My prayers go out to his 6 kids, his family and Candi. My he rest in peace and may his friends and family find strength in God.

OMG. Kandi I am so sorry about this. My prayers are with you and his children. This is just terrible.

@jenniferknowsbest. Who made u the athority on how people should grieve??? Regardless on if they were engaged or not does not mean a thing. You know nothing on their love. And then u say sorces confirmed they were no longer engaged, who was that source and did they call U and tell U this??? Then u talk about twittiing and how wrong it is, but yet ur doing the same thing blogging. Girl get a clue and a life cause what u say makes no sense. Ill be praying for U, cause lord knows u def need it!!!

This is quite devastating. I pray for both family members and that justice is served. I wonder what the motive was?

Terrible I pray for all those babies left without a father all behind ignorance…

@ Jennifer knows best,

I agree 100% I was having a discussion earlier today about technology and how it’s destroying human contact and our level of intelligence. We as humans were created to have that natural communication, we need to touch, feel, smell and to see. Everyone is driving around with GPSs, which they weren’t using before and now cannot go anywhere without it. Everyone is texting and doesnt talk anymore. We’re becoming cold and phony and complety dependant on technology. Tecnology is slowly degrading society and will only get worse untill humans actually merge with it which is the agenda.

It’s interesting how they broke up right before he died. I think in terms of AJ that was a sacrifice for either the show or her career which she is trying desperately to resurrect. The song writers are high level witches, as sweet as she may appear. I see her doing the El Diablo on the low. All for publicity and fame. SMH

So sad, may he R.I.P. My condolences goes out to his children, family and sweet Kandi

I agree 100% I was having a discussion earlier today about technology and how it’s destroying human contact and our level of intelligence. We as humans were created to have that natural communication, we need to touch, feel, smell and to see. Everyone is driving around with GPSs, which they weren’t using before and now cannot go anywhere without it. Everyone is texting and doesnt talk anymore. We’re becoming cold and phony and complety dependant on technology. Tecnology is slowly degrading society and will only get worse untill humans actually merge with it which is the agenda.

It’s interesting how they broke up right before he died. I think in terms of AJ that was a sacrifice for either the show or her career which she is trying desperately to resurrect. The song writers are high level witches, as sweet as she may appear. I see her doing the El Diablo on the low. All for publicity and fame. SMH
_______________________
Alot of truth in your comment. I would hope the opposite for Kandi though.

@ 22. I agree.

That was tacky.

I AM SO SHOCKED AND SPEECHLESS!

I JUST FOUND OUT TODAY.

I FEEL SO SAD FOR HER AND HIS FAMILY, MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS GOES OUT TO THE WHOLE ENTIRE FAMILY!

THIS WAS A REAL SENSELESS MURDER, LORD PLEASE HELP STOP THE UNNECESSARY VIOLENCE EVERYWHERE IN THE WORLD!

that was going to be such a wonderful thing.. my prayers go out to u khandi..

Could you imagine losing the one you love, the one who is there to comfort you there at night when the world seems like it just won’t leave you alone….Kandi loved AJ no matter what anybody else had to say about him and how many kids he had AND THAT MAN LOVED HER. People did not want to give him a chance on the show and cracked jokes about him about all the kids he had and if he had a job, but one thing he did have is love for Kandi and her daughter. They didn’t show the relationships he had with his children but they showed the love in his eyes for her….this world has a major problem because people judge a book by it’s cover and not by the contents in its chapters…now Kandi, her daughter and his children and family are left with this pain all because somebody(s) acted foolish and took AJ’S families hearts and souls away. Kandi you’ll probably never get to read this but honey, I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, I KNOW HOW YOU FEELS TO LOVE SOMEBODY WHO MEANS THE ABSOLUTE WORLD TO YOU WHEN THE WORLD FEELS LIKE THEY DON’T MEET THE STANDARDS. Nothing anybody can say can take the pain away…..but Kandi always know that AJ loves you, you are that sparkle in his eye. IM SO SORRY

I am so sorry for your lose. The lose of a loved one is so hard. Be strong.

Nowadays it’s best just letting ‘beef’ go. Too many people are dying, so it’s not worth it, especially with kids sitting at home waiting for you. It’s best to let that person walk away feeling smug than walking away with your blood on their hands. Too many cowards bring weapons and back up instead of coming with their bare fists. Definitely not worth the risk.

Some people have no respect for life. This is disgusting. It just makes you want to never go outside.

My heart was sad when I heard this news. I lost a man that I love very much to death, but time heals the heart. She seems strong-willed and focused. Lets just give her time to grieve and God will make everything alright. He was put into her life only for a season. No one will ever no why. But love will come again. My her and her family be blessed.

STOP BEING SO JUDGEMENTAL. YOU ALL KNOW KANDI READS THE BLOGS. IT WAS FINE FOR HER TO POST A STATEMENT ON TWITTER BECAUSE SHE WAS ABLE TO REACH THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE AT ONCE. WHO THE HELL WOULD HAVE TIME TO CALL OR TEXT THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE AT A TIME LIKE THIS? PEOPLE WERE WONDERING WHAT HAPPENED, WHETHER IT WAS REALLY TRUE, AND WHETHER KANDI WAS OK. SHE DID THE RIGHT THING. ALSO, NO THEY WERE NO LONGER ENGAGED AT THE TIME BUT THAT DOESN’T MEAN THEY DIDN’T STILL LOVE EACH OTHER. SHE HAS 2 OF AJ’S CHILDREN LIVING WITH HER FOR GOODNESS SAKE. YOU PEOPLE HAVE NO KIND OF COMPASSION FOR PEOPLE WHEN THEY ARE GOING THROUGH SOMETHING. SMH.

This really sucks her mom should feel like shit now since she hated his guts. I hope he rest in peace.

OMG! I WAS JUST WATCHING THE SHOW AND HEARD THE NEWS SO I LOOKED ON MY FONES INTERNET TO CHECK AND C IF IT WAS TRUE. IT JUST SEEM SO SURREAL THAT THIS WOULD HAPPEN. I REALLY FEEL FOR KANDI AND I SEND MY CONDOLENCES TO HER AND WHOM ELSE IT MAY CONCERN FOR THEIR LOST. THIS CANT BE HAPPENING, I AM A HUGE FAN OF THESE PEOPLE. MY PRAYERS JUST GO OUT TO THEM ALL. THERE IS SO MUCH MORE THAT I WISH TO SAY BUT CANT SAY IT. SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE DEVASTATING NEWS. LOVE YOU ALL.

PRINCESS TAKILEONIA NEOSHIA-JOLIE RUTHERFORD

Jenniferknows best needs to shut the hell up and show respect. Feeling emotions about someone’s death has NOTHING to do with whether or not you are in a relationship with them. They were dating AND engaged SO therefore he was an important part of her life nontheless. We don’t know the details behind their break-up but I am SURE she cared about him, plus they were close enough for her to take in his 2 children even after they broke up. That says ALOT about the relationship that they were able to maintain after they broke up. How dare you incinuate that she is trying to profit from this? That’s the most ignorant statement that I hve ever heard. Who cares if she got on twitter, she WANTED and NEEDED support and to know ppl were there for her. Why are you disturbed by this? HER decision does NOT affect you at all so why comment on what she chooses to do. Just cause he died at a club didn’t make Kandi’s Mom right. I am SURE that Kandi herself has been to the club even after she had her daughter and I’m SURE some of you commentators have been as well.. Does that make you an unfit person? NO! Clearly, if Kandi came across him then she couldn’t have been too far from the scenes that he was hangin’ out at. What? Do u think she met him @ church and then he mysteriously ended up in te club scene? She knew what she was doing when she got with him and HE made her happy. We love our Moms but they don’t keep us warm @ night and out significant others are important, but they haven’t been there our whole lives to give birth to us.. wipe our tears and console us through all the heartbreaks, the relationships are totally different and NOT interchangeable. Both are important but no one should be made to choose between the two. I mean really.. stop judging AJ. If Kandi was happy then that was what mattered. How can we judge someone we don’t know personally? We keep talking about the bible.. what happened to the scripture that says “judge that you may not be judged”.

Kandi, there are ppl out there who love and support you!!

god wont put more on you than you can bear means you been thru it but your still here right? you made it thru each time