Who didnt know this was the case. I wont judge McNair because his wife and him could have been seperated.

This is why you don’t bring another person into your marriage..

thats crazy, he leaves his wife and for kids

hmmm sad. he paid the ultimate price for his infidelity. R.I.P. McNair, my condolences to his wife & kids. smh

I read that she was behind 2 months on her car. What? You have a car in yours and his name and you got a payment. I don’t think he was leaving his wife at all. But he did act like he was in the beginning. Trips, car,meeting her family, all of which are a no no. She was vicious she shot him 4 times. 2 in the chest and once in each temple. He did not know how truly vicious she was. I feel sad for his family. Feel sad for him too, he shouldn’t have cheated, but he didn’t have to die for it.

Wow… His poor kids without their Father and a Wife without her husband. Sad & Crazy

Seems when he finally started to think with the head on his shoulders and started to consider what he was really doing to his life and his family - he lost them both in an instant.

He was only with that Jumpoff for 6 months, he hardly knew the chic to be talking about leaving his wife for years for her. He proabably told her he wasn’t leaving his wife and she spazzed out. Obviously something happened they are both dead. She bought that gun 2 days prior to shooting him, she planned that isssh.

That’s fucked up.

Sad situation all around.

Cheaters go to hell… i hope he pays for it in the after life….. dont feel sorry for this dog one bit…nope..he got what he deserved

Wow… So now my question is… Why would a married man have a condo off somewhere else, maybe he had BEEN cheaing on his wife… sad

And from the reports of her “unraveling,” seems like he would have noticed it too because if I see a mofo twitching, I’m getting the fugg out! To hell with taking a nap.

oops… cheating.

Life.

tell the truth: most of us are struggling to understand why we do NOT feel an ounce of compassion for steve mcnair. “does that make me a bad person?” you think to yourself. no. what it means is that more and more, we as a human race are beginning to understand that what we put out into the world is truly what returns back to us. “the law of cause and effect”, “karma”, “what goes around comes around”, “as above so below.” there is some self examination in order for all of us…

@ 8…apparently from what i read she (Sahel) thought he was cheating on her with another chick…

What a price to pay for some low class female. I feel for his wife and kids right now

This is madness if ever i heard any, i just feel sorry for his wife and kids how embrassing this must be for them. I just dont know how to feel about this story its just left me feeling empty like its whatever… and i feel this way because the bible says you reap what you sow and when you think about it that just sums up this whole situation in a nutshell.

Just sad!! People be careful!

off topic but i love the new background Angel

I HOPE THIS IS A WAKE UP CALL FOR ALL CHEATING MARRIED MEN EVERYWHERE! SOME MARRIED MEN MAKE ME SICK! SOME BE THE MAIN ONES LOOKING AND TRYNA HOLLA AT SOMEBODY WHEN THEY GOT A WIFE AT HOME. AS SWEET AS A I AM, I DONT FEEL SORRY FOR THAT MAN AT ALL! NOW, I DO FEEL BAD FOR THE KIDS LOSING A FATHER AND THE WIFE LOSING HER HUSBAND, BUT ATLEAST HE CANT CHEAT AND HURT HER ANYMORE.

She was Iranian huh? Odd couple…

Since when was the “karma” for infidelity murder? Two wrongs don’t make a right.

I hope his family find peace, and I hope he and his lady friend do too, she was clearly disturbed.

R.I.P.

@ BABATUNDE…if you understand the true meaning of your own name, you would understand that there is a cyclical nature to all of life, in particular: our actions.

Well no doubt it was sad to hear about the new details..but I knew it was going to be murder/suicide.

Take should be a wakeup call/clue to all those cheaters out there..

Male or Female… STOP TREATING YA JUMPOFFS AS YOUR GF/BF!!!! Shyt like this always end with someone in Jail or Dead… You start doing to much & they are going to eventually want u 2 leave ur current Gurl/Dude….

And McNair’s wife I feel bad for you..but how u NOT figure out he was doing this..they say he was at condo with this jumpoff 5 days out the week.. Seriously, u would think a “retired” football player would have more time to be at home since he is not out on the road anymore…

Maybe they was seperated, still legally married…

Who knows?

Sahel Kazemi reminds me of Lorena Bobbitt. But, she has trumped Lorena. I didn’t think anyone could out do Lorena when she got up from the bed that night to get a drink of water, and returned to John Bobbitts dismemberment. She cut his thing off and threw it on the side of the road. What ever happened to the days when hot grits and rolling pins were the weapon of choice?

Some women say, enough is enough. Chris Brown is lucky, because Rihanna could have smucked him up. He was probably fighting for his life. “Hell hath no fury like a women scorned” meaning hell is nothing compared to a slighted female. Hell does not compare to, or hell does not posses the intesity of her fury.

Y’all remember that song, “It’s a Thin Line Between Love and Hate.” The sweetest woman in the world can be the meanest women in the world, if you make her that way. You keep on hurting her, she keeps being quiet. She might be holding something inside, that really really hurt you one day.

Here I am laying in the hospital
Bandaged from feet to head
Ya see I’m in the state of shock
Just that much from being dead
I didn’t think my woman could do something like this to me
I didn’t think she had the nerve
So here I am
I guess action speaks louder than words.

Its a thin line…

Fellas beware!

This is such a tragic and unfortunate incident that could have been avoided had he stayed home with his wife and children. Unfortunately, most of our brotha’s have an identity crisis and feel that anything with whiter skin is better… and they will bow down to the white skin woman– and this guy died for it! She was a fatal attraction!! And unfortunately, this guy had to die for a “jumpoff”….. and now his children are fatherless, his wife is without her helpmate, and for what????? Sex with a fatal attraction…what a shame.

Brotha’s better wise up and stay home and take care of your children, etc.

I feel for his wife and kids only. Thats messed up they hafta bear this loss publicly so I really give my thoughts and prayers go out to them.

I figured this case out hours after it happened.
It was pretty much open and shut.
I need to be a detective.

BLACK MEN MUST STICK TO THEIR OWN

Oh wow this is so sad! You have to becareful who you allow in your life! I wish his wife and kids the best of blessings! May God be with them!

Hopefully this is a lesson/reminder to others playing around on the side and/or with people’s emotions.

@ MEAT - you left out the critical beginning…

…”it’s 5 o’clock in the morning
And I’m just getting in, I knock on the door
A voice sweet and low says, who is it?
She opens up the door and lets me in
Never do she once say, sir, where have you been?
No, she says, are you hungry?
Are you hungry, honey? Did you eat ?
Let me hang up your coat, pass me your hat too

All the time she smiles, never once raises her voice”

The hits that hurt the worst, are the ones you don’t see coming.

Truth be Told is right…it’s physics: For every action there is always an equal and opposite reaction. Unfortunately, in this case the reaction resulted in a fatal tragedy for everyone involved.

i really want to hear what his wife has to say. this must be a tough place to be in, should she be angry with him, sad about it, happy that he can’t cheat anymore. everyone’s eyes will probably be on her at the funeral. she probably has to put some type of front on

DUH.

“he was asleep on a sofa when Kazemi shot him in the head. She then apparently shot him twice in the chest before shooting him again in the head and then shooting herself”

Damn. That’s vicious.

McNair was a fool, God bless him. You really don’t need to be a fucking a NORMAL 20 year old girl, let alone a crazy one. Young girls’ minds aren’t ready for the emotions that come with an intense sexual relatioship. He was sleeping with the devil and didn’t even know it. You’ve got to be a cold bitch to blow a sleeping man’s brains out twice over. *smh* all heed this cautionary tale

I dont understand the ppl saying he deserved to be killed for infedelity and the hell hath no fury quotes and the same ppl hate chris breezy cuz of his crap. But its justifiable to murder a dude???

Guess he thought he was Reggie Bush

I swear with every breath in my body, i’m not trying 2 be funny………………………

2 me, this looks like a real life version of “FATAL ATTRACTION.”
Only in this movie, the husband dies with the mistress…….(mourning & smh).

REST IN PEACE,
NOBODY’S PERFECT, YOUR STILL GODS CHILD.

Steve McNair got exactly what he deserved.

You men are a JOKE. you have a good women at home and instead of fixing what is wrong in your marriage or relationships you turn outside your relationship. And you always manage to pick the crazy stocker types. So good for him. He found someone who was going to teach him a lesson and boy did she ever. I applaud her.

I knew a married man that got killed at his mistress house. Her ex-boyfriend broke into the house and killed them both laying naked in her bed. His wife did not even go to his funeral. I guess it would be hard to got to your husband’s funeral and cry when he got killed because he was cheating on you.

I have always admired McNair’s wife because even though he a a Pro football player, she still went to college to become a RN. She could have just sat home a shopped and write checks. My prayers are with the McNair family and the Kazemi family

RIP McNair - you did not deserve to die for your sin.

That girl was was just crazy . McNair cheating had nothing to do with it . Hes married but Im gonna shoot him because I think hes cheating on me and his wife… uhhh SHE HAD MENTAL ISSUES . If you heard her sister who raised her talk about here .They say she dropped out of school to run away with a previous boyfriend and was just an all around headstrong girl with plenty of baggage for a 20 yr old . Says she had issues with abandonment and being alone . McNair couldve been the single man of her dreams but she still wouldve capped that @zz if she thought he was cheating.

Its a tragedy for both families with no real answers .

@ HORSE.HEAD.NEBULA: You’re projecting a really long stretch. Are you jealous or just insecure?

@ LYNN: Ok sista soulja. So what about the females who sleep with married men? They are all saints, right? What makes you think McNair’s wife isn’t screwing someone on the side? How are you so sure his wife didn’t know the deal? Assuming there was adultery, for every cheating person, there is an accomplice. And it is men that are a joke? What exactly are you applauding? Who do you think is in a worse situation, someone dead and gone or someone left with a big liability and an embarrassing situation? You sound like a really slow dyke. Stop the madness.

What’s with 09. ALOT of people have died this year: Michael Jackson,Farrah Fawcett,Ed McMan,Phil(made commercials for oxiclean detergent),Bernie Mac, now this guy. R.I.P. EVERYONE!!!!!

I am sorry to say but I mostly feel sad for his wife and children, his poor kids will now grow up without a father. On another note I hope this is a lesson to these cheating men out there, especially these black celebrities who once they achieve a certain level of success is always looking to upgrade to some YOUNG, WHITE arm candy. I just think this tragedy could have been avoided, these situations often have warnings signs that people ignore.

TY #4 & 47! Even if he was separted- they are still married. He needed to handled his biz first! Prayers go out to the family (wife and sons).

Dang #11. But…I guess this might give brothas somethin to think about. Is the jumpoff really worth it?

I think this is a good lesson for everyone. These people did not deserve to die, but unfortunately, fate deals you a wicked deck and oftentimes we walk right into it. Married men, quit thinking it’s macho to have a jump off, especially if she is very pretty. Secondly, jump offs, why would you mess with a married man when he can turn around and do the same to you? You cannot and will not prospect when you do evil. It might look like it for awhile, but be sure, our sins do find out out.

My condolences to the families of the victims, especially McNair’s wife and children.

Another thought…on one of the Nashville news sites it says that she followed another girl that he was supposedly seeing as well, but didn’t confront her. If this is the reason she did this…she killed him for doing the same thing she was doing to his wife in the first place….

correction: You cannot and will not PROSPER…

Thirdly, if you suspect or know your man is cheating, you can either put up with it or you can leave his ass. I know it isn’t easy especially when you have children, so I’m not going to judge.

Nubian we must’ve been typing at the same time. I don’t know why for the life of me these jump offs think their cooch is going to be the clincher and that he (the cheater) is going to make her his own. How can you trust a man who breaks his wedding vows?

Exactly! Some women (for some reason) think that because a married man wants to screw her, that somehow means that’s she’s better than the other woman or something. No, all it means is that he’s getting bored and wants something new for a little while. My ex-husband has a girlfriend right now, and keeps asking me for another chance. Ummmm….no u fuckin loser.

Exactly! Some women (for some reason) think that because a married man wants to screw her, that somehow means that’s she’s better than the other woman or something. No, all it means is that he’s getting bored and wants something new for a little while. My ex-husband has a girlfriend right now, and keeps asking me for another chance. Ummmm….no u freakin loser.

When I first heard he had died I thought oh wow maybe he had a heart attack or he was sick or something, I felt bad. Then I heard a female was found with him, I knew then he had a mistress and that;s when all remorse went out the window. I felt bad for not feeling bad, I guess I agree with many of the posters on here, I feel hurt for his wife and kids. This chick was crazy, did you all read where she tried to position herself to fall in his lap before she shot herself. She thought he was cheating with another young lady. Like someone had said before she was paying two car payments and apartment rent, he cut her off completely. News flash to all you men who like to flash money: Be careful what you do, you can’t give a woman the world, then take it from her, especially when it’s the best living she’s probably ever been exposed to. Don’t make all these promises that you know you aren’t going to keep. The heart is a fragile thing and playing with someone’s heart….Well we see the consequence of that

All I can say is you reap what you sow.

http://msn.foxsports.com/nfl/story/9777174/Don‘t-be-so-quick-to-make-McNair-a-hero

This, i thought, was quite the interesting article by Jason Whitlock. He’s a writer for FoxSports…and seems to have the potential for survival on FoxNews seeing as though he will say just about anything lol.

“Equal and opposite reaction”
“karma”

Really though? I cheated on my wife and children, therefore I should expect to be killed. How about divorce? That’s sounds more like “equal and opposite.” I do not condone cheating at all, but I’m not going to sit here and say he deserved to be shot 4 times by his deranged mistress.

I HAVE NO SYMPATHY FOR STUPIDITY!!!

WHILE MY HEART GOES OUT TO HIS WIDOW & KIDS…..I HOPE THIS IS A LESSON LEARNED……BUT NOPE U DUMB BLACK MALES WILL NEVER LEARN…..SO I’LL KEEP MY WORDS OF WISDOM TO MYSELF.

I don’t feel sorry for him, I feel sorry for his kids, they are now going to grow up without their father in their lives….and over what? Steve’s inability to keep his penis in his pants.

Nubian, how nervy of him to want you back. Good thing you are standing your ground. They always think the grass looks greener on the other side and then they find out that under all that green, there were a bunch of weeds. Now, like your husband, they wanna come home to where they had it good.

Good cooch can be bought or given for free. It is a dime a dozen. When are these women gonna learn??? Like you said, these men get bored and have to find the next conquest. Unfortunately Steve McNair paid a very hefty price.

@ 57 THOUGHTS: what you should expect is that when you cheat on your wife, you open yourself to all kinds of possibilities, including the choice of a mistress who might commit murder.

I believe Tami summed it all up best!

my comments are meant for #59 (THOUGHTS)

It is funny what the other woman thinks, as someone else said “they think they are better than the wife”. I call it the “better than thoery”. If a married man meets a female and tells her all of the things he claims his wife doesn’t do, then yes the other woman will do those things and feel the man will leave his wife, because she is better than the wife. She willn’t cook, well I will; she isn’t having sex with him, well I will and so on. But the man fails that realize that the side chick wants everything that the wife has and that she starts off one way but will soon became the same as what you have at home. If the wife has a big house and a certain car, she wants it too.

As for this chick, if he cheated on his wife, what makes you special?

Reggie Bush watch out for Kim K crazy azzzzz!

There is no way I could attend his funeral as his wife, he totally disrespected her and ESPN tried to downplay it. The news is reporting that he was cheating on the girlfriend with another woman…

“Like my grandma always said what you do in the dark, always comes to light.” He was a cheater, a liar and a coward to do such a thing to his wife. & kids Hopefully he was able to ask for forgiveness….

Don’t feel sorry for this man one little bit- only the wife and kids.

@ 30 totally agree- that’s why black people in this country are so effed-up- we need more black families sticking together.

I hope his kids can move on.

ON A PSYCHOLOGICAL STANDPOINT, THERE SEVERAL REASONS WHY PEOPLE CHEAT, NOT JUST ONE. CONTRARY TO POPULAR BELIEF, IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE MAN OR WOMAN THEY ARE MARRIED TOO, IT STARTS BACK WITH SELF. ITS SAD TO THINK THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHERSIDE. EVERYONE HAS FLAWS, AND TO CHEAT ON AN INDIVIDUAL BECAUSE SHE DIDN’T COOK GAIN WEIGHT, DIDN’T SUCK YOUR D&&K IS JUST AN EXCUSE OF WEAKNESS AND IMMATURITY. WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN , WHEN THEY INDIVIDUAL HE ORE SHE RAN OFF WITH DO SOMETHING, IN YOUR VIEW NOT RIGHT…… ARE YOU GOING TO CHEAT ON HER TOO. iTS A RIDICULOUS NEVER ENDING CYCLE, EITHER YOU ARE GOING TO BE A MAN OR WOMAN AND WORK OUT THE ISSUES THAT HE OR SHE MAY OR HAVING OR DIVORCE AND LET GO. SIMPLE AS THAT

#69 Thanks for the LONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNGGGGGGGGG Thesis.

So what does all that mean really???

I have always been a frim believer that we are 100% in control of our own destinies. Murder is NOT the answer to infidelity and may Steve McNair rest in peace. However, our actions can sometimes lead us to situations we are unaware of and unprepared for. RUFUS (CL reader above) is right in saying that McNair could have just as well been a single man involved with the Sahel Kazemi. And as LENA B (CL reader above) stated, do not treat your jump-offs as girlfriends/boyfriends. A persons emotions are nothing to play with. Whatever she believed existed between her and Steve McNair drove her to commit the act she committed. She’s human, he’s human. It’s just a very sad situation - that more than likely could have been avoided.

#41 I agree but I don’t think he should’ve been killed. I am so sick and damn tired of men cheating on their wives. I hope this teaches you men a lesson, IT’S NOT WORTH IT!!!. Work it out with your wives!!! You may just go out there and find trouble. Grow up and stop ripping black families apart!

I also read that she tried to position herself so that she would land on his lap…but the trick slid off and landed at his feet. LMAO!!!

Can you imagine his wife is grieving, shocked that it’s now confirmed he was cheating and mad as h*ll that he was cheating all at the same time…

I like the way his football family say he was this he was that, how great he was as a player kudos to him for being such a great player. He was also a cheater what he did to his family was wrong. Karma can kill to. This was a crazy mess that could have been prevented had he kept his dick in his pants. Now his boys have to live with the fact that there dad died a straight up cheater. In because he wanted a nasty young stank. Forget about how long he had been with his wife. I bet she would have never pulled that trigger.

What a mess…

I’m sorry but I honestly don’t think that’s what happened. I mean it sounds VERY possible but it’s just something about the story that doesn’t fit w/ me. Oh well….

I bet many guys now will LEARN how to think with the head on their shoulders, oppose to the one below the belt….

Fatal Attraction is alive and well so take heed cheaters, it can be YOU next !!!!

I really feel for his kids, Parents and siblings if he has any.

I don’t feel sorry for him at all. He cheated on his wife that’s inexcusable, however, I do feel sad for his wife and children. He shouldn’t have put them nor himself in this predicament.

He went out like a straight pooh butt.

#68….ON A PSYCHOLOGICAL STANDPOINT??? WTF? What’s “psychological” about that gibberish you blurted out LOL……..let me stop. I must be approaching PMS or something

I can’t believe the ignorance on this site. Regardless of whether he cheated or not the man did not deserve to be killed and these chicks know from the jump most dudes not leaving their home for them. They also know what they are doing when they get involved with men who are already with someone else. It doesn’t mean anything because someone meets your family, people bring their man/woman around their families all the time knowing they have no plans to have a future or anything else with them.

And they need better proof than what they have, anyone could have done this and made it look like a murder/suicide. Thats why when it comes to these cases I’m never quite sure they have the right people.

I guess everyone making negative comments on this issue are “WITHOUT SIN.”

CRAZY BYTCH

I don’t know why they just didn’t say this from the start. Anyone who pays attention and saw how the Nashville police department laid out the various aspects of the murder could see that this is what they would eventually conclude. I guess they had to make it look good. The story is so ridiculous for the simple fact that according to the background of the woman, and McNair’s own testimony of her character, she was a so-called “independent” woman and was working two jobs on her own before she met McNair. It does not make sense that she would murder him due to financial difficulties when she was probably at the highpoint of her life economically. Doesn’t add up, but it looks good for the public. As far as having “other women”, the so-called Muslim culture has allowances for multiple wives. Just on the simple fact that the case was exposed on July 4th told me that it was a sacrifice, and this weak back-story corroborates that.

I hope all the jump offs in New Haven, CT read this post because they think it’s cute to sleep with married men and that it’s hurting the woman. In reality like you all said the man is not going to leave his wife for them and if he can cheat on a person he made promises to in front of God how can you believe that he will be faithful to you. My husband cheated on me, I left him and he came back begging to come home. I’ve confronted the women as well as my husband but the truth never came out. I despise men who cheat on their women/wife especially when the hoes you are cheating with look a damn mess and have nothing going on for them at all receiving state assistance. I have a vendetta against jumpoffs who think its cute to have a married man really what are you getting out of it. If he dies, you don’t get any benefits all you will ever had is memories of yall fucking. One day you will want to be married and put yourselves in the woman’s shoes. How would you feel if someone you loved and made a promise too cheated on you with any and everybody. I don’t think this man deserved death from his stupidity. He probably was lying to his wife about his whereabouts. Some men are very slick and they have a circle that covers for them. Please let this be a wake up call for ALL MARRIED people. Just leave if you can’t stay committed. It will hurt at first but in the long run you’ll save alot of pain.

I hate to say this but its truly whats in my heart…I don’t feel sad for him one bit..I do feel sad for his wife an kids and I pray for them..but not for him.

This is an unfortunate example of how people should be more careful of whom they involved themselves with…married, separated or single. You never know how you may affect the person you’re dealing with and how it eventually influences your family. My heart goes out to those kids.

I don’t agree with him cheating on his wife, but he didn’t deserve to die this way. He was a great player on the field did many things for his community back in Mississippi and the community of Nashville. He was one of the few players on the NFL to attend an all black college and marry a black woman at that. There were never any heard of problems with him on or off the field. People need respect this man, and that yes he does have a personal life off the field and whatever he chooses to do in his personal life is his business. You can’t give your life to the media, the public, and the fans all the time. Him cheating was is his cross to bear not anyone elses, unfortunately he paid the ultimate price for it.

The Bible says the wages of sin is death. Read it…..it really says that. Going outside of a marriage is a sin. People in those times who committed adultery were put to death. Sleeping with someone you are not married to is fornication….also a sin. He made vows before Godwhen he got married. We think he may not have deserved to die, but the Bible says that is the ultimate outcome no matter who you are. A sin is a sin. There is no such thing as one being any worse than the other. I can be the sweetest person in the world to everyone I know, but if I am doing foul ish behind closed doors, I will be judged accordingly.

I think the police/investigators always try to hold off on speculation until ballistic testing is done….especially in a case that they know will end up being heavily scrutinized. Someone could have easily staged it to make it appear to be a murder/suicide so it’s probably best not to jump to conclusions until they have something to back their statements up with.

@RENAE
“I can’t believe the ignorance on this site. Regardless of whether he cheated or not the man did not deserve to be killed and these chicks know from the jump most dudes not leaving their home for them. They also know what they are doing when they get involved with men who are already with someone else. ”

Uuuuuummm…apparently any women do not know waht they are getting involved in and this Sahel chick was obviously one that didn’t cause the MAN IS DEAD!

You and I may know the deal but you cannot make assumptions that everybody else knows what you know or will react the same way you would react to a situation. Such assumptions are part of the reason why this man is dead and his children fatherless.

YOU CANT LIVE LIKE A GOAT AND EXPECT TO DIE LIKE A SHEEP!!!

Terrible…. according to my husband, ESPN coverage indicated she was jealous of “ANOTHER” woman he was seeing. Steve was tricking off with his wife AND ole girl with another woman. Not sure how credential that information is, but that’s what they said on ESPN.

My brother went to Alcorn State with him, and they were good friends. Let my bro tell it, he was a hoe all in college before he wed his wife. I mean he was out there BAD messing with numerous women. I feel so bad for those kids when they google how they father died. Just terrible…… they say when you play with fire you get burned, his case was a fatality. Women and emotions are DANGEROUS obviously….

in my prayers!!!!

i know that this is sad to say, but i have no sympathy for this guy……..for his wife and kids, yes. but not for him.

What a way to lose your life.. feel sorry for both their families.

Look, first of all, don’t mess with people’s emotions. I say, treat others how you want to be treated. Don’t take advantage of people especially when it comes to matters of the heart. People who knew her said she was nice and cool but something popped off that week after she saw signs that he was prolly going to leave her. Damn shame…

I don’t know why people who can’t keep the snake in its cage or the legs closed to others get married. Just stay single and be a rolling stone. If you want kids, have them but ain’t no point getting married and cheating. And if the temptation is too much, tell the wife and say peace out! I would think that both Jenny Sanford and Mrs. McNair would have appreciated dealing with infidelity in private rather that it getting exposed in such a tragic manner.

Pray for the kids, ya’ll. They are always the ones that suffer the most!

And also, people need to start taking responsibility for the own actions, issues and states of mind.

Ladies, there is not a single man walking on God’s green earth that can lower your self-esteem or mess with your head. Your self-esteem is already low by your damn self and your head already messed up. He can just reinforce the things you are already telling yourself. It is tragic to think that a person would kill another and herself because she was not happy.. I mean, c’mon.. there is only one entity worth giving such passion over and His name is Jesus.. otherwise, please focus on yourself, and love yourself. In that way, he can bless others with whom you are in a relationship with and if it don’t work out.. it will hurt.. A LOT.. but move the heck on and keep stepping… life is too short to go out the way Steve did.. may both he and Sahel rest in peace because they clearly did not have it here on earth

I think everyone’s already said everything on this that I would say but I’m gonna put my 5 cents anyway…

I feel HORRIBLY for his wife and kids… but there is always 3 sides to the story - your story, the other person’s story and the truth. It’s obvious he’s been cheating on his wife and this is definitely not the first time I’m sure… but maybe his wife cheated on him too. Who knows? Regardless, no one deserves to be cheated on, man, woman, husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, fiancee or fiance - NO ONE! If it’s that bad to the point you cannot control your emotions or your loins then LEAAAVVVVEEEE!!!! Don’t put someone through misery cause at that drives people crazy… crazy enough to do sh*t like I don’t know… KILL YOU?!

So let’s just say his wife never cheated, I cannot sit here and honestly empathize with him… wrong does not beget wrong, however marriage is such a sacred thing put together by God that what does one expect when you violate it??? God does not sleep.

I’m sorry he had to go out that way but it will not be the first or last time a mistress does that…

I’m sorry…I dont feel sorry for him! The wife, kids, parents, yes -but him and his jumpoff…..Nope. Think about it, this broad could have decided since you wont leave her I’ll do it for you and killed his family. Luckily she just took him and her out. And you can believe this…..when they get to the pearly gates……they wont get as much sympathy as they are getting on this blog. Karma is one ugly bitch and when she comes hunting for you…..aint noooooo running~

Also, how can his wife go to the funeral and grieve when all of this is coming out? I mean, she has to think about all the times he lied, how she’s going to explain to her children….I would be too angry! I have been married 11 yrs in 9 days and lets just say I would strut in the funeral, kids in tow, in my new Bently wearing white!

I AGREE WITH SO MANY ON THIS TOPIC!
I FEEL FOR HIS FAMILY. I HOPE THE WIFE HANDLES THIS IN A CLASSY WAY. IF I WERE HER…. I DON’T KNOW IF I COULD!
I PROBABLY WOULDN’T ATTEND THE FUNERAL. I’D SEND THE KIDS WITH GRANDMA!

@100… I LOVE IT!!! THAT WOULD BE A GREAT WAY TO ENTER!

@NIECE

What scripture says that the Lord disallowed multiple wives? Stop fabricating nonsense. That’s why most black women cannot get a man, much less married.

@Judah

I was not even going to entertain you but I couldn’t resist. To address your asinine comment about Muslim “culture” allowing multiple wives–that shahilly chick was not his wife. Obviously, you know nothing about Islam except what you parrot off TV. So, what’s your point?

*she was a jumpoff

Proverbs 6:25-26 reads…

25 Do not lust in your heart after her beauty
or let her captivate you with her eyes,

26 for the prostitute reduces you to a loaf of bread,
and the adulteress preys upon your very life.

In other words a woman will bring you to a loaf of bread!

@ JUDAH You seem to have alot of knowledge on things my brother.. I read an comment you wrote about MJ death and the alter ego shoot of T mari and I was thinking the same thing …I’m really into reading up on things and learning…How can I get more info from you?

What’s funny is that when one of these whores come up missing and it’s found that she was murdered with her “new man” (one of her other men), all the women talk about is how “sisters gotta watch themselves” and “these men are possessive and no good” lmao.

Sorry, I forgot to mention something vital in my last comment. He wasn’t Muslim and from the looks of it neither was she so you for to bring up something that pertains to Islam in your comment, I don’t get it. Steve Mcnair I believe was a christian and from the sound of it you are too so why don’t you do what you normally do and cite quotes from the bible when it comes to you and your kin.

@I’ma Diva

You can leave your email sis.

she’s pretty cute, I’d let her shoot me up

@ JUDAH Nettiepooh05@yahoo.com

@BROWNSUGAR & NIECE

Again, what scripture says that a man cannot have multiple wives? That scripture you cited is a parable referring to partaking in other doctrines and beliefs outside of the Truth. That is why the scripture says that the anointed men of the Most High will not have been defiled with “women”, meaning other doctrines (Rev 14:4). The one “loaf of bread” represents being stripped of knowledge and understanding. When you are in a low estate or in captivity, you must beg your enemy for sustenance so that means you must beg them for the “crumbs from their table” (Mark 7:27,28). This is why Christ is known as the “Bread of Life” (John 6:35). It’s parabolic. The issue is having multiple WIVES, not multiple women in this disorderly society, which is whoremongering. If a man can treat all his women well and provide for them, there is NOTHING sinful about it scripturally (Exodus 21:10,11, Deut 21:15, I Chronicles 14:3, etc.). Adultery is when a man sleeps with another MARRIED woman (Deut 22:22). If he sleeps with a so-called SINGLE woman, she becomes his wife (Exodus 22:16). The difference has to be clarified because too many women use situations like this to express their bitterness, and justify their ownership of a man with the false belief that women and men are equal in the eyes of the Most High, which is not scriptural (I Corinthians 11:3).

@PHILLYJAWN

Regardless of that, I still don’t believe the story and it doesn’t affect a man’s ability to deal with more than one woman IN ORDER. Furthermore, I’m not a so-called “Christian”. That is a slave belief system.

107. I’ma Diva,

Does wisdom imply that we should be careful who we give our email address to??
And, men who take on multiple wives find themselves cut off from God and perishing in the universal deluge.

How arrogant must a man be to want to rule over multiple wives?:

“Come here wives, so I can give you my instrustructions and orders. Sit down and listen to me! There are too many of you to establish relationships with, so I will just have to lay down my law! I know how to bully you and my twisted way of thinking says that God will back me up because I am the head of the household. Don’t think or do anything without asking me first.”

God “gave” Adam one wife, but five generations later, Adam’s great grandson name Lamech “took” him two wives and the practice of polygamy began. Lemech was the fourth generation grandson to Cain, who we know killed his brother Abel. Lemech had the nerve to think that he could kill a man for just hurting or wounding him and God was on his side. Polygamist are murderous, arrogant and twisted thinkers!

Multiple wives is not God’s will!

How dreadful….she wasn’t even a dime piece to begin with. I feel bad for his family.

I would still attend the services because if it is about other people, they will talk regardless. She still has her kids to be there for, and all the memories of their life together, good and bad. I’m sure she is strong enough to handle it and what she is lacking the MAN of above will provide the rest. Besides, at this point he is gone, there is nothing she can do to him it’s all in the Lord’s hands now and being bitter is not good for her.

I do like the new Bentley as transportation to the services!

Just because the husband cheated, that has nothing to do with the wife. I say that because you can do everything you should and that he wants you to do, if that person wants to step out, they will. You can “put it down” in the bedroom, give your whole check, cook and clean, if they want to “play” outside to the home all they need is some who is willing to play with them.

Have you all seen the tyler perry movie “WHY DID I GET MARRIED” well if you havent …see it if you have see it again….and remember the 80 20 rule!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don’t feel sorry for this fool, if you want to whore around don’t get married!! men like this bring home STD’s and HIV to their wives. also the wife knew he was a manwhore from his college day’s he was whoreing everyone wants to marry a baller, entertainer, rapper or some famous assclown, but these men are not marriage material for the most part. he had no respect for himself, wife and children. the wife turned a blind eye to continue to live the lifestyle like many women do. the only people I feel bad for are the children in this hotass ghetto mess.

THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY

THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY

THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY

THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY

@MEAT

I noticed, no scriptures, lmao. Clown a$$ nigga. The women were smart enough not to bother to respond because they knew they got cut.

he mess with the wrong one!
arabic and indians dont joke, they are sensitive and cant take pressure, it is part of their custom to commit suicide who makes him think he was so special? We are sorry it ended this way but American men play a lot of games and american women take it likely. Arabic, Caribbean and African women take things seriously. Arabic will kill, Caribbean may fix your ass or leave you with marks for life and africans too, they demand respect and dont like the game they dont go for the loose and slack lifestyle, but nost americas would buss a window and head to jail screaming and shouting. Women need to not take shitt from men.I pray God help his family during this rough time. She didnt have to kill him but she choose to. If this never happened he would have comtinued his games. As it says every dog got its day and every cat got its night! May God help him in the after life, so sad!!!

“It’s obvious he’s been cheating on his wife and this is definitely not the first time I’m sure… but maybe his wife cheated on him too. Who knows?”
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*SIGH* Why must we bring his wife into this? She wasn’t the one caught with her skirt down. Why does this argument remind me of Chris Brown and Rhianna? Some of you will make any excuse not to make a man responsible for his actions. His wife and kids are the innocent ones in all this. Please don’t tarnish their character by spreading rumors and lies.

“What’s funny is that when one of these whores come up missing and it’s found that she was murdered with her “new man” (one of her other men), all the women talk about is how “sisters gotta watch themselves” and “these men are possessive and no good” lmao.”
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You really ought to give black women some credit once in a while. I for one do not feel this way. Some of us have sense and can think rationally as hard as it may be for you to believe.

I pity the choices made by both parties. Loss of life is a sad thing…

I pray for his wife and family because they will have to deal with the fall out of the bad choices that their husband and father made while grieving his loss. So unfortunate.

@ Meat I have wisdom I never gave out my home address or phone number simply an junk mail e-mail address…Thanks for your concern though mama smarter than that!!!

@I’ma Diva

Good for you sis. Let’s understand one thing, the Bible is not open for personal interpretation. We should not be interested in emotionality, only knowledge, wisdom, and understanding which is what the Word of the Lord is dealing with. Emotionality is derived from carnality. That’s why I had to note how this creature, Meat, did not cite scripture, only paraphrase a belief that he imputed on myself (out of jealousy as usual) (Prov 27:4). The issue is the biblical LEGALITY of having multiple wives, not what one’s opinion is. I felt compelled to address that because many of these sisters have attempted to allege that McNair committed a “sin”, in order to justify their erroneous belief that a woman is equal to a man and to change the definition of “adultery”. No, he did not commit adultery because he maintained that Iranian woman, who was single, as one would a wife. This is where people, particularly so-called Christians, err in their study of the Word. The Lord does not care about anyone’s opinion and it will lead to their destruction (Prov 16:25).

The Bible is deathly serious and should be treated as such, not as a crux to verify one’s own vain opinion. A man can have multiple wives, one wife, or NO WIVES….none of those are offences to the Most High. The offences come when a man sleeps with another man’s woman or engages in frivolous sex without the intent of maintaining a relationship. That is whoremongering. Furthermore, there are no scriptures that associate wickedness with multiple wives, lol. Solomon was turned aside by his concubines, women of the other races. Adam had one wife, as did Isaac, but Jacob, Abraham, and David had multiple wives. Paul and Christ had no wives at all…..and Lamech was NOT the first man with two wives, lol, the same way that Adam and Eve were NOT the first man and woman. All were men of the Lord because they upheld his statutes with a pure heart. Many sisters attempt to associate righteousness with devotion to ONE WOMAN because this society teaches women that they should be worshiped. It is idolatry.

@Halcyon

When I use a word, it is because I am speaking to or of that demographic. Words like “whore” are only used where applicable. A lady is not offended in this day and age in the use of that word, because she is just as offended at this culture of whoredom as a man is. It has literally destroyed the family unit, this promotion of “female empowerment and equality”. This is why many of these women are so bitter now. They are whores trying to be wives and the two don’t mix.

#6 don’t be sad for his wife, why do she need someone like that in her life? she’s betta off now. Get that paper gurl and move on with your life and take care of your boys. That is some degrading shyt to be caught up in and everyone looking in your face. He should have known not to mess with no Iranian bish, they don’t play. Like I tell my friends all the time, gurl coochie doesn’t have a face or name,ok……….do feel bad for his family. That’s why I make no attachments, don’t let it get that deep, cause I want your azz to go back home to your spouse. Give me mines, I ‘ll give you urz and we’re straight.

@ JUDAH AND MEAT

You both have great points to what you are saying which is very good for the both of you…My point is this I’m a woman and I feel her killing him wasn’t right, but I don’t think he was right to be cheating on his wife with any woman but I don’t think death is what he deserve THAT”S my opinion on this post and story ….Meat and Judah the comments that you two are leaving are your own opinion it’s no need to come back in forth with scripture from the bible and many more to prove your point or pull me in it …I honestly only wanted more info about something else I readied JUDAH wrote an comment on another post about the secrets of the music industry that’s being ran by the occult freemason/illuminati!! Like I address in the comment I left to Judah, but MEAT wanted to question my wisdom!! LOL

I feel bad for everybody besides Sahel. Even Steve because he didn’t deserve what he got. All the reaping what you sow comments are just contrived bullshit because it doesn’t apply to this situation. Reaping what you sow mean you deserve what you get in return. Steve doesn’t deserve to get 2 bullets in his skull, I don’t care what anybody says. For those that say that are self-righteous bigots and hypocrites that are in desperate need of a lobotomy. Amusement galore @ how retarded people can be at times.

Majority of the people commenting on here are the average to non football fans and to those people Steve legacy would be defined off of this murder-suicide tragedy. But to real football fans Steve will be remembered for how great of a football player, and the humanitarian he was. He helped Katrina victims and is a big contributor in the Tennessee community.

His personal life is his personal business. Non of you know him nor related to him and don’t know the full situation of his marriage, I find it hard to believe he can go on all these trips, be gone that much, take pictures on these trips without shying away from the camera and not have been separated or have any problems within his marriage.Athletes, celebrities, and even regular 9-5 working people cheat all the time. So it’s nothing new. I don’t condone adultery but I damn sure don’t condone judging zealously and throwing stones at people bad decisions because we all are fallible. Just be blessed that your bad decisions in the past haven’t cost you your life.

R.I.P Steve Mcnair.

i prefer it is a fake news as well as some magazines said she kept dating rich men from the famous free interracial dating site sugarscupid. c o m
.. in the past weeks. Good luck, Woman!

omg i thought that she was going to be drop dead gourges she’s not at all if he was going to cheat on his wife at least she could have been pretty

#46-Bernie Mac didnt die this year…