NEWS: KANDI BURRUSS RELEASES A STATEMENT ABOUT THE DEATH OF AJ JEWELL

October 5th, 2009

Over the weekend, Real Housewives of Atlanta’s Kandi Burruss‘ former fiancé, Ashley ‘AJ’ Jewell, was killed during an argument in Atlanta, Georgia.

Kandi released an official statement to the media on Sunday (October 4th).

I am devastated by the loss of AJ. His death comes on the heels of the death of my beloved Uncle Ralph and with both of them gone, my heart is heavy with grief. I had spoken to AJ two hours before I got the call that he was in the hospital. Never in a thousand years did I think it was going to be the last time I heard his voice. He was taken way too soon. There are so many things that I should have said to him, wanted to say to him… But now it’s too late.

I want to extend my heartfelt thanks to all of my family and friends — and that means my twitter and facebook friends as well — for the beautiful words of encouragement, prayers, and the sweet condolences. I make it through these difficult days because of you. I know this is cliché’ but I urge everyone to treat each day as if it’s your last and tell that special someone you love them today. Don’t wait. It may be too late.

Please pray for his children, his family and Riley – they too are grieving the loss of an incredible man, son, brother and father. I wish you all had gotten to know the AJ we all knew and loved.

According to Freddyo.com, a man by the name of Fredrick Richardson was arrested and charged with voluntary manslaughter. He reportedly hit AJ over the head with a bottle during the incident.

  1. 1.
    Truly, Q

    ..bless her heart…& bless his soul

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    setian

    poor guy. RIP

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    Poppa

    it breaks my heart. all i can do is pray that his loved ones find strength in their time of need. but like she said although it may seem cliche but make sure your loved ones know that you love them.

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    cali panamami

    wow. i still can’t believe.
    May God Bless His Soul……

    and on a side note, i wonder will they still run clips of AJ on RHOA?!

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  5. 5.
    sigh

    —I think AJ’s death is suspicious. It wasn’t too long ago that females on blogs were
    —calling him a no good negro for having a bunch of baby mommas and then he gets
    —killled..????? hmmm

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    URALLHATERS

    My prayers are wit your famlily.

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  7. 7.
    thickems

    Unbelieveable. . . . .
    RIP AJ…… my prayers are with the family and friends. . . . .

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    PRISTINE

    OH MY GOODNESS. What can you say other then you hope she’ll be ok. It seems like all she’s been mentioning for the past couple of months is her music as well as this man. I pray that she’ll make it through.

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    Felicia

    So sad! Condolences to the families.

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    Tashie

    So so sad…..RIP AJ

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    OBAMA FOREVER

    So sad. May God comfort his children and family. This is way too much. He seemed to love Kandi and Riley so much and I pray God touch their hearts suddenly to heal their pain.

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    The Great One

    Thats said news. Its really sad knowing he died for no purpose. Just senseless. hopefully the guy that did this to him did not try to kill him intentionally. If so he needs to get his life right.

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  13. 13.
    The Great One

    My prayers go out to him and his family.

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  14. 14.
    MY ROLE

    —- My heart goes out to Kandi as well as his family. Its amazing how short life is.
    —- We focus on things in life that really don’t matter instead of stopping to
    —- show and tell loves ones we love and appreciate their presence. I pray those
    —- affected will find comfort and strength during this difficult time.

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    Deann Dmere

    May he rest in peace..

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    Vee1

    Wow this is so awful, despite how shady folks thought he was, 6 children are now without their father over some foolishness I’m sure. I pray for them and his family.

    Hit over the head with a bottle and then dead? I thought maybe he hit his head on the ground or something, but a bottle. It must have been in the right spot.

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    oooh nasty

    First a a railroad tie (Derrion Albert), now a bottle. Ppl need to understand this is not like the movies or a video game where someone gets hit on the head and then gets back up or continues to fight. No one is that super human. Hitting someone on the head can cause death and your freedom.

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    lovebaby1117

    This is a sad story. The word all over Atlanta is that the incident was over a stripper the works at that club. I hope that’s not true.

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    lovebaby1117

    Sorry, I meant, a stripper that works at the club.

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    N.O.Finest504

    This is such a tragedy (and that’s when anyone dies senselessly)! WTF is going on? I felt like I knew this guy (from tv) and he didn’t even say much while on the show….But I want to extend my condolences to all the fam and friends of A.J…May they all be at peace

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    Goodkidsgonefab

    We will keep Kandi in our prayers.

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    Supreme

    How sad, i was watching the latest RHOA episode and he seemed so supportive of kandi and really nice they looked really great together! RIP

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    Educated Goon

    That n*gga got Murked at the Body Tap……. Thats what happens when you f*ckin with them GOONZ

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  24. 24.
    DC Juicy SuperStar

    That is very sad… She seems like such a nice person and to have all this drama going on around her…. Just sad…

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    Been Prissy Since1908

    @ 4 yes they do, they showed a marathon of the show on Saturday, and he was in each episode!

    My heart goes to Kandi and her daughter, and his entire Fam.

    This is senseless! Especially when i just read somewhere, that he lost his life over a chick!

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    DOB

    so sad. prayers to the family

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    Mikki

    This is just so sad, bless them both

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    BAD BAD BITCH

    i’ve heard soooo many rumors about his death, but it doesn’t matter because he’s gone. so senseless and sad. kandi and her/his family are in my thoughts!

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    Shoe Obsessed Sista

    That’s a great statement.. I am truly sad..

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    Meat

    —-23. Educated Goon,

    —-Its too soon for that, bro.

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    Whatever

    @23 Really????????????? I hope you are never in that type of position and something like that happens to you.

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  32. 32.
    LULU

    So sad…God bless them.

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    Jaszj

    He did not die over a stripper…He co-owned body tap and was there handling business. It was an argument gone bad. Everyone wants to be judgmental of him but everyone has someone in their family that was not perfect in every sense of the word. Think about how you would feel if something happened to your family member. Stop giving reasons on why he should have died and list all the many reasons why he needed to live…..R.I.P. AJ and Kandi you are in my prayers

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    UNFRIGGINREAL

    Where is Judah these days when we need him to break this down? I know her career is now going to blow up.

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    KEEP IT 100

    WE DON’T NEED JUDAH TO BREAK ANYTHING DOWN.

    AJ WAS CO-OWNER OF THE BODY TAP. FRED (THE GUY HE GOT INTO AN ARGUMENT WITH) WAS ALSO CO-OWNER. THEY WERE ARGUING OVER FINANCES. THE ARGUMENT TURNED TO FIGHTING AND HE HIT AJ IN THE HEAD WITH A BOTTLE. HE JUST HAPPENED TO HIT HIM IN A WAY THAT KILLED HIM. I’M SURE IT WAS NOT INTENTIONAL. HE JUST WANTED TO BEAT HIM DOWN NOT KILL HIM. FRED WAS NOT A BAD GUY. HE JUST DID A BAD THING. IF YOU SEE HIS MUGSHOT HIS EYE IS SWOLLEN SHUT AND HIS FACE WAS BLOODY AND BRUISED. IT WAS A FIGHT. AJ LOST THE FIGHT AND HIS LIFE. IT’S SAD FOR EVERYONE INVOLVED. SEVERAL FAMILIES HAVE BEEN EFFECTED BY THIS TRAGIC EVENT. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH THEM ALL.

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    gaydar

    I just found out he used to date Tiny. (She was in the group Xscape with Kandi & T.I’s baby’s mother). That seems kind of awkward to me. I wouldn’t want a dude that had been with one of my friends. Ewww.

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    UNFRIGGINREAL

    I still want to hear from Judah and your name is not Judah.

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    grant

    I know Kandi’s mom is secretly relieved…waitaminute….did she set this up???

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    facebook.com/spectrumstv

    Gasp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is tooooo sad….I will pray for her and both their families. Dang….so friggin’ sad. Nonsense.

    Aaliyah

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    nat

    they both (kandi & aj) seem/ed like good people. what a terrible loss.

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