In an effort to dig deeper into the topic of the racial and social issues, CNN’s Soledad O’Brien and Anderson Cooper interviewed a panel of teens and parents for CNN’s ‘Kids on Race: The Hidden Picture’ study. During their television segment, three families were brought onto a panel – two African-American and one Caucasian – and discussed the sensitive topic of interracial dating.
Jimmy, the teen from the African-American family, talked about his experience with racist jokes and shared how his parents would probably react to him bringing home a caucasian girlfriend:
“When I tell my parents, when I did, I had dated a white girl and then they said, they’re not racist – they said, ‘why not your own kind?’ Because all my girls have been white…I mean it wasn’t like they were like, ‘You need to choose a black girl!’ It’s just they were asking me why I liked white girls. And I’m like, ‘No particular reason.’”
His father, Jimmy Sr. explained that they as parent’s do not care, but just wanted to makes sure that there isn’t anything wrong with him dating girls of his own race.
Luke, the second teen from the Caucasian family admitted that his parents would probably have an issue with him dating an African-American girl:
“Honestly my parents probably wouldn’t be too happy because if I was to marry a black girl, [they'd be like] you’re connected to their family now and who knows what her family is really like.”
His father, Gary shared how his older daughter had a dating experience with an African-American male and how they made it a point to explain to her how there are cultural differences between them and how she should be aware of them.
The third teen, Chantay revealed that it wouldn’t be an issue for her as an African-American girl to date outside of her race, but also pointed out that there is a double standard when it comes to an African-American male doing the same:
“If I were to date a white guy, a lot of people wouldn’t really have a problem with that. But if my brother were to bring home a white girl, there’s definitely going to be some controversy [from me] [...] Because I think it’s more of a problem for people when a black man brings home a white woman because it’s been like that for years.”
Her mother, Christal remarked that although her daughter feels this way, it really reveals the deeper issue of black girls/women feeling as though they are inferior:
“I think when she speaks about if her brother were to bring home a white girl, what it says I think to our kids, our black kids, is, ‘Are we not good enough for our black brothers? What’s wrong with us, you know? Why? Do you like the silky straight hair? I can press my hair.”
Check out what they all said in the video below. If your child or teen decides to date outside his or her race, how would you feel? What would you think? Would you have a talk with them?
WHAT’S YOUR TAKE ON THIS?
AC360 Talks to Families About Interracial Relationships

“When I tell my parents, when I did, I had dated a white girl and then they said, they’re not racist – they said, ‘why not your own kind?’ Because all my girls have been white…I mean it wasn’t like they were like, ‘You need to choose a black girl!’ It’s just they were asking me why I liked white girls. And I’m like, ‘No particular reason.’”
“Honestly my parents probably wouldn’t be too happy because if I was to marry a black girl, [they'd be like] you’re connected to their family now and who knows what her family is really like.”
“If I were to date a white guy, a lot of people wouldn’t really have a problem with that. But if my brother were to bring home a white girl, there’s definitely going to be some controversy [from me] [...] Because I think it’s more of a problem for people when a black man brings home a white woman because it’s been like that for years.”
“I think when she speaks about if her brother were to bring home a white girl, what it says I think to our kids, our black kids, is, ‘Are we not good enough for our black brothers? What’s wrong with us, you know? Why? Do you like the silky straight hair? I can press my hair.”



















Nor shall you make marriages with them. You shall not give your daughter to their son, nor take their daughter for your son.
For they will turn your sons away from following Me, to serve other gods; so the anger of the Lord will be aroused against you and destroy you suddenly. (Deuteronomy 7 3:4)
Our people need to wake up…
Is that supposed to be Jesus saying don’t date inter racially because that’s not what I got from it. What I got from it is don’t marry outside of your religion because that might turn you away from God
The point of this scripture is about marrying a non-believer, not someone outside of your race. Context matters here.
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@JENNY
That scripture is pertinent to the topic but it related to a time when “CULTURE” (customs, theology, land possession, knowledge of history) was aligned to RACE (seedline). This is why these “black people” are so confused now. They no longer have knowledge of their culture (Hosea 4:6), and have been re-furnished in the image of their god, the caucasian, so the only difference that they see between themselves and the caucasian is “skin color”….particularly the black female, which is why she is the main proponent of the “color doesn’t matter” philosophy. The black female, for the most part, is a mind-controlled slave that brags about her mind control programming (her “education”). The black male is destroyed as well, but the black male is FAR more likely to be looking for some deeper truth and understanding pertaining to his condition and the condition of his people. In the ancient time, if you dealt with a “foreign nation” (another race), the child would most likely learn about a foreign god, and speak another language (Nehemiah 13:23-27). In this day and age the black woman worships the same sun god as the other races do, espouses the same philosophies, and speaks the same language.
It amazes me how much falseness can be produced from the bible which is the truth. HOWEVER the bible is spiritually discerned and only via God Himself so it makes sense, just crazy and truly sad for those that don’t know the truth.
@ TC
Do me and yourself a favor….cease with the obtuse-minded spiel and discern how much seasoning you’re going to put on my damn steak. That’s what you need to be discerning. If you have some type of understanding, then speak it. You do not, so you’ll settle for putting yourself out there to be seen and get attention. The Bible is meant to be understood by chosen MEN (Prov 8:4, Ezek 34:31).
Judah, STFU. You claim black people don’t know their “culture” but your ass is pointing out verses from the Bible… a religion NO ONE in Africa knew of prior to colonization. STFU, troll.
@PLUMPS
Why do you silly black females call me a “troll” when you are the people that stalk my commentary? What does the word “Africa” even mean? You have no idea what the hell you’re talking about lol (as usual). The Bible is not a book of “religion”. It is a book of law, history, and prophecy. The only thing idiots like you do is regurgitate what your god taught you, under the false pretense that you’re “enlightened”. Black people of the captivity are not “Africans”. “Africans” are not even “African”. They are the children of “Ham”, in the Hebrew “Cham” or “Chem”. Even in Egyptology circles, they know this, which is why they call ancient Egypt “Chemet” or “Kemet”. There is no such thing as an “African”, but all you know is your alleged “skin color”, so you won’t comprehend that. The conversation is far above your head, so stick to what you know., whatever that is….
Judah what Israelite camp are you from I hope you ain’t following nate s@tan or g@yhanna I’m currently with gms
Judah what is.raelite camp are you from what do you think about gms or Nathaniel’s camp
All the camps just show why blacks have so many issues now. Bunch of grown men fighting each other and talking about how much they hate white men and women. I’m starting to think they’re all gay or something.
There’s nothing wrong with interracial dating,i just don’t like it when black people give a bullshit reason to justify to why they do it,if you wanna date someone of another nationality,koo,but don’t diss you’r own people cause it makes you look weak,you never diss you’r own in front of other nationality’s,cause what you think there saying about you? black not all but alot interracial date for the wrong reasons and that goes for black men and woman,alot of us need to get off that slave mentality.
Well said…because that is exactly where it stems from(the slave mentality)
@fresh87 u r so on point because i have two brothers who is dating and married to white women and i have a sister who dates a white guy. The things my brothers say toward black woman and the things my sister say toward black men. SMDH
The reason why most African American Men date outside their
race is because most black chicks are stuuck up and conceited
so quick to cop an an attitude now i kow white and hispanic women are the do the same also but its most black women
i may sound ignorant but its the truth. i know it i’ve been
there and notice the difference.
i’m an African American Male and prefer to date outside my race simply because of that nature.
say what you feel about my comment but its my own personal
opinion
you’re right. you sound ignorant. your mother, grandmother, sisters and aunts must be the typical black b____es you can’t blame other “brothers” for not dating. when the non-black father, brother, uncle, mother, sister of that non-black woman you date discriminates against you for your color…and against the tragic mulatto kids you’ll have because of their color….don’t be mad. you perpetuate the madness.
there are a lot of white and non-black women who have attitudes I work with them everyday race is a non-factor it is the individual not the race. But one thing white and non-black women do is be super nice to the stupid negro until they hook the man (marry or have a child by them) then after that their attitudes change.
I have a friend who had this happen to him and the white/white hispanic women even have called him the n-word during arguments. Black women tend to keep things more real and white women are fake until they get what they want.
Even Uncle Ruckus met the Lovely Ebony Brown.
Why don’t you give Black women a chance?
It is a huge world and you will miss out if you avoid someone just because their bodies have adapted to the close range of the sun. If you have a problem with the way some Black women were raised, maybe try dating outside the neighborhood, looking in different places. We aren’t all the same.
@KELI, you are super ignorant! Of attitudes, you say “race is a non-factor, it is the individual, not the race” then in the same comment you say “black women tend to keep things more real and white women are fake until they get what they want” – you start by seeming like someone who doesn’t see color and end very differently, maybe kind of like your friend who has experienced someone they were in a relationship with call him the N word…
I partially agree with Keli although that’s not always the case the real ignorant one is @ Just My Opinion stop using the old ” All black women are sassy & white women are easier” excuse because not every black women is that way I hate the stereotype of the neckrolling loud talking black woman stop it! Don’t down YOUR race for a preference that you have if you are attracted to white or Hispanic women leave it at that but why down black women in the process you seriously need to get out more and venture outside of whereevrr it is that you are because there are plenty of black women out there that can put that can change your mindset of how all black women behave
Ugh typos…
@LISA
Exactly lmao….black females are big “racists”, but their racism is selective…..and as you noted, they will contradict themselves within a single “thought process”. Their racism only comes out when it benefits them. When the black male speaks on race, he is an “excuse-maker”. As far as a female of another race calling a black male the “N word” in an argument, I guess that is supposed to imply that the black woman does not call the black male the “N word” lol….
@ Just my Opinion, Dont blame you..I bet you dont have stress and you have peace because most black women are nappyheaded drama with attitudes.
Now I’m going to have to change in my sign in name on this thing … I don’t want to be associated with the BS that you just wrote. You are a FOOL. You were spot on when you said that you sound ignorant. Men like you take one brush and colour every black woman the same. There are women of ALL races that can “cop an attitude” when ready. And just like other races, there are MANY classy, beautiful, educated, ambitious, dedicated black women. You wouldn’t appreciate every woman writing you off for the few black men that do stupid things, so why are you writing off us black women for the nonsense the few you have encountered may have done?
Talk (write) like you have sense. Because you are sounding like a real idiot right now. Jeez, I may have to go out and date a white man now because based off what you as a black man just wrote, all black men must be stupid -> see how dumb that sounds!
Smarten up… embrace your race!
@JUSTMYOPINION
You should’ve changed your name before you commented. What does that even mean, “Embrace your race!” lol? Is that supposed to mean that the black male is not supposed to have standards for himself and how he is going to allow himself to be treated so that the black woman’s fragile ego can be massaged? Learn your place as a woman and the black man will claim you again. You black females do not know whether you want to be the black man, the white woman, or the white man’s concubine. Look at what you list as criteria for a good woman, “educated, ambitious, etc.” lol. In what handbook are those criteria model standards for womanhood or femininity? Again, the vast majority of you black women DO NOT GET IT, and that is why MORE and MORE black men are figuring you out. You can claim that you will move on to the men of the other races, but the fact of the matter is that females outnumber males 7 to 1, and you will not out-compete the women of the other races for their men lol. These other races know about you as well. The only solution for you is to humble yourselves, but that will not happen. You will be traumatized out of your present delusional, and broken down into your proper role and away from your self-destructive mindstate as this society implodes.
@ just my pinion, not like black women. World renowned for nasty attitudes. Can go to the desert and the sand dwellers will tell you balck women are mean…can go to the Aborigines and they will tell ou in their language the same…can go to the remote jungles of the Amazon and those savages will tell you the balck woman has the nastiest of them all. Mirror mirro on the wall, who is the tackiest and hateful of them all..the black women hands down. Black women will have to admonish other black women for that mess, that is the real game changer..stop hanging with girl just because she is ghetto and have a bad attitude and once it catches on, it will change faster, until then black women still have that trophy.
@ just my pinion, Not like black women. World renowned for nasty attitudes. Can go to the desert and the sand dwellers will tell you black women are mean…can go to the Aborigines and they will tell you in their language the same…can go to the remote jungles of the Amazon and those savages will tell you the black woman has the nastiest attitudes of them all. Mirror mirror on the wall, who is the tackiest and hateful of them all..the black women hands down. Black women will have to admonish other black women for that mess, that is the real game changer..stop hanging with girl just because she is ghetto and have a bad attitude and wants you to dress gutter…once that catches on, it will change faster, until then black women still have that trophy. Nobody is making that mess up. Nppy heads earned that reputation. You still hearing about it because its still going on day in and day out.
Yall weaveheads made it so bad out here that even the good black women cant get a man because they are guilty by association because of your tackiness and evilness. Wont dress up nice, got to mess it up like the way blacks tear up neighborhoods. Stop that mess!
@Just my opinion. You can not compare your reason for dating outside your race with everyone elses. In my opinion, there are two major reasons why Black men date outside their race. #1 Black men really think that they’ve “arrived” when they deal with non black women. Mainly because of their light complexion and/or exotic features. We as a black race are brain washed to think that light is better, just look at the way we treat each other. Even as a race we are divided by own skin tones. I hear black men make this comment ALL THE TIME – “I only talk to red bones chicks (light Skin women).” I also hear light skin women say “Oh, shes pretty FOR A dark skin girl.” Wht kind of nonsense is that? Thats an insult in both comments. Wht she cant be both cute and dark skin? In the mind of a black man if he gets someone “better” then a red bone, then he really THINKS hes “arrived”. The #2 reason is Hopefully their just dating outside their race because they love the person for who they are.
*In one way, shape, or form am I categorizing all black men. Even though it seems as if its all (Athletes, musicians, entertainers)black men who think like this, their just a small population of our race and they dont speak for all black men, even though they influence most black men.
Judah….you’re a joke and nobody takes you seriously. that is all.
@ JUST MY OPINION
I’m a black young women and I have to admit to having that bad attitude towards black men. Personally because of my feelings towards my dad. Every time I’m approached by a black man he reminds me of my dad and it makes me become defensive and the bad attitude is my way of putting up a wall to protect myself. I’m turning 25 this year and it’s something that I recently discovered about myself and its something that I’m trying to improve about myself. Because I’m realizing that it’s effecting me in a negative way and I really don’t mean to hurt anyone in any way and its not the person that I really am. I’m sharing this because I don’t want men like yourself and women like me to give up on each other because there are good one’s out there and maybe we need to have a little more patience with one another. Maybe you should try approaching another black women because there might be a chance you’ll experience something different something good. And I’ll be aware and change the way I react towards black men that approach me and try to be a little more trustful and not take my anger for my dad and target it towards some stranger who could possibly be something good that I needed all along. There are billions of people on earth and we have to remember that none of us are the same not even by race there are GOOD BLACK MEN AND WOMEN in the world!
This is super random. Why are they doing a news special on this topic? It’s stupid. Who really cares? Date or marry whoever you want.
Racial relations is never a random or stupid topic. It’s how we identify each other and our associations that forms some of the ideology that can lead to incidents like the murder of Trayvon.
@Eric No, Troof is right. This is a stupid topic. Love is love no matter what race you are. And besides, there are bigger problems in the world right now.
@xFireBomb There are always bigger problems, but you have to stand for something and hopefully it’s a place where you can make a difference.
@Troof and Xfirebomb…Your absoultely right! There are bigger issues in the world to worry about, but have you stopped to think that alot of the bigger problems are derived from issues of race, So I personally think its important to talk about these issues. Just take inventory of the comments being made on this blog. So many people have different views, it important to indulge so that you can formulate your own opinion. Not just on the subject but period!
Fresh87 meet Just My Opinion. There’s your bullshit reason writ large. LOL
@Just My Opinion- Are you including your mama?
@Shellbee see i knew someone was gonna say something ignorant back but my mother has nothing to do with this topic so don’t even go there,that’s the problem with black women they always have something smart to say something
especially when the truth comes out and it hurts them.
but black are just the way they are just hatin on a black man dating outside their race especially if the woman is white how sad is that i guess its just jealousy.
lol…he says we always have something smart to say. well…you won’t find that with a white woman, that’s for sure. lol. jealous? only in your dreams. but YOU said it, dummy. YOU said that black women have bad attitudes. SOOO unless you were adopted by a white woman as a pet…that would mean that it applies to the black women in your family. And I wouldn’t be surprised if you felt that way. You are a typical self-hating negro and I’m sure your black b_____ch of a mother is completely ashamed of you.
@JUST MY OPINION
Many black females are so obtuse that they believe that random black females have the same relationship dynamic as a man’s mother does, and should be treated like a man’s mother is lol. They resort to that tactic because despite their claims of being “educated”, their innate ability to think, debate, and reason is vastly limited, and once they get checkmated, they get bitter.
@NAT
Lol I had to go back and look for “Just My Opinion”‘s original comment to see if he had said something nasty enough to warrant that response. I didn’t figure he did, and of course he didn’t, but your response to him verified my point….the most disrespectful people to black females are other black females. Yes, most black females have a disgusting and nasty disposition, and it has gotten worse generation upon generation since the black feminist movement in the 1970′s (led by le$bians Angela Davis and Alice Walker). Not only are you jealous of the white woman, you are jealous of black males as well. You being a so-called “le$bian”, you must understand that you will never be a male miss. You can pray every night and you’ll never wake up possessing a peni$ in the morning lol.
@SHELLBEE Of course he’s speaking of his mom. I’s sure she was the first black woman to get on his nerves. It is these older black grandmas and mothers who are teaching their younger nieces and daughters how to roll their eyes and snap their necks. Where else do you think theses black girls are getting it from? It’s a learned behavior. I’m sure his mother has the same attitude problem he says other blk women have. And if that’s the case, I don’t blame him. Honestly, no one wants to deal with that. I know I wouldn’t.
*I’m
@ Judas – don’t come for me sweet boy. If you THINK for a second that calling me a lesbian gets my goat, you’re wrong. I am a lesbian but you’re the only one that has a problem with it. Sadly, you think I want to be a man. But the reality is that I’m the feminine chick that YOUR thirsty woman would come for because she’s so deprived for someone with a sensitive side that won’t put her in a corner or walk her around on a leash. YOu’re THE worst of black men. You and Just My Opinion are the absolute worst of men, PERIOD…but especially of black men. The reason I know this is because my brothers and my father are the golden standard. Like I said….you’re a joke…and nobody takes you seriously. Not even the voices in your head. Bye troll.
@GNAT
Come for you? No thanks I’ll pass, but I think that’s your problem. You need a man to come for you lol…..and who said that I have a problem with you being a le$bian lol? I could care less. As I stated earlier, most of you young black females are le$bians, or at the very least “bi-curious”, or supportive of that choice. I merely noted that it is odd that a le$bian is speaking about the relationship structure between black males and females. You obviously must see the hypocrisy in your stance after I highlighted it, because all you did was reveal yourself as a man-hater with peni$ envy. Since you talked about “JUST MY OPINION”‘s mother unprovoked, let’s talk about your father. If he is the “gold standard”; then I need to check NASDAQ to see how many points gold fell in the stock market because if he raised a le$bian, the man needs to be throttled with a bullwhip like Christ did the money-changers lmao. He failed miserably. You’re the “feminine chic”? Before you pronounce the word “feminine”, go floss the pubic hairs out from between your teeth and gargle. Thank you lol.
it is ok to date whatever race you want, but what I personally don’t like is when a black man says he only dates white women or non-black women and its like your mother, sister, auntie, and cousin is black so what is wrong with black women if it was not for a black women you would not be here. I think that is self-hatred and ignorant. I also think its dumb when rich black men marry poor white women, Im like what is wrong with the poor black woman, some black men are just ignorant plain and simple
I feel you should marry who ever you want!
I don’t like Others talk sh*t about how one race is better that the other. Also, All this sterotyping of black women needs to stop, it is not right to label all black women negative things just because you had a bad experience.
Thats is all..
@Keli sorry you got it all wrong it the other way around most black women are gold diggers cus i they want is money
and just to get their hair and nails done.
What women have you been dealing with?
i doubt they’re looking to you for gold. maybe copper or brick. the reality is that most black women make more money than black men and are far more educated. so if we’re diggin for gold, we know we’re not finding it with you. unless you have a “wicked jumpshot”. but STEREOTYPICALLY – which you know a lot about – all of you ignorant, dick-slingin, 50 baby mama having, can’t read or write ni99as are lazy a$$ bums that sit up on multiple women that have your kids and live off of their welfare benefits…smoking weed all day….selling drugs all night…and you have NOTHING to show for it…except some dusty ass jordans, a bunch of prison tattoos , some cheap jewelry and a boost mobile phone. sit your ignorant a$$ down.
Have you met all black women on this planet to claim that most of them are gold diggers?? I’m pretty sure you haven’t!!
Race should never matter in a relationship and as stereotyped this might sound but a persons character is much more importent than the skincolour
Women of every race have good and bad sides
I mean if you prefer white women okay why not! bUt stop lumping all black women together
@NAT
Aren’t you a professed le$bian? Why are you commenting on a black male’s thoughts on heterosexual relationships, or are you just commenting to cause confusion and express your peni$ envy? The reality is that most black females are wh0res, b!sexuals, “bi-curious”, and/or idolaters who have become so odious to even their own kind that no one can tolerate them. For the most part, you black women cannot even tolerate each other or yourselves lol. The black male is a product of his environment. He is in a low estate because he is looking to his female instead of looking to his God.
While I absoluttely abhor they we go at each other, I must say kudos to you, Nat. No one wants to be stereotyped and I think you hit all the ones pertaining to black men. Unfortunate, but true. It is always hilarious to me to hear Black men go on and on about how White and other nonBlack women are so perfect but these same women do not speak highly of you. Even when they are sleeping with you. I know this firsthand. It’s cool though. Be with whoever you like, for whatever reason and God bless you. I am still enthralled by this ‘Judah’. I don’t know if I’ve ever witnessed such hatred towards Black women. Guess I’ll just keep reading to understand your purpose. Peace and blessings all.
@JUST MY OPINION
Yes, many of them are overly infatuated with materialism or they just want to use the black man for his seed. Once they conceive seed, that’s when their true nature comes forth. That is why so many of these simple-minded black males claim that their woman “changed” as soon as she got pregnant or gave birth lol. She did not change. She was a demon from the start, and once her egg received your $perm, she no longer needed you so now she can show you her true demonic nature. Cats must understand that in this perverse society, all that you have of value is your $PERM. Everything else is provided to her by her god, the white man, so you must protect your $perm. These females take child-bearing and child-rearing as a very frivolous thing, and moreover a science experiment and a method to stroke their own ego.
lmao…Judah, you are absolutely butt crack crazy. Your poor poor mother. Ya know, it’s out OUR fault that your mother was a whore and your father raped you repeatedly. For once and for all, get some therapy and stop dumping your BS on this website. YOu can’t be using this for therapeutic release – you’re crazy ass isn’t getting better.
@GNAT
Lmao, oh is that why you’re a le$bian? Did your mother m0lest you?
Lmao at NAT. You’re doing the most to perpetuate this bitter black b*tch stereotype. It’s hilarious that after trying so hard, you can barely hide your true feelings
@ZULU
Yes, a fair minded woman will agree or disagree respectfully. A demon, which 98% of these “modern” females are, will rant, rave, and unwittingly corroborate the exact point that they claim is incorrect. Fire purifies gold but it burns up wood because wood is of no value. “Gnat” is a le$bian, so a man of understanding already knows that she/he/it is dealing with a multitude of demons.
No offense but most African-American women in a relationship make my toenails curl up. I just feel like they have a breaking point that is so close and very easy to snap. Besides the whole attitude thing. And this is my opinion and its’ not racism. Maybe it’s sort of more… cultural. It has nothing to do with the color of their skin or the texture of their hair. Just the way they snap too easliy, the way they give you an attitude for no reason. Also most women from Africa that I met are far more laid back, so it just show’s it has to be cultural.
i dont live in usa but try living in a racist society you will want to snap easily to, am sick of people never putting themselves in other’s shoes, here come the division ‘men v women’talks on blogs, its back alright. Dummies!
One, why was a special devoted to this? Two, this is getting old I mean there can never be any progress if we can’t get over race. I agree with the mother who commented that seeing a Black man with a White woman symbolizes/begs the question that we aren’t good enough, but why should that be a default? In today’s society with Black women leading Black men professionally, etc., I’d really be like f— the dude for real. One less I need to worry about. But love is love and you like who you like, point blank.
Having discussions about race does help get over racism hence the reason there’s a special on it. STFU and educate yourself.
@PLUMPS
Why don’t you “educate” yourself you idiot? “Lulu”‘s comment was no less stupid than yours, but you’re certainly not an authority on anything lol. “Discussion” helps nothing if there is no comprehension of what the truth is. The point of “discussion” is to move towards the truth so there can be a resolution. This society has totally destroyed all semblance of order and it has established an inherently emotional creature (the female) as an authority figure where she is not supposed to be an authority figure, which is OUTSIDE the home.
I’m so tired of these race topics, especially CNN’s.
People really need to move on and look past skin colour.
You may not judge other people on color of thier skin but some of them are judging you. I think it is best to stay within your own race.
tell that to Trayvon…oops…nobody can.. smh
Wow, I guess I never realized how much African-American men despise their own women. Men of other races and cultures protect their women, but not ours. Reading some of the comments on here has UTTERLY disgusted me!!! I guess I’m a bit hurt as well because we, African American women, back you guys at all costs!!! I mean, we are really down for you all, and see what good it does us. These demeaning, degrading, dishonoring comments are not only offensive to the readers, but they are surely dishonoring and disrespecting your mothers, sister, aunts, cousins, daughters, and so on. Are they not good enough for you either? Oh good enough to raise you, feed you, pray for you, but not good enough to create a legacy??? Guys who think like you all are murdering our communities, our families, and our culture!!!
Some people are fkn stupid, the way they think. People are going to be with people they are interested in,attracted to. You can’t help who your attracted to. People are going to date out of their race! Its human! Why can’t a Asian woman be with a Mexican man? Or a black woman with a white man? Everybody is going to live their life and be with who they want regardless!!! YOU should do the same & STOP judging irrelevancy!!!!!!
I am in an interracial marriage. I’m African American and my Husband is Mexican. My husband is 6’3″ and looks white. We definitely get people looking at us, but I don’t care. I get black guys asking me all the time, “you look good, why you can’t be wit a brotha?”. I am with my husband because he is the love of my life. I’ve dated black guys and I just happened to fall in love with my husband. I don’t care about race, money or anything else. We are not all loud, angry, drama-filled, “ghetto”…..etc and all the other stereotypical things people say. That’s the type of thinking that is holding us back.
Age ain’t nothing but a number for these loved-up A-Listers. My BF and I both think so! He is almost 10 years older than I. We met via ~~Agelessmeet .COM~~ a nice place for younger women and older men, or older women and younger men, to interact with each other! Maybe you wanna check it out or tell your friends
I will never understand why black women get so up in arms witj black men dating outside their race. As a black women myself I always loved white males and d am in a very happy relationship with one. Why would you settle for some black male. Everyone knows that they barely can read and write passed the grade S leve. White men cater to you, respect you and practically worship you. So why settle. I do not get it. White men love us with our natural hair, our full sized lips, butt you name it. They also love us when we keep our bodies tight so get to the gym.
Do not worry about black males a majority of black women know just how intimiidated black males are of white men black men are scared shitless of them.
And the white man knows it.
Girl, get your life. Read a book, enlighten yourself. Your self hate is radiating from the screen.
Now, most black men can’t spell. Even the ones with degrees cant spell. Only thing they can spell correctly is SEX. Always singing about it. Let black women date white men all day everyday, hopefully that attitude will get adjusted and maybe they will start dressing with class instead of the usual black woman tacky. Criticizing blacks while being black is not self hate, its calling it how you see it. These black ways are not made up. Black women love white women too, they just cant screw them because they stay complimenting and grinning and cheesing at white women and that’s why they are taking your man. While the black woman is hating on another black women that has class, which is rare, the white women will walk around that mess and take the black man. Big dummies. Black women stay hating on another black woman all day. Its sad that black women are so tacky everyday that when a black woman does dress classy and act nice its rare and everbody stares because it weird to have that combination and black woman at the same time. Black women stay tacky and mean. The opposite with white woman.
@caramelapple if this is how you feel about black women why do you visit a website run by a black woman???
LYNN, did you really just say: “Why would you settle for some black male. Everyone knows that they barely can read and write passed the grade S leve.”? Lmao.
Seriously, you have to be utterly disjointed, a stark imbecile, or both. The level of delusion here is fascinating. It’s obvious that most of you hags have zero grasp on math or market forces. I just feel sorry for all you angry lonely broads.
@Nat…..Your comment was truthful and funny. I realy liked it. @ Ashley….your comment was great as well. Judah always seems to have a negative opinion about any race of people.
White people are disgusting and racist people and don’t like when their kids date black people. you saw it here. So stop trying to bring your black ass over to their house because they don’t like black people! White people disgust me and them hating black people proves that they’re insecure about themselves and they’re scared of us! What a bunch of pussies fuck ya’ll!
Black women need to date other races stat so they can learn how to act and stop being so hateful and evil. Black women stay hating. Black girls in grade school hating on the black girl with long hair, acting just like their beaded headed black attitude mommas. Interracial dating is good for blacks. Breaks up the hot mess and foolary thats been going on. Black women please date another race today to learn some skills, especially how to do your brows correctly instead of those ghetto hard brows you walking around wearing looking like Groucho marx and that non blended highlighter, hot, tacky mess as usual.
I do notice that black women who tend to be in interracial relationships behave a little differently from the rest. Maybe those men straightened them out or something lol. Or maybe they realize guys from other races don’t tolerate that mess, so they change. On the other hand I do wish more black women would date out. It’s for their best. And to be honest, if many lost weight, changed their ugly belligerent attitudes, carried themselves in a more “FEMININE” manner, women of other races wouldn’t stand a chance. I swear black women are messing it up for themselves. Take note of what other women are doing. There’s a reason so many black women are “single”. Even flat butt asian women get men all the time. They have the lowest single rate amongst women. Why is that???
And on another note, black women would do themselves a huge favor by getting rid of that tacky thing called the hair weave, and putting on that heavy pound of makeup. If you wanna wear makeup, make it look natural for goodness sake. We always have to look so extra. Concentrate on fixing and taking care of your skin. Our skin isn’t meant to have all that stuff on it, it messes it up. And stop being so hooked up on having a big butt and thick thighs. That stuff is nasty and unhealthy. It only attracts black men from the hood. If having a “fat” butt was all that is needed in finding a good man, we would all be wives by now. That should tell you something alone.
@ Misuse, exactly. Black women are shooting themselves in the foot big dummies. Dumbing down other black women’s femininity with that infamous “you thank you cute”, you thank this…haters think they psychic. Black women have the baddest bodies out there but wont workout and be girlie because they are more concerned about the black female haters that are keeping them single. Men are drawn to more classy, girlie dressed women period of any race and black women stay losing because of other black women. Most naturally pretty and classy black women dont hang with many if no black women because they are such haters. They are the reason no one sees black as real beautiful as it can be because of this. They wear that tacky weave too much, no other race wear that mess like that. All the trend styles of black women are gutter and tacky and turn men off…they keep manufacturing that mess and demanding other black women look like it or else. Get that weave mess out that head and stop being lazy. Laziness is what it really is..dont want to do their naps just want to throw somebody else hair on and go. They always lying and saying they trying to get their real hair to grow…that mess cant grown under that sweaty, fake hair and glue and thread and nobody thinks its your real hair so get over that illusion. Rubbing all kinds of bald spots in your head with that weave because your head wasnt meant to cover it up all day and night for years. Wear your hair, work out and stop being greedy eating all that macoroni and cheese, take care of your own skin and stop those ghetto highlights and claw nails…just gutter all the time. Stop hating on other black women that look good and not hood, compliment black women like you do the white woman thats taking your man because you so ignorant, stop hating on black women that wear heels Mon-Friday when they are not at the club or at church. get those teeth whitened, wear your own hair, get some skin care because all that hyena eye shadow is straight garbage and those fake lashes hanging off and you still blinking like aint nothing wrong…all that mess is why its rare to see a black women looking different and she get alot of attention because the men are used to black women looking tacky and like garbage.
Black skin is built in makeup, take care of it and you dont need any or minimal coverage when you do. Wash that mess with more than a wash cloth, put mascara on your real lashes and wear fake ones for special occasions. Who out there telling yall all this gutter mess to do and you doing like a big idiot, no mind of your own.
LOL you are so on point. Black women need to get out of their own way. I swear someone should start a blog on black female feminization. Hell, it should be a movement. How can you be so masculine yet what a man at the same time. Men are looking for their opposites. No wonder they attract so many down low men. It’s their aggressive, man-like spirit that got these down low men attracted to them. opposites attract. They need to stop looking at these other black h0es and take note of other women. They need to stop listening to their grandmothers and mommas cuz they’re single as well. LOL listening to your black momma is like asking a blind man for directions.
@MISUSE
All your comments were good, but your last one was 100% right and exact. Thank you. The black woman is upset because she wants to re-define what it means to be “masculine” or “feminine”, and when people don’t agree with their new definitions, they throw tantrums because no matter how “educated” they allege to be, the majority of them are not much more mature than children. In regards to your comment about the black woman taking instruction from her mother and grandmother, there is not much to add to that.
So much truth and hilarity on this one. I’m just glad it’s coming from black females. Natural femininity and humility go a long way. Aggression, vanity and a distorted sense entitlement only betray insecurities and self esteem issues. Real men can tell which is what, and real men marry real women.
ok… I get it now… caramelapple, misuse and judah were just put on concreteloop to start drama. It’s like “punk’d” for the internet. hahahaha, you tricked us. And YES, I firmly believe that this is a joke. It’s not possible that three people that don’t know each other could be EQUALLY as stupid! SO LOL LOL LOL!!!!
There are plenty of white people around me on a daily basis. And I will see white women with weave (one week it’s short, the next week it’s longer)… the white women that say “oh I wish my butt was bigger” so they head to the gym to jump on that stair climber. And yea, these are white women that are dating or married to white men. So the mess that you guys are talking about black women with weave and big butts, and all that … how about it’s universal. A lot of women wear weave… a lot of women have big butts… a lot of women wear fake eyelashes.
You guys clearly dug your way out of a hole and feel the disgusting desire to put down a race of women for no reason. You’re filled with self hate. The hate you’re spewing towards black women is coming from a place of unhappiness within yourselves. @caramelapple – You’re lacking a lot from life, that you see in black women. You admire us, you want to be us. @ misuse, if you are a black female then I have nothing to say to you… you are a lost cause. @ judah – you simply want a black woman and are lacking in so many areas, that you are deemed COMPLETELY undesirable!! But instead of trying to improve yourself, you decide to attack us. LOSER!
You can reply and say what you want if you want. I will NOT reply because from your other comments, I can only imagine the nonsense. You all are PATHETIC.
Really though why is that when a white person says some border line racist comment and then they clean the mess up with not like that cause i have X amount of friends that are with black or in this case ex amount of friends that are in an inter racial relationship. #Nowaintthatconvienent. Oh yeah cutural differences HA what a crock lame excuse if ive heared one what next he might as well said do mix religion, something that we all know is different.
i think some people just can’t get pass the colour of our skins. from my experience some black guys get jealous when they see a white guy with a beautifull black girl same things happens when some black girls see a fine black guy with a white girl. we can’t always choose who we are attracted to we all just need to remember that we are equals.
I love being BLACK/AFRICAN AMERICAN/CHOCOLATE/DARK SKINNED ..WHATHAVE YOU! I LOVE MY CULTURE AND PEOPLE..I LOVE BLACK MEN. AND I’M HAPPILY MARRIED TO A WHITE MAN..I LOVE HIS FAMILY,HE LOVES MY FAMILY,HIS FAMILY LOVES MINE,MY FAMILY LOVES HIS,OUR CHILDREN OUR EXCEPTIONAL,HAPPY AND HEALTHY..THEY LOVE THEIR COUSINS EQUALLY.MY HUSBAND AND I HAPPENED TO BE RAISED WITHIN LOVING,UNDERSTANDING,NURTURING,INTELLIGENT AND THINKING FAMILILES
WE DISCUSS OUR DIFFERENCES IF THERE ARE ANY..THE ONLY PROBLEMS WE GET ARE FROM PEOPLE WHO NEED TO FREE THEIR MINDS SO THEIR ASSES WILL FOLLOW..WAKE IGNORAMUSES
I believe that love has no color, honestly. I LOVE your comment – very wisely stated. I LOVE how you didn’t BASH African American men and the race as a whole and act as if the culture was beneath you. You chose to follow your heart and your heart lead you into the arms of a loving man. I personally have never dated outside of my race (and don’t plan on it), but those who chose to and chose to talk bad about African American men and women simply infuriate me!!! You have an identity and seems to have truly found a mate that has one as well. Don’t know if I can say that about some others that have commented though
@DRAYLASOUL
Didn’t you just go on a long spiel talking about how black males are supposed to be so “loyal” to you, and now you state that “love has no color” lmao??? The majority of you are cuckoo for cocoa puffs. The funny thing is that you do not at all see the incongruity. The demon in training in the story of this thread a.k.a. the “third teen”, “Chantay”, basically stated that it’s alright for her to “date” whoever she wants but her brothers are to be restricted to strictly black females lol & smh. The only conclusion I can come to is that hypocrisy is passed from mother to daughter now in the so-called “black community”.
I liked the fact that Jimmy’s parents asked him that. Also I was sharing with a friend how back in my day (high school years) there were more relationships where white guys dated black girls vs the opposite. I did notice even then that when it came to marriage or mixed kids, usually the dad was the black person in the relationship. BUT saying that to say I recall black men having that same sense of inferiority that doesn’t exist now. Probably does to some degree but black woman may be able to date outside of their race more freely than men.
Race is and always has been a hot topic in America. I, for one admit that at one point I would physically cringe when I would see a black guy with a white girl. It was almost like he was flaunting her in our faces. And yes, it would bother me at times that when I would see a black guy with a heavy set white girl, I would secretly think he wouldn’t date a heavy set black woman though. I had perpetuated my own stereotypes and whether they were true or not, I had to find out for myself why I thought that way. Yes, growing up I knew there were cultural differences between black people and white people, but we aren’t the only two cultures that make up this country and yet throughout the centuries, we two are talked about the most. I have talked to white men and yes there are differences there just if you date just about anyone. Unfortunately, all black people are lumped into one heap and we are labeled and people don’t get us and don’t want their children to date us, and yet look around you…black men who are professional athletes are dating and married to everything but black women. It no longer makes me angry because we as black women are NOT head swiveling, gold digging, big booty shaking attitude driven, finger popping, dropping kids having broads! We should know our self worth first and foremost because God gave it to us first. @Just my Opinion…you’re disrespectful. Even your own mother should be ashamed of you and how you debased her by coming on here with your callous and disgraceful comments. You obviously have been dating pigs because you have NOT been dating a true black woman, my friend. Maybe you can’t get one. I don’t care who dates who but you do not have to defile yourself nor who you are or where you come from to justify who you are with. Do you! But KNOW THYSELF!
Well, its kinda irrelevant when a black man dates a white woman because they still dont have real power and the bloodline and inheritance still follows the white male so its more hesistancy for white males to give in to dating/marrying black women even when they want to. Prince William had to marry white, no other race for that bloodline. When more white men that are in power begin marrying and not just dating black women, that will be more of an impact because the majority still own the teams the black men that marry white work for.
Luv your comment – well said.
what? and @Irony ….you must be as dumb as this broad if you were able to decipher that bs. smh…EDUCATION.
First, I am 39 yr old black man and have been married to a white woman for 13 yrs. I am posting to say that I don’t feel the majority of black men that date outside their race are doing it in spite of black women. I don’t feel that is an accurate assumption. I happen to have met someone and fell in love with that person, not because she had light skin or straight hair. I simply met somone special. I think this is the case more times than not. For ANY WOMAN feeling disrespected, I apologize….that is truly not the intent. At least from me. God Bless!!!
DON’T APOLOGIZE… SISTAHS NEED TO FIND WHAT MAKES THEM HAPPY INSTEAD OF LOOKING FOR OTHERS HAPPINESS. THAT BLACK FEMALE MAD ABOUT WHO ANOTHER BLACK MAN MARRIED HAS ISSUES,THE SAME ISSUES THAT NO MAN WANTS TO BE BOTHERED WITH.. THAT BLACK MAN MAY NOT HAVE ANYTHING IN COMMON WITH HER. SISTAHS NEED TO UNDERSTAND,WE DON’T OWN BLACK MEN!
At Judah…u obviously have a big problem with women as a whole…and at justmy opinion…u are both idiots who like to hear yourselves….only men who have low self esteem or bruised egos make such comments about women….or small equipment…lol
I think Judah is gay and has been tortured by his father because of it. I think he blames his mother for the pain he endured because he is sexually attracted to men. And Just My Opinion ….he just hates black folks…including himself.
Judah and justmyopinion is probably the same white troll. Everything they say is probably against the community guidelines so I don’t know why the hell CL hasn’t IP-banned the damn troll. BTW, it ain’t because of “freedom of speech” because that has to do with government interference not private sites like this. Learn the damn constitutional rights BEFORE shouting them, people lol!
@PLUMPS
If I was a white man, you would instantly stop trying to argue with me and commence to bowing down, so spare me the “he’s a white man” rhetoric because it’s not sincere lol. You’re so pathetic that you’re looking for constitutional loopholes to justify “banning” me because your feeble pea-brain cannot deal with me. You do not run this site, so why are you clamoring for me being “banned” unless you’re just that frustrated lol? If you actually check the commenting guidelines, you’re breaking more rules than myself. My comments actually make points whether you agree with them or not. You and “GNAT” just respond to other people’s comments and make ad hominem attacks because you have no intellect whatsoever.
These kind of discussions will always come up every two months to ensure people forget about what is really important in their lives and argue about dumbness like this. What one person’s destiny and choices has to do with another (who is not linked to the former) I’ll never know, but I guess that is just my opinion.
I’d also love to say how disturbing I think ‘Caramelapple’ sounds. I would love to find out your real name so I can inform your boss, before you finally lose it and shoot up your workplace.
Lmaoooo, yes “CaramelApple” clearly works around too many black females….working around one is one too many.
Also, an observation: there were quite a few women who complained about the stereotype that black men give most/all black women, and one or two compared it to the stereotype of white women being easy, but no one ever directly tackles the white woman stereotype or the stereotypical reasons people end up in interacial relationships.
I guess it’s the old ‘Defend yourself first, and attack what disturbs you’ strategy. I sensed a little of this in what Chantay said about it being okay if she dated out of her race, but it not being okay with her if her brother did. As if her own brother could only do something like that for the ‘wrong’ reasons.
P.S You’re not really that disturbing, Caramelapple. You just speak your truth rather harshly, like Judah.
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IT’S All LOVE TO ME.. As long as you are happy and satisfied who you are with why put race in it. Marry who you please. As long as this type of non sense continues in America we will never ever move on and look forward as a nation in a positive manner. Who cares really this is just ridiculous and people really sound ignorant and crazy as soon as a topic is racial I understand you have your on opinions but there is a difference between an opinion and ignorance speaking
I think it’s funny how the US is called the land of opportunity and still people of all races aren’t able to get along
The US is a huge melting pot of cultures and nations there has been a lot of race mixing
It’s not the skincolor that causes problem only dumb and simple minded people do
So where is problem ??
At the end of the day we are all humans !!
and the aim was accomplished… pit black males against black females… well done
That was done a long time ago sir lol.
IF YOU ARE SMART, WHY KEEP FEEDING INTO IT?
Maybe the next time we hear about or see a black man with a white women and feel that that black man is with that white woman because he does not think his own kind is good enough. Sometimes maybe it could be because he doesn’t think that he is good enough and being with a white women would make him appear less black and acceptable to society. Because being a black man in this world is hard so I’ve heard so maybe some of them see it as a way to get a little break.
Or maybe black men just want peace and quiet in their home. Maybe it has to do with that? Maybe they don’t want some loud mouth, bitter, know-it-all idiot ranting and raving under the instructions of her equally idiotic mother. Nothing will make the black man appear “more acceptable” to this society. If black females spent as much time learning how to cook and be quiet as they do on amateur psychology, they would be much better off.
Not all black women are loud stubborn and quit frankly I know a couple of white women, asian, hispanic women etc. that are loud and only know how to complain and don’t know how to do anything but put lipgloss on. You should change your view of black women because we don’t all fit your stereotype. And I know a few black men that fit your description of a typical black woman. If I happen to have such a small opinion of black men as you do of black women I could say the same when it comes to black women who choose to only be with white men. Black men and women need to stop blaming one another for their unhappiness and start owning up to their mistakes and focus towards a proactive approach to fixing the flaws in themselves and making their significant other happy.
Black women need to get it through their heads that black men are shiftless and fairly pathetic as a whole. They are incarcerated at the highest rates, they assault, beat and rape Black women with impunity, they don’t have enough sense to stay employed, they have no aspirations or intent to better themselves, and they float in and out of their kids lives whenever they feel like it.
Too many Black women abide by that nothing-but-a-brother mentality, they would probably still date black men if they regressed to completely ape-like behavior (which they really aren’t far from to begin with).
If you can find one of the few black “men” who can actually add 2+2, isn’t down low and can hold a conversation without trying to f**k you on the spot, then you’ve lucked out lol.
Many of the black “men” in my extended family have abused their younger female relatives sexually, and/or beaten their wives, abandoned their kids, ended up on drugs, gotten killed or ended up in jail. Meanwhile the women are the ones picking up the pieces of the messes these overgrown boys made. Then these boys want to say that Black women are the problem. Did we make you molest your niece or use drugs or pull out a gun and shoot somebody because you had beef with him? Or abandon your kids?
And yes, black males are weak. A bunch of spineless children who could never stand up for their women and never will.
We can stand alone we carry the whole family on our backs. So please do not allow these close minded ni**as to make you feel like you are not worthy because we are. We are strong and they are weak. Thats why they like white woman for they are weak and we are stong.
Too me when black men say they only want to date and marry white woman. YOU SHOULD JOIN THE KKKK. show how bright you really are
THAT’S THAT MAN’S PREFERENCE… HE MAY NOT WANT TO MARRY ME,BUT HE WILL RESPECT ME IF WE WERE IN EACH OTHER’S COMPANY. DON’T THINK LIKE THIS OR YOU WILL DIE BITTER AND SHORT CHANGED. JUST WORRY ABOUT THE PERSON THAT LOVES YOU. WHEN YOU HAVE SOMEONE,YOU DON’T HAVE TO THINK ABOUT WHO’S MARRY/DATING WHO..
My comment reflects very personal experiences with the black race. I’d like to start by saying that I married a mixed black man whom I adore, we have two beautiful children that I love with all my heart. When I chose to marry this person I had no idea the hundreds of years of dysfunction I would actually have to deal with lol My message to white teenagers and to my own children is clear; STAY AWAY FROM BLACK PEOPLE. PERIOD. Yes there are many upon many good ones BUT it’s not your job to have to sift through them to find a decent black family. By marrying into a partially black family, I now realize, I have made his a family a bit better yet lowered my own. My sincere message to black people is also clear; CLEAN UP YOUR RACE. YOU ARE DESTROYING OUR COUNTRY AND OUR PLANET
OMG …. I can’t believe you had the audacity to come on here and right that garbage. What would you say if you married a dysfunctional white man (i.e. Zimmerman) … what would you say about your own race? Your comment is absolutely sickening!!!!
The only small humor I get out of this is just towards the likes of people like Judah and the other black men that diss black women … you actually showed them what you white women really think about them. That you took them in and cleaned them up and made them (and their families) better people! Give me a BREAK!!!!!!!
@Juliette… you said he was mixed,so how do you know what part is the f#cked up part..? There are f#cked up people of all colors.. And your children are black,so I’m pretty sure people will STAY AWAY FROM THEM! HA
Lucky for us, our children do not look black, AT ALL
So happy for that fact.
Oh Yes Juliette youre right. It’s the black raced that needs cleaning up. Turn to the ID channel and see who commits the most vicious crimes, molesting and killing young children, eating humans, and that’s just a start. Its funny how people feel like they can judge the whole black race based on their experience but they fail to look into their own closets. Its just plain ignorance.
And as far as all of the negative stereotypes that you sick black men are spewing out towards black women. My first question is where the heck are you picking these women up? Maybe all you can get is ghetto girls walking around the hood. So that sounds like a personal problem. Trust, it wouldnt be any different than picking a white woman up from the trailorpark. My second question is since you want to bring up all of the attitudes you were getting from black women, I wonder why kind of man you were to them. I guess you was just a good boyfriend that didnt cheat, took care of his kids, and took care of home but the women you dealt with was just crazy. You treated them respectfully and they had some type of disorder where you treating them well made them unhappy. Black men need to be realistic when it comes to this. You cant expect to be a cheater, not take care of your kids, and not want to work and expect ANY women to be happy with it. The problem is YOU not the black women. In most cases that I witness the black women is there for their man in more than enough ways. I rarely see it the other way around.
Human nature allows us to be quick to point the finger and condemn someone for their behavior. We have to stop and begin fresh! Embracing all different shades of black. Embracing all different hair textures associated. Researching and connecting with blacks in Africa (the origin of our diaspora). American and European ideologies do not favor us. We must favor ourselves!
Why do we call each other niggas and bitches?
I would also love to know that question I think concreteloop should choose this as a topic of discussion. Because its confusing to me how its acceptable to some but not for others.
MIQUO,
I don’t expect you to understand, not in a millions years.
When a black person or any person of a specific race dates outside their race, why do people play the passive agressive guilt trip and ask, “What are your own people not good enough?” why is that the first response? Why isn’t the first question, “Do they treat you well? Do you feel safe with them? Do they respect you?”
I hate all this BS passive aggressive crap people pull on one another so they don’t seem outwardly racist but at the same time mask their own racist issues in this way.
By asking “Are your own not good enough?” you immediately put the person you’re asking on the defensive. You also immediately put your own culture at a disadvantage by making your first assumption that the person thinks your culture is less. Sad.
Gawd, ya’ll black people are stupid.
You down your own race to pat yourselves on the back for not dating and marrying one another.
And then you have these thirsty black azz males who run up into anything not black to have a mixed kid that they’re gonna abandon anyway.
You black male baboons love to fukk, but can’t even keep a job, stay outta jail, marry the mother of your many kids, suck dick on the downlow, and kiss the white man’s dikk to spite your own race. LOL!!
And we like having the black man’s lips on our white dikk. Ya’ll love to suck on it too
Black people do a good job on their own killing themselves. And the black male baboon is the biggest joke of them all.
The white man is happy to have your women. At least the ones who know how to be civil.