SPOTTED: RuPAUL DOING SOME SHOPPING IN WEST HOLLYWOOD

Actually, I think he looks pretty “normal” here…as this is how most males are dressing nowadays…15yrs ago, this attire wouldve been “feminine”, now, go to any mall, and youll see males; husbands, fathers dressed exactly like this. Sad, I know.

Nice photos. Ru is fly and fabulous.

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I really appreciate everything @Indigo said. I wish more people were able to see things so clearly. Well done

Yes, he’s “working” on giving one of those “down low” black males that you black women always rant about A!DS, so that the “down low” black male can “work” on giving it to you lol.

@Judah – What are you talking about???? You’re gross and you are talking NONSENSE. Go get a life and leave people who you obviously DO NOT UNDERSTAND alone. Btw, are you proud to promote the stereotype of black people who fear what they don’t understand and talk crazy-ness like this??? I assume that you are if you feel confident enough to broadcast your ignorance.

@ MILOS

We have something in common because I have no idea what you’re talking about either lol. You don’t know what “A!DS” is, who created it, and what it’s purpose is. If I was to ask you a question, you would dance around it. Scram lol.

Hey everybody Judah has AIDS! hahaha

Lmao for @JUDAH winning the dumbass of the day award for that comment. Please go pick up a science Journal and do some reading about AIDS or better HIV…..Get yourself educated before throwing your hatred at this man for being who he is….

It’s a strange time we live in when females are asking males to instruct them on alleged “womanhood” lol & smh….much less instruction from a male on how females that should have their own hair should apply a “wig”. That is how life starts to imitate “art”.

@INDIGO
You’re clearly a bald headed whore.

@Judah… I didn’t ask for him to instruct me per se,but just how to apply a lacefront. I see many females and some males with this problem. See,when you read wig,you automatically thought of female,but men wear wigs too. Wigs have nothing to do with “womanhood” But anyways,Rupaul “lacefronts” wigs always looks nice and natural,so who better to give instructions on something they are an expertise at?? And also, I’m tired of men talking about “women” hair…smh. I see this is a topic of discussion for black men..because they just like hearing themselves talk I guess..lol Women wear wigs for many of reasons,not just to appease you.. What do you say about that sister that lost her hair because of chemo,or any other sickness?? I’ve yet to see that addressed,but I read so many men addressing a topic they have no clue about most of the time,just to bash a sistah.

@Hellrazer.. Yes,I’m a baldheaded whore. Now is your puscee wet??

@Indigo Do you do your hair to make yourself more appealing to women or men? Black men talking about what their women do to their hair isn’t a bad issue to discuss. For example, the amount of MONEY black women spend on hair care or treatments itself is outstanding. That’s not including the actual going to the salon, hair weave etc. Just the treatments that you all place on your scalp. It’s outrageous. Also, I made it clear my sister had Lupus and her entire life she never was one to worry about her hair. She would almost always be the envy amongst black women when she sat down with them they immediately would do her in “You are mixed aren’t you? You got that good hair. I wish mine was like that…” She never understood. Till she became pregnant and as she was showering a glotch of her hair came out. She was so confused and had to regroup. Her hair with time started thinning on that same side. She wears two pieces of human hair on that side for even purposes. Outside of that she now is coming to terms she might lose or thin all over her head. But, majority of her existence she never had this issue until she became ill. Being ILL isn’t the same as someone who is just insecure. OR MAYBE IT IS?!
Hair has everything to do with femininity and womanhood. Women go ape when they lose their hair. Regardless, of race, class or even sexuality. All women are concerned about their hair to some degree. Some parts of the world women shave their head bald for religious purposes, cultural purposes, symbol of being a widow, sometimes even for sheer cleanliness. Indian women in India let their hair grow down to the damn floor and then WHAM they chop all of that shit off in the name of a religious sacrifice. I believe Judah made a valid point to some degree. Asking RuPaul how to be more appealing is interesting. Considering RuPaul’s inspiration is the black woman herself i.e. Tyra Banks, Lena Horne, Pam Grier etc.

I don’t see where I made a comment,asking for Rupaul to instruct women on how to be more appealing.. @rehabkid You may be a nice kid.. And you may be a lil book smart,but you are so lost and wet behind the ears.LOL I already had a slight headache. You as well as many others lack social skills. That’s your main problem,all that other stuff you’ve posted is irrelevant. You are all over the place,looking for a place to fit in. That’s understandable,because you are young. lol How does the way a female does her hair in Brooklyn,affect a man in Texas??<<Get it? LOL. SMH. Men don't go nuts when they lose their hair? I wish you positive growth bro..Be true to self,and figure out what really matters to you,not what will get you approval from Judah.

@ INDIGO

Please don’t try to muddy your own comment. Does Rupaul wear “male wigs” or “female wigs” lol? I’m not here talking about a woman’s hair. That’s a whole other topic. I asked you about why you want a male to give instruction to females on the application of wigs? Like I’ve stated many times in the past, many modern females have a subliminal obsession with flamboyant h0m0sexuals. In regards to a sister with a disease that causes an affliction like baldness, obviously a wig will give her psychological comfort, but that’s not what the topic is….and I’m not “bashing” you. I’m just addressing your statement because it’s symptomatic of a greater issue. In regards to your comment towards the brother; “Rehabkid”, I agree that life experiences do give people a level of worldly “wisdom”, but certain people are gifted, and that cannot be neglected. He’s not seeking my “approval” any more than any one else is, and it wouldn’t benefit his growth if he did. The only think that benefits a gifted person is the truthful information, which is why he is able to understand things at a higher level. If you have a headache, you should drink some water and relax lol.

@Rehabkid

Being ILL isn’t the same as someone who is just insecure. OR MAYBE IT IS?!

When it comes to people of African descent (I’m including men too because there are some men who are disgusted by a “black” woman’s natural hair)I definitley think it’s the same. Not everyone, but as a whole we are very sick with the disease of white supremacy.

@Rehabkid… I agree with everything you’ve said and if you are young you got my vote. I personally can’t stand wigs or weaves. They literally make me sick and I’m tired of seeing black women walking around with all this patent leather looking mess on their heads that don’t have anything to do with their natural hair texture. I contribute it all to laziness. Women would rather wear a weave then to figure out how to maintain and take care of their own hair and it’s tired already. My sister’s and I get asked the same questions your sister did. Are we mixed and that we have the so called GOOD hair in black people’s standards. I’m sorry but it has to stop at some point. My boyfriend personally hates weaves, wigs and anything else that is not real and I realized that most men do. They just tolerate it. They would prefer to see a black woman with her own hair no matter how short it is. Black women have to take more pride in themselves but that is yet to be seen.

The same comments over and over… Y’all are taking something so small and making it into a personal mountain. I don’t like fake nails,fake eye lashes weaves or red hair,but that’s not my plight.. I don’t hate people that wear them… I just don’t have that type of energies..I just won’t wear those things. I know many that talk about hair every chance they get (mostly blacks) but are puppets themselves…I call them hair nazis. When my mom was coming up,wigs were a fashion statement. But what I really think it is,many are lost/hurt and have to find something to grab on to. For so long blacks were told they were unimportant by whites,now they are doing a perfect job of spreading the news themselves. lol “I wear my hair natural,so I’m not like THOSE blacks” “I can buy this or that,I’m not like those blacks” it goes on and on.. I work with all men,not one black and their conversations are totally different! smh.

@ Michelle, you don’t think black women take pride in themselves? That’s what they want you to believe so that you can feel hopeless. But we have a beautiful black first lady and many still have to find the negative. There are people from every walk of life that don’t take care of themselves. Rick Ross…remember? lol Just focus on the females that are taking care of themselves,and that will make you feel better about yourself. Focusing on the negative will only limit you.

@ INDIGO

What does your strawman rant about “black women’s hair” have to do with the topic or what you originally said lmao?

It’s funny I can come on this site and stick up for black men and women..Especially for black men. The reason I do it for black men is so black women will break this vicious cycle and look within themselves. But now I see another vicious cycle,black men hating black women. “What comes first,the chicken or the egg” smh If you are hurting from personal experiences,remember this,hurt people do hurtful things..Learn to love yourself,and then you will see how little the things you get your panties in a bunch about matter.

Keep up the good work REHAB KID,and JUDAH

@ Judah,you call Rupaul people and have them hook up with your people to get this PSA started. I know from the way you go in on this site,you have a moonroof forming. lol But,they have made some new and improved spray on hair..so you might like that.lol

“What does your strawman rant about “black women’s hair” have to do with the topic or what you originally said lmao?”@Judah You need to ask yourself this question. “I” made a comment about making a PSA,applying a lacefront and some how black women and their hair was brought up. shrug. Making a PSA on applying a lacefront sounds like a joke to me, don’t you agree?

@HellRazer
Yeah,cheer them on! One in the back and one in the front and you on all fours… Go,go,go!!

Ouch @Indigo – Well, I might be young. But seeking approval on this site is hardly the reasoning. I mentioned at the very end of my little ramble that why run to a man who very inspiration is the black woman herself. Drag Queens are hypersexualized and hyper-everything personified woman. It’s the bastardization of womanhood if anything. They are raunchy, provocative and they typically take attributes of womanhood and turn it into something other.
LOCATION: Doesn’t mean a thing when a woman in brooklyn is suffering just like that young woman in los angeles. Or that poor indian girl who is dark skin and the lowest on her caste versus the poor dark skin girl in atlanta, georgia. These are the symptoms of White Supremacy. You are looking to berate me rather than seeing – the fact I look it from both sides. That man in Texas might be battling the same demons as a man in Brooklyn. It’s the same game just a different location.

Men do lose sight when they go bald. But, going bald isn’t the same as putting chemicals in a 4 year old girls hair because it’s deemed “bad.”

Some black women are more concerned about their hair than their health. I go to the gym 5 days a week. A young lady I know gorgeous and she wants to tighten up some. She refuses to go to the gym because of her hair. LOL. Seriously. Her hair. Black women gonna be fat ass hell if they let their hair prevent them from swimming, exercise and sweating of necessary toxins.

@rehabkid
No, I was not trying to berate you. My point is you haven’t seen enough to try to go so hard. How does one’s battle with their hair affect YOU? Do you do a 4 yr old female hair? Do you know what it is to have your hair called “bad” I can answer that last question..NO! I had these same discussions back in the 90′s and they never lead to much but tongue excercise.. Because the people involved are so busy trying to, I don’t know how to put it,so busy trying to find the bad in others,to feel good about themselves..they fail to fill their own voids.

@Rehab… There you go again.. How did my comment on Rupaul doing a PSA on applying a lacefront turn into black women not working out?? Like I said, the same old comments. I can go to,right now,three other sites and pull up the exact same thing you said. Spinning,spinning,spinning..

Where I live, I don’t see any of the problems you do. We work out,take care of ourselves and homes..So I am ignorant to these “problems”. I know they exist,but they really have no affect on my life.

@ INDIGO

There’s a little bit of truth in every joke, but that is not the point of my response. Whether it was in jest or serious, you broached on a subject that I wanted to address, so I addressed it. That’s the point of a blog, so you being sensitive about that is irrelevant.

@CMEEZ Yes, it (white supremacy) is a disease of the mind. The best kind of slavery is the form where you do it to yourself.

@Judah, I’m not being sensitive… I’m just tired of the same show..change the channel every once in awhile. If this was a topic you wanted to address,again…just start a new comment. Because when you reply on my comments,that means you are addressing me. At this age,I’ve learned not to make blanket statements..Hell,at these age i’ve learned to keep some things to myself. Especially when there are no solutions in sight. ; )

@ INDIGO

Change the channel lol? Absolutely not lol. You’re the springboard, and I’m an Olympic diver. You give me the bounce I need to get that perfect 10. I know the solution.

@Judah..LOLhehehe.. Well when you get home,we can talk about solutions and diving all night.. and I don’t wanna hear a single word. lol

You don’t see obesity in our communities? @Indigo I mean our diets are bad and we certainly do live in food desert communities but outside of that there is a lack of exercise in our communities in general. One of the main excuses I hear from some women they can’t sweat out or mess up their hair.

You are right though everyone has insecurities and voids that they must struggle to deal with. No one is perfect and instead of mirroring others struggle in their path. You are saying we should just be silent and deal with our own path. The point of life is living. Learning from mistakes, learning from other mistakes and sharing that truth on to the next generation. Our problem in our community we can’t handle the truth. For Example, Bill Cosby gives all these HBCU’s crazy amounts of money he goes to a graduation ceremony and tell all of them negros they look like fools and humiliated him with his hard own dollars. Sagging pants, rims on cars with Federal aid money, and loud mouths etc. Told all of them they should be ashamed of themselves. What did we do in return? We had a huge outcry of HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT!!!

Ima stop spinning, spinning, spinning.

@indigo
why don’t you get on all fours and run to the store to get me something to eat. You have the emotionally of a child and its pathetic

@Hellrazer
Awww I hurt someone’s feelings by feeding them their own meds.. Now sit bytch!

@ INDIGO

Lmaoooo

wow its getting trill up in here…lol. 1.

@ REHABKID

I’m still cracking up about how she flipped that lmao.

@Rehabkid.. No,I don’t see too many fat sloppy people in my district. I guess because I live in a working class area? I pass 3 gyms and 4 health food stores on my route home. And guess what,the gyms are packed from early in the morning,til closing. I see sisters with all types of hair conditions working out,I even see non blacks sweating out their extentions..But they fix their hair after it’s over,finish their day, and do it all over again the next day. I’ve said this on another post. I don’t live in a food desert and I praise god everyday that I don’t. Healthy food is sold at every store in my community. Not all blacks live in messed up conditions. So I guess that’s why I can’t walk around angry. I know some sister may see me eating healthy and workingout and become inspired,just like I saw that sister eating healthy and working out. I can’t carry the burdens of other that don’t think or do like me..Then I WON’T BE TAKING CARE OF MYSELF,if I do that. That’s extra stress and I take pride in looking fresh faced.

My comments are being moderated

This is going totally off topic,straight to the butter bin…Anyways,if you are gonna talk about black Americans diet,address WHY this is our diet..Then focus on changing ONE persons mind about our traditional eating habits. Many don’t know how to change,but I am happy to see many have changed. Rome wasn’t built in a day. And ask yourself this,do you see white people going in on “Here Comes Honey Boo Boo?” Or carrying the load of every “white trailer trash”? NO! Because either you can relate to Boo Boo or you can’t…and keep it moving.

Ya’ll ninjas arguing again?? Last week it was about looks and chicken strips, today it’s about lace fronts LOL

@INDIGO

I don’t know any “Honey Boo Boos”. And you shouldn’t either…

@Cheers… You know us ninjas don’t have anything better to talk about… Chicken and wigs all day. In some states you can get both in one spot. lol

@Cheers I know some Honey Boo Boos,we just aren’t friends nor neighbors. lol

@INDIGO

Sure…Which area do you live in? I don’t know any Hunty Boo Boo Childs here lol

@ Cheers, I travel…

Oh okay…

@ JUDAH
Go read the ciara post they just did. Me and my “honey bunny”, “CHEERS” Had make up s*ex. Lol,
We’re back together.

@HELLRAZER

What?!?! I don’t know you lolli-gagged that night but it sure wasn’t me.

@ Indigo I see you got me a little twisted. I feel great about myself for one and never had an issue with that. Yes we have a black first lady and? You believe what you believe about her and I’ll have my own take on it. Being that I’m talking about what I see around nope black women don’t take pride in themselves because they don’t know who they are. Outside of my sisters, my friends and a couple of co-workers I see a lot of women who hate who they are. This is not me looking down on black women because I for one think black women are beautiful but they have to believe that themselves. As a matter of fact I don’t believe I stated anything that wasn’t true. People just hate to hear the truth. Our women are extremely over weight and like Rehabkid said refuse to work out because of their hair or the other stupid excuse I don’t want to lose my butt. Women are still having a ridiculous amount of children out of wedlock at alarming rates. They still spend hundreds of dollars on fake hair and nails but could care less about the state of their health. They are still making excuses for why they are in unhealthy relationships and calling it love. They still hate one another and can’t stand to see one doing well and it gets on my nerves so I’m saying something about it like I have a right to. I notice women get mad at what Judah, Hellrazer and Rehabkid have to say but a lot of it is the truth. I’m a black woman and I know it’s true because I see it everyday. I don’t get upset because I don’t fit the description. I point out black women because that’s what I am and care about so I’m really not concerned about the other women. I can’t count on my hands how many times my sister’s and I have tried to do different things in our community for the black women around and their daugthers to uplift and try to stick together but they have so much jealousy and hatred towards one another that they can’t see past looks or material goods. We’ve lost friends simply because we have both our mother and father in our lives who have been married for 43 years and it’s 6 girls and we all belong to the same parents. That alone had so called friends fall back from us. So no I don’t have any issues with myself, how I look, my weight or anything else. I’m just sick of seeing it but when you call people on it they get mad. We should all be concerned with the state of our people. This is not bashing this is just the truth. Yes I know we as a people have issues from hundreds of years ago but how long are we going to use that excuse?

wow ya’ll some lonely ho’s up in this post, dang, all ya’ll exspecially Judah needs a serious life lol

Nah…I had that thought, too.

What’s facial wasting?

@ CA It’s a side effect of HIV medication resulting in fat loss in the face.

I agree he does looks sickly I heard that he was he looks even worse without those shades on well are we really surprised?

You can make everyone have a great day today..go kill yourself. See,problem solved! You won’t have another worry in the world.

OMG you two are just hot right now lmao…

I took it as a fun picture.lol My comment was meant to be fun..but hey,this isn’t the site for fun. lol This is a no seat room…soap boxes only! lol

@Indigo – Don’t let the ignorant effect you. All you can do is try to educate and keep it moving. But be thankful that you are not on their level. AND THE WORLD KEEPS TURNING…

some people (Judah, Rehab(necessary, i’m sure) and other notable nuts have such small and empty lives that all they have to look forward to each day is coming on this site and ranting about any and everything. it’s funny at times but most times it’s just pathetic. *kanye shrug*

EXACTLY!!! Some people only come on here to rant about their misguided agendas and will obviously, based on the above comment, go back and forth about their “point” like it’s their JOB. Don’t feed into it. That’s what they want. I wish they would form their OWN blog so they can spend their days agreeing with each other about all the bullshit that they try to force on everybody else.

To each his own..but RUPAUL IS FINNNE….AS a woman and a man…and what makes him even more attractive is his wonderful attitude and fearless confidence for just being himself and proud of it. GOTTA LUV THAT.