You are a moderately successful black female celebrity who is considered pretty by public and Hollywood standards. You have dated your share of professional ballers but the drama and womanizing became too much. Then, you decided to date outside the industry despite your friends asking, why are you dating civilians?

Over time, that became tiring because you always had to pick up the tab or they became jealous and resentful of your success, especially when fans approached you for an autograph while making them feel invisible. Just before you decided to start dating industry men-again. A new man came into your life. Although he was not in the industry, he had his own stacks and he always picked up the tab. He didn’t even seem bothered by your celebrity and success and he often sent you flowers and bling. You even rolled around in his $100,000 whip.

You considered him the man of your dreams but unbeknownst to you, he was only dating you for status and he lied about his occupation, saying he was a successful import/export dealer. In reality, this man was a big time drug dealer and he wanted to impress his boys by dating a celebrity.

Things were looking up until you were informed that he was a street baller and it was rumored-he was on the DL as well. You became devastated and horrified. After you confronted him and he didn’t deny it, you became heartbroken.

You would later find out that he got turned out in jail during a brief stint and that he’s nicknamed “Omar,” (behind his back), after the gay stickup kid on “The Wire.”

Hint: She’s not a singer.

On the court, he is one of the best in the game. Off the court, when he has a couple of drinks, he likes to expose his private parts which are allegedly covered in blisters.

He’s also considered a violent drunk. He likes to destroy property and he’s verbally and sometimes physically abusive to those in his inner circle.

This baller is so sleazy, we are getting dual reports that he transmits chlamydia and herpes. He is a walking health epidemic and doesn’t give a damn.

Recently, away from the public and behind closed doors, he’s booking escorts because of their promiscuity, this way, if they ever try to sue him for transmitting one of his STD’s, he has a built in defense: With her background, she may have infected me and she was probably infected by one of her numerous clients.

Despite his wealth and fame, a few escorts won’t see him because after he drinks from his silver flask, he becomes argumentative and violent.

We reported in a prior blind item that a celebrity likes to have sex in the dark because of his under-endowment but this baller is having sex in the dark so women won’t notice his blisters.

Hints: It’s “not” Allen Iverson and you don’t have to be a basketball fan to know who he is.

This black female celebrity is very famous but she continues to make bad choices in regards to her personal life. The pain from her failed romances led her to embark on a very downlow relationship (for two years) with a black actress (who has only appeared in a few films).

This actress seems to be in love with our famous female but the love is not reciprocated. Our female celebrity only uses her (for affection) when a failed romance with a man goes awry.

Sadly, the little known actress has become like a sick puppy around the famous female. Their discreet relationship now resembles that of a domanitrix and slave. She jumps at her commands and she does all the house work and cooking. She’s become a flunky and lackey.

And, when our famous female gets tired of her, she kicks her to the curb without warning and tells her not call. Then, like clockwork, when our famous female has another failed romance, she lets the actress back into her life.

Our famous female is so desperate to find a husband, she attends all the industry events with the big hollywood players and all the sporting events. Despite her good looks, many of these men date interracially exclusively and this leaves her out in the cold. When a man does hook up with her, the relationship always seems to end after a few months.

Hints: It’s “not” Gabrielle Union, Halle Berry or Beyonce and the little known actress is not known outside of the black community.

It was rumored that one of Wesley Snipes former non-black girlfriends didn’t have a problem when he had verbal interactions with white females but she often played interference when he spoke to black women, mainly African-American actresses at industry events.

Another non-black female has the same problem regarding her black NBA husband. She openly has a problem when she observes him having a discussion with black females but behind his back she often tells her friends, ‘I never have to worry about him creeping with black women, they don’t hold his attraction.’ This type of attitude makes her feel secure and better about herself. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but your man may give the impression to you and the media that he has rarely dated black women and he doesn’t have affairs with them BUT he is currently carrying on an affair with a stunning black woman out of state. He even put her through school and she has a high ranking six-figure position in her hometown. He tells his boys, “she’s my bottom mistress.” He even paraded her around during the All-Star game a few years ago and he openly held her hand in public. It’s rumored that he has her on an allowance (although she doesn’t need it) and in the past he gave her his black AMEX card to go shopping with on her birthday. He also bought her a customized Mercedes and he recently gifted her with Neiman Marcus and Bloomingdale credit cards. Infidelity is wrong but his wife needs to come out of her denial. Hint: You don’t have to be a sports fan to know who the NBA player is.

A lot of hip-hop wives and girlfriends tolerate infidelity from their famous spouses but this young lady takes tolerance to a whole new level.

I don’t know if her tolerance is her philosophy or comes from her upbringing or a combination of both.

Last year, we were informed that she accepts her husband’s constant cheating and she tells female friends, ‘ignore what your man does, because men have different needs compared to women. A woman is content with one man throughout her life span but a man needs to be with several different women throughout his span to feel complete and I accept that.” “Keep your family together, no matter what he does.”

Sadly, this same woman helped her straying spouse pick out names for the two children he has outside their marriage.

If that’s not enough, rumors are circulating that she critiques sex tapes he has with other women, giving him tips on how to become a better lover to these women.

He loves the situation of having his cake and eating it too. His buddies, jokingly, want to clone his wife.

No wonder, he’s often quoted as saying, “I WILL NEVER LEAVE MY WIFE.”

This complexed black singer has issues. He’s physically and mentally abusive. In the past, he beat his wife and mistresses on a regular basis. After people encounter him on video sets and at parties, they always comment, ‘he has a dry personality and an air of darkness about him.’

Despite success and wealth, he never seems happy. Always agitated and aloof. People have tried to categorize him as gay or bi. Although he’s straight he likes to tease and play games with gays.

One incident in particular stands out. A male escort who was attending a industry party got the singer’s attention from across the room, they went to a secluded spot off party grounds.

Suddenly, without warning, the singer punched him and yelled a gay epithet at him. He then went in his pocket and flung a roll of hundreds at him. The escort took the money and didn’t sue.

This man is strange to say the least. His preference is Asian women because he’s a control freak. He also has to be reminded how great he is on a constant basis.

Hint: Some consider him a crooner.

This black actor really tries to have swagger, not only does he fail at his attempt. He also fails in the sack. Women are complaining, he is soooo under endowed that it’s laughable. When he strips down to his underwear, there is practically no outline of a bulge. His nickname behind his back among women is: ‘Not working with much.’

Women consider him blessed in certain areas but he is cursed in regard to his manhood.

He also has problems outside the sack. He has a bad habit of referring to his race as “they,” especially among white people.

He really is a Uncle Tom and when he appears in a black movie, he acts as if he’s doing everyone a favor. His arrogance is pathetic and he always thinks he’s the smartest man in the room among blacks.

On black movie sets, he stays in his trailer unless he’s in a scene.

On white movie sets, you can’t shut him up, he tries so hard to please and he’s very sociable.

The “lack of lovemaking-under endowed’ rumors got back to him. Now, he has a complex and sleeps with a new batch of girls but now he only has sex with the lights off.