ursula! I’m a light skinned - kind of caramel skinned - sister with an oval face and puffy hair. My forehead is SLIGHTLY shorter than Rihanna’s. I was wondering what hair color would enhance my complexion and what type of hairstyle would make my face appear longer. I now regularly straighten my middle length curly hair so it falls past my shoulder. Currently my hair is black at the top and brown-blond to its end. I’m looking for a young and sophisticated hairstyle.

Also do you have any suggestions on how to effectively achieve the pompadour hairstyle? I can’t seem to keep my hair in the front as high as rihanna or beyonce but I’m feeling that hairstyle!

hey Ursula! i have had this problem all of my life.My hair tends to break off consistently. never seems to fail. especially during times of me needing a perm.my hair is also very dry and brittle.and ive had a short haircut similar to fantasia for a couple of years now i wanted to know what should i do? because i want it to grow out.should i stop using a perm? if so what are products that i can use similar that will do less damage. or if i continue to perm it what are products i can use to help it grow thick and help it from breaking off. i have thick fine hair.it can be a very kinky afro if i dont perm.which i dislike.PLEASE RESPOND TO ME AND HELP! because my hairstylist opinions seem to not help at all.

Hey Ursula! This question is for my friend, she said she used to get alot of mini-micro braids back in her highschool days which was like 6 years ago and now her edges are gone. She always wears her hair down to cover them up, she wants to just wear her hair up sometimes to get the hair off her face but its embarrasing any suggestions on how her edges can grow back? And if theres no hope for her edges to grow back, what hairstyles would you suggest?

Hey Ursula, can u tell me how can I make appointments to see you here in Miami??

I live in Arizona where it is extremely dry and hot! The water here is also really harsh. What products should I use to keep my hair from drying out!!!?!!!

Hi, I never dye my hair before and I’m planing on dying it in two weeks. My hair is dark brown/black and medium length,thick and I recently just got a perm two weeks ago. I always hear that you shouldn’t dye your hair because it will break off, b/c I am african american. Which I think was dumb, but what is should I do?

does braiding often really damage hair?

i would like general tips on growing my hair out long strong and healthy.

Dear Ursula

I have natural frizzy soft hair. Is there a product which when i apply it to the hair, it will naturally curl the hair, or make it very easy for me to apply finger girls. I live in the UK and can find nothing. Can you please recommend something.

Thank You

Hi Ursula!
I always read your posts on CL for insight on hair products and stuff!

Two things!
1. I cut my hair like Rihanna last summer but now I’m growing it back out, the edges seem like they don`t want to grow out.. they`re very thin. Why is this? Should I cut and start over again?

2. I also have a large forehead! I’m not lying! What are some hairstyles that can cover my large forehead? Would bangs be suitable?

CL people can answer as well

Hi Ms. Ursula: I noticed in the past answer/question series that you do not really like to address people who wear weaves for a long period and then want to go back to wearing theres. All of your responses just say stop wearing weaves for a long time and invest and health care. But to ask the question that people keep asking, could you please state what health care to invest in…besides trims, is there products you can refer? Thanks!

Hey! I have been wearing full lace for two years now. It has really helped my natural hair grow. I wanted to find out if there are any products you could recommend to aid hair grow.

i have cut my hair short and i am really anxious to grow it back . it started growiing well now it won’t . what would be the best products and procedures to use to keep my hair growing?

Hi Ursula, in October of 08 i cut my hair short like Rihanna, since then I have moved to England and haven’t found a stylist to maintain my cut and its been growing out. The length is now to my earlobes but it is getting unmanagable please please please tell me what i can do with this awkward length

Oh yeah I use Keracare products and Affirm relaxer as I have had to do my last relaxer are these products that u would reccomend? And how often should I be relaxing my hair being that it is growing out? Thank you so much

I’ve been going to a salon ,weekly, for two years hoping that one day I could acheive a bounce (the hair that actually moves when the wind blows) to my hair but I have yet to achieve that. Whay do some women have bounce and others do not?

Okay my hair has been severely damaged by this perm (mizani) the beautician left it on too long and tried to blame the fact that one side of my hair was now thinner than the other on me and my poor maintance of it (not true). When it got worst I had to have my hair cut from shoulder length to chin length. It seems as thought the thinning side of my hair isn’t growing or is just slow growing while the other side is somewhat healthy. I’ve been using Organic Root Stimulator hair mayo, olive oil shampoo, and hair fertilizer (2-3x’s a week) since then with no results. Do you have any advice that would help restore my hair’s health (medium coarse)?

WHAT ARE SOME GOOD RELAXERS THAT YOU RECOMMEND THAT WON’T DAMAGE OR BREAK THE HAIR? AND ALSO WHAT ARE SOME REALLY GOOD PRODUCTS THAT I CAN USE TO HELP MY DAUGHTERS’ HAIR GROW BACK?

I have an issue with split ends. I’m not exactly sure why but I continually have this problem. I hot curl my hair usually about 4 times a week. What can I do to nurse my ends back to health?

Why do Rihanna’s edges look so thin?

Hey ursula!

I have very corase hair and I want to know what producys I should use. I also have a really, really dry scalp. Nomatter what I put on it, my hair eats the oil in minutes. My questions is, What should I use to help prevent this condition? Last but not least I would like to know the best way to execute the perfect wrap? I look forward to hearing from you and Thanks!

Hey Ursula,
I am looking forward to getting a cut like rihanna, and i wanted to know what is the first cut that you did to rihanna?

For sisters who go to the gym, who have perms..what can I do after I work out and my hair is sweaty. So far, I’ve just been washing it, but I know that if I keep doing that my hair wont even look like I have a perm if I’m washing it everyday. Do you have any suggestions?

Hi Ursula - thank you for opening the floodgates and giving your time to the causes of our hair.

I recently did the big chop and went natural (lovin it!) and although I have some pretty coils in most places, sometimes (about 3x a year) I prefer a straight look. Can you recommend an effective straightening method that decreases heat use and perhaps a “relaxing” balm to ensure a smoother result? I’ve heard high pony’s can give this effect, but I’m not interested in frail edges….Any advice would be helpful.

Aliyah

My hair is natural, thin and fine. Where can I get 4a/4b natural looking 100% human weaving hair? It doesn’t matter how much it costs. Thanks so much!

Hi Ursala, I just currently cut off my relaxer to go natural. As of now the texture of my hair is very difficult to style because the waves are so tight that my only option is wearing it in a afro. I was wonder do you know any products that can loosen the texture or curl pattern of the hair?

hi im 25 and i just got a texturizer in january. it’s about time for me to get my 2nd application. prior to, ive only had my hair straigthened with a hot comb. wat advice/ tips can u give me to, now that i have a texturizer, ensure healthy hair?
thanks

I decided to cut my hair short last year and have been in love with it since (I brought in a couple pictures of your work to hairstylist). A couple months after, I started having a dandruff problem…I’ve always kept my scalp and hair moisturized and was surprised. I’ve continued with my regular routine, adding Carol’s Daughter Tui Oil and dandruff shampoo. I was wondering if you had any suggestions regarding shampoos & conditioners to control or eliminate dry scalp/dandruff (I’ve heard Mizani scalp care and KereCare are good options), as well as a good deep moisturizing conditioner. Thanks Ursula and keep up the amazing work.

Hi Ursula,
I’m a 26yr old black woman (White and Chinese ancestry). I have very long hair that’s plagued with one problem or another, but grows like a weed!.
I have Seborrheic dermatitis and have to wash my hair twice a week with a selenium sulfide shampoo. I’ve also found that my hair is getting thin, and my hair line has become quite light compared to the rest of my hair.
Do you think the thinning of my hair is because of the washing and styling?
Are there any shampoos and or Conditioners that you would recommend to help protect and strengthen my hair?
Is there a particular line of products that you would recommend for day to day use?
Right now I’m using Head and Shoulders shampoo, as well as Garnier’s Fructis Shampoo and Conditioner, and PHYTO’s Phytodensium Mask (twice a month). After I wash and condition (I apply Phyto’s product, rinse and then Garniers conditioner and rinse) then I apply an Olive Oil serum, sit under my dryer and then use Ojon’s Restorative Hair Treatment while flat ironing my hair.
At this point any help will be much appreciated… I’d really like to stop the breakage and combat the thinning if possible while using something that’s lightweight..
Thanks,
Much luv Jillian fr Toronto..

Hi..

I use Carols daughter hair products such as the leave in conditioner and hair dress are those the best kind of products for African American hair? If not where should I look?

Also.. which is the less abrasive hair relaxer to use lye or no lye?

Thanks

HiUrsula,=!
ok. I have the rihanna hair cut. And I have problems layind down my sides. What should I use to lay my sides down so they wont look so dry.??

To #36.

Once a week. I know it sounds crazy, but i asked a stylist and he was like “how many times do you take a shower?” He was trying to make a point that your scalp is skin too and needs to be cleaned regularly, He suggested twice a week, but my hair is too long for that…Since i stared this routine, my hair has grown SOOO much..

Hi…

I have kinky, dry thick medium length hair is there any hair products that you would recommend for me?

Thanks so much

I have a extremely flaky scalp escpecially in the front. It flakes and it leaves the skin raw. It itches alot and I have tried several things to treat it except for the dermatologist. Is there something that I can do at home to help this???

Ursula please advise,
I have been diagnosed with Central Centrifugal Cicatricial. (CCC Alopecia) What hairstyles would you recommend or Is wearing wigs my only options?

Trying to be okay with all of this

Hello Ursula,

Hi I am a female athlete and it’s really hard for many of us to maintain our hair because we sweat so much. Can you give us any advice and product recommendations on how to keep our hair up. Also, for me personally, I have one specific spot(around the crown area) on my head that doesnt seem to grow, I dont believe it’s alopecia, can you give me any advice on what products to use in order to help this situation.

I have dry scalp very bad. My hair grows long but not out or thick like it use to.What kind of shampoo, conditioner and hair grease would you recommend.

I just went from fully natural to permed hair. I used docter miracles (relaxer), did not leave it in for a longtime. But now my hair seems to be suffering from the strength of the perm by falling out.
What can one do to save their hair from chemical damage? What are some perms that are not as strong for gals with hair less resistant to relaxers such as dr.miracle, olive oil perm, etc.?

I went natural 5 years ago and my hair is very long however I can’t blow dry it because it burns super easy and stinks. So all I can do is wash it,GEL it and go and yeah it looks great people are constantly saying how beautiful it is but GEEZ!!! I want to ware it straight at least a few times and I will not go to the salon for someone to burn it off with a super hot flat iron and the next day i’m bald. NO way….my hair is truly like cotton and I’m open for reasonable suggestions. Thanks so much for your time! p.s. the only way in the past my hair was able to endure heat I had to have a no-lye relaxer so if you are up for a challenge I totally game.

Hi Ursula!,

I am brown,(southasian) I have staright medium length hair. I was thinking of cutting it. So what hair cut styles are like new right now? And does short hair look good on thick ( not fat but no skinny ) girls?

rihannas last hai style was georgeos. the one where she had the gheri curls…ive tried to do it but never works…how did u work that magin on her head.

Ursula, my hair is a little bit above the shoulders and I want to get a bob but I’m nervous because I’m used to having ponytail length hair as a safety net, but I’m grown now and I wanna do something different. What should I do? Are there any important tips I should keep in mind or products I should use?

FORMERLY LONG HAIR DONT CARE but now i do care about having a full head of hair! After having long hair my whole life of 21 years i recently decided to chop it all off not knowing under my long locks i had lil’ bald spots here and there. They are not visibly noticeable but i notice when i brush or comb against the grain or try different hairs styles. Most hair products i use make my hair longer or changes the texture of my hair but truly giving me the full effect. I really want to go even shorter and pull an Amber Rose but when you go that low it shows flaws and all. Before i go from scissors to clippers i need to fill in these gaps! Do you have any recommendations such as products or daily regimes to achieve that “full head of hair look”

Hi Ursula,

My name is LaToija. I have went natural (no relaxers). Have been for 8 months. I’m debating on getting a PERM/RELAXER. So I am wondering, are relaxers such a bad thing. Whats you preference?

Hey Ursula!!

My name is Ashley and I love doing hair. I actually start Paul Mitchell Cosmetology School this July 7th. My main goal is to of course finish.. and move to Cali to become a Celebrity Hairstylist… I know that word of mouth is the best way to get your name out there…Did you work in a salon before going to work for celebs? What adivce can you give to me?

Hello Ms. Ursula,

My question is this i’ve been perm free for 8 yrs and my hair is a total mess. My beautician said in order for my split ends to be fixed she would have to cut just about all my hair off, so instead of that she gave me a bob with the back still long (the 90 mushroom with the back long) well needless to say my hair has grown back but my ends are still split and now my hair seems to be breaking worse one side is thinning out bad and there’s breakage in the middle. What advice do you have and what can i do or use to try and salvage the left side of my hair.

Hi Ursula,

I’ve had natural hair for over 8 years, but I started ALL OVER in November 2007 to get rid of 3 years of bleaching damage. Now my hair is pretty long again, as I’ve been VERY careful of what I put in my hair - no chemical straightening, very little heat, and no bleaching.

But I’ve been considering coloring my hair to the other end of the spectrum - jet black. My natural hair is very curly and a mousy, dull brown - the color isn’t dynamic at all. Would dying my hair darker damage it?

I wouldn’t want to have to start over a third time after I’ve come this far.

Thanks in advance. Love you work,
becca

Hey Ursula,

I am a “victim” of relaxed hair. I’ve recently stretched my hair for about 5 months , had a lot of new growth, got it blownout by the Dominicans during that time, went on a trip for 2 weeks, got it braided into singles, had a lot of new growth, washed it “improperly” and ended up tangling ALL my hair, which left me with the mere decision to cut off A LOT of my hair. I ended up getting a touch up and started to get a sew in to further my hair growth process. I have a horseshoe weave with A LOT of my hair out in the front and about 3 wefts in the back. Question, can weaves help my process of hair growth? What products do use suggest to use to help blend my real hair with the weave while flat ironing it? Lastly, is stretching for long periods of time and relaxing even a good method of maintaining hair? Thanks so much ! Hopefully my questions get acknowledged.

I recently went bald (à la Amber Rose but more extreme). My hair has since grown, I wanted to know what wud u advised me to do so that the new hair that grows is healthy and strong?
ps. Greetings from Europe!

Hey Ursula, I’m thinking about getting an afro weave. And I want it to look like this>>>https://www.hairsisters.com/ver2/ViewDetail.php?product_id=11154&intName1=&intValue1=&intName2=product_style_category&intValue2=10&intName3=&intValue3=&intName4=&intValue4=&sortName=product_sort&sortValue=desc&type=style

What im wondering is what type of hair is that? And how many inches should I buy to achieve this look? Also, should I leave some of my own hair in the front or should I just weave the whole thing?

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…..What im wondering is what type of hair is that? And how many inches should I buy to achieve this look? Also, should I leave some of my own hair in the front or should I just weave the whole thing?

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Hi Ursula, I’m having an issue with my hair…. I was natural and do to the summer, I have recently did an at home texurizer to cut down on the frizz ( I live in Houston,TX…Humidity is my enemy)… But now my hair is dry and hard… But the dry is extreme… Not to mention my scalp is now dry and tight until it is a little tender? What can I do to restore the moisture back into my hair and scalp? Price doesn’t matter..

Hi ursula,

about a year ago i cut my relaxer off my hair. i couldn’t deal with it being short so i began to get a sew in so it could grow. I have had a sew in now off an on since i have cut my hair. Between every weave i condition my hair really well and get my ends trimmed. Do you think that my hair will weaken from keeping it in a sew it or will i be ok? also do you have any tips for keeping my hair healthy?

thank you

Hello Ursula,

I first just wanted you to know I took your advice on taking Biotin to help my hair grow (it actually worked) but I ended up taking a risk and cutting short it to try something new and to cut off all my dead ends. I am college student so sometimes it gets hard to take out to to go to the Hair Salon so i do it myself. So I wanted to know ways I can help my hair grow back healthy, longer, stronger, and even a little faster when at times I have to do it myself if I can make it to Salon?

hey Ursula,

My name is Minajiah Scott and I have followed your career since you began doing Rhianna’s hair. I like you attended cosmetoslogy school while in highschool and went straight to work. I have worked as a stylist for 3 years now and I feel like I am ready to work with someone as talented as yourself. I have worked in trendy, cutting-edge, upscale salons, and down-home beauty shops. I love the industry with all my heart and draw great inspiration from your work. I will be moving to New York City in August and I would love to meet you. I have no “ego” so I am easy to train and am open to whatever. So if you have the time could you please contact me as I have tried everything to contact you (u r a busy woman!! lol) Looking at you and your career gave me the guts to continue to improve my skills to be able to have the life I want. I would appreciate it.
Thank You
(Minajiah@gmail.com)

My hair tends to be very dry and breaks. When I try to keep it moisturized with using oil sheen it tends to way my hair down. I would like to have healthy, shiny hair that is strong. What is the best regimen for healthy hair and a great natural shine?

Hello i would have to say that my hair grow fast. I had my hair cut short a year ago. My hair has grown .The problem is that every so often my hair will break completly off on the crown or the top of my hair.i have my hair trimmed every month and the top does not seem to want to grow and i am using a system for damage hair and the top still has not grown.I am i have taken vitimans and only relax my hair only every other month the top is shot and shorter in some parts what can i do i keep it moisterized and oil it what can i do to get the top growing.i don’t tocut my hair short and start all over again. Please Help

Hey Girl, Hey.
My Question: I just want my hair to grow… So, how do I do it? lol
* Note - I’m a college student with out a summer job. I can’t afford to go
to the shop to constantly get my ends clipped and stuff like that. So, are
there any alternatives?? At the moment my hair (when straightened) comes
down about two inches past my ears… I want some more length!!! lol
So, Please Ursula… help me out. It’d be greatly appreciated. [=
Gracias,
Asha Jade

I have braids in my hair and i am planning on taking them out…whats product should i use to get my hire healthy or not so nappy from being braided for a couple of months? and im use to perms should i perm it or just leave it?

I have the infamous “rihanna cut” && have been wearing my hair short for years. I always flat iron my hair; whether I style it myself or my stylist does, but the constant heat styling on a daily basis to create my look drys my hair out! I get conditioning treatments regularly; but in between my stylist visits, do you have alternative styling tips for a “rihanna cut” without always having to use heat to style but still have a natural flowy look?