TV BIT: TERRELL OWENS TAKES BABY MAMA DRAMA TO ‘DR. PHIL’

May 9th, 2012

Who needs to go to court when you can take your baby mama drama to national television? Former NFL player/reality television star Terrell Owens appeared on CBS’ Dr. Phil show with three of his children’s mothers: Kimber (first wife), Melanie (second wife) and Monique.

The three women confronted T.O. about his inability to step up as a father by being present in their children’s lives while providing adequate child support. According to Kimber, Terrell has only seen his 7-year-old daughter a dozen times; Melanie’s daughter hasn’t seen her father in a year; and Monique just had her child support amount increased and is the mother of Terrell’s oldest son.

Owens has a total of four children by four different women – a 12-year-old son, two 7-year-old daughters and a 5-year-old son. As far as his child support payments go between all the women, it’s $50,000/year. All of which Owens is having a hard time paying. Of course, Terrell admitted that he did not have a good father figure in his life and shared that his father didn’t appear in his life until he was about 10 or 12 years old, even though they lived across the street from each other.

Peep the baby mama drama in the clips below. It’s quite sad actually…*sighs*

  1. 1.
    Ms. Hay-Mon

    I CAN’T STAND THIS MAN! He is a big ass baby, and needs to grow up; THAT’S why he isn’t playing anymore…his attitude stinks..no one will pull for is ass. Many men grow up without fathers and are still great fathers to their children. I’m so tired of people saying how the way they grew up dictated how they act. No, you’re selfish and that lie is how you make yourself feel a little better. We all have to do better, women included; BUT so tired of some men using the “I didn’t have a daddy” excuse.

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  2. 2.
    The Great One

    I hope he get paid to air his dirty laundry out. If not its all jut a waste of time. Keep your head up T.O. God is with you and all of us.

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  3. 3.
    Ms. Hay-Mon

    He thought any type of publicity is good, let me make people feel sorry for me; IT BACK FIRED. Now he REALLY looks like an ass.

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  4. 4.
    one_systa

    A complete, unadulterated, poor excuse for a man, triflin’ LOSER .. there is NO excuse for him not to see or CALL his kids on a regular basis .. if he spent 1 day a month with each of them, he would still have 317 days a year all for his own selfish endeavors .. and then he has the nerve to imply they are all gold diggers .. nigga, please .. if he truly thought that, the he shoulda kept his dick up outta them … but i have heard that same sorry excuse from my childs father, yet i have two degrees to his none and make 2.5 X more than him .. these deadbeat niggas r the lowest

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    • truthfullyspeaking

      Well honey you need to blame yourself as well for getting knocked up by your sorry baby’s daddy. It’s your fault as well he’s a deadbeat.

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    LisaJ

    It’s the mothers fault also as well as T.O. fault. All the mothers see are dollar signs. They have T.O. ching ching. Like Dr. Phil said they have to stop the hostility. Women know that they do this you cannot see your baby until you pay me my child support. Please let the courts handle it and be independent and keep raising that child regardless if you get child support or not. They all need to grow up!!!!!

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  6. 6.
    fresh87

    Who in the hell needs 20k a month for child support? that’s enough to feed a small village somewhere.I partially blame T.O. because he choose to lay down with these woman,but you can tell off top that these woman are gold diggers.

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  7. 7.
    msballer1505

    Okay so Terrell clearly has problems. However, these BM’s are just concerned with the money. I wish one mother would come out and say I don’t want his money to raise our child and take his azz to court to simply spend time with his child. Yes, I understand you can’t force someone to do that, but my goodness….if the money was still there they wouldn’t even be on a tv show complaining about him. $$$$$ Hell no one knows these are TO’s kids so it’s not like they have to go to the private schools have bodyguards etc. like other celebrity kids. My Daddy paid a measly $400 and I still graduated from a private liberal arts college. Can’t imagine what life could have been like if Mama got $6000. Sure she wouldn’t have complained.

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    sis89bp

    I don’t know.. yeah T.O is wrong for not being there but I’m sure these women knew he was a DEADBEAT prior to getting pregnant. T.O. name is just another name added to the long list of daddies who don’t want to be father’s to their children.

    But we women do have a choice as to who we get pregnant by. Us women have been taking care of our kids for decades without fathers being present. And lots of them turn out to be successful young men and women. If you raise your kids right… having a father isn’t going to matter. It can either break them or make them stronger.

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    • fresh87

      I don’t care how well you raise you’r child,a child needs it’s father/male presence in there life.My dad wasn’t in my life,and i turned out well,but i still needed my dad in my life,or at least a male presence,a mother can only do so much.My mom taught me how to be a good person,but she couldn’t teach how to be a man,you need a man to teach a boy how to be a man.
      Daughters need there father as well,a woman that didn’t have her father in her life might excel and do great in life,but alot (not all) have dysfunctional relationships with men because there father wasn’t in her life.
      Woman need to be held accountable as’well,because 9x out of 10 she knew before she slept with him that he wasn’t about shit in the first place,so now you brought a seed in this world off of poor choice.

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    • sis89bp

      Yeah I get what you are saying. Yes, children NEED both parents but even if you only have one does that give you the excuse to be dysfunctional due to you not having a father? I too didn’t have my father growing up and I’m NOT dysfunctional. I know how to act like a lady and I know right from wrong. I know how to pick my men WITHOUT having a father lead the way for me. And that’s without having a mother as well! Just because a parent is missing that’s NO excuse for you to not know your role as a mother or father. Or how to be a good parent.

      But I’m glad that you turned out successful, just as I did with only one parent present.

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    • Luv/BW

      You are so wrong, there is innate mental connection that all children have with both parents. If they grow up with one parent they will feel that void of not having the other parent; it will have an effect on them.

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    • O13SWEETBOY

      TRUE..

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  9. 9.
    Reign

    THESE WOMEN ARE STRAIGHT UP G-O-L-D-D-I-G-G-E-R-S!!!!! They knew this man wasn’t father material and now they’re tripping cause he isn’t a father, but they don’t have problems constantly taking him to court for MORE money! Women know they can be some angry bitter “blanks.” They make it impossible for a man to see his child. You’re taking all of his money, of course, he’d be a little salty. And yes, he should man up and be a father because that’s the consequence of having unprotected sex! And these some should share n the responsibility and accountability. Are they not managing the money properly? And how can one woman not care about how much the next woman is being paid because if they’re all taking him to court for MORE MONEY, then eventually he won’t have any for none of them. Dumb Stupid Money Hungry Tricks! I’m not a TO fan but I’m less of a fan of selfish, bitter, money hungry, evil , ignorant women…take a pill, insert an IUD, put on a condom, do something to keep children from coming to this world with only one parent. Low down dirty money grubbing females. Men are trifling, we know that, but women are just as bad these days. GET A JOB…I wish I could have gotten $20K a month for my children, I had to work, everyone has to work. How can you not manage with $5K a month. Your child does not have to be in private school and all that other mess. Yes, take a music dance lesson or two, but $5-20K certainly should support those efforts if your lazy gold digging butt got a JOB!

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    • Ms. Hay-Mon

      Hello! I got $465.00 a month for my two; and that wasn’t until they were teenagers. I worked two jobs for many years to support my children as well as making sure that I didn’t miss a beat with enjoying life myself. That is too much money.

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  10. 10.
    Jessica

    My thing is, is it about the money or the kids?? All of the parties need to grow the ass up and stop acting like 5 year olds!!! Its shameful and embarrassing!!! It looks pity and selfish, and I wouldn’t be surprised all the mothers take it out on the children- bad mouthing the father, putting the self-esteem down, I’ve seen it. T.O. needs to get some balls too!!! He brought these children in the world, take care of them period!!! Instead of gallivanting on tv reality pointless shows looking like a retarded person to get attention, get your shit together and take care of your damn kids!!! To me it’s an excuse about he didn’t have a father, this is why you can change the cycle and be a father to all your children, he’s gonna regret it big time when he’s in his death bed when all his children don’t care for his ass!!! What he needs to do is to stop chasing pum pum every minute and get his act together!!! Then everyone wonders why we black people never get it together most of the time. SMH!!!

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  11. 11.
    Ay

    *waits for Judah to blame the black woman for Terrell’s bitchassness*

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    • Indigo

      Well it is… He get it from his momma! LOL She’s the one who raised him right? (shrug) lol

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    • Jessica

      You know!!! As I said before, all parties need to grow up- T.O. and all the woman too. Judah is a moron who don’t know anything as usual, he’s just a troll, shoot even Angel dissed him last year and he left the blog for a good amount of time. Judah is very sexist and a loser.

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    • Indigo

      @Jessica and AY have a cyber crush on Judah! LOL Let me find out! LOL

      Jessica breathing all heavy! LMAO

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    • Jessica

      @Indigo: Where did I mention I like Judah?? Stop being stupid, SMH!!!

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    • JUDAH

      @AY

      Another fan. Contact “Redchainsaw” and “Angela”. They’ll put you on my mailing list. “Jessica” is the vice president of my fanclub in the female correctional facility she’s vacationing in.

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    • JUDAH

      @JESSICA

      You must’ve missed me when I was gone because you clearly noticed my absence lmao. Thanks.

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    • Jessica

      Judah, you think that with your peanut brain of yours like the dinosaurs that extincted years ago- that’s you, your extincted, LMAO!!!

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    • Indigo

      @ Jessica. Sounds like flirting to me,because if those are insults… LOL!

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    • Jessica

      @Indigo: Ya, you think that with your little dinosaur brain of yours… *Roll eyes*

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    • Indigo

      @Jessica, stay in a child’s place.

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    • Jessica

      @Indigo: Right… *Roll eyes*

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    • JUDAH

      @ JESSICA

      What lmao??? “Extincted”????? Are you serious? Let me guess, you’re going to tell me that you have a “degree” lol?

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  12. 12.
    JUDAH

    Terrell Owens, Nas, and the rest of these sucker for love, simple-minded, sloppy negroes need to be put in a “What Not To Do” handbook for black males, or maybe have their personages adapted into some type of cautionary tale in comic book form lol. No male, particularly black male, should be signing any type of contract with a female to put themselves in indentured servitude. To an extended degree, that includes having children, because these females no longer accept their role so most of them only want a man for their seed and subsequently their money. At the very least, a man should be using extreme discretion with who he plants his seed in, if he decides to do that at all in a Babylonian system like this. The rules of engagement have changed (no pun intended) and black males are constantly being caught letting people who don’t respect them dictate these constantly changing terms to them. They end up on TV shows like this, making a mockery of themselves, looking simple as hell, in the midst of an accusatory inquiry under the authority of black females that view them only as a dollar sign, and a caucasian male giving them advice on “fatherhood” lol. Someone should check “Dr. Phil’s” laptop. I’d put money on some kiddie p0rn being on there. He looks like one of those dudes that would be in the kitchen butt-nekkid on “To Catch A Predator” thinking that he’s going to rendezvous with a 12 year old, but has the nerve to give a dissertation on fatherhood. Terrell Owens looks pathetic here, and it’s ridiculous but very revelatory how he always sheds tears like a boy when he gets confronted. Shows that he has no answers.

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    • Indigo

      I agree 100%. I even agree with the Dr.Phil predator comment. He is “The Great White Hope” though. HA! smh

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    • Nadia

      @JUDAH

      What?? So you would choose to live your life childless and without a wife/mate? Of course there are some terrible women out here, but that’s a sad way to live your life. And Nas and T.O are just humans. Its natural for humans to fall for each other because that’s what we are programmed to do. Unfortunately, they fell for the wrong ones. That’s why both men and women need to make smarter choices.

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    • Ay

      Whooooo! You didn’t blame his mama, good! But I agree with you, this dude is being legally stuck for his paper by some gold diggers on some quack’s show lol you can’t make this shit up.

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    • JUDAH

      @NADIA

      I stated that the black male must use DISCRETION. Isn’t that the same thing that you black women state? That the black man shouldn’t be having children by various women on a whim, putting himself in a financial bind that he cannot get out of, destroying his image as a man in the eyes of his children? Having children running the damn street becoming gang members and wh0res? Right or wrong? Or is it only ok for the black female to stipulate black manhood, but a black man cannot establish standards of manhood through understanding for himself? I’m speaking from the standpoint of a black man. For the black man to even think about entering into contract with anyone, he has to get himself together first, and furthermore, a man is not supposed to be in indentured servitude under a woman. You can call it “chauvinism” if you like. A woman is inherently emotional and therefore whimsical by nature, and has no place having absolute legal authority over a man, which is what she has in this system under what you women call “marriage”. Like T.O. touched on in the interview, I’m sure that he did not become a “bad father” until the checks stopped coming in and the black women could no longer buy Italian name brand bags and shoes, and spending money on their “boyfriends”.

      @AY

      Since you brought it up, yes, his mother is partly to blame as well lol. How the hell does his father live across the street and he knows nothing about it? Many of you females view children and child-rearing as science experiments. If the child turns out well, you want all the credit. When the child turns out reprobate, it’s because the “daddy wasn’t there”.

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    • Ay

      @JUDAH

      I’m sure he knew about it, just didn’t care, like many black men *sips tea*

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    • JUDAH

      @AY

      Don’t forget to put your pinkie in the air while you’re drinking that tea. I’m sure that his mother must not have cared as well, for him to grow up in that household and for her not to tell him who his father was.

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  13. 13.
    Krysie

    In cases like this… I feel sorry for the children. Smh.

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    Jah

    He Sucks, but it was 45,000 a month, not a year,

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    • Angie

      yikes! I hope he’s not stupid enough to knock someone else up. If I were him I’d gets vasectomy. My father only had to pay $23/month. That loser quit his job so he wouldn’t have to pay.

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    Ashley Carpenter

    Terrell baby keep your head up. all thoses bitches need to go to hell. all they after is money and its not worth ur time. hell i hate that you have babies for them. hell look at the shoes they wearing, red bottom!! money!!! also what child in this damn world need more than $1000 a fucn month when both parents working? i swear bitches grow the fuck up!!!!

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    Luv/BW

    Stright up, these men, Terrall Owens, Shawn Kemp etc, are just irresponsibile jerks. There is plenty of time to think before you stick it in. Oh yah, condoms, ever heard of them Terrall.

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    Leah M

    I must say as a women this whole situation is disgusting. 1st he needs to man up and handle his responsibility. 2nd why do you need $3000+ a month to raise a child, how about you get off your butt and get a job stop trying to live off of him, my mother raised me making only $1500 a month with out food stamps and child support.

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    deedee

    Black men need to stop being so irresponsible. Why have children with so many different women? It’s disaster. You can’t financially support children spread all over the globe and you cannot spend enough time with them to matter in their lives either, thus we have people like T.O. Of course these women are gold diggers, which is exactly why he should have protected himself. I hate that people don’t care enough about themselves to make better decisions. Children are wonderful, but this is not the way to be a parent.

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    The Examiner

    This is just ridiculous. T.O. is a poor excuse for a father. He’s moaning about money but he makes little statements about spending time with his children, which from what is said is a rare activity for him. He’s whining about not having the money but what about his children not having a father? It’s sickening. And the poor excuses for mothers sitting on stage disgust me. What they hell are they doing that they need $20,000 a month? A fifth of that amount would have sufficed and even that seems a bit much for a child. Then they have the nerves to be complete idiots. All the while they were receiving those huge sums of money they could have done something productive such a start a business or two, invest in stock, etc.,. But no, they’d rather sit around and let the money come easy. GET A FREAKING JOB! Stop trying to sit at home reaping the benefits for which you do not deserve. They’re are plenty of single mothers in this world, raising they’re children decently without $20,000!! Lazy, gold-digging whores. Just disgusting, all of them.

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    truthfullyspeaking

    This is humiliating…. interesting, but very sad and a bit hard to watch. I believe Terrell only did this to get an appearance fee, since he’s going bankrupt, and to keep his name out in the public, but that’s just ridiculous and the wrong way to go about it! To be honest, I really blame the women more than the men. We have f—king evolved and know the real deal. Women have so much more opportunities now-a-days and have seen all of the mistakes their mothers or other women have made over the years. Years ago it was much more sexist and women were seen as being just housewives and even longer ago, people were not taught about birth control and safe sex because it was taboo, but we are taught all those things today and there’s so many commercials out there trying to motivate people to protect themselves.
    T.O. was always in the news about being a jerk and an a—hole! These women knew what they were getting into. This is what ticks me off about these goldiggers, if you are going to be a ho and sleep around with someone who you know sleeps with 100’s of females and is all about himself, MAKE SURE CONDEMS AND/OR BIRTHCONTROL IS USED AND DON’T BE STUPID TO GET KNOCKED UP! Terrell needs to be there to provide for his children or if he doesn’t have the money, he needs to see them AT LEAST A FEW TIMES A WEEK and stop moping around and making an a—out of himself, but I really am tired of STUPID WOMEN blaming deadbeat men when they chose not to use protection with someone who they knew was no good!
    And who the hell needs $20,000 in child support? I always wondered why that occurred. I know it’s supposed to be a percentage of what your income is, but there should be a cutoff. I think that at the most $1,000 a month will cover more than enough. Also, it should be a requirement that the mother’s provide proof of using the money for their child and whatever wasn’t used goes into a TRUST FUND FOR COLLEGE!

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  21. 21.
    Surprise

    Either way. I don’t see why they need $10,000 Plus a month child support.

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    CHEERS

    I’ll be crying too if I had to pay that much to a bunch of greedy wh0res. 5k is not needed to support a child alone. These women are using that money to support themselves. Probably get $40 manicures a week and eat $200 steak dinners a night. No wonder some of these men go crazy and start attacking/shooting up these women (not that I condone it). But then again I remember how arrogant he used to be, especially on his show. Sometimes people need humbling experiences.

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    • CHEERS

      (Cont’d) I understand that they feel entitled to his money because they had his “kids” but why ask for more money even while knowing that he’s going broke. I don’t get that. I’m surprised the white lady joined them there on stage. He should file for bankruptcy and flee to africa, that way they won’t find him.

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    Truly amazed

    First off id like to see why these women need the money ,what kind of employment you had before you met t.o,and if he’s truly doing the best he can why cant they be satisfied ? I cant understand why these women all that money to raise a child! They sound like gold diggers looking to catch a break! To please better women with a purpose in life,i have to agree with him if came up to them saying hey im broke ,i need to cut back on my payments and you have to get a job like all the other working moms they would have lost they minds .To needs better management period ,not homies who dont know what they doing.I truly feel sorry for the kids who probably dont really benefit from the child support thats suppose to be for them ,at the end of the day they would prefer their fathers attention !

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  24. 24.
    Morning Glory

    When the money dry up, the women dry up, and the drama begins.

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  25. 25.
    SouthSwagg

    T.O. has made some mistakes but clearly this has to do with money. Say what you want but if he is nothing else he is an honest guy. It’s just how he comes off to people in which they don’t like it. Ask your self do these kids really need 6,8,10,12,20,000 to be taken care of?? Of course not. No one does. It’s all about the lifestyle. They don’t need it and they damn sure wasn’t in damn gym puttin in work with him. Change your lifestyle and get a damn job like everyone else, ur not special…

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    Adawn

    This is my first time commenting on this site and alot of people disagree with Judah and most of the time I do too. But this time I agree. As Black women and men we have to use discretion on who you choose to have a child with. There is only one natural way to get pregnant but there are at least 10 ways to not get pregnant. I mean women are always hollering about being independent but they want to financially rape this man to take care of them. T.o. , being a millionare should have known better than to make all them damn kids with trifiling females. Blame goes both ways! Those women saw $$$ and T.O. saw ass. He made all those babies and probably didn’t care cause at the time he had money to pay for them. And those young ladies laid down with him because they thought he could take care of them. Now because of poor decision making there are four children who rarely see their father, but baby mamas who get 20k in child support a month??? And they want more??? None of the mother said “i just want him to spend time with his kids” NEWS FLASH TO is damn near broke and NOBODY needs 20K to raise a child. Even at the standard of living of the father a single mother and child can easily do that with 5-10k a month. They are just greedy. I hope mature heads prevail on both parts, I feel sorry for the kids.

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